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20 questions for the Washington Kastles player

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Rennae Stubbs (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Australia native Rennae Stubbs is among the elite in tennis. Her bio reads like a sports hall of fame entry: World Team Tennis “most valuable player” in 2008, former world No. 1 in doubles (she’s currently ranked No. 7 in doubles on the Women’s Tennis Association Tour), winner of 60 doubles titles on the WTA Tour, winner of four Grand Slam doubles titles and a four-time Olympic team member representing Australia.

Since 2009, she’s played for Washington Kastles, a professional D.C.-based team, the newest in the World Team Tennis Pro League and the 2009 WTT champions, which she calls “a really wonderful experience.” They play the Boston Lobsters at Kastles Stadium in D.C. Sunday (www.washingtonkastles.com).

But Stubbs, who’s been out for more than a decade in her personal life and in tennis circles but came out in the press in 2005, hasn’t had much time to call Washington — or any other city — home. She started traveling extensively for tennis when she was 18 and hasn’t slowed since. She relocated permanently to the U.S. when she was 24 but only spends about seven weeks a year at her house in Tampa, Fla. The 39-year-old says Americans and Australians aren’t that much different, but the latter are more laid back. They work less and are more open to LGBT issues generally speaking, she says. Despite Billie Jean and Martina, Stubbs says lesbians in tennis are no more common than in any other walk of life.

“It’s such a stereotype for women in any sport,” Stubbs says. “If you took any 100 women, probably five to 10 of them would be gay. It’s the same in tennis.” She says there’s “never been a negative experience” since she came out, “at least that I know about.” Dating is difficult because of her travel schedule but she hasn’t ruled out settling down. She also has no plans to retire and says she merely re-evaluates at the end of each season. Stubbs enjoys skiing, surfing and golf when she has down time and enjoys relaxing with red wine and friends.

How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
About 12 years. The first person was the hardest to tell. It was my best 
friend and her answer was, “No kidding.”

Who’s your gay hero?
I don’t really have a gay hero, I don’t think there is any such thing. I think you look up to whomever you look up to, whether they’re gay or straight. As long as they are good people and they inspire you to be better.

What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?
To be honest, I haven’t been out in Washington much, I am so busy playing and trying to rest while not on the road for the Kastles, that I don’t get time to head out. But I have had some fun nights at the Donovan House roof deck with the team last year.

What’s your dream gay wedding?
I haven’t really thought of it, but if it ever happened I would say in a really nice outdoor setting somewhere at dusk. Or how about one that’s just legal in all states?

What non-gay issue are you most passionate about?
Equality for women in the workforce. I do believe that’s one of the great things about team tennis and Billie Jean King’s legacy, that women and men are treated equally on a team and that they both contribute equally and that’s how it should be in life.

What historical outcome would you change?
There are so many things in history that I wish I could change but I believe that everything happens for a reason. I think we learn as a society to either become more tolerant and understanding or we will continue to make the same assumptions and mistakes. So I guess that’s the only thing we can change is how we deal with adversity, pain and sadness.

What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
Probably when I saw Madonna in concert at Madison Square Garden in 2001. We were sixth row center. That was pretty awesome.

On what do you insist?
That you’re always honest with me and no matter what you tell me, you can always trust that I will always be there for you.

What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?
I can’t believe it’s not raining again at Wimbledon.

If your life were a book, what would the title be?
“Passion”

If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?
I would stay exactly the same way.

What do you believe in beyond the physical world?
I believe there is something bigger out there somewhere but I like living in this one right now and don’t really put too much emphasis on anything other than doing the right thing while I am on this earth.

What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?
Keep going! At some point in the future, lesbians, gays and transgender people will be seen just like everyone else. It’s just going to take time, patience and understanding.

What would you walk across hot coals for?
My family, my partner and my friends.

What gay stereotype annoys you most?
That “we” as gay people try and convert the “straight” world. That to me is hilarious.

What’s your favorite gay movie?
I don’t really have one.

What’s the most overrated social custom?
That marriage should only be between a man and a woman. If we all pay the same taxes, why shouldn’t we have the same rights?

What trophy or prize do you most covet?
My grand slam trophies. I can’t really say one, as I truly covet all of them in some way.

What do you wish you’d known at 18?
That your elders really do know best. Age and experience cannot be taught, but you don’t know that until you’re older! So if you’re 18 and reading this, listen to people who are older than you, they know more than you do, trust me!

Why Washington?
Because Mark Ein is the best owner in the league and because the Kastles fans are the best fans in the league and I truly do love the city.

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Unconventional homes becoming more popular

HGTV show shines spotlight on alternatives to cookie cutter

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Shipping container homes have gained popularity in recent years. (Photo by Suchat Siriboot/Bigstock)

While stuck in the house surrounded by snow and ice, I developed a new guilty pleasure: watching “Ugliest House in America” on HGTV. For several hours a day, I looked at other people’s unfortunate houses. Some were victims of multiple additions, some took on the worst décor of the ‘70s, and one was even built in the shape of a boat.

In today’s world, the idea of what a house should look like has shifted dramatically. Gone are the days of cookie-cutter suburban homes with white picket fences. Instead, a new wave of architects, designers, and homeowners are pushing the boundaries of traditional housing to create unconventional and innovative spaces that challenge our perceptions of what a home can be.

One of the most popular forms of alternative housing is the tiny house. These pint-sized dwellings are typically fewer than 500 square feet and often are set on trailers to allow for mobility. Vans and buses can also be reconfigured as tiny homes for the vagabonds among us.

These small wonders offer an affordable and sustainable living option for those wishing to downsize and minimize their environmental footprint. With clever storage solutions, multipurpose furniture, and innovative design features, tiny homes have become a creative and functional housing solution for many, although my dogs draw the line at climbing Jacob’s Ladder-type steps.

Another unusual type of housing gaining popularity is the shipping container home. Made from repurposed shipping containers, these homes offer a cost-effective and environmentally friendly way to create modern and sleek living spaces. With their industrial aesthetic and modular design, shipping container homes are a versatile option for those contemplating building a unique and often multi-level home.

For those looking to connect with nature, treehouses are a whimsical and eccentric housing option. Nestled high up in the trees, these homes offer a sense of seclusion and tranquility that is hard to find in traditional housing. With their distinctive architecture and stunning views, treehouses can be a magical retreat for those seeking a closer connection to the natural world.

For a truly off-the-grid living experience, consider an Earthship home. These self-sustaining homes use recycled construction materials and rely on renewable energy sources like solar power and rainwater harvesting. With their passive solar design and natural ventilation systems, Earthship homes are a model of environmentally friendly living.

For those with a taste for the bizarre, consider a converted silo home. These cylindrical structures provide an atypical canvas for architects and designers to create modern and minimalist living spaces. With curved walls and soaring ceilings, silo homes offer a one-of-a-kind living experience that is sure to leave an impression.

Barn homes have gained popularity in recent years. These dwellings take the rustic charm of a traditional barn and transform it into a modern and stylish living space. With their open, flexible floor plans, lofty ceilings, and exposed wooden beams, barn homes offer a blend of traditional and contemporary design elements that create a warm and inviting atmosphere, while being tailored to the needs and preferences of the homeowner.

In addition to their unique character, barn homes also offer a sense of history and charm that is hard to find in traditional housing. Many of them have a rich and storied past, with some dating back decades or even centuries.

If you relish life on the high seas (or at a marina on the bay), consider a floating home. These aquatic abodes differ from houseboats in that they remain on the dock rather than traverse the waterways. While most popular on the West Coast (remember “Sleepless in Seattle”?), you sometimes see them in Florida, with a few rentals available in Baltimore’s Inner Harbor and infrequent sales at our own D.C. Wharf. Along with the sense of community found in marinas, floating homes offer a peaceful retreat from the hustle and bustle of city life.

From tiny homes on wheels to treehouses in the sky or homes that float, these distinctive dwellings offer a fresh perspective on how we live and modify traditional thoughts on what a house should be. Sadly, most of these homes rely on appropriate zoning for building and placement, which can limit their use in urban or suburban areas. 

Nonetheless, whether you’re looking for a sustainable and eco-friendly living option or a whimsical retreat, there is sure to be an unconventional housing option that speaks to your sense of adventure and creativity. So, why settle for a run-of-the-mill ranch or a typical townhouse when you can live in a unique and intriguing space that reflects your personality and lifestyle?


Valerie M. Blake is a licensed Associate Broker in D.C., Maryland, and Virginia with RLAH @properties. Call or text her at 202-246-8602, email her at [email protected] or follow her on Facebook at TheRealst8ofAffairs.

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Convert rent check into an automatic investment, Marjorie!

Basic math shows benefits of owning vs. renting

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Knowledgeable lenders can discuss useful down payment assistance programs to help a buyer ‘find the money.’ (

Suppose people go out for dinner and everyone is talking about how they are investing their money. Some are having fun with a few new apps they downloaded – where one can round up purchases and then bundle that money into a weekly or monthly investment that grows over time, which is a smart thing to do. The more automatic one can make the investments, the less is required to “think about it” and the more it just happens. It becomes a habit and a habit becomes a reward over time.  

Another habit one can get into is just making that rent check an investment. One must live somewhere, correct? And in many larger U.S. cities like New York, Chicago, D.C., Los Angeles, Miami, Charlotte, Atlanta, Dallas, Nashville, Austin, or even most mid-market cities, rents can creep up towards $2,000 a month (or more) with ease.  

Well, do the math. At $2,000 per month over one year, that’s $24,000. If someone stays in that apartment (with no rent increases) for even three years, that amount triples to $72,000.  According to Rentcafe.com, the average rent in the United States at the end of 2025 was around $1,700 a month. Even that amount of rent can total between $60,000 and $80,000 over 3-4 years.  

What if that money was going into an investment each month? Now, yes, the argument is that most mortgage payments, in the early years, are more toward the interest than the principal.  However, at least a portion of each payment is going toward the principal.  

What about closing costs and then selling costs? If a home is owned for three years, and then one pays out of pocket to close on that home (usually around 2-3% of the sales price), does owning it for even three years make it worth it? It could be argued that owning that home for only three years is not enough time to recoup the costs of mostly paying the interest plus paying the closing costs.

Let’s look at some math:

A $300,000 condo – at 3% is $9,000 for closing costs.

One can also put as little as 3 or 3.5% down on a home – so that is also around $9,000. 

If a buyer uses D.C. Opens Doors or a similar program – a down payment can be provided and paid back later when the property is sold so that takes care of some of the upfront costs. Knowledgeable lenders can often discuss other useful down payment assistance programs to help a buyer “find the money.”  

Another useful tactic many agents use is to ask for a credit from the seller. If a property has sat on the market for weeks, the seller may be willing to give a closing cost credit. That amount can vary. New construction sellers may also offer these closing cost credits as well.  

And that, Marjorie, just so you will know, and your children will someday know, is THE NIGHT THE RENT CHECK WENT INTO AN INVESTMENT ACCOUNT ON GEORGIA AVENUE!


Joseph Hudson is a referral agent with Metro Referrals. Reach him at 703-587-0597 or [email protected].

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Hot rod heaven: Chevy Corvette, Dodge Charger

Two muscle cars strut their stuff

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Chevrolet Corvette

Some vehicles age quietly — but not muscle cars. 

For 2026, the Chevrolet Corvette tightens its focus, fixes one glaring flaw (the previously dowdy interior) and flaunts a futuristic design. The Dodge Charger, on the other hand, is loud and proud, daring you to ignore its presence at your peril. 

CHEVROLET CORVETTE

$73,000-$92,000

MPG: 16 city/25 highway

0 to 60 mph: 2.8 seconds

Cargo space: 13 cu. ft.

PROS: Awesome acceleration. Race-car feel. Snazzy cabin. 

CONS: No manual transmission. No rear seat. Tight storage. 

Finally, the Chevrolet Corvette feels as good inside as it looks flying past you on the freeway. That’s thanks to the classy, completely redesigned cabin. Gone is the old, polarizing wall of buttons in favor of a sleeker, three-screen cockpit. There’s a large digital gauge cluster, a wide infotainment screen angled toward the driver, and a marvy new auxiliary display. Everything is modern and a bit glitzy — but in a good way.  

Fit and finish are higher quality than before, and the controls are more intuitive. Chevy’s Performance App is now standard across trims, offering real-time data for drivers who enjoy metrics as much as momentum. And the new interior color schemes, including slick asymmetrical options, let you express yourself without screaming for attention—confidence, not obnoxious bluster. 

As for handling, the steering is quick and sure, body control is exceptional, and acceleration is blazingly fast. A mid-engine layout also delivers sublime balance. 

Three trim options, including the V8-powered Stingray, the E-Ray (also with a V8 but paired with electric all-wheel drive), and the Z06 and ZR1 variants for racing devotees. 

(Note to self: For a truly mind-blowing experience, there’s the new 1,250-horsepower ZR1X all-electric supercar that goes from 0 to 60 mph in less that 2 seconds and is priced starting at $208,000.)

Yes, the ride in any of these Corvettes can be firm. And visibility is, well, rather compromised. But this supercar is a total Dom, not a timid sub. Think Alexander Skarsgard in “Pillion,” and you get the picture. 

DODGE CHARGER

$52,000-$65,000

MPG: 16 city/26 highway

0 to 60 mph: 3.9 seconds

Cargo capacity: 22.75 cu. ft.

PROS: Choice of gas or EV power. Modern tech. Spacious cabin. 

CONS: No V8 engine (yet). Soft steering. Less-than-lithe cornering.

Everything old is new again for the Dodge Charger. The automaker initially was phasing out gas-powered models in a shift to electric vehicles but then quickly pivoted back to include gas engines after yo-yo regulatory changes this year from, well, the yo-yos in the White House. 

Powerful twin-turbo engines in the R/T and Scat Pack trims produce up to 550 horsepower. These models come standard with all-wheel drive but can be switched to rear-wheel drive for classic muscle-car antics when the mood strikes you.

At the same time, Dodge still offers the electric Charger Daytona, delivering up to 670 horsepower and ferocious straight-line acceleration. 

The Charger’s aggressive design, massive digital displays and practical hatchback layout carry over, reinforcing its ability to be both a performance diva and everyday companion. With the larger-than-expected storage space, I appreciated being able to fit a boatload of groceries in the trunk during a Costco run. 

New wheel designs, paint choices and trim variations help you visually distinguish between gas and electric Chargers. But no matter the model, each one feels decisive and deliberate on the road. Commuting in stop-and-go traffic during rush hour is fine, but this street machine excels at high-speed cruising on the freeway. 

The turbo six-cylinder engine delivers muscular torque with less drama than the old V8s, but still with plenty of urgency. The electric Daytona version is a different kind of thrill, with its instant, silent thrust that feels like it could almost launch you to the moon. 

Steering is stable but not exactly crisp, and the Charger’s weight makes it less lithe—and lively—than other muscle cars, especially when navigating tight corners. 

But that’s just fine with me. Like Bea Arthur as Dorothy in “The Golden Girls,” this no-nonsense muscle car is proud to be big, bold and brassy. 

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