California
Community in pain remembers Laura Ann Carleton
Calif. boutique owner murdered over Pride flag
The news of the shooting death of a beloved local merchant this past weekend spread at a speed that would match a seasonal California wildfire in this mountain community above Lake Arrowhead.
Now that community and its LGBTQ community are in mourning and deep pain.
Murdered over a Pride flag, Laura Ann Carleton, 66, is remembered by her husband of 28 years, nine children, family, friends, and fans worldwide, but most especially by the tightknit community where she owned a clothing boutique called Mag.Pi.
A lifelong ally of the LGBTQ community, she proudly flew the instantly recognizable rainbow Pride flag in front of her store.
Vandals in the what locals have said is an increasingly homophobic community near Lake Arrowhead tore down her flag repeatedly. Each time, she put up a bigger one. She expressed fear to close friends that one day these constant vandalizations would escalate to an in-person altercation.
Then, on Aug. 18, Carletonās fears came true when a 27-year-old male tried to vandalize Carletonās flag yet again. She got into a heated verbal argument with the armed man who hurled homophobic remarks at her. He then pulled out a concealed handgun shooting and murdering her.
Prior to the murder, the suspect, Travis Ikeguchi, posted several homophobic images on social media including a burning pride flag.
āThis disgusting hate has no place in CA,ā tweeted California Gov. Gavin Newsom shortly after Carletonās death.
The destruction of Pride flags has been under review in several states as a hate crime.
āLetās be clear,ā said representatives for Equality California. āā Lauri Carleton was a victim of the hate-filled calls to action made by politicians and extremists that continue to push false narratives and misinformation about the LGBTQ+ community. Her unwavering commitment to standing for the dignity and respect of LGBTQ+ people is a testament to her kindness and humanity and will always be remembered.
āMore than 350 anti-LGBTQ+ incidents occurred from June 2022 to April 2023, accompanied by the introduction of more than 500 anti-LGBTQ pieces of legislation introduced across the country in 2023 alone. This hate does not happen in a vacuum ā it is all part of a backlash to the advances made by the LGBTQ community. We must continue to stand against this rising tide of hatred.ā
Before opening her clothing stores, Carleton studied at the Art Center for School and Design. While there, she built a reputation for being kind-hearted and creative. Eventually, she joined the staff of Kenneth Cole Productions in 1982 and worked for the company for more than 15 years, becoming an executive, according to the companyās website.
Cole posted a statement on social media confirming Carleton had been a friend and a long-time associate of his company. He called her killing āan unnecessary and tragic death.ā
The Lake Arrowhead LGBTQ group called Carleton a āremarkable figureā, whose āunwavering supportā for the community and ādedication to creating a safe and inclusive space within her shop touched the lives of many.ā
āToday was a very sad day for Lake Arrowhead and for the LGBTQ community. Our friend and supporter Lauri Carleton ā¦ was murdered defending her lgbtq+ Pride flags in front of her store in Cedar Glen, California,ā the group wrote in a statement. āLauri did not identify as LGBTQ+ but spent her time helping and advocating for everyone in the community. She will be truly missed.ā
Matthew Clevenger, a co-founder of the organization, recalled that ānew folks moving into town ā new couples, new LGBTQ families ā were concerned about moving up here. We hear stories about them driving by her store and seeing the flags and feeling so welcome.
āThey immediately felt the acceptance and were no longer afraid to be up here,ā Clevenger told KABC and other media outlets. āAnd Lauri did that for them.ā
The suddenness of the heinous crime seemed to leave many family members and friends in disbelief at their loss. A family photo of Carleton has been circulating the internet that embodies her love of nature and effortless style. In it, Carlton wears her long, wavy hair down under a sun hat. She has on turtle shell sunglasses and a denim button-down top under a sand-colored jacket.
āWe are all devastated for her husband Bort,ā said film director Paul Feig, a close friend of Carletonās, āand her family and the LGBTQ+ community, for whom Lauri was such a true ally.ā Her alleged murderer was later shot and killed by the San Bernardino police and so no longer poses a threat to the community. But this intolerance has to end. Anyone using hateful language against the LGBTQ+ community has to realize their words matter and that their words can inspire violence against innocent, loving people. Letās all keep moving forward with tolerance and love. Letās not let Lauriās tragic death be in vain.ā
Other friends lamented that they had just seen Carleton alive and well and were making plans to take a trip to the lake together.
Actress Bridget Everett ā of the HBO MAX dramedy āSomebody Somewhereā ā also mourned Carleton in a post on Instagram, saying it was not the first encounter Carleton faced over displaying the Pride flag.
āIn the past, when someone took down her flag or vandalized it, sheād put up another one,ā Everett said in her post, which was accompanied by a photo of Carleton. āThe last time I saw Lauri was, oddly enough, at Lake Arrowhead Pride, both in the parade and then at a party. All that anti-LGBTQ rhetoric has a price. And now, Lauriās husband Bort, her daughters, friends and community are devastated. And for what?ā
The local Mountain Provisions Cooperative wrote a moving tribute on Instagram:
āIn loving memory of our dear friend, mom to many, ally, organizer, entrepreneur, founding member and soul of our co-op Lauri Carleton.
Lauri was a pillar in our community, an immovable force in her values for equality, love, and justice. If you knew Lauri you know she loved hard, laughed often, and nurtured and protected those she cared about. She was a force, she loved to crack jokes and wanted to live as joyful of a life as possible. We will continue to stand for the values she so selflessly stood for. Her death will not be in vain š
Lauri and her husband Bort were pivotal in organizing our Free Store which provided free food and supplies for four months after the blizzard. Lauri put her whole heart into keeping it going as long as we could. Pay an act of kindness forward in her honor. Our community needs as much as love as we can get right now.
Fly your flags in honor of Lauri š³ļøāš love will prevail. Please respect the privacy and be respectful of family and friends grieving this horrific loss š
Sending love to our entire community, especially our queer community. Stay safe friends.ā
āI admire her, and Iām so proud of her, and I know she passed standing up for something she believed in,ā said Ari Carleton, one of her daughters.
āShe was so fearless and any negative reaction she just powered through,ā Ari Carleton added. āThe flags have been torn down before by different individuals, and she always went and ordered an even larger flag in response.ā
During his Monday press briefing, San Bernardino County Sheriff Shannon Dicus spoke about the national attention this case has received:
āThis particular victim has had an impact really across the United States,ā said the sheriff. āWeāve been reached out by the vice president of the United States. Our victim certainly had a major impact on the community and people that sheās come across with during her lifetime.ā
The family has asked for time to hold a vigil for Carleton. The vigil will be announced when the family deems it appropriate to do so and will be open to the public.
California
LGBTQ journalists convene in Los Angeles for largest-ever NLGJA conference
NLGJA hits Hollywood: Empowering diverse voices in media
This weekend, the heat wasn’t the only thing taking over Los Angeles. NLGJA: The Association of LGBTQ+ Journalists was hosting its convention in Hollywood. This weekend was slated to be the biggest and most attended conference NLGJA has ever seen.
The NLGJA conference is hosted annually in a different city, focusing on uplifting and supporting LGBTQ journalists who have often been overlooked in newsrooms across the U.S. This year it’s in Los Angeles at the Loews Hollywood Hotel, right off the famous Hollywood Boulevard. The conference has an extensive range of events including networking meetings, panel discussions with LGBTQ media giants and workshops, all designed to aid LGBTQ journalists.
The mission of NLGJA is to “advance fair and accurate coverage of LGBTQ+ communities and issues” and “promote diverse and inclusive workplaces.” NLGJA has worked toward this mission since 1990, when Leroy F. Aarons founded the association.
Los Angeles last hosted the conference in 2003, the year discrimination protections for sexual orientation and gender identity expression became state law. It was held at the Renaissance Hollywood Hotel that year and attendance included more than 500 journalists from around the nation.
The city has a vibrant gay scene ā West Hollywood (often referred to as WeHo) has more than 40 percent of residents identifying within the LGBTQ community, holds the record for the earliest lesbian publication in the U.S. with Vice Versa in 1947, and hosted the first Pride parade in the U.S. (alongside New York and Chicago.)
This year has a long lineup of convention speakers touching on multiple themes. The lineup includes actors Jesse Tyler Ferguson and Zachary Quinto, who will talk about their upcoming projects; CNN national news correspondent David Culver to discuss accurate social media reporting; Los Angeles Times reporter Tracy Brown to dissect pop culture reporting; and many more.
The conference talks cover a wide variety of topics, but all center around maximizing coverage of LGBTQ communities in traditional and new age media. Other key topics include how and why outlets need to diversify newsrooms as well as how to properly cover the ongoing and nuanced fight for transgender rights in America.
Besides professional talks, the conference offers LGBTQ journalists a way to strengthen their community, much of which is achieved outside the conference halls. One way the conference does this is by hosting a “night OUT” at a local gay bar where discussions of journalist-source relations, how to navigate being the only queer person in the newsroom, and what to say to allies when they begin to encroach on unfriendly rhetoric are just some of the topics that can be heard from attendees.
In addition to talks and community building, the conference is giving out awards to LGBTQ journalists who have made significant contributions to the coverage of LGBTQ issues in the past year. Awardees include popular social media journalist Erin Reed, the Texas Newsroom’s Lauren McGaughy, “Journalist of the Year” Steven Romo and many more.
This conference is crucial for the ongoing professional development of LGBTQ journalists, providing a unique opportunity to connect with peers, share experiences and gain insights from others within their community.
For more information, visit NLGJA’s website at www.nlgja.org.
California
Effort behind Calif. ballot measure to limit transgender youth’s rights fails
Protect Kids California failed to collect enough signatures
The effort by the anti-LGBTQ conservative group Protect Kids California, headed by Roseville school board member Jonathan Zachreson, to collect some 550,000 valid signatures to place a transphobic transgender youth proposal on the Nov. 5 ballot has failed.
In a press release on Tuesday, the deadline set by the California secretary of state, the group claimed it had gathered more than 400,000 signatures, falling short of the requisite threshold number for inclusion on the ballot.
Protect Kids California submitted the proposed ballot initiative ā presented as the āProtect Kids of California Act of 2024,ā last September. The proposed ballot initiative would have:
- Forced outing of transgender youth to their parents, ensuring that trans kids cannot have safety or privacy in schools if they are not ready to come out to family. Often these policies also include violations of privacy for the student when they discuss their gender identity with school counselors.
- Banning of transgender youth from sports that match their gender identity, stigmatizing them and often forcing them out of sports altogether. Notably, these provisions typically fail to differentiate between high-stakes elite competitions and casual middle school teams. They also generally donāt provide for pathways to participation like hormone therapy, a method that has been researched and employed to address concerns of potential āunfair advantagesā in competitions. California, which allows youth to access gender affirming care, will have youth who never underwent the puberty of their assigned sex at birth who would also be banned under this provision.
- Banning gender affirming care for trans youth shown to be lifesaving. Gender affirming care is associated with a 73 percent reduction in suicidality and over 50 studies assembled by Cornell University show its benefits. California is one of several states that has recently moved to protect transgender youth and their medical care, and such a restriction would impact a large number of transgender kids in the state.
We want to thank our tens of thousands of supporters and volunteers for this truly historic effort!
— Protect Kids CA (@ProtectKidsCA) May 28, 2024
Together, we collected over 400,000 signatures – an unprecedented achievement for a 100% grassroots effort. You really are amazing! š
While it is unfortunate we did not haveā¦ pic.twitter.com/DdRJinW2uY
āWe are relieved that anti-LGBTQ+ extremists have failed to reach the required signature threshold to qualify their anti-transgender ballot initiatives to the November 2024 ballot. Equality California will continue to advocate for the rights of LGBTQ+ youth everywhere, and push back against any and all efforts by extremist groups who seek to discriminate against them,ā said Equality California Executive Director Tony Hoang. āTo every LGBTQ+ youth in California: Know that you are loved and valued.ā
The anti-LGBTQ group placed partial blame for the failure on California Attorney General Rob Bonta, who the group had sued over the title and summary he assigned to its ballot measure that would strip rights from trans minors.
The Bay Area Reporter noted the Liberty Justice Center filed a lawsuit on Feb. 13 in Sacramento County Superior Court on behalf of Protect Kids California that alleged Bontaās personal beliefs led to a biased title and summary. Therefore, the center contended the ballot measure proponents should be given 180 additional days for signature gathering without discounting signatures already collected.
āRespondent [Bonta] has demonstrated that he personally, and in his official capacity, is opposed to any kind of notification by a public school to a parent or guardian that his or her child is exhibiting signs of gender dysphoria when the child asks the school to publicly treat him or her as the opposite sex with a new name or pronouns, and to allow the child to use the sex-segregated facilities of the opposite sex,ā claimed the groups in their lawsuit.
But a Sacramento Superior Court judge sided with Bonta in a ruling that was first issued tentatively on April 19 and was made final on April 22. Judge Stephen Acquisto ruled that Bontaās title and summary are accurate.
āUnder current law, minor students have express statutory rights with respect to their gender identity,ā Acquisto stated. āA substantial portion of the proposed measure is dedicated to eliminating or restricting these statutory rights ā¦ The proposed measure would eliminate express statutory rights and place a condition of parental consent on accommodations that are currently available without such condition.”
“The proposed measure objectively ārestricts rightsā of transgender youth by preventing the exercise of their existing rights. āRestricts rights of transgender youthā is an accurate and impartial description of the proposed measure,ā Acquisto added.
The attorney generalās office has some leeway when it comes to determining ballot titles, the judge noted.
In a statement provided to the Bay Area Reporter on April 24, after news that the decision had been made permanent, Protect Kids California attorney Nicole Pearson stated, āThe mental gymnastics used to justify this prejudicial title and summary are not only an egregious abuse of discretion that entitles our clients to an appeal, but a chilling interpretation of law that jeopardizes the very foundation of our constitutional republic. We are reviewing our options for an appeal of these clear errors and will announce a decision shortly.ā
Additional reporting by the Bay Area Reporter.
California
First lady highlights attacks on LGBTQ rights at HRCās Los Angeles dinner
Jill Biden delivered event’s keynote speech
In her remarks Saturday to the people attending the Human Rights Campaignās 2024 Los Angeles Dinner at the Fairmont Century Plaza Hotel, first lady Jill Biden took direct aim at what she labeled as MAGA extremists attempting to instill fear in the LGBTQ community by legislative attacks on the marginalized community’s rights.
Biden, in reference to the federal budget package passed by Congress on Friday to avert a government shutdown, told the audience:
“Today, this community is under attack. Rights are being stripped away. Freedoms are eroding. More and more state laws are being passed targeting this community. Just last night, we had to fend off more than 50 anti-gay amendments that Republicans tried to force into the government funding bill.”
She added: “These were extreme measures aimed directly at this community ā measures that would have limited healthcare, eroded protections for same-sex couples and more. And they served only one purpose: To spread hate and fear.”
Cautioning that history showed that “democracies donāt disappear overnight,” Biden warned, “They disappear slowly. Subtly. Silently. A book ban. A court decision. A ‘Donāt Say Gay’ law. One group of people loses their rights. And then another, and another. Until one morning you wake up ā and you no longer live in a democracy.”
The first lady also made mention of Nex Benedict, the 16-year-old transgender Oklahoma high school student whose death last month was ruled a suicide and had garnered national attention:
“Laws and attitudes can lead to devastating consequences ā harm that canāt be undone, that leaves parents torn by grief. Parents and grandparents like Sue Benedict ā may Nex rest in peace ā and the countless others who have lost LGBTQ children to suicide, bullying and hate. Parents who have stood by their kids, loved them, learned from them, but who will never have another tomorrow with them. This is our chapter of history ā and itās up to us how it ends,” she said.
“Yes, the MAGA extremists are seeking to erase these hard-fought gains, trying to unwind all the progress weāve made. They want us to be afraid,” she stressed.
Biden then assured the audience: “They want to take our victories away, but we wonāt let them. Your president wonāt let them. I wonāt let them. Weāre going to fight. And we will win.”
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