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	<title>Comments on: A personal victory for gay Pentagon official</title>
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		<title>By: Out Military</title>
		<link>http://www.washingtonblade.com/2011/07/27/a-personal-victory-for-gay-pentagon-official/#comment-26911</link>
		<dc:creator>Out Military</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jul 2011 23:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great piece, thank you for reporting!  FYI - check out OutMilitary interview with gay man serving in U.S. Airforce in Turkey - http://outmilitary.com/magazine/read/outmilitarycom-blog-profile-tj-_431.html]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great piece, thank you for reporting!  FYI &#8211; check out OutMilitary interview with gay man serving in U.S. Airforce in Turkey &#8211; <a href="http://outmilitary.com/magazine/read/outmilitarycom-blog-profile-tj-_431.html" rel="nofollow">http://outmilitary.com/magazine/read/outmilitarycom-blog-profile-tj-_431.html</a></p>
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		<title>By: Michael Bedwell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael Bedwell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jul 2011 19:53:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mr. Wilson obviously has good intentions, and I thank him for his service as a civilian to our country. But his combination of willful ignorance and naivete are indefensible when he asserts that he wants to our people serving in the military become &quot;whole.&quot; Rather he dishonoros them by simply serving up the Pentagon&#039;s batch of Kool-Aid lies on such things as denying gay and lesbian service members discriminated against or harassed access to anything but &quot;chain of command&quot; rather than to the Military Equality Opportunity Program processes given NONgays. It has ALREADY been proven not to work in a 2004 study by the Palm Center on the EXISTING &quot;Don&#039;t Harass&quot; policy. SLDN said:

“There is no available avenue for service members who would typically report discrimination [based on sexual orientation] through an equal opportunity office. … In reality when a service member does report it through the chain of command it is rarely taken seriously. There&#039;s no consequence for commanders who ignore anti-gay harassment. The environment has created second-class citizenship for gay and lesbian service members and it permeates all military.&quot;

Further, DADT did NOT empower either recoupment nor refusal of 100% of eligible separation pay. Mr. Wilson&#039;s Pollyanna attitudes towards the Obama Pentagon&#039;s ongoing discrimination, including fighting the ACLU class action suit are, at best, just plain sad.

Finally, please publish a retraction of your assertion that DOMA bans access by gay couples to military housing. The DoD&#039;s November report confirmed only that financial supplement for non-military housing was prevented by DOMA. On-base, &quot;military family housing is NOT. Quote, emphasis mine:

&quot;A third category of benefits are those THAT ARE NOT STATUTORILY PROHIBITED, but that
current regulations do not extend to same-sex partners. With regard to this category, THE
DEPARTMENT OF DEFENSE AND THE SERVICES HAVE THE REGULATORY FLEXIBILITY TO REVISE AND REDEFINE THE ELIGIBLE BENEFICIARIES TO INCLUDE SAME-SEX PARTNERS. Here, we recommend that, where justified from a policy, fiscal, and feasibility standpoint, the benefit be refashioned to become a member-designated one—in other words, to give the Service member, gay or straight, the discretion to designate whomever he or she wants as beneficiary. An example of a benefit in this category is the provision of free legal services by a military legal assistance office, and it may be suitable for this member-designated approach. MILITARY FAMILY HOUSING IS ANOTHER PROMINENT BENEFIT IN THIS CATEGORY. However, we do NOT [emphasis theirs] recommend at this time that military family housing be included in the benefits eligible for this member-designated approach. Permitting a Service member to qualify for military family housing, simply by designating
whomever he or she chooses as a &#039;dependent&#039;, is problematic. Military family housing is a
limited resource and complicated to administer, and a system of member designation would
create occasions for abuse and unfairness [to unmarried straight couples]. ...

For benefits such as these, the Department of Defense COULD [emphasis theirs] legally direct the Services to revise their regulations to extend coverage to Service members’ same-sex partners. This could be accomplished in two ways: leave to the Service member the freedom to designate his or her &#039;dependents&#039;, &#039;family members&#039;, or similar term; or, revise these definitions to specifically
mention a committed, same-sex relationship, and require some type of proof of that committed
relationship. The latter is similar to the approach now being taken in Federal agencies for civilian
employees.&quot;

Thank you.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mr. Wilson obviously has good intentions, and I thank him for his service as a civilian to our country. But his combination of willful ignorance and naivete are indefensible when he asserts that he wants to our people serving in the military become &#8220;whole.&#8221; Rather he dishonoros them by simply serving up the Pentagon&#8217;s batch of Kool-Aid lies on such things as denying gay and lesbian service members discriminated against or harassed access to anything but &#8220;chain of command&#8221; rather than to the Military Equality Opportunity Program processes given NONgays. It has ALREADY been proven not to work in a 2004 study by the Palm Center on the EXISTING &#8220;Don&#8217;t Harass&#8221; policy. SLDN said:</p>
<p>“There is no available avenue for service members who would typically report discrimination [based on sexual orientation] through an equal opportunity office. … In reality when a service member does report it through the chain of command it is rarely taken seriously. There&#8217;s no consequence for commanders who ignore anti-gay harassment. The environment has created second-class citizenship for gay and lesbian service members and it permeates all military.&#8221;</p>
<p>Further, DADT did NOT empower either recoupment nor refusal of 100% of eligible separation pay. Mr. Wilson&#8217;s Pollyanna attitudes towards the Obama Pentagon&#8217;s ongoing discrimination, including fighting the ACLU class action suit are, at best, just plain sad.</p>
<p>Finally, please publish a retraction of your assertion that DOMA bans access by gay couples to military housing. The DoD&#8217;s November report confirmed only that financial supplement for non-military housing was prevented by DOMA. On-base, &#8220;military family housing is NOT. Quote, emphasis mine:</p>
<p>&#8220;A third category of benefits are those THAT ARE NOT STATUTORILY PROHIBITED, but that<br />
current regulations do not extend to same-sex partners. With regard to this category, THE<br />
DEPARTMENT OF DEFENSE AND THE SERVICES HAVE THE REGULATORY FLEXIBILITY TO REVISE AND REDEFINE THE ELIGIBLE BENEFICIARIES TO INCLUDE SAME-SEX PARTNERS. Here, we recommend that, where justified from a policy, fiscal, and feasibility standpoint, the benefit be refashioned to become a member-designated one—in other words, to give the Service member, gay or straight, the discretion to designate whomever he or she wants as beneficiary. An example of a benefit in this category is the provision of free legal services by a military legal assistance office, and it may be suitable for this member-designated approach. MILITARY FAMILY HOUSING IS ANOTHER PROMINENT BENEFIT IN THIS CATEGORY. However, we do NOT [emphasis theirs] recommend at this time that military family housing be included in the benefits eligible for this member-designated approach. Permitting a Service member to qualify for military family housing, simply by designating<br />
whomever he or she chooses as a &#8216;dependent&#8217;, is problematic. Military family housing is a<br />
limited resource and complicated to administer, and a system of member designation would<br />
create occasions for abuse and unfairness [to unmarried straight couples]. &#8230;</p>
<p>For benefits such as these, the Department of Defense COULD [emphasis theirs] legally direct the Services to revise their regulations to extend coverage to Service members’ same-sex partners. This could be accomplished in two ways: leave to the Service member the freedom to designate his or her &#8216;dependents&#8217;, &#8216;family members&#8217;, or similar term; or, revise these definitions to specifically<br />
mention a committed, same-sex relationship, and require some type of proof of that committed<br />
relationship. The latter is similar to the approach now being taken in Federal agencies for civilian<br />
employees.&#8221;</p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
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