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QUEERY: Michelle Carnes/Dr. Torcher
The D.C. Weirdos performer/creative producer answers 20 gay questions
Performers in the D.C. Weirdo Show know the power of reclaiming words and art forms traditionally used to subjugate.
The show started at the Palace of Wonders on H Street in 2006 as a place for sideshow performers, a type of performance Michelle Carnes says has “a violent history of appropriation and displaying people of color as oddities and freaks in mythologized and racist ways, such as savages, wildmen, orientalist swamis, etc. Sideshow served to reassure white middle-class folks of their normalcy, supremacy and privilege.”
But it also “offered a place for marginalized people who are different and usually stigmatized to have a voice, a platform to represent their experience and have greater understanding and empathy from the world around them. That is the tradition we are committed to preserving at D.C. Weirdo Show,” she says.
“Weirdos for Life! A Benefit for Trans Lifeline” is Friday, Sept. 21 at 9 p.m. at 1523 22nd St., N.W. Tickets are $16 in advance or $20 cash at the door. The event is a benefit for Trans Lifeline, a peer-supported hotline staffed for and by trans people. Details at dcweirdoshow.com.
Carnes, a 42-year-old Indianapolis native, holds a Ph.D. and works in the federal government as a public health anthropologist by day. She hosts and is the lead creative producer for the Weirdo Show, held monthly except December. Her alter ego Dr. Torcher — her sideshow specialty is fire manipulation — started three years ago. She’s also a musician, comedian, drag performer, storyteller, emcee and clown. She’s learning to juggle and play the violin. She came to Washington 15 years ago to study at American University.
Carnes is in a married/poly relationship with Mark Anduss and Melissa Kaplan, who both work on the shows with Carnes. They live together in Bethesda. Carnes enjoys reading, writing, painting and creating in her free time.

(Photo by Stereo Vision Photography)
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
I came out when I was 16 to my friends; to my family when I was 18 and already at college. The hardest person to tell was also the easiest, my dad. Hardest because it would have devastated me if he had rejected me over it but also, easiest because I think, deep down, I felt confident that wasn’t how he would react.
Who’s your LGBT hero?
Dr. Evelyn Blackwood. She was my queer anthropology professor at Purdue and she believed in my ability to leave Indiana, get an education and do something with myself. My life would be very different and much, much worse if she hadn’t found me when she did and I am grateful.
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?
Where the baseball stadium is now, there was a complex of amazing warehouse-style clubs in D.C. Wet was at L and Half Street, where Miz Vicki’s party, “Soft and Wet” used to happen. It was the longest running black lesbian strip party in the country, I will never get over it being gone and fuck baseball.
Describe your dream wedding.
I got married in Las Vegas by a gay Elvis in a pink Cadillac. It took 15 minutes and 25 of our favorite people were there. That was literally perfect.
What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?
I was going to say mental health but that’s an LGBT issue. Frankly, I’m not sure there is such a thing as a non-LGBT issue since we’re everywhere and part of the world.
What historical outcome would you change?
Colonization
What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
Tina Fey’s amazing Sarah Palin spoof on SNL, which many people believe significantly helped derail Palin’s career. I love the power of comedy and satire. That’s a beautiful thing.
On what do you insist?
Performers of color, queers, trans artists and womxn taking up space in the sideshow art form, despite its misogyny, homophobia, racism, xenophobia.
What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?
Something about D.C. Weirdo Show because our show is coming up soon!
If your life were a book, what would the title be?
“Shelly Bean” (my dad’s nickname for me growing up)
If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?
Find out who paid for that research to be done and ask why they wasted resources on something so unnecessary. Culture is what needs to change, not us.
What do you believe in beyond the physical world?
I’m an atheist. This is it, y’all. Let’s make it count!
What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?
My advice is for cis white folks in the movement: Intersectional politics are not optional. Learn to be accountable when you mess up. Step aside as needed. Support quietly without expectation of credit or reward. Embrace your humanity so that you may better embrace and care for those around you. Stop calling the cops. Stop asking me to speak on all-white panels about queer stuff. Stop defending rich white queers’ bad behavior because they fund your non-profit or they’re a “good customer.” Pay queers of color as much as you can, as often as you can.
What would you walk across hot coals for?
I’ve walked on broken glass barefoot on stage for $100 so how does $150 sound?
What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?
That homophobic people are all just secretly queer and will miraculously transform into a nice person if they come out. Yeah, none of us are immune to this internalized homophobia and lateral violence. Queer people struggle with it and it bothers me when folks implicitly (or explicitly) claim that queerness “prevents” us from doing this harm to each other. It’s bullshit.
What’s your favorite LGBT movie?
The “San Junipero” episode of “Black Mirror.” It feels like a movie to me and I love it.
What’s the most overrated social custom?
Going around to say goodbye to everyone at large gatherings. It was good to see you and I won’t interrupt your current amazing conversation to tell you that. I also like the implication that I will simply see you again, which I hope is true.
What trophy or prize do you most covet?
Getting my Ph.D. 10 years ago taught me that no title, award, degree will satisfy anyone who already believes I am unworthy without it, including myself.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
That my life won’t always be survival and it’s OK to look forward to that and to be willing to rest sometimes, when I need it.
Why Washington?
This place needs more weird to help us get through it all, together. Don’t you think?
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Summer in the City: Free exhibits, movies, more fill D.C.’s calendar
America 250 celebrations continue
From late-night museum visits and outdoor jazz concerts to free movie screenings and America250 exhibitions, Washington’s summer calendar is packed with events that don’t charge admission. Here’s a look at some of the free activities happening across the District through September and beyond.
Museum exhibitions
The Renwick Gallery is presenting State Fairs: Growing American Craft, an exhibition that looks at unique and unconventional crafts from the 19th century to the present. It will run until Sept. 7, and admission is free.
The Arts and Industries Building, located next to the Smithsonian Castle, is presenting the exhibition Voices and Votes: Exploring Democracy Across America. The exhibition features the development of American independence and what that has meant over time, beginning with the Revolutionary War. Admission to the museum is free, and the exhibition runs until Sept. 7.
The National Gallery of Art presents Dear America, an exhibit featuring more than 100 pieces of work, including letters, photographs, and drawings that depict American landscapes and depictions of freedom. The exhibition will run until Sept. 20.
The National Museum of Women in the Arts is exhibiting Burnished: Pueblo Pottery until Sept. 27. The exhibit features pottery from the Southwest, and while most of the pottery belongs to women artists, a few also reflect those who have advocated for women.
Extending past this summer, the exhibition ¡Puro Ritmo! The Musical Journey of Salsa will be at the National Museum of the American Latino until July 2028. The exhibition shows how Afro-Cuban music has become a staple in the U.S. Admission is free.
The Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Library will feature the exhibition District Vibes / American Pride: How DC Changed American Culture, which will highlight all of the ways D.C. has impacted American life. The exhibit will run until Sept. 27.
At the Folger Shakespeare Library, the exhibit Imagining Shakespeare: Mythmaking and Storytelling in the Regency Era will be on view through Aug. 2. All the portraits on display come from the Boydell Shakespeare Gallery in London.
The United States Botanic Garden will be open until 8 p.m. on Aug. 20 and Sept. 17, as part of America’s State Flowers: An America250 Celebration. The evenings will include live music, mocktails, ice cream, and snacks.
The National Gallery of Art Sculpture Garden will have extended hours, staying open until 8 p.m. Wednesday to Saturday until Sept. 3.
Live performances
On Aug. 7, the postgame Nationals concert series will continue with Jordan Davis performing. To see the concert, guests just need to buy tickets to the Nationals game.
Jazz in the Garden will run each Friday until Aug. 14. The event has free admission, but those interested have to enter a lottery due to the high demand for the event.
From May to October, Capital Harvest Market occurs every Wednesday from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. at the Ronald Reagan Building and International Trade Center. The market features fresh foods, crafts, and recipes for unique dishes. A full list of vendors is available on Capital Harvest’s website.
Live! Concert Series on the Plaza will feature live performances at Woodrow Wilson Plaza until Sept. 25. The performances run Monday to Friday from 12-1 p.m. Admission is free to the performances.
DowntownDC Live! at Anthem Row is running until July 30, with free performances every Thursday from 5:30 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. The final performance will feature HUE and a vintage flea market hosted by Get Flee Marketplace.
Located in Adams Morgan, AdMo Vibe will present live performances every Thursday at 6 p.m. in Kalorama Park. Guests are encouraged to check out Adams Morgan before and after shows, and it is an event for all ages.
Other events
Union Market is hosting drive-in movies on Aug. 8, featuring “Monsters, Inc.”, and Sept. 12, featuring “Wicked.” On Aug. 8, the parking lot will open at 7:30 p.m., with the movie starting at 8:25 p.m. On Sept. 12, the parking lot will open at 6:35 p.m., and the movie will start at 7:30 p.m.
Sunset Cinema at the Wharf will also be available one day a month. On Aug. 12, “10 Things I Hate About You” will premiere, and on Aug. 26, “Project Hail Mary.” No tickets are necessary.
The Library of Congress will also show movies. On Aug. 6, guests are invited to watch “Apollo 13.” The movie will be shown at 8 p.m., with additional live performances beginning at 7 p.m.
For fans of Asian media, the Okaton convention will be at Walter E. Washington Convention Center from July 31-Aug. 2. Festivities will include cosplay contests, skits, live music, and panel discussions.
Washington Spirit’s season also begins in August. The Spirit is Washington’s National Women’s League, with matchups occurring between the San Diego Wave, the North Carolina Courage, the Orlando Pride, and the Bay FC.
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Summer in D.C. brings sports, Restaurant Week, festivals, and more
Summer in D.C. just hits different. Congress is out, school is out, the sun is out, thighs are out. With the skies clearing from Canadian smoke, here are a few ways to stay entertained.
Dining
Summer restaurant week: The Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington (RAMW) is once again hosting Summer Restaurant Week, Aug. 18-24. This weeklong dining experience showcases the dynamic dining scene of the DMV, including 2026 RAMMY Award-winning favorites (the annual D.C. food awards show that took place June 29). Participating restaurants will offer three-course brunch and lunch selections for $25 or $35 per person, and three-course dinners for $40, $55 and $65 per person.
New Restaurants: A handful of new spots have opened, so the summer is a great time to check them out:
- Oribu: A new Mediterranean-Japanese restaurant in the Grand Hyatt hotel, which just underwent a remodeling effort. The sleek restaurant brings upscale charm, with dishes like Wagyu beef tartare with potato pavé and caviar.
- The Oak Room: A snazzy old-school American grill has just opened in Georgetown, alongside its sister upstairs supper club (Bernadette’s) restaurant, in the old El Centro space.
- Uchi: This showy Japanese sushi-forward chain has landed in Dupont with a chef’s tasting menu of favorites like fatty tuna.
- Kathmandu: Recalling the capital of Nepal, this warm, buzzy subterranean restaurant right in the heart of U Street brings spice, flair, and rare ingredients to its dishes (see: buffalo burgers) and drinks.
Sports
- Washington Spirit Pride Night OUT: On Sunday, Aug. 23, head to Audi Field for a massive, high-energy game following the exciting month of World Cup. The designated Pride Night OUT game promises boisterous crowds plus pre- and post-game community engagements.
- Washington Tennis Open – Now called the Mubadala DC Open, this annual tournament is only combined mens’ and womens’ 500-level tennis tournament in the world. The open is one of D.C.’s longest-standing sports traditions, and will take place at the Rock Creek Park Tennis Center July 25-Aug. 2. Naomi Osaka, Venus Williams, Ben Shelton, Frances Tiafoe, and others are expected to play.
Festivals
- Afro Plus Fest: This huge, three-day Afro-Caribbean Hip-Hop Festival brings together headliners Davido, Alkaline, and Wizkid, plus Tems and Ayra Starr. The event moves from RFK to the Northwest Stadium Complex for three days, Sept. 4-6.
- Capital Fringe Festival: Running from July 11-21, this massive celebration features dozens of live theater, comedy, dance, and boundary-pushing nighttime performances across multiple DC neighborhoods.
- The National Book Festival returns, with headliners like Cynthia Erivo, and Martin Scorsese. The one-day festival, Saturday, Aug. 22, brings together bookworms and word nerds under the theme “America 250: It’s Your Story.” There are talks, workshops, musical sessions and more.
- All Things Go: A three-day festival Sept. 25-27 at Merriweather Post Pavilion featuring Mitski, Hayley Williams, Brandi Carlile, MUNA, Zara Larsson, Ethel Cain, and many, many more artists. There are single-day and three-day tickets. Featuring and highlighting female artists, the festival has turned into a must-see for many LGBTQ audience members.
- Fuchsia Fest: The inaugural Fuchsia Fest is a new multi-day celebration created to celebrate LGBTQ community and expression, bringing together a mix of community gatherings, entertainment, and nightlife. The event takes place Sept. 18-20 and is hosted by Capital Pride.
Art and Music
- United We Dance: A high-energy rave with house, techno, bass, and festival music, on Aug. 1 at the 9:30 Club.
- The Fray. On Aug. 14, this American rock band famous for How To Save A Life is at Merriweather Post Pavilion.
- Kesha: Kesha’s high-energy The Freedom Tour comes to the D.C. area on Aug. 14 at Jiffy Lube Live.
- ALOK: On Sept. 3 at Lincoln Theater, ALOK (they/them) performs. The poet, comedian, and actor is putting on a new comedy show.
- 2charm, the emerging Australian electronic club-pop duo popular with the queer community, which blends hyperpop and dance music, comes to the Atlantis.
- Sapphic Dance Party: a vibrant, inclusive nightlife and social event designed specifically for queer women, lesbians, bisexuals, trans individuals, and nonbinary folks, at Atlantis on Aug. 21.
- Jazz in the Garden: The most quintessential of D.C. activities returns Friday evenings through Aug. 14. This season’s theme, “American Sounds,” is a nod to the nation’s 250th anniversary. Tunes themes range from Appalachian and Americana to Creole jazz, Hill Country blues, contemporary jazz, and more. Tickets are available through a lottery system a week before each event.
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Tickets on sale for chef Patrick O’Connell’s book launch event
Sept. 18 kickoff to feature José Andrés, Tom Sietsema
Acclaimed chef Patrick O’Connell is preparing to publish his new memoir, “Main, Middle & Gay” in September and he’s launching the book with an event on Sept. 18 at 6 p.m. at Lisner Auditorium featuring Chef José Andrés and former Washington Post food critic Tom Sietsema.
Tickets for the event go on sale Tuesday, July 21 at Ticketmaster; prices start at $55.
O’Connell, who’s gay, is the pioneering Michelin-starred chef and longtime proprietor of the Inn at Little Washington. He spoke with the Blade about the September event and the launch of his first memoir.
“I’ve known [Andrés and Sietsema] for more than 25 years and I have great respect for them,” O’Connell said. “I felt that it would allow us to add a different dimension rather than just have an interviewer. The chemistry will be fun and lively and unpredictable and exciting. I think we’re all different personalities and we’ll compliment each other.”
O’Connell has published cookbooks but this is his first memoir. The event will feature a short film that will highlight his work and the Inn.
“What I hope to do with the event is bring the book to life visually,” he said. “So we’re producing a short film that will be part of it. Most of the audience will not have read the book so it’ll give them a visual flavor of the book. It parallels the evolution of American cuisine over 50 years. It’s a rare perspective to be in the trenches for that long.”
The book’s title refers to the location of the garage on the corner of Main, Middle, and Gay streets in Washington, Va., where he launched his restaurant that became an international culinary destination.
The Blade will publish the rest of its wide-ranging interview with O’Connell in September in conjunction with the book’s release.
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