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Jim Graham led in dark times
May we be guided by his spirit and tenacity
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Jim Graham introduced Liz Taylor at an event at the Elizabeth Taylor Medical Center. (Washington Blade archive photo by Doug Hinckle)
Jim Graham courageously led Whitman-Walker Clinic (now Whitman-Walker Health) through the darkest hours of the AIDS epidemic in Washington, D.C., during the 1980s and 1990s. He fought valiantly for others in the face of adversity and death. He crusaded for causes big and small that aided those most in need. He did so with a powerful life force fueled by his amazing intellect, boundless energy, and artful creativity. He was not just trying to end AIDS.Ā He sought to eradicate injustice, discrimination, stigma, and inequality in our community. And he would expect ā dare I say demand ā that each one of us continue this quest of full equality and justice for all. Ā Ā Ā Ā
Over the past decade, I came to rely on Jim for advice and counsel much as we do with elders in our families, our faith-based institutions, or our friend groups. I did so because Jim had so much to offer me as a former Whitman-Walker leader. He had been through leadership challenges that are unimaginable today. Jim lived every major challenge before Whitman-Walker in his nearly 30-plus years of community service. He did so by standing up and being counted every day. He was at the center of so much progress in Washington, D.C. that it would be foolish of me to attempt to list all of his contributions.
I spent more time with Jim in recent years. In 2014, I sought his advice on the future of the Elizabeth Taylor Medical Center. At that time our board of directors was assessing various options for redeveloping the iconic 14th Street, N.W. center. Jim shared with me his vision from the early 1990s when Whitman-Walker Clinic opened this center. That vision was to redevelop the Elizabeth Taylor Medical Center to provide greater financial support for our mission. Fast forward to 2017, Whitman-Walker Health is embarking on a major redevelopment project that will provide more programming space and an additional funding stream to support our mission for many years to come. When we break ground this fall I know that Jim will be with us in one of his dapper suits and signature bowties, smiling from ear to ear. Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā
In May 2015, Jim and I toured Whitman-Walker Healthās new facility at 1525 14th St., N.W. On the tour Jim shared what Whitman-Walker meant to him and how his life was shaped by his time here. Jim expressed pride in knowing that his legacy shown bright in the health care and other services we offer the community today. When we dedicated the new health center in June that year, Congresswoman Norton publicly thanked Jim for everything he did in support of metro Washingtonās LGBTQ communities and those persons living with HIV. There were more than a few tears shed that day.
It should come as no surprise that Jimās relationship with me was complicated. I suspect I am not the only person who can say that. He is widely viewed as a dominant father figure that guided Whitman-Walker Clinic to prominence locally and nationally. He was a masterful politician in every way possible. He was articulate to a fault and did not suffer fools kindly. We had our fair share of disagreementsāsome public but most in private. Yet through it all, Jim extended dignity and respect to me and always listened to my point of view. He never let me forget that Whitman-Walker Health is built on the strength, compassion, and love from metro Washingtonās LGBTQ communities. It is a lesson that I carry with me every day.
In closing, Jim showed us how to lead and achieve real change in dark times. And now, once again, we fight for those in need. May we be guided by Jimās spirit and tenacity. For there is much work to do in our community to be more affirming, more inclusive, and more just for all persons.
Don Blanchon is executive director of Whitman-Walker Health.
Opinions
Trumpās aggressiveness will cause havoc in the world
Incoming president admires Putin and Hitler
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Some are asking if the majority of Americans really care, or even understand, what it means if Trump brings a wrecking ball to the rule of law, both here at home, and around the world.
Our first indication will be how the public reacts, especially Trump voters, to what he does based on his promises to grant clemency to those sentenced for their actions during the Jan. 6, 2021 riot at the United States Capitol. Trump has called it a day of love; others have referred to it as his failed effort to stage a coup. There can be no debate about the actions of many in the crowd who stormed the Capitol that day, as they are on film. The question for many will be whether Trump grants clemency to any who were sentenced for just being there, or will he grant broad clemency to everyone, including those who were seen breaking windows, destroying property, and injuring police. Let us never forget 140 officers were injured protecting the building, and members of Congress we elected.
Then there is the issue of the boundaries Trump crossed by calling Supreme Court Justice Alito before his case on the hush money sentencing was decided. Will Trump have these kinds of conversations with other justices when his administration, and even he personally, will have future cases pending before them? Will his administration potentially disregard a court ruling?
Then we move on to the world stage. Trump has made statements to the effect that he would consider using military force to take Greenland and the Panama Canal. Would he actually consider invading another country without any provocation? Those words, even before any action is taken, make me think of Vladimir Putin and Adolf Hitler. Both men, Trump at one time or another, has said he admires. He has nominated as Director of National Intelligence a person who supported deposed Syrian dictator Assad and Putin. Then he said he would consider economic coercion to get Canada to become part of the United States. Remember, these are all sovereign nations.
Just knowing that Trump, and many he has chosen to surround himself with, think like this, should frighten all decent Americans, as well as the rest of the world. Trump often says outrageous things like this without any real thought, or knowledge, as to what they entail, and what the repercussions would be. Remember his suggestion about swallowing bleach to battle COVID? Clearly, he often doesnāt know what he is talking about. Some think these statements are just meant as diversions, to take our attention from the outrageous things he is actually doing. Too often the news media takes the bait, and they along with the American people, end up losing track of the real and immediate damage he is doing to the nation.
It is clear many of these outrageous thoughts seem to come from the last person who whispered in his ear. Today that is often Elon Musk, who has been getting involved in the politics of the United Kingdom, Germany, and other nations. Muskās closeness to Trump seems based mostly on how much money he has given to Trump and his causes. Some think he may have even promised Trump a few billion dollars after his presidency is over. Other social media moguls, and billionaires, are now clearly trying to kiss Trumpās ass. One who has clearly sealed his lips to Trumpās rear end is Mark Zuckerberg of Meta. His announcement that Facebook will no longer fact check posts because he claims he believes in āfree speech,ā led to a wonderful meme I recently saw. It said, āMark Zuckerberg, who passed away recently at the age of 36, a convicted pedophileā¦ā It seems Musk, Zuckerberg, and others have now joined Trump in accepting lying on social media is fine in the name of free speech. Hey, it worked to get Trump elected, and a whole cable network, Fox News, has found how effective lying can be in generating viewers and poisoning the minds of the uneducated, and those who want to believe the bullshit they spout for their own benefit.
We live in an uncharted time. I think itās hard to predict what will happen in the next four years. Will people tire of this dangerous, liar, racist, homophobe, misogynist, felon, found liable for sexual assault? Or will they accept all that he does and speaks? I pray they tire of him, and rebel, before he destroys our country.
Peter Rosenstein is a longtime LGBTQ rights and Democratic Party activist.
Opinions
Second Trump administration will put trans youth at further risk
American politics, culture has global impact
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When Andrew Joseph White, a 26-year-old transgender author, released his third novel, āCompound Fractures,ā a young adult thriller, last fall, it became an instant New York Times, USA Today, and Indie bestseller.
This book is a story about an autistic trans* boy who was dragged into a generational feud. It also mentioned President-elect Donald Trump and his influence on the working class in the American South. The popularity of this novel among young readers shows that modern day teenagers are more political than some folks from older generations expect them to be.
The novel became a bestseller in the midst of the 2024 presidential campaign and White, in his letter to readers, confessed that he wanted to give it a different intro, but had to speak about how tough it is to be a young trans* person in modern-day America.
Donald Trump on Dec. 22 confirmed the fears of A.J. White and millions of other LGBTQ folks from Z and Alpha Generations. At the AmericaFest conference, Trump promised to āstop the transgender lunacyā on the first day of his presidency. He was particularly speaking up against trans* young people’s rights, and against trans* adults’ rights to work with young people.Ā
Donald Trumpās election also increased worries about censorship around childrenās and young adult literature, especially in public and school libraries.
A new report by PEN America showed that during the 2023-2024 school year, book bans increased by nearly 200 percent, targeting not just books about gender and sexuality, but also about racial discrimination, mental health, substance abuse, and other social problems that young people are facing in the everyday world. Such bans are not just making printed books unacceptable for youth who cannot afford buying their own copies. They may prevent authors from writing new books for younger generations, which will also affect American mass culture.
Republicans throughout the U.S. for a long time have behaved more and more authoritarian toward youth. Republicans are trying to attack LGBTQ youth everywhere, erasing them from academia and implementing social media restrictions.
It is tough to be a young person in modern-day America under any administration, even without new laws. All American citizens under 18 can easily be prevented from expressing their religious and political beliefs, forced to stay in abusive environments, can be medicated and institutionalized without their consent, can be separated from their supportive community if their parents say so. Young people under 18 can also be tried in adult court, but they cannot vote or run for office.
All the decisions about their rights are made by people from the older generation.
It is legal to pay young people less for their work, and deny the right to manage their property. Young people from non-supportive families are denied any chances to have normal lives until they turn 18, or even 21. This is basically the situation in most Western cultures, but American teenagers could start to change the system with more informational freedom and support.
But now Donald Trump and his supporters are trying to make everyone believe that young people cannot have their own gender identity, do not have any rights to their body autonomy, and should not be asked about their own feelings until they turn 18. Republicans have also tried to deny young people basic knowledge about the complicated world around them, as if this knowledge could be magically downloaded into a personās mind when they turn 18.
These dangerous trends will create a generation who is used to obeying, but not very used to thinking for themselves and trusting their own feelings. It is basically a very anti-American, anti-individualistic, and authoritarian tendency.
This tendency could have a long-lasting impact on world politics.
It is not an exaggeration to say that no other culture has had such a global impact on the way people around the world think than the American culture, and it is especially true on LGBTQ issues.
When I was an LGBTQ activist in Russia and Ukraine, my fellow post-Soviet activists spoke more about Stonewall and the AIDS epidemic in San Francisco than about the persecution of LGBTQ people in the Soviet Union. By my own experience as a person who was into LGBTQ blogging and journalism in the post-USSR; the videos, posts, features, and essays on LGBTQ issues that you could find on Ukrainian and Russian social media were either a direct translation from English or based on language that American LGBTQ activists created.
Young LGBTQ people around the world are learning to speak for themselves by watching their peer influencers on English-language platforms.
As a young transgender person from Ukraine who had never heard the word trans* until I was a teenager, I understood that I was trans* since I could remember myself. I began accepting myself only after I read more about the American LGBTQ movement.
I saw a lot of young people from Eastern Europe and the Middle East for whom Lana Watchevski became a first name when they came out to their parents, or the first person who helped them to believe that yes, they could be trans* and have a fulfilling life. Folks accepted their transgender peers because there was a transgender person in a Kardashian show. And we badly need more LGBTQ films, cartoons and books for young people, and more freedom for LGBTQ youth to find their own communities. All of this will more likely come from the U.S.
I think Americans would wonder if they find out how often I saw a situation like that ā a young queer Gen Z Tatar person from a small, almost isolated Russian village ā or situations when a Gen Z refugee person from Iran felt comfortable to chat about American LGBTQ culture, and use it to explain their own cultural context. American culture, and America’s online spaces are quite universal.
The same rules work for conservatives.
It is not enough that such dictators as Vladimir Putin, who mirror old American anti-LGBTQ conspiracies in his statements, say that LGBTQ ideas are dangerous for children, or conservative people all around the world began to use āgroomerā rhetoric to describe people who support LGBTQ rights for young people when the pro-Trump Q-Anon movement went global. It is not just endangering LGBTQ youth worldwide, but increasing a gap in mentality between different generations.
But LGBTQ young people already know that there is something unusual about them, and they need information to figure out who they are. Americans could provide it via mass culture. It is worthy to note that Gen Z is much better at understanding the power of the internet, and American Gen Zers could literally make America greater by helping marginalized people in other countries.
Moreover, LGBTQ young people in America are speaking about their experience.
They are able to say what they need. All we need to do is listen, or we will have an international atmosphere where the new generation was raised in denial of basic rights to be themselves, and prevented from learning and thinking independently.
Editorās note: The author uses trans* in order to be inclusive of nonbinary and gender queer people.
Commentary
Reflecting on interactions with President Jimmy Carter
An LGBTQ ally and devout Christian who adored his wife of 77 years
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Itās September 1998, and Iām at lunch with several other journalists and a grandmother. As I sip my Coke, I hear a friendly male voice. You can tell heās smiling. āTime to shake hands now,ā he says.
Weāre at the Carter Center in Atlanta for a few days. The other reporters and I have received Rosalynn Carter Fellowships for Mental Health Journalism. The grandma sitting with us is former first lady Rosalynn Carter, and the man with the warm smile is former President Jimmy Carter. āAs soon as we get on a plane,ā Mrs. Carter says, āJimmy walks down the aisles and shakes hands with everybody. He knows they want to say hi to him.ā
Jimmy Carter died Dec. 29 in hospice care in Georgia. President Biden declared Thursday a National Day of Mourning and Carter’s funeral will take place at Washington National Cathedral that day. After the funeral, Carter and his family will return to Plains, Ga. to Maranatha Baptist Church for a private funeral and then to Carter’s private residence for interment.
Twenty-five years ago, we journos were at the Carter Center to meet with experts in mental health so we could report accurately on the issue.
The fellowship program was founded in 1996 by Rosalynn Carter. Mrs. Carter, who died in 2023 at age 96, was no mere figurehead. She knew every detail about our fellowship projects. Heaven help us, if sheād caught us asleep at the switch.
It takes nothing away from Mrs. Carter to note how essential her personal and professional partnership with her husband Jimmy Carter was to her and her work.
Jimmy and Rosalynn Carter were married in 1946. The first thing that hit you when you saw them together was how deeply they loved each other. There was nothing sappy about how they were with each other.
One morning, President Carter ambled into the conference room before our session on stigma and mental health was about to begin. Kenneth W. Starr had just delivered his report on (then) President Bill Clintonās alleged abuses and affair with Monica Lewinsky. Naturally, we, the reporters in the room, asked Jimmy Carter how he felt about Bill Clinton. We were committed to mental health journalism. But, a former president was there ā standing by the wall.
President Carter didnāt seem to want to hold back. He said he didnāt think that highly of Bill Clinton. But, before he could go on to say more, Mrs. Carter gave him a look. The look you give your spouse after decades of loving togetherness. Especially, if youāre a political couple and your mateās being grilled by scribes eager to make news. āI know,ā Jimmy Carter said, smiling, to Rosalynn Carter, his most ardent supporter and astute critic, āIām talking too much, darlinā. Iām leaving now.ā
You could tell how proud President Carter was of Mrs. Carter. At lunch or dinner, youād see him nodding approvingly at her when she spoke of her work. You could see it in how he teased her. āRosalynn talks about mental health all the time,ā Jimmy Carter said, with a laugh, one night, as he saw Mrs. Carter chatting with us about how the media reported on mental health.
What I most recall about Jimmy Carter is his generosity of spirit. āI beat Jerry Ford,ā President Carter said, ābut Rosalyn and I are good friends with the Fords now.ā
He wasnāt using the word āfriendsā in the way politicos often do. The Carters and the Fords were friends who worked together on mental health and other issues.
I hadnāt yet come out as a lesbian when I was at the Carter Center. But I didnāt feel I had to remain closeted or silent about my (then) partner. Carter was, what today likely would be an oxymoron: a born-again Christian, who welcomed everyone.
The Carter Center, which the Carters founded after his presidency, is like a theme park, where, instead of standing in line for attractions, people work to resolve conflicts and eradicate diseases.
Thank you, President Carter for your work, humanity and being an LGBTQ ally. R.I.P., Jimmy Carter.
Kathi Wolfe, a writer and poet, was a regular contributor to the Blade. She wrote this tribute just before she passed away in June 2024.
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