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	<title>Comments on: ‘Strategic blunder of monstrous proportions’</title>
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		<title>By: Tom Lang</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Lang</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Mar 2011 20:11:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We did Chris, it was called KnowThyNeighbor.org and it did help to make marriage equality a reality in Massachusetts.  And many of us who had to deal with Marc and Marty during that process certainly have the right to suggest that others should have been called into the mix.
EQMD&#039;s HB 235 also is up for review.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We did Chris, it was called KnowThyNeighbor.org and it did help to make marriage equality a reality in Massachusetts.  And many of us who had to deal with Marc and Marty during that process certainly have the right to suggest that others should have been called into the mix.<br />
EQMD&#8217;s HB 235 also is up for review.</p>
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		<title>By: Sangoboi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sangoboi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2011 13:55:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Unfortunately, like so many times in the past (i.e. California), those in the majority failed to do the needed leg work in communities that do not look or act like them to in order to gain a benefit for the entire community.  Let&#039;s call this bad behavior what it is...If anyone thinks that in today&#039;s political environment it is okay to ram something down the throats of communities they won&#039;t even have a dialogue with, than they simply don&#039;t need to be doing this work.  MDEquality, HRC and many others have a long history of purposely leaving certain communities (people of color, trans people, women, etc.) out of the conversations about decisions that affect the entire community or communities of LGBT folks.  Stop the nonsense... open some doors.  Learn your lesson for the sake of EQUALITY]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unfortunately, like so many times in the past (i.e. California), those in the majority failed to do the needed leg work in communities that do not look or act like them to in order to gain a benefit for the entire community.  Let&#8217;s call this bad behavior what it is&#8230;If anyone thinks that in today&#8217;s political environment it is okay to ram something down the throats of communities they won&#8217;t even have a dialogue with, than they simply don&#8217;t need to be doing this work.  MDEquality, HRC and many others have a long history of purposely leaving certain communities (people of color, trans people, women, etc.) out of the conversations about decisions that affect the entire community or communities of LGBT folks.  Stop the nonsense&#8230; open some doors.  Learn your lesson for the sake of EQUALITY</p>
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		<title>By: Lauren</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lauren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2011 22:02:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well said, Dana.  Dan and the other former board members did SO much groundwork to make this happen.  They in no way deserve to be blamed.  Re the vote, I was there in the gallery on Friday.  And we won that floor debate.  Even if we DIDN&#039;T have the votes.  I&#039;m telling you, as someone who watched it all happen, that it felt like a TOTAL cop-out.  I wholeheartedly believe we should have let it run to a vote.  Losing by a few votes would have been better than choking on our own bill.  Now we&#039;ve just given NOM more artillery in their everlasting crusade against us.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well said, Dana.  Dan and the other former board members did SO much groundwork to make this happen.  They in no way deserve to be blamed.  Re the vote, I was there in the gallery on Friday.  And we won that floor debate.  Even if we DIDN&#8217;T have the votes.  I&#8217;m telling you, as someone who watched it all happen, that it felt like a TOTAL cop-out.  I wholeheartedly believe we should have let it run to a vote.  Losing by a few votes would have been better than choking on our own bill.  Now we&#8217;ve just given NOM more artillery in their everlasting crusade against us.</p>
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		<title>By: Dana Beyer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dana Beyer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2011 14:50:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[CH, thank you for your support!

Regarding Lisa, I&#039;m not privy to comment on the assertions you made about her behavior of the past few weeks. I know Lisa has been outspoken in the past, and while that makes many uncomfortable, somebody needs to be blunt and forthright. If she misspoke in the heat of the moment I would only ask that you remember the blood, sweat and tears he&#039;s put into this fight for the past eight years. Being the lead plaintiff to then lose in Court by a single vote, and now to lose the House by a single vote, is to suffer in a way few of us can imagine. I know, when the victory finally comes, she will be able to shift her perspective and recognize just how close she helped bring us before the final win, but for now we need to stand by her and her family.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>CH, thank you for your support!</p>
<p>Regarding Lisa, I&#8217;m not privy to comment on the assertions you made about her behavior of the past few weeks. I know Lisa has been outspoken in the past, and while that makes many uncomfortable, somebody needs to be blunt and forthright. If she misspoke in the heat of the moment I would only ask that you remember the blood, sweat and tears he&#8217;s put into this fight for the past eight years. Being the lead plaintiff to then lose in Court by a single vote, and now to lose the House by a single vote, is to suffer in a way few of us can imagine. I know, when the victory finally comes, she will be able to shift her perspective and recognize just how close she helped bring us before the final win, but for now we need to stand by her and her family.</p>
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		<title>By: anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2011 15:20:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mark is happy to criticize current EqMd board members and staff but couldn&#039;t take anyone doing the same to him (we must have the wrong facts as we all need to know he and David were such dedicated heros, etc.!!!!) - he virtually has an orgasm when someone praises him for his former board work and &quot;corrects the record.&quot;  Pretty sad and hypocritical.   Just makes you question whether people are out here for the cause or to settle scores or bolster egos.  You are all to be thanked, now stop taking each other out and having a contest over who should be more thanked.  Gross.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mark is happy to criticize current EqMd board members and staff but couldn&#8217;t take anyone doing the same to him (we must have the wrong facts as we all need to know he and David were such dedicated heros, etc.!!!!) &#8211; he virtually has an orgasm when someone praises him for his former board work and &#8220;corrects the record.&#8221;  Pretty sad and hypocritical.   Just makes you question whether people are out here for the cause or to settle scores or bolster egos.  You are all to be thanked, now stop taking each other out and having a contest over who should be more thanked.  Gross.</p>
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		<title>By: Kat</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2011 00:51:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you (or should I say &#039;thank you bug!&#039;) providing Exhibit #1 proving that the word &#039;marriage&#039; should not have been uttered in Maryland until the duplicity and deception of 2001 was completely rectified.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you (or should I say &#8216;thank you bug!&#8217;) providing Exhibit #1 proving that the word &#8216;marriage&#8217; should not have been uttered in Maryland until the duplicity and deception of 2001 was completely rectified.</p>
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		<title>By: Kat</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2011 00:46:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[And this meme is the crutch of the guilty.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And this meme is the crutch of the guilty.</p>
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		<title>By: Mark Jason McLaurin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark Jason McLaurin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Mar 2011 02:22:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dana- you and I haven&#039;t always seen eye to eye but I&#039;ll forever be grateful for the clarity you Provided with your comment ! I hope you are well
!!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dana- you and I haven&#8217;t always seen eye to eye but I&#8217;ll forever be grateful for the clarity you Provided with your comment ! I hope you are well<br />
!!!</p>
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		<title>By: C.H. Jones Esq.</title>
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		<dc:creator>C.H. Jones Esq.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Mar 2011 00:56:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[@Dana Beyer. I completely agree with your statements and thank you for all of your leadership, I look forward to watching your political career grow. 

I do object to your assertion of Ms. Polyak, though from what I have read I respect her and her partner as individuals in the fight for equality, I do not agree with Lisa&#039;s recent comments that have circulated in the community particularly her rumored involvement in this article. As a board member I believe that to be very much a violation of confidentiality and lack of confidence in her leadership. Also her recent public outburst in Annapolis of which I was present for and submitted a letter to Equality Maryland about was appalling. As a leader of an organization you do not stand and shout obscenities directly outside of the State House.  

I have held little criticism of Equality Maryland until recent weeks, but some of the behaviors of their leadership have been questionable which now includes, (if it is indeed true) of what I read here via Mark McLaurin&#039;s comments, about Mr. Butler. If that comment is true, as an attorney, I would find it to be an utmost conflict of interest for Mr. Butler to be the Chair of the Board of the organization that he once interviewed for the top executive position and was declined. 

I understand all points of view that of the Equality Maryland board members and that of Mark and David. However, as my comments above note I am increasingly concerned by the behavior that has been transpiring over the course of this week. 

 I am disheartened by the current motives, discussions and maneuvers that have been circulating within the community regarding all of the organizations mentioned in this article. 

I wish the LGBT movement much success in Maryland including the full inclusion of rights for the transgender community which are so essential. Thank you all for the dialogue and it is my sincere hope that this is handled rationally, responsibly and with due diligence. 

Sincerely,

C. H. Jones, Esq.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Dana Beyer. I completely agree with your statements and thank you for all of your leadership, I look forward to watching your political career grow. </p>
<p>I do object to your assertion of Ms. Polyak, though from what I have read I respect her and her partner as individuals in the fight for equality, I do not agree with Lisa&#8217;s recent comments that have circulated in the community particularly her rumored involvement in this article. As a board member I believe that to be very much a violation of confidentiality and lack of confidence in her leadership. Also her recent public outburst in Annapolis of which I was present for and submitted a letter to Equality Maryland about was appalling. As a leader of an organization you do not stand and shout obscenities directly outside of the State House.  </p>
<p>I have held little criticism of Equality Maryland until recent weeks, but some of the behaviors of their leadership have been questionable which now includes, (if it is indeed true) of what I read here via Mark McLaurin&#8217;s comments, about Mr. Butler. If that comment is true, as an attorney, I would find it to be an utmost conflict of interest for Mr. Butler to be the Chair of the Board of the organization that he once interviewed for the top executive position and was declined. </p>
<p>I understand all points of view that of the Equality Maryland board members and that of Mark and David. However, as my comments above note I am increasingly concerned by the behavior that has been transpiring over the course of this week. </p>
<p> I am disheartened by the current motives, discussions and maneuvers that have been circulating within the community regarding all of the organizations mentioned in this article. </p>
<p>I wish the LGBT movement much success in Maryland including the full inclusion of rights for the transgender community which are so essential. Thank you all for the dialogue and it is my sincere hope that this is handled rationally, responsibly and with due diligence. </p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>C. H. Jones, Esq.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Mar 2011 00:31:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[They do in New York, so why not in Maryland?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>They do in New York, so why not in Maryland?</p>
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