Arts & Entertainment
Pastor ‘prays the gay away’ on ‘What Would You Do?”
customers’ reactions vary on the hidden camera show

(Screenshot via YouTube)
People dining at an Atlanta restaurant encountered the tough situation of a pastor attempting to “pray the gay away” on a teenage boy on the latest episode of “What Would You Do?”
ABC’s hidden-camera reality show placed two parents, a pastor and a teenage boy at a table near unsuspecting customers. The actors created a scenario where a teenage son had come out to his parents, and in an act of denial the parents bring in a pastor to solve their problem.
Reactions varied with many approaching the boy and offering him soothing words and advice. One woman said she agreed with the parents’ beliefs, but did not agree with bombarding him with a pastor in a restaurant. Another woman turns out to be a minister and takes time to pray with the parents.
At the end, a woman confronts the pastor himself and goes head-to-head to defend her belief that it’s not possible to “pray the gay away.”
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Why Michelle Visage needs you to get āPrEP Wiseā
āRuPaulās Drag Race’ judge speaks about new ViiV Healthcare campaign
If you ask an LGBTQ person what Michelle Visage is known for, youāre likely to get a few similar answers. Most people will say that they know her as the co-judge on “RuPaulās Drag Race,” with the woman serving looks (and scathing critiques) for more than a decade on this seminal program. Others may bring up her time awing audiences on the West End, or her initial star turn in the hit girl group Seduction. There are a few answers you may get when asking about Michelle Visage, but thereās one part of the performerās career that not enough people bring up today: her advocacy.
Before the record deals and hit TV shows, Michelle Visage was a tough teenager from New Jersey. A girl who knew she was meant for fame but was still figuring out how to get there. Eventually, the search for stardom brought her to 1980s New York, a thriving home of queer nightlife that taught Visage how her voice could be used to fight against hatred. And while she flexes that skill every day as a fierce advocate, sheās excited to be louder than ever through ViiV Healthcareās new āPrEP Wisdom Campaign.ā
Michelle Visage sat down with the Los Angeles Blade to discuss this campaign and how it feels to speak up about this important issue. But before we could get to the present, she stressed that if people wanted to know about her current work, they first had to understand how it all began.
Visage detailed her youth in New Jersey, her no-nonsense parents, and the many times she snuck into nightclubs hoping to be ādiscovered.ā It was in these clubs that she found the thriving ballroom scene of 1980s New York, saying, āI felt like Dorothy [from the ‘Wizard of Oz’] when she clicked her heels! [Except] Dorothy clicked her heels three times, and she ended up in Kansas ā I ended up on Christopher Street with 30 or 40 of the weirdest, craziest looking misfits Iād ever seen in my life.ā Michelle smiled widely as she remembered those early moments. āI was like, āOh my god … I think I found my people.ā
āI met Willie Ninja and Caesar Ninja Valentino, and they took me in as one of their own and started teaching me how to vogue. And that’s how life began for me in the ballroom!ā She began to walk as a member of the House of Valentino ā specifically Face, Body, and Femme Vogue ā and found a second home amidst this thriving subculture of marginalized artists. āWhen I didn’t have anybody or a group or a clique to speak of, the queer scene in New York City took me in as one of theirs ā and I became āMichelle Magnifique.āā
Through this community, Visage got to see the birth of our modern LGBTQ rights movement ā as well as just how much the AIDS crisis would come to terrorize these people sheād begun to call her family.
āBecause I was so deep in this scene, I was affected greatly by the AIDS crisis and the lack of any kind of support from anything around us,ā said Michelle, speaking candidly about her many days spent at the bedsides of those suffering from this disease, acting as a source of comfort for folks whose blood family had abandoned them long ago. āI was standing by their side and holding their hand and being with them … I didn’t know what I was doing. But I knew that I needed to show up, and I knew that I needed to be there.ā
Even when her career took Michelle from New York, she always carried those memories of standing by community members when nobody else would. This, when paired with her massive singing and acting talents, is what made her one of pop cultureās staunchest advocates for LGBTQ rights in the 90s and early 2000s. This earned her a massive queer following, and today, itās what makes her the perfect partner for ViiVās new PrEP Wisdom Campaign.
āViiv Healthcare is the only pharmaceutical company solely focused on preventing, treating, and ultimately curing HIV,ā Michelle explained. āTheir goal is to help end the HIV epidemic for all ā and that, to me, is music to my ears.ā
Itās a goal thatās only become more important since the company was founded back in 2009. The only large-scale pharmaceutical company focused on ending the HIV epidemic, ViiV, not only fights cultural stigma but also saves thousands of lives daily by connecting folks to the treatment and prevention resources they need. Especially as weāre seeing numerous states ā including California ā begin to slash HIV funding, their work through campaigns like this one is becoming more important than ever.
āThe PrEP Wisdom Campaign, first and foremost, is intended to encourage conversations between people who could benefit from PrEP, and [why they should] talk to their doctors to help determine which injectable PrEP might be right for them,ā said Visage. She discussed how the campaign is information-oriented, with ViiV developing easy-to-understand pathways for folks to become more aware of injectable PrEP services as well as general HIV/AIDS-related resources.
āMore than 2 million Americans could benefit from PrEP to help prevent HIV [according to the] CDC ā yet only 25 percent of them are currently using it!ā She understands that there were many things holding people back from getting PrEP, ranging from cultural stigma to discriminatory doctors to a lack of awareness that these resources even exist. But she emphasizes that people cannot let social judgment hold them back from their health and safety! āIf you’re not clicking with your health care provider, please find a new one. You don’t have to settle … there are plenty of people to choose from. Plenty of healthcare providers, plenty of doctors who want to work with you, who want to give you the information about PrEP, who want you to be on PrEP so you are protected.ā
āListen, we have come a long way since I started [back in] 1986], and we’ve got so much further to go,ā Visage said, reflecting on her lifelong role as an HIV advocate, first as a teenager, and now as an acclaimed performer. But while she may have grown since then, she still carries the commitment to fighting against injustice that the queer community of 80s New York instilled in her. āI will fight forever on this platform. [Discrimination hasnāt] changed, so I don’t plan on changing.ā
Michelle Visage knows that change doesnāt happen by being silent ā it happens by staying informed and keeping yourself healthy so that you can speak out for what you know is right. In honor of the many lives she fought for in 1980s New York, Visage wants to help as many people as she can today get the PrEP resources they need. And through her new PrEP Wisdom campaign with ViiV, sheās excited to do exactly that.
Hagerstown Hopes held the Hagerstown Pride Festival outside Hub City Brewery on Saturday, May 30.
(Washington Blade photos by Landon Shackelford)













Youāre all geared up.
Youāve got your best parade-walking shoes, your coolest tee, your most-comfortable shorts, and a rainbow flag to carry. Youāre set for Pride, but before you go, try one of these great new books about LGBTQ life and history.
After the parade, where will you end up? A place to talk your experience over, to re-hash things for the next parade? Then you may need āThe Lesbian Bar Chronicles: The Living History and Hopeful Future of Americaās Dyke Dives and Sapphic Spacesā by Rachel Karp (Beacon Press, $29.95).
Lesbian bars, says Karp, are more than just places to drink. Theyāre also places to find community, and to organize. For many, she says, they are āsanctuaries,ā as they have been for at least a century, and this book introduces you to some of the people who run the establishments, the things they do to support their patrons, and the 100-year-plus bravery that it took to own, run, and enter a lesbian bar.
If you had to name a gay icon, there are probably quite a few who come to mind. So read āWithout Prejudice: My Life as a Gay Judgeā by Harvey Brownstone (ECW Press, $21.95) and add another name to your list.
This memoir, written by Canadaās first openly gay judge, takes readers from Brownstoneās childhood to his life as a lawyer, then to his work within the justice system in Ontario, and beyond, to his current career. This is a surprising, informative book that gives you an idea what gay life is like, north of our uppermost borders, then and now.
Pride is a celebration, an event, but it also demands a peek backwards, and in āThe LGBTQ Almanac: 500 Years of Queer Culture in American Historyā by Deborah G. Felder (Visible Ink Press, $39.95), youāll get a wide look at the pioneers, allies, policy, and gay life over the course of the last five centuries. Want to know more about religion in the gay community? Itās in here, along with celebrities, presidents, science, business, and more. This is the kind of book that settles bets. Itās one you want to have in any room of your home because itās comprehensive and perfectly browse-able for all of its 600-plus pages.
And finally, hereās a book to read and think about: āNo Fats No Fems: A Guide to Queer Empathy and Unpacking Prejudiceā by Max Hovey (HarperOne, $19.99). How do you eliminate hateful, hurtful words, aimed at gay people ā by gay people? What kind of stereotypes do we carry, unintentionally? This book takes those things out into the daylight by talking honestly and thoughtfully about them, as well as other issues. Itās a book to have when doubts creep in, when you need a new way of thinking or a different direction, or when you just want something different to read.
And if these great books arenāt enough, head to your favorite bookstore or library and ask for books that you can read before Pride or after. And happy Pride!
