Connect with us

Living

Queery: Ryan Williams

The Gay Mens Chorus ‘Whorehouse’ actor answers 20 gay questions

Published

on

Ryan Williams (Blade photo by Michael Key)

All-male productions obviously mean some guys have to take female roles. Ryan Williams, a gay 33-year-old Philadelphia native, is proving he’s game for it as Miss Mona Stangley (played by Dolly Parton in the film version) in the Gay Men’s Chorus of Washington’s production this weekend of “Best Little Whorehouse in Texas.”

It opens tonight at 8 at the Lisner Auditorium on the George Washington University campus. Additional performances are Saturday at 8 and Sunday at 3. Tickets range from $30 to $50. Visit gmcw.org for more information.

Williams is excited about the show.

“The Chorus shines brightest when they do a stage production of this magnitude,” he says. “It requires so many talents beyond singing and dancing. Every detail you see on stage, from the intricate design of the massive set to the ’70s-era costumes, are taken with great care and love to deliver a great performance.”

He calls it “a gorgeous show.” It tells of a Texas-based brothel in the late ’70s that’s been around for 100 years but faces heat when a TV reporter starts investigating. The original opened on Broadway in 1978 and enjoyed a four-year run.

Williams says “Hard Candy Christmas,” which the Chorus previewed at its holiday concert last year, is his favorite moment.

“It’s a song filled with such raw emotion and after getting to know these talented guys over the past few months, it feels like they’re leaving my home for real every time I hear it,” he says.

Williams has been in the D.C. area for 10 years and in the Chorus for seven. He’s on the Chorus’s board of directors and development committee. He also participated in Chorus productions of “Grease” and “Wizard of Oz.”

By day, he’s a partner in a non-profit consulting firm. He moved to the area upon finishing college at Penn State.

He’s always loved music and says every life should have its own soundtrack. Williams is single and lives in Arlington. He also enjoys politics, arts, travel, entertaining, college football and discovering great restaurants.

How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?

I’ve been out since June 2000. The hardest person to tell was my mother. Her response was as if she had dusted off the PFLAG manual from her nightstand and read off the bullet points on what to say when her son FINALLY comes out. The weight was lifted and I regret never doing it sooner.

Who’s your LGBT hero?

I worked at a large non-profit during my coming out experience that had three openly gay men in various departments. They were heroes to me and never knew it because they led by example. They each excelled in their careers, grew in personal and professional relationships and lived their lives openly and honestly in a conservative work environment. To me, heroes aren’t the celebrities who come out as part of their PR strategy or musicians who use our community for album sales. They’re the everyday women and men who live their lives fully and expect basic human rights.

What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?

Annie’s Paramount Steak House at 3 a.m. on a Saturday night! I swear it looks like the Cantina scene from “Star Wars.” I love people watching and after a great night out, Annie’s has never let me down.

Describe your dream wedding.

Come back to me when I have a fiance. Hell, come back to me when I’m dating regularly. For now, know the wedding must feature “As” by Stevie Wonder.

What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?

Youth voice and empowerment. Nothing freaks me out more than a young person who doesn’t feel as though they can freely speak their mind.

What historical outcome would you change?

Nothing. Everything happens for a reason.

What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?

Performing at the Obama inauguration concert in front of millions on HBO as the chorus backed up Heather Headley and Josh Groban on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial. To be backstage and meet Queen Latifah, Tom Hanks and Sheryl Crow was amazing! I even led an impromptu singing of “My Cherie Amore” with, yes, you guessed it, Stevie Wonder.

On what do you insist?

If you’ve gone an entire day without saying “thank you,” you’re leading a sad existence.

What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?

Thank You TIVO for the TRAIN WRECK that is Celebrity Apprentice #GaryBusey

If your life were a book, what would the title be?

“Say What? Tales of a Thirty-Something Smart Ass”

If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?

I’d ask the scientists why haven’t they discovered a cure for Multiple sclerosis, cancer or HIV — priorities people, priorities!

What do you believe in beyond the physical world?

I believe in God. It’s the organized religions that turn me off.

What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?

Keep fighting!

What would you walk across hot coals for?

My family

What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?

Self-loathing gays

What’s your favorite LGBT movie?

“Trick” (1999). The scene between Mark and Gabriel before they leave the diner bathroom is one of the most romantic scenes I’ve ever seen.

What’s the most overrated social custom?

Did I mention the self-loathing?

What trophy or prize do you most covet?

My late grandfather’s wristwatch.

What do you wish you’d known at 18?

Do you remember that guy who asked you for your number at the rush party on fraternity row? He’s gay and will go on to be a doctor. Lighten up and give him your number, fool!

Why Washington?

D.C. is a great cadre of villages and neighborhoods with its own individual style and substance. Even after 10 years, there is still so much to learn and discover.

Advertisement
FUND LGBTQ JOURNALISM
SIGN UP FOR E-BLAST

Real Estate

How to keep cool during a heat wave

Close blinds, use ceiling fans, and more tips

Published

on

It’s hot! Here are some ways to keep cool in a heatwave. (Photo by sonyworld/Bigstock)

Did you melt like the Wicked Witch of the West this week?

As summer temperatures rise, keeping your home or apartment cool during a heat wave can become both a comfort issue and a financial challenge. One of the most effective ways to keep a home cool is to prevent heat from entering in the first place. Sunlight streaming through windows can significantly raise indoor temperatures. Consider the following solutions:

• Close blinds or curtains during the hottest parts of the day. Blackout curtains or thermal drapes can reduce heat gain by up to 30%.

• Install reflective window films to block UV rays and reduce solar heat without sacrificing natural light.

• Use outdoor shading solutions such as awnings (yes, the ones you removed because they were “dated”) and shutters to limit direct sunlight.

Fans are a cost-effective way to circulate air and create a wind-chill effect that makes rooms feel cooler.

• Ceiling fans should rotate counterclockwise in the summer to push cool air down.

• Box fans or oscillating fans can be placed near windows to pull in cooler evening air or push hot air out.

• Create a cross-breeze by opening windows on opposite sides of your home and positioning fans to direct airflow through the space.

• For an extra cooling effect, place a bowl of ice or a frozen water bottle in front of a fan to circulate chilled air.

To optimize natural ventilation, open windows early in the morning or late in the evening when outdoor temperatures drop. This allows cooler air to flow in and helps ventilate heat that built up during the day. 

Appliances and electronics generate a surprising amount of heat. To reduce indoor temperatures:

• Avoid using the oven or stove during the day; opt for no-cook meals, microwave cooking, or grilling outside.

• Run heat-producing appliances like dishwashers and clothes dryers in the early morning or late evening.

• Unplug electronics when not in use, as even standby power can add heat to your space.

• Switching to energy-efficient LED lightbulbs can also reduce ambient heat compared to incandescent lighting.

If you do use an air conditioner, maximize its effectiveness by:

• Setting it to a reasonable temperature—around 76–78°F when you’re home and higher when you’re away.

• Cleaning or replacing filters regularly to maintain airflow and efficiency.

• Sealing gaps around doors and windows to prevent cool air from escaping. (Didn’t we all have a parent who said, “Close the door. You’re letting all the cool out?”)

• Using a programmable thermostat to optimize cooling schedules and reduce energy use.

If it is not cost-prohibitive, adding insulation in attics and walls can greatly reduce heat transfer. Solar panels that reflect heat can also help, as well as offset the cost of their installation. Adding weatherstripping around doors and windows, sealing cracks, and using door sweeps can make a significant difference in keeping heat out and cool air in.

Natural and eco-conscious methods can also help cool your home.

• Snake plants, ferns, or rubber trees can improve air quality and slightly cool the air through transpiration.

• White or reflective roof paint can reduce roof temperatures significantly.

• Cooling mats or bedding can make sleeping more comfortable without cranking up the A/C.

For renters or those who can’t make permanent modifications, there are still plenty of ways to keep cool.

• Use portable fans and A/C units instead of built-in systems, making sure they are the correct size for your space.

• Removable window film or static cling tinting can reflect heat without violating your lease.

• Install tension rod curtains or temporary blackout panels instead of hardware-mounted window coverings.

• Add draft blockers and weatherstripping tape that can be applied and removed without damage.

• Cover floors with light-colored rugs to reflect heat rather than absorb it.

• If allowed, use temporary adhesive hooks to hang reflective materials or light-filtering fabrics over windows.

Even if your space is warm, you can still take steps to help your body stay cool.

• Wear light, breathable fabrics like cotton or linen.

• Stay hydrated and avoid caffeine or alcohol during peak heat hours.

• Take cool showers or use damp cloths on your neck and wrists to bring your body temperature down.

Keeping your home or apartment cool in the summer doesn’t have to be expensive or energy-intensive. With a few adjustments such as blocking sunlight, optimizing airflow, using fans effectively, and making renter-friendly upgrades, you can create a more comfortable indoor environment while keeping energy bills in check.


Valerie M. Blake is a licensed Associate Broker in D.C., Maryland, and Virginia with RLAH @properties. Call or text her at 202-246-8602, email her at DCHomeQuest.com, or follow her on Facebook at TheRealst8ofAffairs

Continue Reading

Real Estate

The world’s on fire and D.C. is on sale (sort of)

Prices are up, but then again, nothing makes sense anymore

Published

on

The housing market remains strong in D.C., especially in upper Northwest. (Photo by Stbaus7/Bigstock)

ICE is disappearing people, revered government agencies are shuttering, and who knows if we’ll be in World War III next week? But can you believe prices in D.C. are actually still up 6.3% since last year? It doesn’t make sense, and perhaps that does make sense, because nothing seems to make any sense any more.

That said, there are some parts of our market that are truly suffering. The interest rates, which have been up, up, up for about four years now, are the ongoing rain on our market’s military parade. Combine that with 75,000 federal employees taking a buyout nationwide, and DOGE cuts eliminating around 40,000 federal jobs in the District (per estimates by the D.C. CFO), not to mention thousands of other job losses in non-governmental organizations due to funding and program cuts, and you’ve got a case of uncertainty, and downright unaffordability in the pool of otherwise would-be buyers.

This has had a marked impact on properties that starter-home buyers and low- to mid-level employees would otherwise buy, most notably condominium and cooperative apartment units. These properties have already slowed in our market thanks to the profound impact that higher interest rates have had on their monthly carrying costs—pair that with job insecurity, and a lot of condos are proving to be very difficult to sell indeed.

So how is the average sale price up in our market?

The increase is almost entirely due to the resounding strength of the single-family home market, especially in upper Northwest D.C., where it is still quite common to see bidding wars, even on properties pushing past the $3M mark. It seems that buyers in that echelon are less impacted by a few percentage points in the interest rate, and less concerned about their job security. Notably, those buyers are often married with children and have an absolute need for more space, must stay in the area due to one spouse’s job, or the kid’s friend group, regardless of whether the cost of owning is thousands of dollars more per month than it would have been in 2020 or 2021. The continued appreciation in these neighborhoods defies imagination.

So, what to do if you are not one of those lucky enough to be shopping for a $3M home? The short answer: wait. If you want more space, rent your current place out and learn the joys of being a landlord while someone else pays your mortgage. Need the equity from your current home to buy your next place? Get a home equity line of credit, or loan, and pull the equity out of your current place to buy the next one. Or—and I have never recommended this before in 21 years of being a Realtor—rent for a few years. Sure, I’d love to list and sell your condo so you can climb the real estate ladder, but it might just be a waste of time, money or both if you could just ride out this storm and sell in a DOGE-less future.

All this said, there are some condos that seem to be immune from this recent negative news. Anecdotally, it feels like it’s the truly special ones that do just fine no matter the market. Our recent listing in Capitol Hill had a view from every one of its 15 windows of the Supreme Court. Sold in five days with six offers. Another condo was on the top two floors of a townhouse and had the coolest black wood floors that gleamed like a grand piano. Sold in four days at full price.

So, all is not for naught if you have a condo or home in an area that people want to be in, with nice space, light, amenities and a certain je ne sais quois. And, as long as we have a democracy in a few years, my experience says our market will be back, stronger than ever, really soon.


David Bediz is a Realtor and mortgage loan broker for the Bediz Group LLC and Home Starts Here, LLC. Reach him at [email protected].

Continue Reading

Autos

SUV showdown: Genesis QV70 vs. Lexus NX

Two bold, brassy crossovers battle it out

Published

on

From left, the Genesis QV70 and Lexus NX.

In this corner, there’s the Genesis QV70, newly updated and full of glitzy gizmos. And in the opposing corner, there’s the Lexus NX, a fan fave known for comfort and reliability. 

Both are strong contenders. Both have proven to be equally adept at bobbing and weaving through traffic. And both can go toe to toe with pricier competitors. 

And yet, what would happen when they sparred against each other? Here’s your ringside seat to find out.

GENESIS QV70

$50,000

MPG: 22 city/28 highway

0 to 60 mph: 5.9 seconds

Cargo space: 28.9 cu. ft. 

PROS: Stylish. Good value. Lots of standard amenities.  

CONS: So-so fuel economy. Quirky dash controls.   

IN A NUTSHELL: When it comes to speed, the Genesis QV70 is faster on its feet than the Lexus NX. Neither of these crossover SUVs is a lightweight, but the QV70 offers more potent powerplants—including an all-electric version that zips from 0 to 60 mph in just 3.8 seconds. In other words, Porsche Macan S territory. 

The two gas-powered options—a four-cylinder turbo and twin-turbo V6—also got my blood pumping. So did the velvetlike suspension mixed with deft handling and stop-on-a-dime braking. But this adrenaline rush comes at a cost: sacrificing fuel economy.  

As for the automaker’s design philosophy—“athletic elegance”—it’s on full display here: an oversized grille inspired by the Genesis emblem, the dramatically arcing silhouette, and those distinct quad headlights and taillights. It’s not easy to stand out when 25% of all vehicles sold in the U.S. are compact crossovers, so kudos to the QV70 for being such a head-turner.  

The mod-yet-minimalist styling carries over to the cabin, with its high-quality materials: real-wood accents, soft-touch plastics and a tasteful glass shift knob. New this year is a sweeping 27-inch dashboard monitor, which houses the gauge cluster and infotainment touchscreen. Alas, this display is positioned a bit far from the driver (though I must admit reaching for it did help stretch a few tight back muscles). 

Instead of being a costly extra, this gigantic monitor comes standard. So do synthetic leathers seats, nine-speaker stereo, smartphone/wireless connectivity, hands-free liftgate, tons of safety gear and more. Options include a panoramic sunroof, three-zone climate control, 16-speaker Bang & Olufsen audio, synthetic suede headliner, sound-reducing rear windows, automated parking and other goodies. 

What’s the score so far? Despite some minor quibbles, the Genesis QV70 is a worthy challenger that pulls no punches. 

LEXUS NX 

$43,000

MPG: 26 city/33 highway

0 to 60 mph: 8.2 seconds

Cargo space: 22.7 cu. ft. 

PROS: Fuel efficient. Comfy seats. Rock-solid reliability. 

CONS: Pokey base model. Limited rear storage.

IN A NUTSHELL: Sure, the Lexus NX isn’t as speedy as the Genesis QV70. But, as with the tortoise and the hare, sometimes slow and steady wins the race. And really, it’s only the entry-level NX that feels sluggish, such as when trying to quickly merge into freeway traffic. 

Other trim levels, including two hybrid options, are just fine. And no matter the engine choice, the counterpunch here is that these vehicles get better gas mileage: 20% higher fuel economy than in either the four-cylinder or V6 in the Genesis. The two NX hybrids are even more green, with the high-end plug-in version able to travel up to 37 miles on electric power alone. One downside: There is no all-electric NX—well, at least not yet.

As with parent-company Toyota, Lexus offers stellar vehicle reliability—often ranked No. 1 in dependability and crash-test surveys year after year. Lexus vehicles generally hold their value better than Genesis, because this newer brand has a shorter history. Lexus also has a larger dealer network, though the number of Genesis dealerships is growing. 

But when it comes to cargo space, the NX is about two inches shorter and narrower than the QV70, which has more stowage area. And Genesis handling is sportier, though the Lexus feels sure and well-grounded. 

Luxe interior amenities are basically the same in both vehicles. But interior styling in the QV70 is trendy, while the NX is more understated. In other words, a choice between sassy and classy. 

This is a very competitive vehicle segment, with Euro models like the Audi Q5, BMW X3 and Mercedes GLC also duking it out in what seems like a clash of the titans. 

But as for the Genesis QX70 or Lexus NX, which is the winner? For me, both are real knockouts—so I’d call it a draw. 

Continue Reading

Popular