Arts & Entertainment
Lance Bass says ‘Finding Prince Charming’ cast member is HIV-positive
Bachelor thinks ‘It’s really a stigma that we have to resolve now’

(Screenshot via LOGO)
“Finding Prince Charming” host Lance Bass has confirmed rumors a cast member will reveal he is HIV-positive on the show.
“It is true,” Bass told People Magazine about the gay dating reality show. “This is one of the things I love about the show â it’s a fun reality show, it’s dramatic, but there’s a lot of heart in it and amazing story lines that you’re going to shed a tear over. And one of those is finding about this guy’s HIV.”
“All of us know someone that is living with HIV, and I think the stigma is still really bad out there â people are just so uneducated about it,” Bass continued. “To us, obviously it doesn’t matter at all, we’ve been around it so much, but I think this is really going to educate a lot of people. I’m excited for people to watch it, especially this episode.”
The contestants will be competing for the affections of Robert SepĂșlveda Jr. who told People Magazine that the contestant’s HIV status did not deter him from giving him the same chance at love as everyone else.
“For me, it’s like: Is someone HIV-positive not worthy of love?” SepĂșlveda Jr. says. “That’s really the question, and it doesn’t matter to me. ‘Prince Charming’ would be accepting of anyone, and that’s how I am.”
“In the gay community, in just any community, if you have a disease, it’s not going to be anything that someone’s going to push you away from,” SepĂșlveda Jr. continued . “Again, me being ‘Prince Charming’ â the guy that everyone’s vying for their attention â I’m not going to not date someone because they’re HIV-positive. That’s ridiculous. It’s really a stigma that we have to resolve now.”
“Finding Prince Charming” airs on LOGO Thursday, Sept. 8 at 9 p.m.
Books
Love or fear flying youâll devour âWhy Flyâ
New book chronicles a lifetime obsession with aircraft
âWhy Flyâ
By Caroline Paul
c. 2026, Bloomsbury
$27.99/256 pages
Tray table folded up.
Check. Your seat is in the upright position, the airflow above your head is just the way you like it, and youâre ready to go. The flight crew is making final preparations. The lights are off and the plane is backing up. All you need now is âWhy Flyâ by Caroline Paul, and buckle up.

When she was very young, Paul was âobsessedâ with tales of adventure, devouring accounts written by men of their derring-do. The only female adventure-seeker she knew about then was Amelia Earhart; later, she learned of other adventuresome women, including aviatrix Bessie Coleman, and Paul was transfixed.
Time passed; Paul grew up to create a life of adventure all her own.
Then, the year her marriage started to fracture, she switched her obsession from general exploits to flight.
Specifically, Paul loves experimental aircraft, some of which, like her âtrike,â can be made from a kit at home. Others, like Woodstock, her beloved yellow gyrocopter, are major purchases that operate under different FAA rules. All flying has rules, she says, even if it seems like it should be as freewheeling as the birds it mimics.
She loves the pre-flight checklist, which is pure anticipation as well as a series of safety measures; if only a relationship had the same ritual. Paul loves her hangar, as a place of comfort and for flight in all senses of the word. She enjoys thinking about historic tales of flying, going back before the Wright Brothers, and including a man who went aloft on a lawn chair via helium-filled weather balloons.
The mere idea that she can fly any time is like a gift to Paul.
She knows a lot of people are terrified of flying, but itâs near totally safe: generally, thereâs a one in almost 14 million chance of perishing in a commercial airline disaster â although, to Paulâs embarrassment and her dismay, itâs possible that both the smallest planes and the grandest loves might crash.
If youâre a fan of flying, you know what to do here. If you fear it, pry your fingernails off the armrests, take a deep breath, and head to the shelves. âWhy Flyâ might help you change your mind.
Itâs not just that author Caroline Paul enjoys being airborne, and she tells you. Itâs not that sheâs honest in her explanations of being in love and being aloft. Itâs the meditative aura youâll get as youâre reading this book that makes it so appealing, despite the sometimes technical information that may flummox you between the Zen-ness. Itâs not overwhelming; it mixes well with the history Paul includes, biographies, the science, heartbreak, and exciting tales of adventure and risk, but itâs there. Readers and romantics who love the outdoors, canât resist a good mountain, and crave activity wonât mind it, though, not at all.
If you own a plane â or want to â youâll want this book, too. Itâs a great waiting-at-the-airport tale, or a tuck-in-your-suitcase-for-later read. Find âWhy Flyâ and youâll see that itâs an upright kind of book.
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Theater
Out actor Kevin Cahoon on starring role in âChez Joeyâ
Arena production adapted from Broadway classic âPal Joeyâ
âChez Joeyâ
Through March 15
Arena Stage
1101 Sixth St., S.W.
Tickets start at $93
Arenastage.org
As Melvin Snyder in the new musical âChez Joey,â out actor Kevin Cahoon plays a showbiz society columnist who goes by the name Mrs. Knickerbocker. He functions as a sort of liaison between cafĂ© society and Chicagoâs Black jazz scene circa 1940s. Itâs a fun part replete with varied insights, music, and dance.
âChez Joeyâ is adapted from the Broadway classic âPal Joeyâ by Richard Rodgers and Lorenz Hart. Itâs inspired by John O’Hara’s stories based on the exploits of a small-time nightclub singer published in The New Yorker.
A warm and humorous man, Cahoon loves his work. At just six, he began his career as a rodeo clown in Houston. He won the Star Search teen division at 13 singing songs like âSome Peopleâ from âGypsy.â He studied theater at New York University and soon after graduating set to work playing sidekicks and comedic roles.
Over the years, Cahoon has played numerous queer parts in stage productions including âHedwig and the Angry Inch,â âLa Cage aux Folles,â âRocky Horrorâ as well as Peanut in âShucked,â and George the keyboardist in âThe Wedding Singer,â âa sort of unicorn of its time,â says Cahoon.
Co-directed by Tony Goldwyn and the great Savion Glover, âChez Joeyâ is a terrific and fun show filled with loads of talent. Its relevant new book is by Richard Lagravenese.
On a recent Monday off from work, Cahoon shared some thoughts on past and current happenings.
WASHINGTON BLADE: Is there a through line from Kevin, the six-year-old rodeo clown, to who we see now at Arena Stage?
KEVIN CAHOON: Anytime I want to land a joke in a theater piece it goes back to that rodeo clown. It doesnât matter if itâs Arenaâs intimate Kreeger Theatre or the big rodeo at the huge Houston Astrodome.
I was in the middle stadium and there was an announcer â a scene partner really. And we were doing a back and forth in hopes of getting laughs. At that young age I was trying to understand what it takes to get laughs. Itâs all about timing. Every line.
BLADE: Originally, your part in âChez Joeyâ Melvin was Melba who sings âZip,â a clever woman reporterâs song. It was sort of a star feature, where they could just pop in a star in the run of âPal Joey.â
CAHOON: Thatâs right. And in former versions it was played by Martha Plimpton and before her Elaine Stritch. For âChez Joey,â we switched gender and storyline.
We attempted to do âZipâ up until two days before we had an audience at Arena. Unexpectedly they cut âZipâ and replaced it with a fun number called âI Like to Recognize the Tune,â a song more connected to the story.
BLADE: Wow. You must be a quick study.
CAHOON: Well, weâre working with a great band.
BLADE: Youâve played a lot of queer parts. Any thoughts on queer representation?
CAHOON: Oh yes, definitely. And Iâve been very lucky that Iâve had the chance to portray these characters and introduce them to the rest of the world. I feel honored.
After originating Edna, the hyena on Broadway in âThe Lion King,â I left that to do âHedwig and the Angry Inchâ as standby for John Cameron Mitchell, doing one show a week for him.
Everyone thought I was crazy to leave the biggest musical of our time with a personal contract and getting paid more money that Iâd ever made to get $400 a week at the downtown Jane Street Theatre in a dicey neighborhood.
At the time, I really felt like I was with cool kids. I guess I was. And I never regretted it.
BLADE: When you play new parts, do you create new backstories for the role?
CAHOON: Every single time! For Melvin, I suggested a line about chorus boys on Lakeshore Drive.
BLADE: Whatâs up next for Kevin Cahoon?
CAHOON: Iâm about to do the New York Theatre Workshop Gala; Iâve been doing it for nine years in a row. Itâs a huge job. Iâll also be producing the âCats: The Jellicle Ballâ opening on Broadway this spring; itâs a queer-centric uptown vogue ball with gay actor AndrĂ© de Shields reprising his role as âOld Deuteronomy.â
BLADE: Thereâs a huge amount of talent onstage in âChez Joey.â
CAHOON: There is. Iâm sharing a dressing room with Myles Frost who plays Joey. He won accolades for playing Michael Jackson on Broadway. Weâve become great friends. Heâs a miracle to watch on stage. And Awa [Sal Secka], a D.C. local, is great. Every night the audience falls head over heels for her. When this show goes to New York, Awa will, no doubt, be a giant star.
BLADE: Do you think âChez Joeyâ might be Broadway bound?
CAHOON: I have a good feeling it is. Iâve done shows out of town that have high hopes and pedigree, but donât necessarily make it. âChez Joeyâ is a small production, itâs funny, and audiences seem to love it.
The Capital Pride Alliance held the annual Pride Reveal event at The Schuyler at The Hamilton Hotel on Thursday, Feb. 26. The theme for this year’s Capital Pride was announced: “Exist. Resist. Have the audacity!”
(Washington Blade photos by Michael Key)























