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Husband caught with gay lover on ‘What Would You Do?’
diners were faced with decisions beyond the menu

(Screenshot via YouTube)
Customers in an Atlanta barbecue restaurant had to choose whether to destroy a four-year marriage because of a cheating husband’s secret affair with a gay lover on the latest episode of “What Would You Do?” on ABC.
Actors depicting a husband and wife were seated near unsuspecting diners to pretend that it was their anniversary. After appearing like a happy couple, the wife gets up and leaves the table. While she’s gone another man enters the restaurant and kisses the husband making it clear that they are in a relationship. The husband tells the man he needs to go because his wife is there and when the wife returns she has no idea that her husband is having a secret affair.
Reactions to the situation were varied. No one appeared homophobic about the affair but were more interested that there was an affair at all.
One woman decides to approach the husband and convince him to tell his wife he’s cheating. Another man keeps quiet, but can’t help laughing to himself. A husband and wife are shocked by the situation, but decide to not get involved.
One woman tries to get the husband to reveal his secret saying he owes it to his wife and to his boyfriend if he really loves him. When the husband still won’t share, the woman tells the wife he is having an affair with a man.
Watch how it plays out below.
Movies
āPillionā director on bikers, BDSM, and importance of being seen
āWe put a lot of thought and effort into how we depicted the communityā
One of the highlights of last weekās Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend came not on the dance floor, but in a movie theater. In a new partnership, the independent film studio A24 brought its leather-clad new film āPillionā ā not yet in wide release ā to D.C. for special showings for the MAL crowd.
āPillion,ā a term for the motorcycle passenger seated behind the driver, delves into the complicated relationship between an introverted, quiet Londoner Colin (Harry Melling) who embarks on a journey finding himself while entering into a sub relationship with a new Dom named Ray (Alexander SkarsgĆ„rd) he meets during Christmas.
Itās writer-director Harry Lightonās feature-length debut, sharing SkarsgĆ„rdās impossibly toned physique with both Colin and audiences, and offering an eye into the BDSM community by an LGBTQ director for the general public. This from a studio that also just released a movie about ping-pong starring TimothĆ©e Chalamet.
The Washington Blade was able to catch a screening at Regal Gallery Place on Jan. 18, hosted by MAL and Gary Wasdin, executive director, Leather Archives & Museum. The Blade also had a chance to interview Lighton about the experience.
Blade: How did you get involved in this film, especially as this is your directorial debut?
Lighton: I was sent āBox Hill,ā the novel on which āPillionā is based, by Eva Yates (the head of film at the BBC). Iād spent years working on a sumo film set in Japan, and then suddenly that became impossible due to the pandemic so I was miserable. And then I read this book that I found bracing, funny, moving. All the good things.
Blade: Are you involved with the leather community? Did you draw on any personal experiences or make connections with the community?
Lighton: I’m involved in the wrestling scene but not the leather community. So I spent lots of time with people who are [in the community] during the writing process, and then ended up casting a bunch of them as bikers and pillions in the film. They were incredibly generous to myself, Harry, and Alex with their knowledge and experiences. We have them to thank for lending credibility to the world on screen.
Blade: What kind of reception have you received at film festivals and with the LGBTQ community? Was it what you imagined?
Lighton: Obviously not everyone’s going to like the film ā for some people it’ll be too explicit, for some not explicit enough; some people will feel seen, some won’t. But the general reaction’s been extremely positive so far. If I’m honest I thought it would divide opinion more.
Blade: How was it working with the actors?
Lighton: I had a lot of respect for both of them going in, and wondered if that might make me a bit too deferential, a bit too Colin-coded. But besides being extremely talented, they’re both lovely. And committed. And fun! With my shorts I always felt a bit out of my depth working with actors, but here I discovered a real love for it.
Blade: Turning to the plot, the parents are pretty supportive, especially Colin’s dad. How did you decide to draw his parents? What does it mean to show parents with nuanced viewpoints?
Lighton: I wanted to reverse the typical parent-child dynamic in queer film, where parents go from rejecting to accepting their queer kid. We meet Colinās parents actively pushing him toward a gay relationship. But when the relationship he lands on doesnāt meet her definition of healthy, his mum withdraws her acceptance. I wanted to ask: Are they projecting their romantic model onto their son, or do they have a legitimate concern for his wellbeing with Ray?
Blade: How did you decide to place the setting?
Lighton: Practically, we needed somewhere within reach of London. But I liked the idea that Colin, who lives life on the periphery, grew up on the edge of the capital. One of our producers, Lee Groombridge, grew up in and around Bromley and showed me all the spots. I loved the atmosphere on the high street, the markets, and the contrast between the high street and the idyllic park. And I thought it would be a funny place for Alexander SkarsgƄrd to have settled.
Blade: What do you hope audiences take away from the film?
Lighton: Thereās no one message. Different people will take different things from it. Personally, Colin inspires me to jump off cliffs, to push beyond my comfort zone because that’s where life begins. From Ray I get the courage to be ugly, to fly in the face of social convention if it doesnāt make you happy or itās not built for you.
Blade: Talk about the soundtrack ā especially the Tiffany “I Think Weāre Alone Now” song.
Lighton: SkarsgĆ„rdās Ray has the surface masc-ness that comes with looking like a Viking. I wanted to combine that with details that indicate he’s been a part of gay culture and āI Think We’re Alone Nowā is nothing if not a camp classic.
Blade: What does it mean to you to show the film at MAL?
Lighton: When I told the bikers from the film I was coming to MAL they practically wet themselves with excitement. We put a lot of thought and effort into how we depicted the community in the film and thereās so much variety, no two Masters or subs are the same, but seeing a theater full of men in leather laugh, cry, and clap for the film meant the world.
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Alexander SkarsgĆ„rd describes āPillionā in 3 words: lube, sweat, leather
Highly anticipated film a refreshingly loving look at Dom-sub life
Whether youāve seen him in popular HBO series like āTrue Blood,ā āSuccession,ā and āBig Little Lies,ā the dynamic Swedish actor Alexander SkarsgĆ„rd has that smoldering gaze that immediately draws viewers in.
Following in the footsteps of his father Stellan, (who just won the Golden Globe for āSentimental Valueā) the Golden Globe, Emmy, and SAG winner SkarsgĆ„rd continues to be an actor who is fearless in the roles he takes on.
That courageousness is evident in SkarsgĆ„rdās latest film, the BDSM black comedy āPillion,āwhich he also executive produces. He plays Ray, the handsome, hyper-dominant leader of a gay bike gang. The film was written and directed by Harry Lighton, and is based on the 2020 novel āBox Hill,ā by Adam Mars-Jones.Ā
āThis was a small film by a first time filmmaker and it wasn’t financed when I read it,ā SkarsgĆ„rd told journalists at a recent awards news conference. āAnd I felt that, if I could help in any small way of getting it financed, I wanted to, because I thought it was such an incredible screenplay and I believe in Harry Lighton so much as a filmmaker. And it felt tonally unlike anything I’d ever read. It was such an exciting, surprising read.ā
SkarsgĆ„rd was blown away by the quality of the unconventional script. āWhen I heard BDSM relationship, biker culture, I expected something very different. I didn’t expect it to have so much sweetness and tenderness and awkwardness.ā
For the sex scenes and nudity with co-star, Harry Melling ā who excels in his portrayal as Rayās submissive Colin ā SkarsgĆ„rd talked very early on with Lighton about how he wanted to shoot those scenes, and why they were in the film.
āI often find sex scenes quite boring in movies because a lot of the tension is in the drama leading up to two people hooking up, or several people hooking up, as in our movie. But what I really enjoyed about these scenes ā they are all pivotal moments in Colinās journey and his development. It’s the first time he gets a blowjob. It’s the first time he has sex. It’s the first time he has an orgasm. And these are pivotal moments for him, so they mean a lot. And that made those scenes impactful and important.ā
SkarsgĆ„rd was happy that Lightonās script didnāt have gratuitous scenes that shock for the sake of just shocking. āI really appreciated that because I find that when this subculture is portrayed, it’s often dangerous and crazy and wild and something like transgressive.ā
He continued: āI really love that Harry wanted it to feel real. It can be sexy and intense, but also quite loving and sweet. And you can have an orgy in the woods, rub up against a Sunday roast with the family. And that kind of feels real.ā
One of the obstacles SkarsgĆ„rd had to work with was Rayās emotionally distant personality.
āRay is so enigmatic throughout the film and you obviously never find out anything about him, his past. He doesn’t reveal much. He doesn’t expose himself. And that was a challenge to try to make the character interesting, because that could easily feel quite flatā¦That was something that I thought quite a lot about in pre productionā¦there are no big dramatic shifts in his arc.ā
For the film, Lighton consulted the GMBCC, the UKās largest LGBT+ biker club, attending their annual meetup at which 80 riders were present.
āWorking with these guys was extraordinary and it brought so much texture and richness to the film to have them present,ā said SkarsgĆ„rd. āThey were incredibly sweet and guiding with us ā I canāt imagine making this movie without them. Iād go on a road trip with them anytime.ā
Added SkarsgĆ„rd: āTo sum up āPillionā in three words: lube, sweat, and leather. I hope people will connect with Colin and his journey, and come to understand the nuance and complexity of his bond with Ray.ā
This year is shaping up to be a busy one for SkarsgĆ„rd. āPillionā premieres in select cities on Feb. 6 and then moves into wide release on Feb. 20. After that for SkarsgĆ„rd is a role in queer ally Charli XCXās mockumentary, āThe Moment,ā which premieres at the Sundance Film Festival. HIs sci-fi comedy series, Apple TVās āMurderbot,ā which he also executive produces, will begin filming its second season. And this weekend, he hosts āSaturday Night Live.ā
The LGBTQ youth services organization SMYAL held its annual fundraiser, ‘SMYAL for the New Year,’ at Shakiki (2012 9th Street, N.W.) on Thursday, Jan. 22.
(Washington Blade photos by Michael Key)













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