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Lance Bass says ‘Finding Prince Charming’ cast member is HIV-positive
Bachelor thinks ‘It’s really a stigma that we have to resolve now’

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“Finding Prince Charming” host Lance Bass has confirmed rumors a cast member will reveal he is HIV-positive on the show.
“It is true,” Bass told People Magazine about the gay dating reality show. “This is one of the things I love about the show â it’s a fun reality show, it’s dramatic, but there’s a lot of heart in it and amazing story lines that you’re going to shed a tear over. And one of those is finding about this guy’s HIV.”
“All of us know someone that is living with HIV, and I think the stigma is still really bad out there â people are just so uneducated about it,” Bass continued. “To us, obviously it doesn’t matter at all, we’ve been around it so much, but I think this is really going to educate a lot of people. I’m excited for people to watch it, especially this episode.”
The contestants will be competing for the affections of Robert SepĂșlveda Jr. who told People Magazine that the contestant’s HIV status did not deter him from giving him the same chance at love as everyone else.
“For me, it’s like: Is someone HIV-positive not worthy of love?” SepĂșlveda Jr. says. “That’s really the question, and it doesn’t matter to me. ‘Prince Charming’ would be accepting of anyone, and that’s how I am.”
“In the gay community, in just any community, if you have a disease, it’s not going to be anything that someone’s going to push you away from,” SepĂșlveda Jr. continued . “Again, me being ‘Prince Charming’ â the guy that everyone’s vying for their attention â I’m not going to not date someone because they’re HIV-positive. That’s ridiculous. It’s really a stigma that we have to resolve now.”
“Finding Prince Charming” airs on LOGO Thursday, Sept. 8 at 9 p.m.
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âPillionâ director on bikers, BDSM, and importance of being seen
âWe put a lot of thought and effort into how we depicted the communityâ
One of the highlights of last weekâs Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend came not on the dance floor, but in a movie theater. In a new partnership, the independent film studio A24 brought its leather-clad new film âPillionâ â not yet in wide release â to D.C. for special showings for the MAL crowd.
âPillion,â a term for the motorcycle passenger seated behind the driver, delves into the complicated relationship between an introverted, quiet Londoner Colin (Harry Melling) who embarks on a journey finding himself while entering into a sub relationship with a new Dom named Ray (Alexander SkarsgĂ„rd) he meets during Christmas.
Itâs writer-director Harry Lightonâs feature-length debut, sharing SkarsgĂ„rdâs impossibly toned physique with both Colin and audiences, and offering an eye into the BDSM community by an LGBTQ director for the general public. This from a studio that also just released a movie about ping-pong starring TimothĂ©e Chalamet.
The Washington Blade was able to catch a screening at Regal Gallery Place on Jan. 18, hosted by MAL and Gary Wasdin, executive director, Leather Archives & Museum. The Blade also had a chance to interview Lighton about the experience.
Blade: How did you get involved in this film, especially as this is your directorial debut?
Lighton: I was sent âBox Hill,â the novel on which âPillionâ is based, by Eva Yates (the head of film at the BBC). Iâd spent years working on a sumo film set in Japan, and then suddenly that became impossible due to the pandemic so I was miserable. And then I read this book that I found bracing, funny, moving. All the good things.
Blade: Are you involved with the leather community? Did you draw on any personal experiences or make connections with the community?
Lighton: I’m involved in the wrestling scene but not the leather community. So I spent lots of time with people who are [in the community] during the writing process, and then ended up casting a bunch of them as bikers and pillions in the film. They were incredibly generous to myself, Harry, and Alex with their knowledge and experiences. We have them to thank for lending credibility to the world on screen.
Blade: What kind of reception have you received at film festivals and with the LGBTQ community? Was it what you imagined?
Lighton: Obviously not everyone’s going to like the film â for some people it’ll be too explicit, for some not explicit enough; some people will feel seen, some won’t. But the general reaction’s been extremely positive so far. If I’m honest I thought it would divide opinion more.
Blade: How was it working with the actors?
Lighton: I had a lot of respect for both of them going in, and wondered if that might make me a bit too deferential, a bit too Colin-coded. But besides being extremely talented, they’re both lovely. And committed. And fun! With my shorts I always felt a bit out of my depth working with actors, but here I discovered a real love for it.
Blade: Turning to the plot, the parents are pretty supportive, especially Colin’s dad. How did you decide to draw his parents? What does it mean to show parents with nuanced viewpoints?
Lighton: I wanted to reverse the typical parent-child dynamic in queer film, where parents go from rejecting to accepting their queer kid. We meet Colinâs parents actively pushing him toward a gay relationship. But when the relationship he lands on doesnât meet her definition of healthy, his mum withdraws her acceptance. I wanted to ask: Are they projecting their romantic model onto their son, or do they have a legitimate concern for his wellbeing with Ray?
Blade: How did you decide to place the setting?
Lighton: Practically, we needed somewhere within reach of London. But I liked the idea that Colin, who lives life on the periphery, grew up on the edge of the capital. One of our producers, Lee Groombridge, grew up in and around Bromley and showed me all the spots. I loved the atmosphere on the high street, the markets, and the contrast between the high street and the idyllic park. And I thought it would be a funny place for Alexander SkarsgÄrd to have settled.
Blade: What do you hope audiences take away from the film?
Lighton: Thereâs no one message. Different people will take different things from it. Personally, Colin inspires me to jump off cliffs, to push beyond my comfort zone because that’s where life begins. From Ray I get the courage to be ugly, to fly in the face of social convention if it doesnât make you happy or itâs not built for you.
Blade: Talk about the soundtrack â especially the Tiffany “I Think Weâre Alone Now” song.
Lighton: SkarsgĂ„rdâs Ray has the surface masc-ness that comes with looking like a Viking. I wanted to combine that with details that indicate he’s been a part of gay culture and âI Think We’re Alone Nowâ is nothing if not a camp classic.
Blade: What does it mean to you to show the film at MAL?
Lighton: When I told the bikers from the film I was coming to MAL they practically wet themselves with excitement. We put a lot of thought and effort into how we depicted the community in the film and thereâs so much variety, no two Masters or subs are the same, but seeing a theater full of men in leather laugh, cry, and clap for the film meant the world.
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Alexander SkarsgĂ„rd describes âPillionâ in 3 words: lube, sweat, leather
Highly anticipated film a refreshingly loving look at Dom-sub life
Whether youâve seen him in popular HBO series like âTrue Blood,â âSuccession,â and âBig Little Lies,â the dynamic Swedish actor Alexander SkarsgĂ„rd has that smoldering gaze that immediately draws viewers in.
Following in the footsteps of his father Stellan, (who just won the Golden Globe for âSentimental Valueâ) the Golden Globe, Emmy, and SAG winner SkarsgĂ„rd continues to be an actor who is fearless in the roles he takes on.
That courageousness is evident in SkarsgĂ„rdâs latest film, the BDSM black comedy âPillion,âwhich he also executive produces. He plays Ray, the handsome, hyper-dominant leader of a gay bike gang. The film was written and directed by Harry Lighton, and is based on the 2020 novel âBox Hill,â by Adam Mars-Jones.Â
âThis was a small film by a first time filmmaker and it wasn’t financed when I read it,â SkarsgĂ„rd told journalists at a recent awards news conference. âAnd I felt that, if I could help in any small way of getting it financed, I wanted to, because I thought it was such an incredible screenplay and I believe in Harry Lighton so much as a filmmaker. And it felt tonally unlike anything I’d ever read. It was such an exciting, surprising read.â
SkarsgĂ„rd was blown away by the quality of the unconventional script. âWhen I heard BDSM relationship, biker culture, I expected something very different. I didn’t expect it to have so much sweetness and tenderness and awkwardness.â
For the sex scenes and nudity with co-star, Harry Melling â who excels in his portrayal as Rayâs submissive Colin â SkarsgĂ„rd talked very early on with Lighton about how he wanted to shoot those scenes, and why they were in the film.
âI often find sex scenes quite boring in movies because a lot of the tension is in the drama leading up to two people hooking up, or several people hooking up, as in our movie. But what I really enjoyed about these scenes â they are all pivotal moments in Colinâs journey and his development. It’s the first time he gets a blowjob. It’s the first time he has sex. It’s the first time he has an orgasm. And these are pivotal moments for him, so they mean a lot. And that made those scenes impactful and important.â
SkarsgĂ„rd was happy that Lightonâs script didnât have gratuitous scenes that shock for the sake of just shocking. âI really appreciated that because I find that when this subculture is portrayed, it’s often dangerous and crazy and wild and something like transgressive.â
He continued: âI really love that Harry wanted it to feel real. It can be sexy and intense, but also quite loving and sweet. And you can have an orgy in the woods, rub up against a Sunday roast with the family. And that kind of feels real.â
One of the obstacles SkarsgĂ„rd had to work with was Rayâs emotionally distant personality.
âRay is so enigmatic throughout the film and you obviously never find out anything about him, his past. He doesn’t reveal much. He doesn’t expose himself. And that was a challenge to try to make the character interesting, because that could easily feel quite flatâŠThat was something that I thought quite a lot about in pre productionâŠthere are no big dramatic shifts in his arc.â
For the film, Lighton consulted the GMBCC, the UKâs largest LGBT+ biker club, attending their annual meetup at which 80 riders were present.
âWorking with these guys was extraordinary and it brought so much texture and richness to the film to have them present,â said SkarsgĂ„rd. âThey were incredibly sweet and guiding with us â I canât imagine making this movie without them. Iâd go on a road trip with them anytime.â
Added SkarsgĂ„rd: âTo sum up âPillionâ in three words: lube, sweat, and leather. I hope people will connect with Colin and his journey, and come to understand the nuance and complexity of his bond with Ray.â
This year is shaping up to be a busy one for SkarsgĂ„rd. âPillionâ premieres in select cities on Feb. 6 and then moves into wide release on Feb. 20. After that for SkarsgĂ„rd is a role in queer ally Charli XCXâs mockumentary, âThe Moment,â which premieres at the Sundance Film Festival. HIs sci-fi comedy series, Apple TVâs âMurderbot,â which he also executive produces, will begin filming its second season. And this weekend, he hosts âSaturday Night Live.â
The LGBTQ youth services organization SMYAL held its annual fundraiser, ‘SMYAL for the New Year,’ at Shakiki (2012 9th Street, N.W.) on Thursday, Jan. 22.
(Washington Blade photos by Michael Key)













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