Living
Queery: Rennae Stubbs
20 questions for the Washington Kastles player
Australia native Rennae Stubbs is among the elite in tennis. Her bio reads like a sports hall of fame entry: World Team Tennis “most valuable player” in 2008, former world No. 1 in doubles (she’s currently ranked No. 7 in doubles on the Women’s Tennis Association Tour), winner of 60 doubles titles on the WTA Tour, winner of four Grand Slam doubles titles and a four-time Olympic team member representing Australia.
Since 2009, she’s played for Washington Kastles, a professional D.C.-based team, the newest in the World Team Tennis Pro League and the 2009 WTT champions, which she calls “a really wonderful experience.” They play the Boston Lobsters at Kastles Stadium in D.C. Sunday (www.washingtonkastles.com).
But Stubbs, who’s been out for more than a decade in her personal life and in tennis circles but came out in the press in 2005, hasn’t had much time to call Washington — or any other city — home. She started traveling extensively for tennis when she was 18 and hasn’t slowed since. She relocated permanently to the U.S. when she was 24 but only spends about seven weeks a year at her house in Tampa, Fla. The 39-year-old says Americans and Australians aren’t that much different, but the latter are more laid back. They work less and are more open to LGBT issues generally speaking, she says. Despite Billie Jean and Martina, Stubbs says lesbians in tennis are no more common than in any other walk of life.
“It’s such a stereotype for women in any sport,” Stubbs says. “If you took any 100 women, probably five to 10 of them would be gay. It’s the same in tennis.” She says there’s “never been a negative experience” since she came out, “at least that I know about.” Dating is difficult because of her travel schedule but she hasn’t ruled out settling down. She also has no plans to retire and says she merely re-evaluates at the end of each season. Stubbs enjoys skiing, surfing and golf when she has down time and enjoys relaxing with red wine and friends.
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
About 12 years. The first person was the hardest to tell. It was my best
friend and her answer was, “No kidding.”
Who’s your gay hero?
I don’t really have a gay hero, I don’t think there is any such thing. I think you look up to whomever you look up to, whether they’re gay or straight. As long as they are good people and they inspire you to be better.
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?
To be honest, I haven’t been out in Washington much, I am so busy playing and trying to rest while not on the road for the Kastles, that I don’t get time to head out. But I have had some fun nights at the Donovan House roof deck with the team last year.
What’s your dream gay wedding?
I haven’t really thought of it, but if it ever happened I would say in a really nice outdoor setting somewhere at dusk. Or how about one that’s just legal in all states?
What non-gay issue are you most passionate about?
Equality for women in the workforce. I do believe that’s one of the great things about team tennis and Billie Jean King’s legacy, that women and men are treated equally on a team and that they both contribute equally and that’s how it should be in life.
What historical outcome would you change?
There are so many things in history that I wish I could change but I believe that everything happens for a reason. I think we learn as a society to either become more tolerant and understanding or we will continue to make the same assumptions and mistakes. So I guess that’s the only thing we can change is how we deal with adversity, pain and sadness.
What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
Probably when I saw Madonna in concert at Madison Square Garden in 2001. We were sixth row center. That was pretty awesome.
On what do you insist?
That you’re always honest with me and no matter what you tell me, you can always trust that I will always be there for you.
What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?
I can’t believe it’s not raining again at Wimbledon.
If your life were a book, what would the title be?
“Passion”
If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?
I would stay exactly the same way.
What do you believe in beyond the physical world?
I believe there is something bigger out there somewhere but I like living in this one right now and don’t really put too much emphasis on anything other than doing the right thing while I am on this earth.
What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?
Keep going! At some point in the future, lesbians, gays and transgender people will be seen just like everyone else. It’s just going to take time, patience and understanding.
What would you walk across hot coals for?
My family, my partner and my friends.
What gay stereotype annoys you most?
That “we” as gay people try and convert the “straight” world. That to me is hilarious.
What’s your favorite gay movie?
I don’t really have one.
What’s the most overrated social custom?
That marriage should only be between a man and a woman. If we all pay the same taxes, why shouldn’t we have the same rights?
What trophy or prize do you most covet?
My grand slam trophies. I can’t really say one, as I truly covet all of them in some way.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
That your elders really do know best. Age and experience cannot be taught, but you don’t know that until you’re older! So if you’re 18 and reading this, listen to people who are older than you, they know more than you do, trust me!
Why Washington?
Because Mark Ein is the best owner in the league and because the Kastles fans are the best fans in the league and I truly do love the city.
Electric-vehicle tax credits may have faded earlier this year, but EVs themselves are far from losing their spark. There are more charging stations than ever, battery ranges are longer and more realistic, and automakers have finally figured out that EVs don’t all need to look like geeky science projects or feel like failed beta tests.
Just look at these two compact electrics, which are futuristic, fun and flexible enough for work or play.
HYUNDAI IONIQ 5
$37,000 to $48,000
Range: 245 to 318 miles
0 to 60 mph: 4.5 to 7.4 seconds
Cargo space: 26.3 cu. ft.
PROS: Fast charging. Roomy cabin. Silky-smooth suspension.
CONS: Wide turning radius. Rear wiper not on all trims. Price creep.
After being introduced three years ago, what’s new for the latest Hyundai Ioniq 5? Mostly refinement. Charging is quicker, software is smarter and Hyundai continues to quietly listen to feedback, tweaking ride comfort and usability. Think of it as switching from messy eyeliner to a perfectly sharp wing.
Exterior styling remains one of this EV’s biggest conversation starters. Those pixel-inspired lights, crisp lines and slick hatchback-meets-crossover proportions exude refreshing confidence. There’s no trying to blend in, and that’s the point. Park this Hyundai anywhere and heads will turn.
On the road, the Ioniq 5 prioritizes calm over chaos. Steering is light, the suspension smooths out rough pavement and acceleration feels brisk without being aggressive. Safety tech is plentiful and well-calibrated—adaptive cruise control, lane-centering, blind-spot monitoring—all working together without seeming like a nervous backseat driver. IOW, this ride is supportive, not clingy.
Inside, the user-friendly cabin shines. The flat floor and long wheelbase create a lounge-like atmosphere, with excellent legroom and airy visibility. Seats are well-bolstered and available with eco-friendly materials, and the sliding center console adds flexibility. Cargo space is generous, and the wide windshield makes city driving stress-free. Alas, the rear wiper is only available on select models. Overall, though, I appreciated how everything looks modern without feeling cold.
What makes this Hyundai special is its vibe. An EV that embraces individuality without shouting about it.
Fun fact: The Ioniq’s ultra-fast charging can add hundreds of miles in under 20 minutes—perfect for those who hate waiting almost as much as they hate small talk on awkward first dates.
VOLKSWAGEN ID.4
$46,000 to $59,130
Range: 206 to 291 miles
0 to 60 mph: 4.4 to 7.7 seconds
Cargo space: 30.3 cu. ft.
PROS: Sure handling. Decent range. Good storage.
CONS: Body roll in curves. Fussy infotainment. No frunk.
The latest VW ID.4 focuses on polish. Software updates have fixed earlier frustrations, and overall drivability feels more cohesive. Less “learning curve” and more “hop in and go,” like a dependable bestie who doesn’t overthink things.
Styling-wise, this EV is intentionally inoffensive. Soft curves, friendly lighting and a familiar crossover shape make it approachable. While the ID.4 won’t turn heads like the Ioniq 5, that’s OK. It’s more akin to a classic outfit that always works—timeless, not trendy.
Driving the ID.4 is relaxed and predictable. This SUV prioritizes comfort over thrills, with a suspension tuned for daily commuting and long highway drives. Safety features are comprehensive and reassuring, including excellent lane assistance and collision-prevention systems. It’s the kind of car that quietly has your back, no drama required.
Inside, the ID.4 offers a calm, uncluttered cabin with good space for passengers and cargo alike. Rear-seat legroom is especially strong, making it a solid road-trip companion. The seats are plush, visibility is good and while the infotainment system isn’t the most intuitive, it’s improved enough to be more than tolerable.
The ID.4’s special sauce is balance. It doesn’t try to reinvent the wheel—it just electrifies it.
Fun fact: This is one of the most globally popular EVs, proving that sometimes being universally liked is a strength, not a personality flaw. Think, gold star gay who still surprises you.

Real Estate
Child- and pet-proofing your home for the holidays
It isn’t about being perfect but about being prepared
The holidays are meant to be joyful, cozy, and full of laughter — but if you have young children or pets, they can also feel a little chaotic. Twinkling lights, shiny decorations, guests coming and going, and tables full of tempting food can turn your home into a wonderland of curiosity and mischief. The good news? With a little thoughtful planning, you can keep the holiday magic alive while making your home safer for everyone who lives there.
There’s something oddly comforting about movies where animals go to war with holiday decorations, turning carefully strung lights and perfectly placed ornaments into chaos. Whether it’s a mischievous dog tangled in tinsel or a curious cat launching a full-scale assault on a Christmas tree, these scenes tap into a universal experience for pet owners.
The humor comes from the contrast: the human characters are trying to create warmth, tradition, and picture-perfect cheer, while the animals see the decorations as toys, obstacles, or personal enemies. The resulting destruction — trees tipping over, ornaments shattering, lights blinking out—feels exaggerated but relatable, especially during the already hectic holiday season.
Let’s start with decorations because they tend to be the biggest attraction. Ornaments sparkle, garlands dangle, and everything seems designed to be touched, pulled, or tasted. If you have little ones or pets, consider placing your most fragile ornaments higher on the tree and using shatterproof options on the lower branches. Tinsel and ribbon may look festive, but they can be dangerous if swallowed, so skipping them or keeping them well out of reach is a simple way to reduce risk without sacrificing style.
Holiday lights are another favorite fascination. Before hanging them, take a few minutes to inspect each strand for frayed wires or broken bulbs. Secure cords along walls or behind furniture so they’re harder to grab or chew and unplug them when you leave the house or head to bed. Not only does this help prevent accidents, but it also gives you one less thing to worry about during a busy season.
The Christmas tree itself can become a focal point for exploration. Make sure it’s sturdy and well-anchored so it doesn’t tip if a toddler tugs on a branch or a pet decides to investigate. If you use a real tree, cover the water base since tree water can contain additives that aren’t safe if consumed. For artificial trees, keep an eye out for loose pieces or needles that could become choking hazards.
Food is a big part of holiday celebrations, and it’s also one of the most common sources of trouble. Many traditional treats—like chocolate, grapes, raisins, alcohol, and foods containing xylitol—are dangerous for pets. Keep plates and serving dishes up high, secure the trash can, and gently remind guests not to slip pets or kids “just a little bite” without checking first. For children, be mindful of hard candies, nuts, and small treats that could pose choking risks.
Candles and fireplaces add warmth and charm, but they deserve extra caution. Flameless candles are a wonderful alternative if you want ambiance without worry. If you do use real candles, place them well out of reach and never leave them unattended. Fireplaces should always have a sturdy screen or gate, especially with crawling babies or curious pets nearby.
Holiday gatherings bring wonderful energy into your home, but they can also create new challenges. Doors opening frequently make it easier for pets to slip outside, so consider setting up a quiet, comfortable space where they can relax during busy get-togethers. This can help reduce stress for them and give you peace of mind. For children, stair gates, locked cabinets, and clear boundaries can help prevent accidents when there’s extra excitement in the air.
New toys and gifts are another thing to watch closely. Packaging, twist ties, plastic wrap, and especially button batteries should be cleaned up promptly. These items are easy to overlook in the excitement of gift-opening but can be dangerous if swallowed. Taking a few minutes to tidy up as you go can make a big difference.
Lastly, try to keep routines as steady as possible. The holidays naturally disrupt schedules, but familiar mealtimes, naps, walks, and bedtime rituals help children and pets feel secure. A calmer household often means fewer accidents and a happier experience for everyone.
At the end of the day, child- and pet-proofing your home for the holidays isn’t about being perfect but about being prepared. A few small adjustments can help you relax, enjoy your guests, and focus on what truly matters: creating warm, happy memories with the ones you love. When your home feels safe, the holidays feel even sweeter.
Valerie M. Blake is a licensed Associate Broker in D.C., Maryland, and Virginia with RLAH @properties. Call or text her at 202-246-8602, email her at [email protected] or follow her on Facebook at TheRealst8ofAffairs.
Real Estate
In real estate, trust the process
With rates coming down, we could see spring surge in buyers
The average 30-year mortgage rate is falling, little by slowly. With predictions that the rate will continue to adjust downward in the next year or two, there may be a busier spring market than we have seen in the last few year, especially for the DMV market, which has been reeling from thousands of layoffs this past year. The frenzied activity resulting from interest rates close to 3% for some borrowers will probably not occur; however, this spring could add up to be a few notches busier than the last.
What does this mean for buyers and sellers? Lender Tina Del Casale with Waterstone Mortgage says she has seen “low to mid 6’s as the average for conventional loans.” If rates continue downward into the 5% range, there may be more activity than we saw in the last year or two. This could release a little bit of pent up demand.
Many buyers will have found that for whatever reason, their current home is not meeting their needs. Sellers may want to finally take the plunge and put a for sale sign in the yard and online, now that they might find a more reasonable rate on their next home. This winter can be an opportunity to assess financial situations, home conditions, and optimize one’s chances to have a sale with more agreeable terms, or put one’s best foot forward in an offer. In addition to checking with a lender or favorite handy person, let’s review what sellers and buyers typically spend their energy negotiating while enjoying the lovely process called “going under contract”:
- Timelines – Sellers might want to have their house solidly under contract (papers signed, thumbs up from the lenders, all inspection items decided upon and settled) so that they can put an offer down on a new home, and then negotiate that timeline with the other sellers. Remember, making a move is not only about the buyer taking possession of a new home, but also about the sellers figuring out their situation as well.
- Sale Price – unfortunately for buyers, in the eyes of most sellers, “money talks.” So, in a non-competitive situation, a seller might be happy to just get one offer at a price that was within the desired range. As soon as another interested buyer enters the equation, it can become a little bit like RuPaul’s Drag Race, and one will have to lip sync for one’s life, honey! And only one buyer will get to hear the words, “condragulations!”
- Tone/Vibes/Energy in the Room – Remember: Human beings are emotional creatures. All of us have feelings. And all of us want to put energy into situations where we feel appreciated, where a level of self-awareness exists, and a sense that each side is trying one’s hardest to act in good faith. The best transactions I saw were where a little grace was the “grease on the wheels” of the transaction. Occasionally, a buyer had cold feet and wanted to see the unit a few more times before the settlement date, or a seller forgot to scrub the bathroom with a little extra elbow grease before the settlement date. Life happens; misunderstandings can occur. A wise therapist once said: “You don’t have to like it, but can you allow it?” The tone of one or both parties in the transaction can be what seals the deal, or results in one party exiting the contract. (In the case of the dirty bathroom, the seller left a check with the title company for the buyer to pay a housekeeper to come clean what they couldn’t.)
Joseph Hudson is a referral agent with Metro Referrals. He can be reached at 703-587-0597 or [email protected].
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