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Still seeing red over Oscars’ pink snub

What’s to blame for failing to nominate ‘Barbie’ director?



From left, Ryan Gosling and Margot Robbie in 'Barbie.' (Photo courtesy of Warner Bros.)

Hi, I’m Seeing Red Barbie.

It’s awards season. The Oscar nominations are in. Once again, I and many other movie fans, are bemused — ticked off by the Academy of Motion Pictures’ nominations. Especially, its snubs of “Barbie,” one of the most fun, queer, and feminist movies, if not ever, at least, in recent memory.

As others have pointed out, “Barbie” is, particularly for queers, women and others discovering themselves in the face of stigma and bigotry, “The Wizard of Oz” of the 2020s. 

Hearing that Greta Gerwig wasn’t nominated for Best Director, though “Barbie” not only received the Oscar nom for Best Picture, but broke the Hollywood record for highest-grossing Hollywood movie directed by a woman, felt like a sucker punch to me.

I wasn’t alone.

Many online wondered: did the movie direct itself? Should Stereotypical Barbie have been nominated for Best Director? This wasn’t the only “Barbie” snub. 

Though it’s one of the best crafted, most beautiful looking films (who will ever forget its vivid pinkness?), “Barbie” didn’t get the Oscar nom for cinematography or editing.

Here’s another thing that hit us “Barbie” aficionados hard: Margot Robbie, (Stereotypical Barbie) wasn’t nominated for Best Actress. Ironically, Ryan Gosling (Ken) received the Best Supporting Actor nom.

I don’t mean to be too much of a curmudgeon. The Oscars are always entertaining.

There were some fab Oscar noms. Some were historic. There were even a fair number with a queer quotient. In a cultural climate of increased anti-queerness, I don’t dismiss this as mere entertainment. 

The highlights of the Oscar noms for me include:

One of my favorite movies of 2023, “Maestro,” the biopic about bisexual composer Leonard Bernstein’s marriage to Felicia Montealalegre was nominated for Best Picture. Casey Mulligan, received the Best Actress nomination for playing Felicia (who seems just as important, if not more so, as Leonard in “Maestro”).

Queer ally Annette Bening was nominated for Best Actress for playing the title role in the queer-centric “Nyad.” Jodie Foster was nominated for Best Supporting Actress for playing Nyad’s best friend. I loved “Nyad,” with its queer vibes. 

Lily Gladstone made history. She was the first Native American to be nominated for Best Actress (for “Killers of the Flower Moon”).

Gay actor Colman Domingo was nominated for Best Actor for his portrayal of gay civil rights hero Bayard Rustin in  “Rustin.” This movie illuminates Bayard Rustin’s life and role in queer history in ways that no textbook ever could.

But these bright spots don’t mitigate the Academy’s snubs of “Barbie.”

True, “Barbie,” which earned more than $1.4 billion in ticket sales, received eight Oscar nominations. In addition to Best Picture, and Gosling’s Best Supporting Actor nom, two of the film’s fun songs “What Was I Made For” and “I’m Just Ken” were nominated for Oscars. America Ferrera (Gloria) received the Best Supporting Actress nomination.

As others have noted, a woman Justine Triet, was nominated for Best Director for the wonderful film “Anatomy of a Fall.”

Even so with “Barbie,” it’s hard not to feel that sexism wasn’t at work. And maybe a bit of subtle snubbing of queerness.

Since the Oscars began, only three women have won the Best Director Oscar.

“Barbie” is a brilliant movie. It dazzles you with its pinkness, costumes, and music. Women, girls, queer folk, and even discerning hetero fans take in a funny, non-preachy send-up of the male gaze, perfect bodies, red-meat masculinity and girly-girly femininity. Complete with Sugar Daddy Ken and Kate McKinnon as Weird Barbie. Along with trans actress Hari Nef as Doctor Barbie.

What could be more queer than that?

There are only so many slots for Best Director nominations. But I can’t help but wonder at Gerwig’s omission. Were Academy voters offended by Gerwig’s taking on the male gaze in “Barbie?” Did they ignore Robbie because the movie had such a queer quotient? 

Was “Barbie” just too pink, too girly, to get the leading Oscar nods, that a blue, boy picture would receive?

It’s water under the dam now. But, like Kay Thompson in the fab 1957 Hollywood musical “Funny Face,” we can “think pink.”

Kathi Wolfe, a writer and a poet, is a longtime Blade contributor. Her new poetry collection is ‘The Porpoise In The Pink Alcove.’



There must be a ceasefire in Gaza — NOW!

Stop funding Israeli war machine with U.S. tax dollars



(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

We are care activists. As care activists, we are involved with social justice movements in this country and globally. 

It almost defies language what Israeli forces have perpetrated upon the Palestinian people since Oct. 7, 2023; in their disproportionate and vengeful retaliation against millions of Gazan civilians in response to the Hamas attack on thousands of Israeli citizens. We call out the loss of innocent Israeli lives in the same breath that we call for the survival of the Palestinian people. Months into this genocide, carnage and atrocity, we join with millions across the planet who bear witness to and protest the devastation of  human and environmental life. There must be a permanent ceasefire, NOW.

What we bear witness to in Palestine and Israel has a deeply rooted history. For almost a century, the Naqba and the Israeli occupation in Gaza, the West Bank and East Jerusalem has wrought devastating consequences, including murder, imprisonment, suspension of basic civil rights, exile, land theft, restrictions on movement and access to water, electricity, and healthcare. In Gaza, this devastation has been the most extreme. Generations of refugees have struggled to survive blockades and prison-like conditions. Those of us who have worked for the end of Israeli occupation over the past decades feared an explosive response to this inhumanity that would impact civilians regardless of ethnic and religious identity.  

The United States is an avowed ally of the Israeli government and allocates billions of dollars in direct military aid. We call upon our government to stop funding a war machine with our tax dollars; tax dollars that could improve the lives of the unhoused, the poor, working families and everyday people who are struggling each day to survive. We add our voices to support the South African case at the International Court of Justice, whose ruling requires Israel to take all steps within its power to prevent acts of genocide. We raise our voices with those locally and globally who are working for a permanent ceasefire. We stand with growing numbers of U.S. cities and towns that have passed “Ceasefire Now” resolutions and with the Palestinian and Israeli ceasefire coalitions that stand together.   

As voters, we demand to be heard by the present U.S. administration. And we will be heard.

Alexis De Veaux, of Richmond, Va., and Amy Horowitz, of Alexandria, Va., are social justice activists.

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An unpleasant experience with American Airlines

Was I bumped for GOP Rep. Jim Jordan?



Rep. Jim Jordan (R-Ohio) speaks at CPAC last weekend. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

I don’t know if it is possible to get a letter to Rober Isom, CEO of American Airlines, but the normal ways don’t seem to work. So maybe this column will eventually find its way to him.

On Tuesday, Feb. 20,,I was bumped from my seat in first class on a flight from Miami to D.C. I had been in Quito, Ecuador, and the Galápagos, and was returning home from the final leg of my vacation. I had bought my ticket through Celebrity Cruises about a year ago. My American Airlines locator code was WQQPAC. Everything went OK, except the minor issue of ordering a meal on the way to Quito in advance, and being told they don’t have it. But no big deal. I had taken a 6 a.m. flight from Quito to Miami, and then had a nearly four hour wait in Miami, to board the flight to D.C. At the appointed time my friends and I headed to the gate to board, and as the agent called group one, my name was called to come to the desk. Mind you, I had checked in around noon on Monday, and was asked to confirm my seat, which I did. Then when checking in at the desk in Quito, was given both my boarding pass for the flight to Miami, and the one for my Miami to Reagan National in D.C.

At the desk things got interesting. I was told by the gate agent I was being bumped from first class. When I asked why she said they needed the seat, and I was the last person that had booked. I told the agent I knew that wasn’t true, as I has personally paid for someone else in my party, and their ticket hadn’t been booked until six months after mine. She then told me to wait for the Miami American manager. He arrived about 15 minutes later and told me it was a security issue and he couldn’t tell me anything. Turns out Congressman Jim Jordan (R-Ohio) was standing at the gate with a security aide, and I asked if I was being bumped for him. He said, “I told you it’s a security issue and that is all I can say.” I asked, and he gave me his name, Daniel Gonzalez. He said he would give me a $300 voucher and if I had other issues with this to call American when I got home. The agent said she only had one seat on the plane, a middle seat, in essence, take it or leave it. I have knee replacements, am claustrophobic, and older, and need to stand up occasionally during flights. I haven’t flown in a middle seat in more than 30 years. I asked how they arrived at the $300, and she reiterated “feel free to call customer relations when you are back in D.C.”  

I tried to find a number for corporate headquarters for American Airlines, and got caught in a scam when I dialed the number that came up in Google. I then put a comment on Facebook, which got hundreds of responses, and got a call from an Amy Lawrence, with American, who said she called me when a friend shared my post. She was very nice and said she would try to forward my issues to corporate. She called back and gave me what she said was the real reason I got bumped and that was now a third reason. Then I got another call from an Alexis Vaughn, consumer relations person, also very nice, who said she was calling on behalf of senior leadership, and gave me yet a fourth reason I had been bumped. I asked to be connected to senior leadership, and she said she spoke for them. I asked to be connected to American’s PR department. Turns out none of them would talk to me. 

I understand big corporations, and how they like to shield their executives from what is happening. And I was told what happened in my case was handled by the book. Well, if that is the truth, I suggest they change the book, because giving me four different excuses for being bumped, by four different people, means someone is either not reading the book or the book needs fixing.

Again, hundreds of people responded to my Facebook comment on not being able to reach American Airlines corporate, many mentioning the problems they have had with American. So I hope someone will pass this column on to Rober Isom, as in the long run, as CEO, it all falls in his lap.

Peter Rosenstein is a longtime LGBTQ rights and Democratic Party activist. He writes regularly for the Blade.

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Democrats must stop the self-immolation

We can win the presidency and Congress if we stick together



Sen. Bernie Sanders (I-Vt.) (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

It is both fascinating and depressing, that groups like Our Revolution, which Sen. Bernie Sanders (I-Vt.) began in 2016 to screw Hillary Clinton, are still out there screwing other Democrats. 

They are currently trying to defeat President Biden in the Michigan primary. They couch what they are doing “as trying to influence what President Biden is doing about the Israel/Hamas war.” But, reality is, any headline attacking Joe Biden, is helping Donald Trump, no matter how you try to sugarcoat it. Joe Biden will not make foreign policy based on the far-left wing of the Democratic Party. They have every right to speak out, and Sanders was even willing to hurt our national security by voting against Biden’s bill for aid to Ukraine and Israel, and a number of other allies. The bill even includes humanitarian aid for the people of Gaza. Sanders is an embarrassment. But if he doesn’t speak out against ‘Our Revolution’ he is also a hypocrite, as he claims to support Biden. Thankfully, Michigan Gov. Gretchen Witmer did speak out, urging people to vote for Biden in the primary.  

Trying to influence a change in policy is fine, and speaking out for what you believe is great. But if you don’t look at the global perspective, and at all the possible repercussions of your actions and words, you are not very smart. Remember, on the issue of Gaza, if you want to support the Palestinian people, then having Trump in office is far worse than Biden. Trump claims to be best friends with Netanyahu, he moved the American embassy to Jerusalem, he will totally abandon Gaza and the Palestinian people. So, if that is what you want in the White House, then attacking Biden so he loses a primary, and then by either voting for a third party, or staying home, for the general election, that is what you will get.

The Democratic Party can learn a lot from Tom Suozzi’s win in a swing district in New York, in the special election to replace expelled former Rep. George Santos (R-N.Y.). Counter to what some are saying, how he ran the race is important. He managed to turn the immigration issue around against his Republican opponent by tying her to Trump, and the MAGA Republicans who today want to leave the border open. He used the issue of abortion by highlighting his position as a pro-choice candidate, against an opponent who was pro-life. He also told the district he was willing to work with Republicans when necessary to get things done. He told the voters he understood the founding fathers set up a government requiring compromise, not on your principles, but on ways to move forward what you believe in. Yes, he is a moderate, but then so are the vast majority of Americans.  

It is clear we live in difficult times. The issue of Biden’s age is being blown out of proportion, and the media are helping to do that. Every Democrat needs to read, talk about, and share, the recent column from the New York Times, “We’re Thinking About Biden’s Memory and Age in the Wrong Way.” It talks about, and explains, how we all begin to lose memory of certain things starting at the age of 30. How not remembering a name, or a date, doesn’t in any way indicate an inability to think about and work on important and complex issues. 

We also have to understand how far off polls can be, and often are, these days. What we as Democrats need to do to win this election is stick to what we know people respond to. That includes talking about Republicans wanting to restrict a woman’s right to health care, and control of her own body. It means we talk about how Trump wants us to abandon NATO, and has even encouraged Putin to invade our allies. He has no problem with Putin taking as much land as he wants. We need to remind people about how Trump staged a coup, which thankfully failed, and remind voters he will try again if we reelect him. We need to play the tape of him saying he wants to be a dictator, and will use the Department of Justice to get even with his enemies. How electing him will mean the end of our democracy. 

Democrats can win the presidency, and the Congress, if we stick together. Divided we will fail, and Trump will be in the White House. 

Peter Rosenstein is a longtime LGBTQ rights and Democratic Party activist. He writes regularly for the Blade.

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