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Olympic qualification a hurdle for out Tongan swimmer

Amini Fonua lacks perks many swimmers from other countries enjoy

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Amini Fonua is hoping to qualify for his third Olympics this summer in Tokyo. (Photo courtesy Fonua)

An elite athlete who represents his or her country on the international stage generally receives living expenses and medical insurance funded from a variety of sources.

The athlete may also receive paid travel and accommodation for competitions, high quality racing gear, training equipment, coaching, post-workout recovery treatment and nutritional supplementation.

This week in the Bladeā€™s Game Changers series, we meet an openly gay, two-time Olympic swimmer from Tonga who is funding his own training to qualify for his third Olympics this summer in Tokyo.

Amini Fonua represents a country where homosexuality is illegal and elite athletes do not receive financial support. To cover his expenses, Fonua works as a barista along with side jobs teaching private swimming lessons and mentoring high school athletes hoping to swim in college.

In an effort to minimize his expenses and commit to the training needed to qualify for the Olympics, Fonua recently moved from California to New Jersey. His daily schedule consists of work and traveling to New York City where he trains with the New York Athletic Club.

Fonua grew up in Auckland, New Zealand in a sports-oriented family and was active in rugby, basketball and swimming. By age 14, he turned his full attention to swimming.

ā€œAt that age toxic masculinity enters into the equation in most sports. In swimming, everyone is equal in the water,ā€ Fonua says. ā€œI enjoyed the underwater silence of being in the pool.ā€

He qualified for the Junior Pan Pacs in Hawaii at age 17 and was inspired by the level of competition. Also on hand at the event were college recruiters from American universities.

Fonua was recruited by Texas A&M University and began his collegiate career there in 2009. As a gay man, it wasnā€™t an obvious choice to enter a conservative institution in a conservative state. He calls it a leap of faith for his sport.

ā€œMy freshman year I swam sore and I swam tired. The jump from high school swimming to college swimming was intense and physically demanding,ā€ Fonua says. ā€œOver the long term, my swimming benefitted from the extra muscle I added from two-a-day practices, weight training and dryland.ā€

While he was at Texas A&M, New Zealand began passing him over for national teams and international travel. His Tongan heritage had been an important part of his upbringing and a family trip to Tonga in 2009 brought a new direction.

ā€œMy father had been whispering in my ear, ā€˜Swim for Tonga,ā€™ā€ Fonua says. ā€œThere were no water safety programs or swim lessons being offered at the time in Tonga. The Tonga Swimming Association was established in 2010 and I was cleared to swim for them internationally.ā€

He became the first Tongan swimmer to win a gold medal in international competition when he won the 50 meter breaststroke at the 2010 Oceania Swimming Championships in Samoa.

Fonua served as Tongaā€™s flag-bearer in the 2012 Summer Olympics Parade of Nations in London and competed in the 100 meter breaststroke. He was not out publicly at the time.

ā€œIt was a very memorable experience as my mom is from England,ā€ Fonua says. ā€œI was so well versed in my Tongan heritage ā€” it was nice to experience my motherā€™s culture as a family.ā€

After graduating from Texas A&M in 2013, Fonua came out publicly and returned to New Zealand where he began training with his childhood coach. His first meet back after a break from competing was the 2014 Gay Games in Cleveland where he represented Team New York Aquatics.

ā€œI really missed the sport and found new inspiration at the Gay Games,ā€ Fonua says. ā€œThere is a huge community out there that is passionate about gay sports and swimming.ā€

His path to the 2016 Rio Olympics included a stop at the 2015 Pacific Games in Papua New Guinea where he won gold medals in the 50-, 100- and 200-meter breaststroke events breaking two Games records.

When Fonua arrived at the 2016 Rio Olympics he was one of a handful of out athletes competing.

ā€œRio was a lot more fun, happy and freeing for me whereas London was shrouded with guilt and shame,ā€ Fonua says. ā€œThere were plenty of gay athletes and coaches in Rio, but they were not a loud bunch. Many of them are in situations where they canā€™t share their sexuality on the world stage.ā€

He gained international attention in Rio when he publicly criticized a Daily Beast article that outed fellow Olympians, including some from homophobic countries.

ā€œI spoke out against the dangers of outing and published a series of tweets that went viral, followed up by a number of media interviews that helped to get the story retracted, with an apology,ā€ Fonua says. ā€œThe International Olympic Committee ultimately deemed the article “unacceptable,ā€ which was actually the first time the IOC had ever acknowledged any LGBTQ presence.ā€

In his quest for a third Olympics, Fonua says that this time it is with a sense of purpose that includes being an LGBTQ representative. He recently signed on as an athlete ambassador with Athlete Ally, an LGBTQ sports advocacy group.

He kicked off his Tokyo campaign by competing at the International Gay & Lesbian Aquatics World Championships last summer which were held during Stonewall 50: World Pride NYC.

ā€œHaving the power of presence, showing up and doing your best are important when you are representing your community,ā€ Fonua says. ā€œThere are many members of the LGBTQ community that are out, proud and successful in the workplace. We need more in the sports community.ā€

Fonua was disappointed with his 100 breaststroke race at the 2016 Rio Olympics. He says his attitude was one of ā€œbubbling resentmentā€ over not being given the tools and access that other athletes received from their governing bodies.

He is not going to let that happen this time around and has adopted the mantra, ā€œWe are the hero of our own story.ā€ 

ā€œI want to change the narrative on policy, community support and funding in Tonga. For now, I canā€™t depend on their support and I have to engage whatever resources are available to me,ā€ Fonua says. ā€œNo one is going to swoop in and save me and I owe it to myself to have the best lead up to Tokyo. It is my own responsibility.ā€

Tonga has never censored Fonua and he takes pride in representing the country. He spent a month last September training in Japan and has a few tune-up meets coming up this year on the road to Tokyo. Included will be the 2020 Oceania Championships in Fiji this June where he is a five-time medalist.

To fund his training camps and competitions, Fonua has set up a GoFundMe page. It isnā€™t something he is happy about, but it is necessary to complete the purpose of this Olympic cycle.

ā€œI want to be a role model for anyone coming to terms with who they are as a person. Itā€™s important to share this journey with the LGBTQ community and show that you can be your authentic self and achieve a lot of success,ā€ Fonua says. ā€œItā€™s going to be a big grind to get there and I hope that it ends with that one perfect race.ā€

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Applause and criticism for Staley’s trans-inclusive stance

South Carolina Gamecocks womenā€™s coach made comments on Sunday

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South Carolina Gamecocks women's basketball head coach Dawn Staley. (NBC News Today YouTube screenshot)

If not for a conservative transphobic blogger, this moment should be a celebration of NCAA womenā€™s basketball coach Dawn Staley and the women of the South Carolina Gamecocks.

On Sunday, they concluded their undefeated season with a decisive win and a championship title. But when Staley faced reporters before that big game, Outkickā€™s Dan Zakheske asked her an irrelevant, clickbait question about transgender women in sports, referring to them as ā€œbiological males.ā€ 

Staley could have ignored the question, or stated she had no opinion, but instead the legendary coach offered a crystal clear endorsement of trans women competing in womenā€™s sports, something outlawed in her home state of South Carolina for girls in kindergarten through college. 

ā€œIā€™m of the opinion,ā€ said Staley, ā€œIf youā€™re a woman, you should play. If you consider yourself a woman and you want to play sports or vice versa, you should be able to play. Thatā€™s my opinion.ā€

Zakheske clearly wasnā€™t satisfied with that declaration of allyship and Staley swiftly cut him off. 

ā€œYou want me to go deeper?ā€ she asked. 

ā€œDo you think transgender women should be able to participate,ā€ he started to say, when the coach stole the ball and took it downtown on a fastbreak. ā€œThatā€™s the question you want to ask? Iā€™ll give you that. Yes. Yes. So, now the barnstormer people are going to flood my timeline and be a distraction to me on one of the biggest days of our game, and Iā€™m okay with that. I really am.ā€ 

Staley is herself a Hall of Fame player a leading voice for diversity. 

Reaction to her comments were swift, from LGBTQ rights organizations, athletes and inclusion opponents.Ā 

ā€œCoach Staley simply spoke the truth that trans women are women and should play if they want,ā€ said Sarah Kate Ellis, president and CEO of GLAAD, in a post on Instagram. ā€œAll of us can take a page from Coach Staleyā€™s playbook as a sports leader and as a person of high integrity guided by faith, compassion and common sense.ā€ 

A White House pool reporter revealed President Joe Biden called Staley Sunday evening to congratulate her and the Gamecocks on their championship win. But itā€™s not clear if she and the president, an outspoken supporter of trans rights, discussed her remarks on trans athletes.Ā 

A number of Black leaders in the LGBTQ movement applauded Staley for taking a stand.Ā 

ā€œCoach Staley has always been a trailblazer, but sheā€™s also shown that true leadership is about advancing justice and equality for everyone,ā€ said Human Rights Campaign President Kelley Robinson. ā€œBy expressing her full-throated support for transgender athletesā€™ inclusion in sports, sheā€™s sending an important message ā€” our shared humanity matters. 

ā€œCoach Staley showed courage and vulnerability, in choosing to answer the question and make a powerful statement of support for trans people on one of the biggest days and biggest stages in sports history,ā€ said Kierra Johnson, executive director of the National LGBTQ Task Force, in a statement. ā€œNot only does that make her a leader we can all aspire to like, it makes her a class act. She has etched her legacy in the history books with her play, her coaching, her heart and her smarts.ā€

In congratulating Staley on her championship title victory, Dr. David J. Johns, the CEO and executive director of the National Black Justice Coalition, also commended her for ā€œher unwavering advocacy and support for transgender people in sports.ā€ 

ā€œIn a time when transgender athetes face unjust scrutiny, discrimination and exclusion from the National Association of Intercollegiate Athletics, her courage to speak truth to power and in support of inclusion and fairness sets a powerful example for us all, and is a testament to her integrity and compassion.ā€

The NBJC leader was referring to Mondayā€™s announcement by the NAIA, the governing body of athletic programs at small colleges nationwide, voting 20-0 to essentially ban trans women from competing with other women beginning Aug. 1, as ESPN reported.

ā€œIt is a shocking and devastating development that the NAIA, an organization that has done so much to open doors, is now slamming those doors shut on transgender athletes,ā€ said Sasha Buchert, Lambda Legalā€™s senior attorney and director of the organizationā€™s nonbinary and trans rights project.Ā 

ā€œInstead of standing up in support of transgender young people, the NAIA has simply turned its back on them ā€” permanently depriving them of the benefits of competition. Would that they had the courage of victorious University of South Carolina womenā€™s basketball coach Dawn Staley, who didnā€™t miss a beat in clarifying that transgender women should be able to play.ā€ 

However, praise for Staleyā€™s stance was not universal. 

Riley Gaines, failed former college swimmer and paid shill for the anti-inclusion organization, Independent Womenā€™s Forum, called Staley ā€œentirely incompetent or a sell-outā€ on Fox News. ā€œPersonally, I donā€™t think she believes what she said.ā€ 

Gaines has turned her fifth-place tie with out trans NCAA champion Lia Thomas into a career as a crusader against inclusion and a former advisor to the presidential campaign of Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis.

Val Whiting, a former Stanford University and professional womenā€™s basketball player, tweeted her strong disagreement with Staley. ā€œA lot of my basketball sisters feel differently but trans women do not belong in womenā€™s sports. Itā€™s not fair nor safe for biological women. There has to be another solution for trans women to be able to compete athletically besides having them compete against biological women.ā€ 

Zaksheskeā€™s Outkick colleague, anti-trans pundit David Hookstead, also went all-in with a transphobic post. 

ā€œDawn Staley says she supports men who identify as women competing against real women in sports. Her view could literally destroy womenā€™s basketball forever. Why wonā€™t more people stand up for women?ā€

Hookstead then boasted that Staley blocked his account. 

Republican South Carolina Congresswoman Nancy Mace retweeted Zaksheskeā€™s account of his interaction with Staley, calling her support of trans athletes ā€œabsolute lunacy.ā€ That in turn won praise from Caitlyn Jenner, who retweeted Whiting and posted her thanks to Mace, along with this comment: ā€œThere is nothing complicated about this issue!ā€Ā 

What is complicated is that Jenner has never explained why she has competed with cisgender women in golf ever since her transition almost a decade ago. 

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Caitlyn Jenner backs NY county transgender athletes ban

‘Letā€™s stop it now while we can’

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Caitlyn Jenner endorses Nassau County's transgender athlete ban during a press conference. (YouTube screenshot)

Caitlyn Jenner flew from Malibu to New York this week to join her fellow Republicans in their nationwide quest to keep transgender girls and women from competing in sports with other women. 

ā€œLetā€™s stop it now while we can,ā€ said the Olympic gold medalist, at a news conference carried live by Fox News Channel. 

Republican Nassau County Executive Bruce Blakeman organized the event so that Jenner could speak in support of his February executive order banning trans athletes at more than 100 county-owned facilities. 

ā€œTrans women are competing against women, taking valuable opportunities for the long-protected class under Title IX and causing physical harm,ā€ said Jenner without providing supportive evidence of her claim. Jenner said the ban would defeat ā€œthe woke agenda.ā€ 

Her comments drew praise from former NCAA swimmer and paid shill Riley Gaines, who represents the Independent Womenā€™s Forum and has also worked with the failed presidential campaign of Republican Gov. Ron DeSantis of Florida on his anti-trans athlete platform.

ā€œIf the left wants to fight this battle on this hill, itā€™s a losing battle,ā€ said Jenner. ā€œWe will win the battle.ā€ She claimed she spoke on behalf of women and girls, contradicting her past statements in support of trans girls competing according to their gender identity and despite the fact she herself still competes in womenā€™s sports.

Shortly after the ban was announced last month, New York State Attorney General Letitia James and New York Gov. Kathy Hochul, both Democrats, denounced it and accused Blakeman of ā€œbullying trans kids.ā€ 

James called the order ā€œtransphobic and deeply dangerous,ā€ and argued that it violates the stateā€™s anti-discrimination laws. The state attorney general challenged it in court March 1 with a ā€œcease and desist letter,ā€ demanding that Blakeman rescind the order, saying it subjects womenā€™s and girlsā€™ sports teams to ā€œinvasive questioning.ā€

As the Los Angeles Blade reported, Blakeman’s legal team countered with its own lawsuit on March 5, claiming her cease and desist letter violates the 14th Amendmentā€™s equal protection clause.

ā€œNot only was the executive order legal, but we had an obligation to defend it,ā€ Blakeman said Monday. 

The order has also been challenged by the New York Civil Liberties Union, which filed suit last week on behalf of a womenā€™s roller derby league based in Nassau County that welcomes trans women and would be barred from using the countyā€™s facilities by Blakemanā€™s executive order.

Just days before the Long Island news conference, Jenner joined Olympian Sharron Davies, who also campaigns against trans inclusion in sports, for an conversation with a British newspaper, the Telegraph, which has been outspoken against trans inclusion.Ā 

They recalled that in their day, tests to determine sex were mandatory in order to compete, and Jenner said she has been ā€œpushingā€ for sex tests to return to sports, decades after sports organizations around the world abandoned the practice because they were unreliable. ā€œIf they continue down this road, it will be pretty much the end of womenā€™s sport as we know it.ā€

ā€œI can still hit a golf ball 280 yards,ā€ Jenner continued, not mentioning she plays from the ladiesā€™ tee. She did however opine about not being ā€œa real woman,ā€ acknowledging that many trans women disagree with her view. 

ā€œThey keep saying, ā€˜Oh, Iā€™m a real woman, Iā€™m a real woman,ā€™ and Iā€™m going, ā€˜No, youā€™re not,ā€™ā€ said Jenner. ā€œI will use your preferred pronouns, I will treat you as a female, you can run and dress and do whatever you want, I have nothing against that, itā€™s fine, but biologically youā€™re still male.ā€

She added: ā€œā€‹Let me explain ā€” I am biologically male, OK? Iā€™m XY. Thereā€™s nothing I can do to change that. If you believe in gender dysphoria, and I think most people do realize itā€™s not a disease, itā€™s a mental condition, just like some people are left-handed and some people are right-handed, itā€™s kind of the way youā€™re born and Iā€™ve dealt with it my entire life.ā€œ

ā€œI consider myself a trans person, I am still genetically male, I changed all of my ID right down to my birth certificate so technically yes, I am female, but on the other hand I know Iā€™m not.ā€

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Former UMD basketball player Abby Meyers discusses lesbians in sports, March Madness

Potomac native signed with the London Lions last August

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Abby Meyers (Photo courtesy of Abby Meyers)

Star basketball player Abby Meyers signed with the London Lions last August, but she called Maryland home before calling the shots in London.

Meyers, a lesbian shooting guard, grew up in Potomac and graduated from Walt Whitman High School in 2017. She played for Princeton in her undergraduate years and played for the University of Maryland during graduate school.

She began playing basketball in elementary school, and she was already showing an abundance of potential by the time she was in high school.

In her freshman year of high school, the schoolā€™s basketball coach sat down with Meyers and her family and showed them a list of universities with Division I basketball teams. Meyers circled the names of the schools that she was interested in attending. From there, the doors leading to a collegiate basketball career began to open. She began working towards her dream and ended up playing for Princeton.

ā€œIt was kind of like a mutual understanding between the two of us, me and basketball,ā€ Meyers told the Washington Blade. ā€œI took more individual lessons, and I just realized that the potential was sky high.ā€

She came back to her home state to attend the University of Maryland not only for its business program but also for its celebrated basketball team.

ā€œI grew up watching Alyssa Thomas, Shatori Walker-Kimbrough and so many other legends that passed through that program,ā€ Meyers said. ā€œSo for me, I knew that basketball-wise, it was the best decision I could make. ā€¦ They definitely had all of the qualities to make me the best player I could be.ā€

Before shipping off to London, Meyers briefly played in the WNBA for the Washington Mystics in the summer of 2023. In fact, the aforementioned UMD alum Shatori Walker-Kimbrough was one of her teammates.

She described her time with the WNBA and in London so far as a ā€œlearning experience.ā€ 

ā€œI got to relearn what it meant to be a rookie again,ā€ Meyers said. ā€œAll of a sudden you enter a new team, a new level and you’re at the bottom, and you just have to let your actions speak louder than your words.ā€

Meyers publicly came out around 2019, and since then she has been a role model for many other lesbian women in sports.

ā€œBy coming out I’m actually being my authentic self, but I was scared that people were going to judge me and look at me differently when in fact, I was met with open arms, love, and appreciation,ā€ Meyers said.

Meyers believes the journey one takes to coming out is an individual process that looks different for everyone.

ā€œAt the end of the day, it’s your own race; run it at your own pace,ā€ Meyers said.  ā€œNever be apologetic for who you are. When you have to start compromising yourself and your values for other people like though thatā€™s not the community you want to be a part of.ā€

She has not experienced much anti-LGBTQ stigma since coming out, but that does not mean that it does not exist in other sports communities. However, in this modern social climate, Meyers pointed out, people are much more accepting of gay women in sports.

Nina Hazra, a University of Maryland medical student, grew up playing basketball with Meyers. The two were on the same team in middle school, but they went to different high schools and would often play against each other. 

Hazra did not play much past high school, but she remained close friends with her former teammate and rival to this day. She went to most of the home games during Meyersā€™ stint at UMD.

Though Hazra does not identify with the LGBTQ community, she noticed a tension in the sports world that affects all women, regardless of sexuality. However, with todayā€™s shifting climate, it has become easier for female athletes to express their identities

ā€œWomen who express strong emotions in sports are often treated differently than men who do the exact same thing,ā€ Hazra said in an interview. ā€œI feel like as we’ve gotten older, there’s been a lot more celebration of womanhood in whatever form in sports, and I think that’s one of the places where you can then kind of go outside those societal norms.ā€

But Hazra still noticed the impact Meyers had on younger generations in sports who may be struggling with their identities.

ā€œIt doesn’t matter your sexuality, your gender identity, all that stuff. That doesn’t matter when you’re playing a sport,ā€ Hazra said. ā€œA lot of us didn’t have role models in those years growing up and just to get to see her being that for so many girls is so amazing.ā€

Elisa Pinzan, also a former Terrapin, is good friends with Meyers. 

Originally from Italy, Pinzan played for the University of South Florida for four years before entering the transfer portal and landing at UMD. She now plays for Keflavik IF in Iceland.

Pinzan and Meyers formed a strong bond while playing for the Terrapins together. 

ā€œShe was the first person I got close to; she is very open, smiley and friendly, and I felt comfortable around her from the first day,ā€ Pinzan described. ā€œI am glad to have met someone like Abby, with such a kind soul.ā€

Pinzan thought that fans should keep their eyes peeled for the Terrapins this upcoming March Madness season. 

ā€œThey are a very young team with energy, enthusiasm and grit on the floor, and I think they are a lot better than the record they have,ā€ Pinzan wrote about the Terrapins in an interview. ā€œDespite being young though, they are learning a lot every game and I am sure they will be able to transfer these lessons for the best time of the year coming up.ā€

Meyers agreed that there is a lot to look forward to this March Madness. She said that with Coach Brenda Freseā€™s game plans and strong assistant staff, the Terrapins have a strong chance of advancing throughout the competition.

According to Meyers, March Madness will be different for womenā€™s basketball this year, pointing out that itā€™s more popular right now than menā€™s games, as womenā€™s basketball is selling out arenas.

ā€œI only think it’s gonna get better and it’s going to grow even more,ā€ Meyers said. ā€œJust the marketing, the social media, the overall awareness of the women’s game. Fans are growing by the number.ā€

Meyers believes that female basketball players have to rely more on their skill than their athleticism, which she believes makes womenā€™s games just as ā€” if not more ā€” exciting than menā€™s games. She said that over the past few years, there has been a strong shift in womenā€™s viewership that has shrunk the gap between menā€™s and womenā€™s basketball, including from a technical standpoint, given that men and women play with the same level of equipment.

Regardless of where UMD ends up this March Madness, Meyers will be cheering the Terrapins on from across the pond ā€” especially the women.

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