Comments on: Ups and downs of a one-night stand

By: CHRISTOPHER ALLEN HORTON

CHRISTOPHER ALLEN HORTON — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 12:11:34 +0000

“Doctor Whom,”
THERE ARE ALWAYS EXCEPTIONS IN ANY SITUATION. I STAND BY MY STATEMENTS. THERE ARE MALES IN THIS COUNTRY WHO ARE IN JAIL FOR NOT PAYING CHILD SUPPORT. WE LIVE IN A TIME IN WHICH SINGLE MOTHERS ARE RAISING MALES. THEREFORE, MANY YOUNG HOMOSEXUAL MALES HAVE ACQUIRED FEMALE HABITS IN REFERENCE TO THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN MONEY AND SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP. NO ADULT MALE IN HIS RIGHT MIND WANTS TO PROVIDE FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE TO ANOTHER ADULT MALE. THERE ARE MALE HOMOSEXUALS WHO RESENT PAYING FOR THEIR DATE’S (OR PARTNER’S) DINNER, MOVIE TICKET, CELL-PHONE BILL, ETC.
THANKS FOR YOUR TIME.
CHRISTOPHER ALLEN HORTON

By: Doctor Whom

Doctor Whom — Tue, 20 Mar 2012 17:29:20 +0000

You’ve set up a false dichotomy. It’s possible for two people to be financially independent despite not having “similar earnings,” and it’s possible for those two people to find each other. I know this from experience.

By: CHRISTOPHER ALLEN HORTON

CHRISTOPHER ALLEN HORTON — Sun, 18 Mar 2012 03:06:37 +0000

THE PREMISE – ONE NIGHT STANDS CREATE COMMITTMENT PHOBIA – IS SILLY. PEOPLE, LET’S SAY, OVER THE AGE OF THIRTY-FIVE, WHO HAVE ONE NIGHTERS HAVE THEM BECAUSE – TO MOST PEOPLE – “COMMITTMENT” MEANS SHARING VALUES, FAMILY TIME AND MONEY. MANY HOMOSEXUALS HAVE SACRIFICED A LOT IN ORDER TO LIVE “OPEN” LIVES. ALIENATION FROM FAMILY AND THE “CHURCH” IS COMMON. WHILE PURSUING A SUBSTANTIAL RELATIONSHIP, THE OTHER PERSON IS, USUALLY, NOT READY TO MAKE THE SAME SACRIFICES YOU MADE IN ORDER TO LIVE FREELY. IN ADDITION, VIEWS ON MONEY PLAY A ROLE. MOST MALES (REGARDLESS OF SEXUAL ORIENTATION) REMEMBER THEIR FATHERS TELLING THEM, “…a man is supposed to stand on his own two feet, and pull his own weight.” USING THE HOMELESS AS A GREAT EXAMPLE, MALES HAVE ALWAYS RIDICULED THOSE WHO ARE NOT FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT. SINCE IT IS DIFFICULT TO FIND A TWO-INCOME COUPLE WITH SIMILAR EARNINGS, MALE HOMOSEXUALS DO NOT WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP IN WHICH THEIR PARTNERS BEG TO BORROW MONEY. SO, IT IS BETTER – ACCORDING TO MANY MALE HOMOSEXUALS – TO LIVE ALONE AND HAVE SEX WHEN NEEDED.
THANKS FOR YOUR TIME.
CHRISTOPHER ALLEN HORTON