Arts & Entertainment
Husband caught with gay lover on ‘What Would You Do?’
diners were faced with decisions beyond the menu

(Screenshot via YouTube)
Customers in an Atlanta barbecue restaurant had to choose whether to destroy a four-year marriage because of a cheating husband’s secret affair with a gay lover on the latest episode of “What Would You Do?” on ABC.
Actors depicting a husband and wife were seated near unsuspecting diners to pretend that it was their anniversary. After appearing like a happy couple, the wife gets up and leaves the table. While she’s gone another man enters the restaurant and kisses the husband making it clear that they are in a relationship. The husband tells the man he needs to go because his wife is there and when the wife returns she has no idea that her husband is having a secret affair.
Reactions to the situation were varied. No one appeared homophobic about the affair but were more interested that there was an affair at all.
One woman decides to approach the husband and convince him to tell his wife he’s cheating. Another man keeps quiet, but can’t help laughing to himself. A husband and wife are shocked by the situation, but decide to not get involved.
One woman tries to get the husband to reveal his secret saying he owes it to his wife and to his boyfriend if he really loves him. When the husband still won’t share, the woman tells the wife he is having an affair with a man.
Watch how it plays out below.
Friday, Feb. 20
Center Aging Monthly Luncheon with Yoga will be at noon at the D.C. LGBTQ+ Community Center. Email Mac at [email protected] if you require ASL interpreter assistance, have any dietary restrictions, or questions about this event.
Trans and Genderqueer Game Night will be at 7 p.m. at the D.C. Center. This will be a relaxing, laid-back evening of games and fun. All are welcome! Weāll have card and board games on hand. Feel free to bring your own games to share. For more details, visit the Centerās website.Ā
Go Gay DC will host āFirst Friday LGBTQ+ Community Socialā at 7 p.m. at Hotel Zena. This is a chance to relax, make new friends, and enjoy happy hour specials at this classic retro venue. Attendance is free and more details are available on Eventbrite.Ā
Saturday, Feb. 21
Go Gay DC will host āLGBTQ+ Community Brunchā at 11 a.m. at Freddieās Beach Bar & Restaurant. This fun weekly event brings the DMV area LGBTQ community, including allies, together for delicious food and conversation.Ā Attendance is free and more details are available on Eventbrite.
LGBTQ People of Color will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This peer support group is an outlet for LGBTQ People of Color to come together and talk about anything affecting them in a space that strives to be safe and judgement free. There are all sorts of activities like watching movies, poetry events, storytelling, and just hanging out with others. For more information and events, visit thedccenter.org/poc or facebook.com/centerpoc.
Sunday, Feb. 22
Queer Talk DC will host āThe Black Gay Flea Marketā at 1 p.m. at Doubles in Petworth. There will be more than 15 Black queer vendors from all over the DMV in one spot. The eventās organizers have reserved the large back patio for all vendors, and the speak easy for bar service, which will be serving curated cocktails made just for the event (cash bar.) DJ Fay and DJ Jam 2x will be spinning the entire event. For more details, visit Eventbrite.
Monday, Feb. 23
āCenter Aging: Monday Coffee Klatchā will be at 10 a.m. on Zoom. This is a social hour for older LGBTQ adults. Guests are encouraged to bring a beverage of choice. For more information, contact Adam at [email protected].
Tuesday, Feb. 24
Coming Out Discussion Group will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so ā by sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. For more details, visit the groupās Facebook.Ā
Genderqueer DC will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This is a support group for people who identify outside of the gender binary, whether youāre bigender, agender, genderfluid, or just know that youāre not 100 percent cis. For more details, visit genderqueerdc.org or Facebook.Ā
Wednesday, Feb. 25
Job Club will be at 6 p.m. on Zoom upon request. This is a weekly job support program to help job entrants and seekers, including the long-term unemployed, improve self-confidence, motivation, resilience and productivity for effective job searches and networking ā allowing participants to move away from being merely āapplicantsā toward being ācandidates.ā For more information, email [email protected] or visit thedccenter.org/careers.
Asexual and Aromantic Group will meet at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This is a space where people who are questioning this aspect of their identity or those who identify as asexual and/or aromantic can come together, share stories and experiences, and discuss various topics. For more details, email [email protected].Ā
Thursday, Feb. 26
The DC Centerās Fresh Produce Program will be held all day at the DC Center. To be more fair with who is receiving boxes, the program is moving to a lottery system. People will be informed on Wednesday at 5 p.m. if they are picked to receive a produce box. No proof of residency or income is required. For more information, email [email protected] or call 202-682-2245.Ā
Virtual Yoga Class will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This free weekly class is a combination of yoga, breathwork and meditation that allows LGBTQ community members to continue their healing journey with somatic and mindfulness practices. For more details, visit the DC Centerās website.Ā Ā
Sports
US wins Olympic gold medal in womenās hockey
Team captain Hilary Knight proposed to girlfriend on Wednesday
The U.S. women’s hockey team on Thursday won a gold medal at the Milan Cortina Winter Olympics.
Team USA defeated Canada 2-1 in overtime. The game took place a day after Team USA captain Hilary Knight proposed to her girlfriend, Brittany Bowe, an Olympic speed skater.
Cayla Barnes and Alex Carpenter ā Knightās teammates ā are also LGBTQ. They are among the more than 40 openly LGBTQ athletes who are competing in the games.
The Olympics will end on Sunday.
Movies
Radical reframing highlights the āWutheringā highs and lows of a classic
Emerald Fennellās cinematic vision elicits strong reactions
If youāre a fan of āWuthering Heightsā ā Emily BrontĆ«ās oft-filmed 1847 novel about a doomed romance on the Yorkshire moors ā itās a given youāre going to have opinions about any new adaptation that comes along, but in the case of filmmaker Emerald Fennellās new cinematic vision of this venerable classic, theyāre probably going to be strong ones.
Itās nothing new, really. BrontĆ«ās book has elicited controversy since its first publication, when it sparked outrage among Victorian readers over its tragic tale of thwarted lovers locked into an obsessive quest for revenge against each other, and has continued to shock generations of readers with its depictions of emotional cruelty and violent abuse, its dysfunctional relationships, and its grim portrait of a deeply-embedded class structure which perpetuates misery at every level of the social hierarchy.
Itās no wonder, then, that Fennellās adaptation ā a true āfangirlā appreciation project distinguished by the radical sensibilities which the third-time director brings to the mix ā has become a flash point for social commentators whose main exposure to the tale has been flavored by decades of watered-down, romanticized āreinventions,ā almost all of which omit large portions of the novel to selectively shape whatās left into a period tearjerker about star-crossed love, often distancing themselves from the raw emotional core of the story by adhering to generic tropes of āgothic romanceā and rarely doing justice to the complexity of its characters ā or, for that matter, its authorās deeper intentions.
Fennellās version doesnāt exactly break that pattern; she, too, elides much of the novelās sprawling plot to focus on the twisted entanglement between Catherine Earnshaw (Margot Robbie), daughter of the now-impoverished master of the titular estate (Martin Clunes), and Heathcliff (Jacob Elordi), a lowborn child of unknown background origin that has been āadoptedā by her father as a servant in the household. Both subjected to the whims of the elder Earnshawās violent temper, they form a bond of mutual support in childhood which evolves, as they come of age, into something more; yet regardless of her feelings for him, Cathy ā whose future status and security are at risk ā chooses to marry Edgar Linton (Shazad Latif), the financially secure new owner of a neighboring estate. Heathcliff, devastated by her betrayal, leaves for parts unknown, only to return a few years later with a mysteriously-obtained fortune. Imposing himself into Cathyās comfortable-but-joyless matrimony, he rekindles their now-forbidden passion and they become entwined in a torrid affair ā even as he openly courts Lintonās naive ward Isabella (Alison Oliver) and plots to destroy the entire household from within. One might almost say that these two are the poster couple for the phrase āitās complicated.ā and itās probably needless to say things donāt go well for anybody involved.
While there is more than enough material in āWuthering Heightsā that might easily be labeled as āproblematicā in our contemporary judgments ā like the fact that itās a love story between two childhood friends, essentially raised as siblings, which becomes codependent and poisons every other relationship in their lives ā the controversy over Fennellās version has coalesced less around the content than her casting choices. When the project was announced, she drew criticism over the decision to cast Robbie (who also produced the film) opposite the younger Elordi. In the end, the casting works ā though the age gap might be mildly distracting for some, both actors deliver superb performances, and the chemistry they exude soon renders it irrelevant.
Another controversy, however, is less easily dispelled. Though we never learn his true ethnic background, BrontĆ«ās original text describes Heathcliff as having the appearance of āa dark-skinned gipsyā with āblack fireā in his eyes; the character has typically been played by distinctly āAngloā men, and consequently, many modern observers have expressed disappointment (and in some cases, full-blown outrage) over Fennelās choice to use Elordi instead of putting an actor of color for the part, especially given the contemporary filter which she clearly chose for her interpretation for the novel.
In fact, itās that modernized perspective ā a view of history informed by social criticism, economic politics, feminist insight, and a sexual candor that would have shocked the prim Victorian readers of BrontĆ«ās novel ā that turns Fennellās visually striking adaptation into more than just a comfortably romanticized period costume drama. From her very opening scene ā a public hanging in the village where the death throes of the dangling body elicit lurid glee from the eagerly-gathered crowd ā she makes it oppressively clear that the 18th-century was not a pleasant time to live; the brutality of the era is a primal force in her vision of the story, from the harrowing abuse that forges its loversā codependent bond, to the rigidly maintained class structure that compels even those in the higher echelons ā especially women ā into a kind of slavery to the system, to the inequities that fuel disloyalty among the vulnerable simply to preserve their own tenuous place in the hierarchy. Itās a battle for survival, if not of the fittest then of the most ruthless.
At the same time, she applies a distinctly 21st-century attitude of āsex-positivityā to evoke the appeal of carnality, not just for its own sake but as a taste of freedom; she even uses it to reframe Heathcliffās cruel torment of Isabella by implying a consensual dom/sub relationship between them, offering a fragment of agency to a character typically relegated to the role of victim. Most crucially, of course, it permits Fennell to openly depict the sexuality of Cathy and Heathcliff as an experience of transgressive joy ā albeit a tormented one ā made perhaps even more irresistible (for them and for us) by the sense of rebellion that comes along with it.
Finally, while this āWuthering Heightsā may not have been the one to finally allow Heathcliffās ambiguous racial identity to come to the forefront, Fennell does employ some ācolor-blindā casting ā Latif is mixed-race (white and Pakistani) and Hong Chau, understated but profound in the crucial role of Nelly, Cathyās longtime āpaid companion,ā is of Vietnamese descent ā to illuminate the added pressures of being an āotherā in a world weighted in favor of sameness.
Does all this contemporary hindsight into the fabric of BrontĆ«ās epic novel make for a quintessential āWuthering Heights?ā Even allowing that such a thing were possible, probably not. While it presents a stylishly crafted and thrillingly cinematic take on this complex classic, richly enhanced by a superb and adventurous cast, itās not likely to satisfy anyone looking for a faithful rendition, nor does it reveal a new angle from which the āromanceā at its center looks anything other than toxic ā indeed, it almost fetishizes the dysfunction. Even without the thorny debate around Heathcliffās racial identity, thereās plenty here to prompt purists and revisionists alike to find fault with Fennellās approach.
Yet for those looking for a new window into to this perennial classic, and who are comfortable with the radical flourish for which Fennell is already known, itās an engrossing and intellectually stimulating exploration of this iconic story in a way that exchanges comfortable familiarity for unpredictable chaos ā and for cinema fans, thatās more than enough reason to give āWuthering Heightsā a chance.
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