Hiring Fair
The Potomac School, in partnership with AISGW and EastEd, invites all teachers, administrators and those interested in careers in independent schools to the:
13th annual Diversity Hiring Fair, Saturday, February 1, 2025
The Potomac School, 1301 Potomac School Rd, McLean, VA 22101
Registration is free and bag lunches will be provided. For more information, visit: potomacschool.org/dhf
Movies
Kidman ā and chemistry ā drive provocative āBabygirlā
A taboo-smashing story of personal liberation and growth
There are few movie stars who have been as prolific as Nicole Kidman.
In fact, the Australian star of āBabygirlā ā the slick erotic thriller by Dutch filmmaker Halina Reijn now in theaters ā has been so busy in recent years (23 films in the last decade, and thatās not even counting her television work or her gig as celebrity spokesmodel for the AMC Theater chain) that itās become a running gag in the popular conversation. It even emerged as a punch line for Golden Globes host Nikki Glaser earlier this month.
Make no mistake, though, thereās a reason for her continued presence as one of Hollywoodās most valuable players, and āBabygirl,ā which pushes her to exhibit the kind of vulnerability rarely even expected of performers half her age, is ample proof of that.
In the film, Kidman stars as Romy Mathis, the CEO of a New York tech company ā an Amazon-style purchasing hub where order fulfillment is handled exclusively via robotics ā whose marriage to a renowned theater director (Antonio Banderas) works everywhere but in the bedroom. When Samuel (Harris Dickinson), a much-younger new male intern at the company to whom she is already attracted, requests her as his mentor as part of a company leadership program, she finds herself drawn into an affair, fueled by the Dom/sub sexual dynamic of her fantasies, which compromises her position of power in the company almost as much as it satisfies the unmet needs of her personal life. Itās a self-described thriller, so needless to say, things start to spin out of control when Samuel shows up unannounced at her home in the middle of a family gathering ā but the increasing danger only serves to draw her deeper into a situation which, by any conventional standard, represents a highly inappropriate breach of conduct, at best.
Influenced noticeably by films from the pre-āMeTooā-era dealing with the blending of sexual and professional power dynamics (both āIndecent Proposalā and āBasic Instinctā have been cited by Reijn as inspiration) and marked by an aloof, almost documentarian perspective that contrasts with the boundary-pushing provocation of its intimate scenes in a way that distances us from the ethical quandaries of its central relationship, itās a movie that both invites us and challenges us. Investing us in the experience of a woman who has beaten the odds to find success while resigning herself to an unsatisfactory sex life with an otherwise perfectly matched husband, it asks us to empathize and even root for Romy as she negotiates the thorny path toward an erotic self-actualization that matches her professional one, despite the strong societal current that would brand every decision she makes along the way as toxic. Itās this conflict between whatās ārightā and what serves our deepest instinctual needs that gives āBabygirlā its edgy power, far more than its scenes of fetish-driven intimacy ā which, while they crackle with the kind of sexual tension thatās often lacking in the scenes of āsocially endorsedā intimacy presented in mainstream cinema, are undeniably tame compared with what can be found in the more transgressive milieu of underground cinema ā and rattles our sense of (for lack of a better word) ādecency.ā
This said, the scenes in which Kidman ā who fearlessly embraces the challenge of being an A-list superstar (of a ācertain ageā) in a role that hinges not just on her sexual viability, but the willingness with which she allows her body to be presented for scrutiny ā surrenders herself to the irresistible draw of her forbidden young lover are nevertheless searing examples of raw cinematic expression. This is certainly a function of her full commitment to the role, and her ability to find the right blend of self-awareness and self-abandon that convinces us of their authenticity. But itās equally due to the smouldering charisma and adroitly balanced persona of Dickinsonās Samuel, who overcomes the natural distrust that inherently accompanies his role (as a male subordinate seemingly exploiting his female superiorās vulnerability) to win a palpable measure of respect ā if not our full sympathies ā through an almost preternatural sense of self-confidence and a kind of dark sincerity that renders the mutually exploitative nature of their relationship almost irrelevant in our visceral response to it.
Before anyone questions the weight with which we consider the movieās sex scenes, itās important to convey that āBabygirlā is most decidedly a film about sexual politics, and, despite the complimentary juxtaposition it provides with workplace culture, it is there where it hits its deepest and most resonant chords in our collective psyche. The forced strictures of our societal roles take a back seat to the raw and untamed urgency of our most intimate desires, and even the sacrosanct bond of marital commitment is fair game when it comes to fulfilling the fantasies that somehow make us feel more wholly ourselves, regardless ā and indeed, often because of ā any taboos that might otherwise discourage us from exploring them.
In an era when the ārulesā around sex somehow feel both less and more stringent than ever, such an approach feels particularly transgressive. Indeed, the implication than an illicit office affair might be anything other than an HR nightmare might well seem like a radical notion even to those with a more-or-less permissive stance on matters of personal morality, in any era. Yet āBabygirlā negotiates those dangerous curves with wickedly seductive finesse, offering up a steamy portrait of illicit-yet-irresistible sexual adventure that ultimately feels less like a cautionary tale ā despite the inevitable personal and professional consequences that threaten to shatter Romyās idealized āGirl Bossā life as her affair with Samuel grows more and more out of her control ā than a taboo-smashing story of personal liberation and growth beyond conventional mores.
Delivered without overt judgment through Reijnās observational treatment, itās a movie that successfully conveys the allure of ākinkyā sexual roleplay far more convincingly than āFifty Shades of Grayā ā thanks in no small part to Dickinson, whose breathtakingly opaque performance renders Samuel with equal parts searing charisma and chilling menace, and whose May/September chemistry with Kidman is not only convincing but undeniably hot.
Itās her film, however, and it’s her performance, which captures an emotional nakedness far more courageous than that required by baring her perfect-for-any-age body, that gives āBabygirlā the depth that makes it more than just a topical tale of sexual politics in the workplace. Indeed, the office intrigue that surrounds the affair seems almost an afterthought, a convenient āMcGuffinā to draw us into a story that is really about something much more interesting.
While the movie doesnāt always land perfectly ā particularly in its treatment of Romyās marriage, which feels vaguely perfunctory and leaves Banderas with little room to explore the nuances that might make his character more than a cipher ā itās still a deliciously provocative, visually stylish piece of boldly countercultural filmmaking, that dares to suggest that the path to personal growth sometimes lies through kinky, forbidden sex.
You have to admit, itās a very appealing suggestion.
District of Columbia
Adm. Levine promotes vaccine awareness at Whitman-Walker forum
U.S. Assistant Secretary of Health is highest-ranking trans official
Dr. Rachel Levine, the U.S. Assistant Secretary of Health and the federal governmentās highest-ranking transgender official, called on community leaders to join her in a campaign to promote vaccinations to curtail respiratory illness at a forum organized by the LGBTQ supportive medical center Whitman-Walker Health.
Levine, a pediatrician, was joined by four fellow physicians, three of whom are with Whitman-Walker, and an official with the LGBTQ seniors advocacy group SAGE, in a panel discussion called āProtecting Our Health In the New Year: A Conversation on Flu, COVID-19, and RSV Vaccines.ā
Among other things, Levine talked about a vaccination promotion program she is involved with at the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services called āRisk Less and Do More.ā
āIām extremely passionate about vaccines and the role they play in preventing respiratory illness and keeping communities healthier,ā Levine told the gathering, held at Whitman-Walkerās Max Robinson Center.
āAnd the success of āRisk Less, Do Moreā is rooted in partnerships with community leaders across America who have provided reliable information to community members so that they can make the best informed decisions about their health and access one of the best tools that we have to protect our health ā vaccinations,ā Levine said.
She noted that separate vaccines are now available for three respiratory illnesses that can potentially be life-threatening ā flu, COVID-19, and Respiratory Syncytial Virus known as RSV.
āWhile aiming to limit respiratory virus spread among all Americans, the āRisk Less, Do Moreā campaign has placed particular focus on high-risk populations who are at the greatest risk for becoming seriously ill,ā Levine said.
āThis includes people who are not up to date on their vaccines, those who are 65 years and older, residents in long-term care facilities, pregnant people, those living in rural areas where healthcare access is limited, and racial and ethnic populations who are more at risk, including those in the Black and Hispanic community,ā she said.
A ānotable uptickā in the three respiratory illnesses she mentioned is now occurring across the country and in Washington, D.C., Levine added.
The others who joined Levine in the discussion were Aaron Tax, an official with SAGE; Tasliyam Adams, Senior Manager of Medical Support at Whitman-Walker; Danny Jaek, Pharmacist at Whitman-Walkerās Max Robinson Center; and Dr. Kimberly Jeffries Leonard, Vice President of Administration, Black Womenās Agenda.
Also participating in the discussion were Whitman-Walker physicians Heather Aaron, Ann Bonham, and Kellan Baker.
At the conclusion of the forum Whitman-Walker officials presented Levine with a poster size, framed proclamation honoring her āFor Distinguished Service and Leadership In Advancing Public Health and Health Equity.ā
Levine, who will leave her job on Jan. 20 when president-elect Donald Trump takes office, was asked by the Washington Blade if she has any advice for her successor under the new administration.
āI really canāt comment on the new administration,ā she said. āBut what I can comment on is the importance of vaccinations, which again has been one of the victories of public health in the 20th and 21st centuries. And so, we are very proudly talking about our Risk Less, Do More campaign for this respiratory season.ā
Naseema Shafi, Whitman-Walkerās CEO, said Whitman-Walker was honored that Levine participated in the vaccine forum.
āShe has done so much to advance health in the community,ā said Shafi, who added, āSheās been a fearless leader living authentically and weāre really proud of the opportunity to be able to spend time with her today.ā
Argentina
Javier Milei rolls back LGBTQ rights in Argentina during first year in office
Gay congressman, activists lead resistance against president
Javier Milei’s rise to power marked a sea change in Argentine politics that profoundly impacted the countryās LGBTQ community.
His first year in office has seen a combination of hostile rhetoric and concrete measures that have dismantled historic advances in human rights.
āJavier Milei’s administration is fighting a two-way battle,ā Congressman Esteban PaulĆ³n, a long-time LGBTQ activist, pointed out to the Washington Blade. āOn the one hand, symbolically, with an openly homo, lesbo and transodiant discourse, and on the other, in concrete facts, such as the closure of the Ministry of Women, Gender and Diversity, and INADI (the National Institute Against Discrimination, Xenophobia and Racism).ā
The decision to eliminate these key institutions sent a clear message: Diversity policies are no longer a state priority. This dismantling left LGBTQ Argentines without national advocacy tools.
Some provinces have tried to fill this void, but many others have followed the national governmentās lead. This trend, according to PaulĆ³n and other activists, has left LGBTQ Argentines even more vulnerable.
āWhat we are seeing is not only a setback in public policies, but also a direct attack on the dignity of thousands of people who, until recently, felt the support of the state,ā said PaulĆ³n.
One of Milei administrationās first acts was to close the Women, Gender and Diversity Ministry and INADI. These decisions, which Milei said was necessary to reduce āunnecessary public spending,ā eliminated agencies that played an essential role in the promotion of human rights and the fight against discrimination.
āWithout these institutions, the LGBTQ community has been left unprotected against violence and prejudice. Now, discrimination cases that used to be handled by INADI end up shelved or without follow-up,ā PaulĆ³n warned. āThe message this sends is that our lives don’t matter to this government.ā
PaulĆ³n and other activists say one of the Milei governmentās most alarming decisions is to allow employers to fire employees without legal consequences.
āToday, a person can be fired because of their sexual orientation or gender identity, without the possibility of recovering their job,ā warned PaulĆ³n.
The new policy has left many employees ā especially transgender people ā without legal recourse. Advocacy groups say companies have taken advantage of this regulation to carry out selective firings. The freezing of a trans-specific labor quota has deepened employment discrepancies for one of the countryās most vulnerable communities.
PaulĆ³n told the Blade that anti-LGBTQ rhetoric from Milei and several of his ministers has also had an effect on Argentine society.
āToday, anyone feels they can say anything without consequences,ā said PaulĆ³n, who noted that ultraconservative and religious sectors view Mileiās government as an ally.
This rhetoric, according to PaulĆ³n, has yet to translate into widespread violence.
āWe are not yet in a situation of systematic violence as in other countries, but the risk is there,ā he said. āEvery word of hate from power legitimizes violent actions.ā
Congress, civil society leads resistance
In the face of this adverse scenario, resistance has taken various forms.
PaulĆ³n and other opposition lawmakers have worked on bills to protect LGBTQ rights and reverse regressive measures.
āWe will not stand idly by. We put forward concrete proposals to guarantee access to health care, inclusive education and labor protections,ā said PaulĆ³n.
Activists have strengthened alliances with their counterparts in neighboring countries, such as Brazil and Chile, and Mexico. They are also working with international organizations that have expressed concern about the situation in Argentina.
Although the outlook is bleak, PaulĆ³n said he remains hopeful.
āMilei is going to pass, like all processes in democracy,ā he said.
PaulĆ³n stressed that marriage equality and the transgender rights law are deeply rooted in Argentine society, and act as barriers to stop further setbacks. The challenge now, he says, is to maintain resistance, organize the community, and strengthen international ties.
āWe have an organized movement, tools to defend ourselves and a mostly plural and diverse society. This process will also come to an end,ā said PaulĆ³n. āIn this context, the struggle for LGBTQ rights in Argentina is a reminder that social conquests are never definitive and that resistance is vital to preserve the achievements made.āĀ
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