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Danny Williams dies at 62
Comedian, AIDS activist worked for RSVP Cruises

Danny Williams (Photo courtesy of Brian Moser)
Danny Williams, a well-known comedian and AIDS activist who entertained for more than 20 years on RSVP Cruises, died Nov. 4 at a Maryland hospital according to his husband, Brian Moser. Williams was 62 and succumbed to a staph infection though he had been struggling with health problems since 2012 when he went on disability.
Having lived many years in San Francisco, Williams, a hospital manager at UCSF Medical Center, started doing stand-up comedy in 1982 on his 30th birthday when he participated in an open mic event. For a time, he continued his day job and visited AIDS patients in the hospital while also participating in hundreds of charity fundraisers all over the country, Moser said. In 1986, he quit hospital work to focus on comedy full time.
In 1989, he started working for RSVP Cruises, known for their gay clientele. He entertained on board hosting costume parties, pool parties and gay spoofs of shows like “The Dating Game” and “Newlywed Game.”
Williams was born in New Orleans on Oct. 23, 1952 and spent part of his early years in Phoenix where his family relocated. He moved to San Francisco at age 18, Moser said. His religious parents sent him to a mental institution at 17 to try to “cure” him of being gay, an ordeal he later used in a one-man show called “1970.”
Williams and Moser met on an RSVP Cruise in 1995. The next year, Moser moved from Washington to San Francisco to be with Williams. They registered as domestic partners in 1998 and had additional ceremonies in 2003 and 2008 as California law allowed. They lived for a time in Palm Springs in 2000 and moved to the D.C. area in January this year where Williams continued his comedy work even performing at DAR Constitution Hall in March.
In addition to Moser, Williams is survived by his aunt Catherina Patricia Williams, and niece, Shannon Hedlund; sister-in-law Lisa Roja and her husband, Michael Roja; Moser’s sisters, Toni Roja and Diona Roja; and many nieces and nephews and extended family members. Williams is also survived by friends Tracey Brandon, Tom Harvey, Don Fenwick, Johnny and Jerry Hedges, Bob Grinchuck, and Reuel Olin.
A memorial service will be held in San Francisco Dec. 7 at 11 a.m. at Beatbox, 314 11th St. A reception will immediately follow at the 440 bar, 440 Castro St. Donations at the memorial and reception will benefit AEF and the Positive Resource Center, two of Williams’ favorite charities.
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Congratulations to Yadiel Meléndez, on their new role as Community Associate, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Meléndez is piloting a new role as a Community Associate at the Wanda Alston Foundation, where they support queer and trans young people in finding their footing, building independence, and experiencing a housing community where they are seen, valued, and affirmed. They are coming into this role with more than a decade of experience as a community organizer and operations specialist, supporting diverse communities through service, advocacy, and program coordination.
Previously they worked for Right Proper Brewing Shaw as a server and bartender and at Sephora, Washington, DC, and at FreshFarm, DC, in bilingual food access. They also worked freelance to build foundational structures for local queer BIPOC performance art coalitions, producing variety shows to curate space for marginalized performance artists in the community. They were a production manager for Haus of Hart Productions, a BIPOC centric performance art production. They also worked as field staff with the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention in Stafford, Va.
Meléndez is bilingual, Spanish and English. Their work is guided by a commitment to dignity, safety, and trauma-informed engagement, particularly within LGBTQ and BIPOC communities.
Congratulations also to Ben Rosen LICSW, on his new role as program director, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Rosen previously worked with Fountain House’s OnRamps program, helping to build a new, innovative outreach program for individuals considered chronically homeless, and living with serious mental illness, in the Times Square area of New York. Rosen is a Psychotherapist, having worked with SG Psychotherapy, and as the psychotherapist with the Nest Community Health Center (URAM).
Rosen has a B.F.A. in Theatre Arts: Musical Theatre, Minor in Psychology (Cum Laude) from Malloy University Conservatory; and his M.S.W. in Clinical Practice with Individuals, Families, and Groups, from The Silberman School of Social Work, Hunter College, N.Y. He is independently licensed in New York and Washington, D.C.
Rehoboth Beach
BLUF leather social set for April 10 in Rehoboth
Attendees encouraged to wear appropriate gear
Diego’s in Rehoboth Beach hosts a monthly leather happy hour. April’s edition is scheduled for Friday, April 10, 5-7 p.m. Attendees are encouraged to wear appropriate gear. The event is billed as an official event of BLUF, the free community group for men interested in leather. After happy hour, the attendees are encouraged to reconvene at Local Bootlegging Company for dinner, which allows cigar smoking. There’s no cover charge for either event.
District of Columbia
Celebrations of life planned for Sean Bartel
Two memorial events scheduled in D.C.
Two celebrations of life are planned for Sean Christopher Bartel, 48, who was found deceased on a hiking trail in Argentina on or around March 15. Bartel began his career as a television news reporter and news anchor at stations in Louisville, Ky., and Evansville, Ind., before serving as Senior Video Producer for the D.C.-based International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers union from 2013 to 2024.
A memorial gathering is planned for Friday, April 10, 11:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. at the IBEW International Office (900 7th St., N.W.), according to a statement by the DC Gay Flag Football League, where Bartel was a longtime member. A celebration of life is planned that same evening, 6-8 p.m. at Trade (1410 14th St., N.W.).
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