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Husband caught with gay lover on ‘What Would You Do?’
diners were faced with decisions beyond the menu

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Customers in an Atlanta barbecue restaurant had to choose whether to destroy a four-year marriage because of a cheating husband’s secret affair with a gay lover on the latest episode of “What Would You Do?” on ABC.
Actors depicting a husband and wife were seated near unsuspecting diners to pretend that it was their anniversary. After appearing like a happy couple, the wife gets up and leaves the table. While she’s gone another man enters the restaurant and kisses the husband making it clear that they are in a relationship. The husband tells the man he needs to go because his wife is there and when the wife returns she has no idea that her husband is having a secret affair.
Reactions to the situation were varied. No one appeared homophobic about the affair but were more interested that there was an affair at all.
One woman decides to approach the husband and convince him to tell his wife he’s cheating. Another man keeps quiet, but can’t help laughing to himself. A husband and wife are shocked by the situation, but decide to not get involved.
One woman tries to get the husband to reveal his secret saying he owes it to his wife and to his boyfriend if he really loves him. When the husband still won’t share, the woman tells the wife he is having an affair with a man.
Watch how it plays out below.
History
Juliusā Bar āsip-inā laid groundwork for Stonewall
Tuesday marked 60 years since four gay activists held protest
While Stonewall is widely considered the birthplace of the modern LGBTQ rights movement in the U.S., a lesser-known protest inside a Greenwich Village bar three years earlier helped lay critical groundwork for what would follow.
Tuesday marked 60 years since the Julius’ Bar “sip in.”
On April 21, 1966, four gay rights activists ā Dick Leitsch, Craig Rodwell, John Timmons, and later Randy Wicker ā walked into Juliusā Bar and staged what would become known as a āsip-inā to challenge state liquor regulations on serving alcoholic beverages to gay men ā with a drink.
Modeled after the sit-ins that challenged racial segregation across the American South, the protest was designed to confront discriminatory practices targeting LGBTQ patrons in public spaces.
At the time, the Mattachine Society ā one of the countryās earliest gay rights groups ā was actively pushing back against policies enforced by the New York State Liquor Authority. One of those policies could have resulted in the loss of liquor licenses for serving known or suspected gay men and lesbians. The participants had visited multiple establishments, openly identified themselves as homosexual, and requested a drink ā with the anticipation of being denied.
Their final stop was Juliusā, where reporters and a photographer had gathered to document the moment. When Leitsch declared their identity, the bartender covered their glasses and refused service, reportedly saying, āI think itās against the law.ā The next day, the New York Times ran a story with the headline, ā3 Deviates Invite Exclusion by Bars,ā cementing the moment in the public record.
Though initially framed with disrespect ā the term āsip-inā itself was coined as a play on civil rights protests ā the action marked a turning point. It brought national attention to the systemic discrimination LGBTQ people faced and helped catalyze changes in how liquor laws were enforced. In the years that followed, the protest contributed to the emergence of licensed, more openly gay-friendly bars, which became central social and organizing spaces for LGBTQ communities.
The Washington Blade originally covered when the bar was officially added to the National Park Service’s National Register of Historic Places in 2016.
Today, historians and advocates increasingly recognize the “sip-in” as a key pre-Stonewall milestone. According to the New York City LGBTQ Historic Sites Project, the protest not only increased visibility of the early LGBTQ rights movement but also exposed widespread surveillance and entrapment tactics used against the community.
Marking the 60th anniversary of the event, commemorations have taken place in New York and across the country. Reflecting on its enduring legacy, Amanda Davis, executive director of the NYC LGBTQ Historic Sites Project, spoke about the event.
āJuliusā Bar is a place you can visit and viscerally connect with history,ā said Davis. āWeāre thrilled to have solidarity locations across the country join us in commemorating the ‘sip-in’ās 60th anniversary and the queer communityās First Amendment right to peaceably assemble.ā
For current stewards of the historic bar, the responsibility of preserving that legacy remains front of mind.
āItās a privilege and a responsibility to be the steward of a place so important to American and LGBTQ history,ā said current owner of Juliusā Bar, Helen Buford. āThe events of the 1966 Sip-In here at Juliusā resonated across the country and inspired countless others to stand proud for their rights.ā
The timing couldnāt have come at a more important moment, Kymn Goldstein, executive director of the June L. Mazer Lesbian Archives, explained.
āAt a time when our community faces renewed challenges, coming together in resilience and solidarity reminds us of the power in our collective resistance,ā Goldstein said.
The American Civil Liberties Union, an organization dedicated to defending rights and liberties guaranteed by the Constitution, is currently tracking 519 anti-LGBTQ bills across the U.S. The majority are targeted at restricting transgender rights ā particularly related to gender-affirming care, sports participation, and the use of public bathrooms.
Some additional groups and bars that held their own āsip-inā as solidarity events to uplift this historic milestone are from across the country include:
Alice Austen House at Steinyās Pub, Staten Island, N.Y.
Bellows Falls Pride Committee at PKās Irish Pub, Bellows Falls, Vt.
Brick Road Coffee, Mesa, Ariz.
Brick Road Coffee, Tempe, Ariz.
Dick Leitschās Family at Old Louisville Brewery, Louisville, Ky.
The Faerie Playhouse & LGBT+ Archives Project of Louisiana at Le Cabaret, New Orleans
Harlem Pride & John Reddick at LāArtista Italian Kitchen & Bar, New York
JOYR!DE KiKi at Loafers Cocktail Bar, New York
Matthew Lawrence & Jason Tranchida / Headmaster at Deadbeats Bar, Providence, R.I.
Mazer Lesbian Archives at Alanaās Coffee, Los Angeles
New Hope Celebrates at The Club Room, New Hope, Pa.
Queer Memory Project at the University of Evansville Multicultural Student Commons / Ridgway University Center, Evansville, Ind.
Sandy Jackās Bar, Brooklyn, N.Y.
St. Louis LGBT History Project at Just John Club, St. Louis
The LGBTQ+ Victory Fund National Champagne Brunch was held at Salamander Washington DC on Sunday, April 19. Gov. Andy Beshear (D-Ky.) was presented with the Allyship Award.
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The umbrella LGBTQ sports organization Team D.C. held its annual Night of Champions Gala at the Georgetown Marriott on Saturday, April 18. Team D.C. presented scholarships to local student athletes and presented awards to Adam Peck, Manuel Montelongo (a.k.a. Mari Con Carne), Dr. Sara Varghai, Dan Martin and the Centaur Motorcycle Club. Sean Bartel was posthumously honored withĀ the Most Valuable Person Award.
(Washington Blade photos by Michael Key)















