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Summer packs plenty of options for LGBT travelers

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After a long, miserable winter, many LGBT Washingtonians are ready to hit the road — or the runway, or the cruise ship — as the summer travel season heats up.

“Travel remains a very important need for gay people,” says Bob Witeck, CEO of Witeck-Combs Communications, which studies LGBT consumers.
 Even the economy isn’t enough to keep gay travelers housebound this time of year, he notes.

“What we keep finding over and over again is that gay people are not immune to what is going on in the economy, but what seems different is they are cutting back less on certain things, and travel is one of them,” Witeck says. “They desire to keep traveling more than other people.”

Witeck points to his firm’s poll conducted last April — when the recession was worse — to show that LGBT travelers weren’t cutting back on travel as much as their heterosexual counterparts even then.

Asked about airline travel for summer 2009, 62 percent of LGBT survey respondents said their travel plans would stay the same or increase, compared to only 36 percent of heterosexuals.

Overall travel budgets showed similar trends: 58 percent of LGBT respondents said they would spend the same amount or more, compared to 49 percent of heterosexuals.

“We are driven by destination and event travel too, whether we are talking about gay sporting events or gay parties,” Witeck notes.

In other words, gay travel is often motivated not only by places to visit, but by the desire to meet up with LGBT people from around the country or even around the world, and experience what it feels like to be in the majority.

Sure, we sometimes just go to the beach, but we also go to gay Memorial Day in Pensacola or Sizzle in Miami.

Whatever your travel preferences, there is likely an LGBT-inclusive option. Like getting back to nature? Visit a gay-owned campground, take a lesbian white water rafting trip, make the trek to the Michigan Womyn’s Music Festival, or even attend “Camp” Camp, a summer camp for gay adults.

Prefer hitting the seas? Many mainstream cruise lines have special gatherings for LGBT travelers, while gay and lesbian travel companies like Atlantis, Olivia, R Family Vacations and Sweet offer LGBT-exclusive trips.

And don’t forget Pride festivals as a destination, including San Francisco (June 26-27) and New York City (June 19-27).

Here is a rundown of LGBT events happening this summer:

JUNE

NewFest: New York LGBT Film Festival
, June 3-13 in New York City, 
www.newfest.org

Capital Pride, June 4-13 in Washington, D.C., 
www.capitalpride.org

Boston Pride Week
, June 4-13 in Boston, Mass., 
www.bostonpride.org

Key West Pride Fest, 
June 9-13 in Key West, Fla., 
www.gaykeywestfl.com

Indie Grrl Fest, 
June 11-13 in Mineral Bluff, Ga., 
www.indiegrrl.com/festivals

LA Pride
, June 11-13 in West Hollywood, Calif., 
http://lapride.org

Stonewall Street Festival & Parade
, June 19 in Wilton Manors, Fla., 
www.pgfl.net

Berlin Christopher Street Day, 
June 19 in Berlin, Germany, 
www.csd-berlin.de

Nashville Pride
, July 19 in Nashville, Tenn.
, www.nashvillepride.org

New York City Pride, 
June 19-27
June 27 march headliners: Lt. Dan Choi, 
Judy Shepard, Constance McMillen, 
www.nycpride.org

R First-Ever European Cruise
 For LGBT families, friends
, June 20-27
, www.rfamilyvacations.com

South Carolina Black Pride
, June 24-27 in Columbia, S.C.
, www.southcarolinablackpride.com

Emerald Coast PrideFest, 
June 26 in Panama City, Fla., 
www.emeraldcoastpride.org

Pride Houston
, June 26 in Houston, Texas
, www.pridehouston.org

San Francisco Pride, 
June 26-27, 
www.sfpride.org

St. Pete Pride Promenade & Festival, 
June 26 in St. Petersburg, Fla., 
www.stpetepride.org

Chicago Pride Parade
, June 27 in Chicago, Ill., 
www.chicagopridecalendar.org

Seattle Pride Fest, June 27 in Seattle, Wash., 
www.seattlepridefest.com

Windy City Black Gay Pride, 
June 30-July 5 in Chicago, Ill.
, www.windycityblackpride.org

JULY

National Women’s Music Festival, 
July 1-4 in Middleton, Wisc., 
www.wiaonline.org

Los Angeles Black Pride, 
July 1-5 in Los Angeles, Calif., 
www.atbla.com

EuroPride 2010
, July 8-18 in Warsaw, Poland, 
www.Europride2010.eu

QFest: Philadelphia International LGBT Film Fest, 
July 8-19 in Philadelphia, Pa., 
www.phillycinema.org

Provincetown Bear Week, 
July 10-18 in Provincetown, Mass., 
www.ptownbears.org

R Family Club Med Ixtapa, Mexico
 For LGBT families, friends, July 10-17, 
www.rfamilyvacations.com

Miami Beach Bruthaz, 
July 15-18 in Miami, Fla., 
www.miamibeachbruthaz.com

Bone Island Bare it All Weekend
, July 15-18 in Key West, Fla.
, 
www.nakedkeywest.com

Pride London, July 15-25 in London, England, 
www.Pridelondon.ca

San Diego LGBT Pride, 
July 17-18 in San Diego, Calif.
, www.Sandiegopride.org

Olivia’s Provence to Burgundy, France Cruise, 
July 20-27, 
www.olivia.com

Girl Splash
, July 21-25 in Provincetown, Mass. 
Headliners: Sandra Bernhard, Kate Clinton, 
Vickie Shaw, Jennie McNulty, 
www.provincetownforwomen.com

Atlantis Events’ Copenhagen to Amsterdam, 
European Gay Pride Cruise, 
July 29 – Aug. 8
, www.atlantisevents.com

LGBT Family Week
, July 31- Aug. 7 in Provincetown, Mass., 
www.familyequality.org

Sweet Hawaiian Islands Cruise
, July 31 – Aug. 7
, 
www.discoversweet.com

Gay Games 2010, 
July 31 – Aug. 7 in Cologne, Germany, 
www.games-cologne.de

The Pines Party
, July 31 in Fire Island Pines, NY, 
www.pinesparty.com

AUGUST

Michigan Womyn’s Music Festival
, Aug. 3-8, 
Performers include: Indigo Girls, Betty, Ferron, Bitch, Toshi Reagon, Sia, The Butchies, 
www.michfest.com

Amsterdam Gay Pride
, Aug. 5-8 in Amsterdam, Netherlands, 
www.amsterdamgaypride.nl

FamilyFest in Las Vegas
, Aug. 6-8 in Las Vegas, Nev., 
www.familyfestlasvegas.com

Queer West Arts & Culture Festival, Aug. 7 – Aug. 15 in West Toronto, Ontario, Canada
, www.queerwest.org

R Family Vacations Summer Reunion
, Western Caribbean Cruise
, Aug. 14-21, 
www.rfamilyvacations.com

Provincetown Carnival
, Aug. 15-21 in Provincetown, Mass.
, www.ptown.org

Montreal Pride
, Aug. 12-15 in Montreal, Canada, 
www.fiertemontrealpride.com

Sweet Salmon River Rafting
, Aug. 16-21 in Stanley, Idaho, 
Rafting and wilderness camping 
by lesbian travel company Sweet, 
www.discoversweet.com

Atlantis Events Cruise: Italy to Greece
, Aug. 16–24, 
www.atlantisevents.com

Tropical Heat in Key West, 
Aug. 19-22 in Key West, Fla., 
www.TropicalHeatKW.com

‘Camp’ Camp, 
Aug. 22-29 in Kezar Falls, Maine
 Summer camp for LGBT adults, 
www.campcamp.com

Atlantis Events: Greece to Spain Cruise, 
Aug. 24 – Sept. 2, 
www.atlantisevents.com

South Carolina Pride
, Aug. 25 – Sept. 6 in Columbia, S.C.
 Rally: Sept. 4, 
www.scpride.org

SEPTEMBER

New Orleans Southern Decadence, 
Sept. 1 – Sept. 6, 
www.southerndecadence.com

Splash Days in Austin
, Sept. 3-6 in Austin, Texas, 
www.splashdays.com

Sweet Cozumel Palace Resort
, Sept. 4- 11 in Cozumel, Mexico
, 
www.discoversweet.com

Key West Womenfest
, Sept. 7-12 in Key West, Fla., 
www.womenfest.com

Savannah Pride
, Sept. 11 in Savannah, Ga., 
www.Savpride.com

Key West Bear Fest
, Sept. 16-19 in Key West, Fla., 
www.keywestbearfest.com

North Carolina Pride
, Sept. 25 in Durham / Raleigh, N.C., 
www.ncpride.org

Folsom Street Fair, 
Sept. 26 in San Francisco, Calif., 
www.folsomstreetevents.org

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Exciting electrics: Hyundai Ioniq 5, Volkswagen ID.4

Why EVs still make sense

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Hyundai Ioniq 5

Electric-vehicle tax credits may have faded earlier this year, but EVs themselves are far from losing their spark. There are more charging stations than ever, battery ranges are longer and more realistic, and automakers have finally figured out that EVs don’t all need to look like geeky science projects or feel like failed beta tests. 

Just look at these two compact electrics, which are futuristic, fun and flexible enough for work or play.

HYUNDAI IONIQ 5

$37,000 to $48,000

Range: 245 to 318 miles

0 to 60 mph: 4.5 to 7.4 seconds

Cargo space: 26.3 cu. ft. 

PROS: Fast charging. Roomy cabin. Silky-smooth suspension. 

CONS: Wide turning radius. Rear wiper not on all trims. Price creep.

 After being introduced three years ago, what’s new for the latest Hyundai Ioniq 5? Mostly refinement. Charging is quicker, software is smarter and Hyundai continues to quietly listen to feedback, tweaking ride comfort and usability. Think of it as switching from messy eyeliner to a perfectly sharp wing.

Exterior styling remains one of this EV’s biggest conversation starters. Those pixel-inspired lights, crisp lines and slick hatchback-meets-crossover proportions exude refreshing confidence. There’s no trying to blend in, and that’s the point. Park this Hyundai anywhere and heads will turn. 

On the road, the Ioniq 5 prioritizes calm over chaos. Steering is light, the suspension smooths out rough pavement and acceleration feels brisk without being aggressive. Safety tech is plentiful and well-calibrated—adaptive cruise control, lane-centering, blind-spot monitoring—all working together without seeming like a nervous backseat driver. IOW, this ride is supportive, not clingy.

Inside, the user-friendly cabin shines. The flat floor and long wheelbase create a lounge-like atmosphere, with excellent legroom and airy visibility. Seats are well-bolstered and available with eco-friendly materials, and the sliding center console adds flexibility. Cargo space is generous, and the wide windshield makes city driving stress-free. Alas, the rear wiper is only available on select models. Overall, though, I appreciated how everything looks modern without feeling cold.

What makes this Hyundai special is its vibe. An EV that embraces individuality without shouting about it. 

Fun fact: The Ioniq’s ultra-fast charging can add hundreds of miles in under 20 minutes—perfect for those who hate waiting almost as much as they hate small talk on awkward first dates.

VOLKSWAGEN ID.4

$46,000 to $59,130

Range: 206 to 291 miles

0 to 60 mph: 4.4 to 7.7 seconds

Cargo space: 30.3 cu. ft. 

PROS: Sure handling. Decent range. Good storage. 

CONS: Body roll in curves. Fussy infotainment. No frunk.

The latest VW ID.4 focuses on polish. Software updates have fixed earlier frustrations, and overall drivability feels more cohesive. Less “learning curve” and more “hop in and go,” like a dependable bestie who doesn’t overthink things.

Styling-wise, this EV is intentionally inoffensive. Soft curves, friendly lighting and a familiar crossover shape make it approachable. While the ID.4 won’t turn heads like the Ioniq 5, that’s OK. It’s more akin to a classic outfit that always works—timeless, not trendy.

Driving the ID.4 is relaxed and predictable. This SUV prioritizes comfort over thrills, with a suspension tuned for daily commuting and long highway drives. Safety features are comprehensive and reassuring, including excellent lane assistance and collision-prevention systems. It’s the kind of car that quietly has your back, no drama required.

Inside, the ID.4 offers a calm, uncluttered cabin with good space for passengers and cargo alike. Rear-seat legroom is especially strong, making it a solid road-trip companion. The seats are plush, visibility is good and while the infotainment system isn’t the most intuitive, it’s improved enough to be more than tolerable.

The ID.4’s special sauce is balance. It doesn’t try to reinvent the wheel—it just electrifies it.

Fun fact: This is one of the most globally popular EVs, proving that sometimes being universally liked is a strength, not a personality flaw. Think, gold star gay who still surprises you.

Volkswagen ID.4
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Child- and pet-proofing your home for the holidays

It isn’t about being perfect but about being prepared

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Christmas trees are tempting for pets to climb so be sure to anchor them well. (Photo by sharomka/Bigstock)

The holidays are meant to be joyful, cozy, and full of laughter — but if you have young children or pets, they can also feel a little chaotic. Twinkling lights, shiny decorations, guests coming and going, and tables full of tempting food can turn your home into a wonderland of curiosity and mischief. The good news? With a little thoughtful planning, you can keep the holiday magic alive while making your home safer for everyone who lives there.

There’s something oddly comforting about movies where animals go to war with holiday decorations, turning carefully strung lights and perfectly placed ornaments into chaos. Whether it’s a mischievous dog tangled in tinsel or a curious cat launching a full-scale assault on a Christmas tree, these scenes tap into a universal experience for pet owners. 

The humor comes from the contrast: the human characters are trying to create warmth, tradition, and picture-perfect cheer, while the animals see the decorations as toys, obstacles, or personal enemies. The resulting destruction — trees tipping over, ornaments shattering, lights blinking out—feels exaggerated but relatable, especially during the already hectic holiday season. 

Let’s start with decorations because they tend to be the biggest attraction. Ornaments sparkle, garlands dangle, and everything seems designed to be touched, pulled, or tasted. If you have little ones or pets, consider placing your most fragile ornaments higher on the tree and using shatterproof options on the lower branches. Tinsel and ribbon may look festive, but they can be dangerous if swallowed, so skipping them or keeping them well out of reach is a simple way to reduce risk without sacrificing style.

Holiday lights are another favorite fascination. Before hanging them, take a few minutes to inspect each strand for frayed wires or broken bulbs. Secure cords along walls or behind furniture so they’re harder to grab or chew and unplug them when you leave the house or head to bed. Not only does this help prevent accidents, but it also gives you one less thing to worry about during a busy season.

The Christmas tree itself can become a focal point for exploration. Make sure it’s sturdy and well-anchored so it doesn’t tip if a toddler tugs on a branch or a pet decides to investigate. If you use a real tree, cover the water base since tree water can contain additives that aren’t safe if consumed. For artificial trees, keep an eye out for loose pieces or needles that could become choking hazards.

Food is a big part of holiday celebrations, and it’s also one of the most common sources of trouble. Many traditional treats—like chocolate, grapes, raisins, alcohol, and foods containing xylitol—are dangerous for pets. Keep plates and serving dishes up high, secure the trash can, and gently remind guests not to slip pets or kids “just a little bite” without checking first. For children, be mindful of hard candies, nuts, and small treats that could pose choking risks.

Candles and fireplaces add warmth and charm, but they deserve extra caution. Flameless candles are a wonderful alternative if you want ambiance without worry. If you do use real candles, place them well out of reach and never leave them unattended. Fireplaces should always have a sturdy screen or gate, especially with crawling babies or curious pets nearby.

Holiday gatherings bring wonderful energy into your home, but they can also create new challenges. Doors opening frequently make it easier for pets to slip outside, so consider setting up a quiet, comfortable space where they can relax during busy get-togethers. This can help reduce stress for them and give you peace of mind. For children, stair gates, locked cabinets, and clear boundaries can help prevent accidents when there’s extra excitement in the air.

New toys and gifts are another thing to watch closely. Packaging, twist ties, plastic wrap, and especially button batteries should be cleaned up promptly. These items are easy to overlook in the excitement of gift-opening but can be dangerous if swallowed. Taking a few minutes to tidy up as you go can make a big difference.

Lastly, try to keep routines as steady as possible. The holidays naturally disrupt schedules, but familiar mealtimes, naps, walks, and bedtime rituals help children and pets feel secure. A calmer household often means fewer accidents and a happier experience for everyone.

At the end of the day, child- and pet-proofing your home for the holidays isn’t about being perfect but about being prepared. A few small adjustments can help you relax, enjoy your guests, and focus on what truly matters: creating warm, happy memories with the ones you love. When your home feels safe, the holidays feel even sweeter.


Valerie M. Blake is a licensed Associate Broker in D.C., Maryland, and Virginia with RLAH @properties. Call or text her at 202-246-8602, email her at [email protected] or follow her on Facebook at TheRealst8ofAffairs.

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In real estate, trust the process

With rates coming down, we could see spring surge in buyers

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The average 30-year mortgage rate is falling, little by slowly. With predictions that the rate will continue to adjust downward in the next year or two, there may be a busier spring market than we have seen in the last few year, especially for the DMV market, which has been reeling from thousands of layoffs this past year.  The frenzied activity resulting from interest rates close to 3% for some borrowers will probably not occur; however, this spring could add up to be a few notches busier than the last. 

What does this mean for buyers and sellers? Lender Tina Del Casale with Waterstone Mortgage says she has seen “low to mid 6’s as the average for conventional loans.” If rates continue downward into the 5% range, there may be more activity than we saw in the last year or two. This could release a little bit of pent up demand.  

Many buyers will have found that for whatever reason, their current home is not meeting their needs. Sellers may want to finally take the plunge and put a for sale sign in the yard and online, now that they might find a more reasonable rate on their next home. This winter can be an opportunity to assess financial situations, home conditions, and optimize one’s chances to have a sale with more agreeable terms, or put one’s best foot forward in an offer. In addition to checking with a lender or favorite handy person, let’s review what sellers and buyers typically spend their energy negotiating while enjoying the lovely process called “going under contract”:

  • Timelines – Sellers might want to have their house solidly under contract (papers signed, thumbs up from the lenders, all inspection items decided upon and settled) so that they can put an offer down on a new home, and then negotiate that timeline with the other sellers.  Remember, making a move is not only about the buyer taking possession of a new home, but also about the sellers figuring out their situation as well. 
  • Sale Price – unfortunately for buyers, in the eyes of most sellers, “money talks.”  So, in a non-competitive situation, a seller might be happy to just get one offer at a price that was within the desired range. As soon as another interested buyer enters the equation, it can become a little bit like RuPaul’s Drag Race, and one will have to lip sync for one’s life, honey! And only one buyer will get to hear the words, condragulations!”
  • Tone/Vibes/Energy in the Room – Remember:  Human beings are emotional creatures. All of us have feelings. And all of us want to put energy into situations where we feel appreciated, where a level of self-awareness exists, and a sense that each side is trying one’s hardest to act in good faith.   The best transactions I saw were where a little grace was the “grease on the wheels” of the transaction.  Occasionally, a buyer had cold feet and wanted to see the unit a few more times before the settlement date, or a seller forgot to scrub the bathroom with a little extra elbow grease before the settlement date.  Life happens; misunderstandings can occur. A wise therapist once said: “You don’t have to like it, but can you allow it?” The tone of one or both parties in the transaction can be what seals the deal, or results in one party exiting the contract. (In the case of the dirty bathroom, the seller left a check with the title company for the buyer to pay a housekeeper to come clean what they couldn’t.) 


Joseph Hudson is a referral agent with Metro Referrals. He can be reached at 703-587-0597 or [email protected].

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