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Pastor ‘prays the gay away’ on ‘What Would You Do?”
customers’ reactions vary on the hidden camera show

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People dining at an Atlanta restaurant encountered the tough situation of a pastor attempting to “pray the gay away” on a teenage boy on the latest episode of “What Would You Do?”
ABC’s hidden-camera reality show placed two parents, a pastor and a teenage boy at a table near unsuspecting customers. The actors created a scenario where a teenage son had come out to his parents, and in an act of denial the parents bring in a pastor to solve their problem.
Reactions varied with many approaching the boy and offering him soothing words and advice. One woman said she agreed with the parents’ beliefs, but did not agree with bombarding him with a pastor in a restaurant. Another woman turns out to be a minister and takes time to pray with the parents.
At the end, a woman confronts the pastor himself and goes head-to-head to defend her belief that it’s not possible to “pray the gay away.”
Movies
The queer appeal of āThe Devil Wears Pradaā
Tying the feminist and LGBTQ rights movements together on screen
āWould we have fashion without gay people? Forgive me, would we have anything?ā
Those words, spoken by Miranda Priestley herself (actually by Meryl Streep, the 76-year-old acting icon who played her), may well sum up why āThe Devil Wears Pradaā has been a touchstone for queer audiences for two decades now.
Streep, who returns to big screens this weekend in the sequel to director David Frankelās beloved 2006 classic (succinctly titled āThe Devil Wears Prada 2ā), expressed this nugget of allyship in a recent interview with Out magazine, promoting the new filmās upcoming release. It would be hard, as a member of the queer community, to disagree with her assessment. The world of fashion has always been inextricably linked with queer culture, and the whims of taste that drive it are so frequently shaped by queer men ā and women, too ā who have adopted it as a means of expressing their sense of identity from the very first time they thumbed through a copy of Vogue.
At the same time, the notion that āPradaā has been claimed by the community as ācanonā simply because of the stereotypical idea that āgay people love fashionā feels like a lazy generalization. After all, fashion is about discernment ā about knowing, if you will, whether a sweater is simply blue or if it is cerulean, and, importantly, understanding why it matters ā and just because something ticks off a few basic boxes, that doesnāt mean it qualifies as āhaute couture.ā
So yes, the setting of the āDevil Wears Pradaā universe in what might be called āground zeroā of the fashion industry plays a part in piquing queer interest, but to assume our obsession with it is explained as simply as that is, frankly, insulting. The fashion angle catches our interest, but itās the story ā and, more to the point, the central characters (all of which return in the sequel) ā that reels us in.
First, thereās the ostensible heroine, Anne Hathawayās Andrea (or rather, Andy) Sachs, who falls into the world of fashion almost by accident. She’s a recent college grad who wants to be a journalist, to write for a publication that operates on a less-superficial level than Runway magazine, but fate (for lack of a better word) places her in the job that āa million girlsā would kill to have ā assistant to Streepās Miranda Priestly (based on Vogue editor Anna Wintour), who can determine an entire seasonās fashion trends merely by pursing her lips. Sheās idealistic, and dismissive of fashion in the overall scheme of human existence; sheās also stuck with a truly terrible boyfriend (Nate, played by Adrian Grenier) and trying to live up to the self-imposed expectations and ideals that have been foisted upon her since birth.
Itās clear from the start that none of this āfitsā her particularly well. More significantly, the natural grace with which she blossoms, from āsad girlā fashion-victim to the epitome of effortless style, tells us that she was meant to be exactly where she is, all along.
Then, of course, there is Nigel (Stanley Tucci), the ever-loyal art director and āGay Best Friendā thatās always there to provide just the right saving touch for both Miranda and Andy, helping to boost the former while gifting the latter with his own insight, ātough love,ā and impeccable taste. Never mind that heās a queer character played by a straight actor ā Tucci avoids stereotype and performative flamboyance by simply playing it with pure, universally relatable authenticity ā or that he ends up, at the end of the original film, betrayed by his goddess yet deferring his own dream to double down on his commitment to hers. Anyone who has ever been a gay man in the orbit of a remarkable woman knows exactly how he feels. Of course, they also probably know the precarious life of being a queer person in the workplace ā something that carries its own set of compromises, disappointments, and determinations to go above-and-beyond just to make oneself invaluable to the powers that be.
Which brings us to Emily (Emily Blunt), the cutthroat āfirst assistantā who does her level best to keep Andy in her place, who goes to extremes (āIām just one stomach flu away from my goal weightā) to be the āfavoriteā no matter how much cruelty she has to unleash on those who threaten her status. Some see her as merely an obstacle in the way of Andyās rise to success, an antagonist whose efforts to embody the āno mercyā persona of an ascendent girl boss only expose her own mediocrity. But for many, sheās just another victim doomed to fail and fall while watching others rise to the top. Queer, straight, or in-between, who among us hasnāt been there?
Finally, of course, there is Streepās Miranda Priestley, the presumed ādevilā of the title and the epitome of mercilessly autocratic authority, who has earned her status and her power by embracing the toxic modus operandiof a misogynistic hierarchy in order to conquer it. Yes, sheās more than just a little horrible, a strict gatekeeper who hones in on perceived weaknesses with all the vicious premeditation of a hawk with its eyes on a luckless rabbit, and it would be easy to despise her if she werenāt so damn fabulous. But thanks to the incomparable Oscar-nominated performance from Streep ā along with the glimpses we are afforded into her ārealā life along the way ā she is not just aspirational, but iconic. Stoic, imperturbable, always three steps ahead and never affording an inch of slack for any perceived shortcoming, thereās an undeniable excellence about her that inspires us to see beyond the obvious dysfunction of the āwork ethicā she represents; and sure, thereās enough emotionally detached enthusiasm in her torment/training of Andy to fuel countless volumes of erotic lesbian fan-fiction (Google āMirAndy,ā if you dare), but when we eventually recognize that she might just be the ultimate āfashion victimā of them all, it doesnāt just cut us to the core ā it strikes a chord that should be universally recognizable to anyone who has had to make their own ādeal with the devilā in order to claim agency in their own lives. In this way, āThe Devil Wears Pradaā comes closer than probably any mainstream film to tying the feminist and queer rights movements together in common cause.
In any case, each character, in their way, can easily be tied to a facet of queer identity ā and indeed, to the identity of anyone who must work twice (or more) as hard as a straight white Christian male to succeed. We can see ourselves reflected in all of them ā and whether we aspire to be Miranda (I mean, who wouldnāt?), identify with Andy, recognize our worst traits in Emily, or empathize with Nigel and his deferential suffering, thereās something in āThe Devil Wears Pradaā that resonates with everyone.
Now letās see if the sequel can say the same.
Lesbifriends Travel will host āQueer Night Out: DC Power FC Gameā on Wednesday May 6 at 7 p.m. at Audi Field.
This will be a fun night out as DC Power FC takes the field at Audi Field, kicking off with a happy hour meetup in Navy Yard before the group walks to the stadium together. Lesbifriends and Travel group will be seated together in the stands, making it easy to connect, cheer, and enjoy the game with people who just feel like your people.
More details are available on Eventbrite.
Friday, May 1
Go Gay DC will host āFirst Friday LGBTQ+ Community Socialā at 7 p.m. at Silver Diner Ballston. This is a chance to relax, make new friends, and enjoy happy hour specials at this classic retro venue. Attendance is free and more details are available on Eventbrite.Ā
āIllusions The Drag Queen Show Washington, D.C.ā will be at 7 p.m. at 2323 18th St., N.W. Come see this amazing D.C. drag show and laugh all night long while being amazed by the stellar performances in tribute to some of your old-time favorite classics as well as the latest pop favorites. Come see the likes of Madonna, Cher, Tina Turner, Whitney Houston, Joan Rivers, Phyllis Diller, BeyoncĆ©, Pink, and many more. Tickets are $12.97 and are available on Eventbrite.Ā
Saturday, May 2
Go Gay DC will host āLGBTQ+ Community Brunchā at 11:00a.m. at Freddieās Beach Bar & Restaurant. This fun weekly event brings the DMV area LGBTQ+ community, including allies, together for delicious food and conversation.Ā Attendance is free and more details are available on Eventbrite.
Drag Queen Sip and Paint Washington DC will be at 4 p.m. at Town Tavern DC. This event combines the joy of painting with the lively energy of a drag queen, offering an hour and a half of fun, creativity, and entertainment. Participants paint a canvas while enjoying cocktails, all under the guidance of a glamorous drag queen host. Tickets are $47.19 and are available on Eventbrite.Ā
Monday, May 4
āCenter Aging: Monday Coffee Klatchā will be at 10 a.m. on Zoom. This is a social hour for older LGBTQ+ adults. Guests are encouraged to bring a beverage of choice. For more information, contact Adam ([email protected]).
Tuesday, May 5
Universal Pride Meeting will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This group seeks to support, educate, empower, and create change for people with disabilities. For more details, email [email protected].Ā Ā Ā
Wednesday, May 6
Job Club will be at 6 p.m. on Zoom upon request. This is a weekly job support program to help job entrants and seekers, including the long-term unemployed, improve self-confidence, motivation, resilience and productivity for effective job searches and networking ā allowing participants to move away from being merely āapplicantsā toward being ācandidates.ā For more information, email [email protected] or visit thedccenter.org/careers.
Center Aging Womenās Social and Discussion Group will be at 6 p.m. on Zoom. This group is a place where older LGBTQ+ women can meet and socialize with one another. There will be discussion, activities, and a chance for guests to share what they want future events to include. For more information, email [email protected].Ā
Thursday, May 7
The DC Centerās Fresh Produce Program will be held all day at the DC Center for the LGBT Community. People will be informed on Wednesday at 5 p.m. if they are picked to receive a produce box. No proof of residency or income is required. For more information, email [email protected] or call 202-682-2245.Ā
Virtual Yoga Class will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This free weekly class is a combination of yoga, breath work and meditation that allows LGBTQ+ community members to continue their healing journey with somatic and mindfulness practices. For more details, visit the DC Centerās website.Ā Ā
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