Carnival’s ‘no costume rule’ sparks controversy

By on November 27, 2012
Gay News, Washington Blade, Alexis Mateo

Alexis Mateo from the third season of ‘RuPaul’s Drag Race.’ (Photo courtesy of Mateo.)

A cruise company’s “no costume rule” has raised eyebrows less than a week before a ship on which cast members of “RuPaul’s Drag Race” are slated to perform is set to depart for the Caribbean.

Alexis Mateo, JuJuBee, Rebecca Glasscock, Michelle Visage and more than 30 other drag queens and performers are scheduled to take part in the Drag Stars at Sea: Caribbean Adventure – Revenge of the Wench Cruise on the Carnival Glory that is scheduled to set sail from Miami on Dec. 2. The ship will dock in the Bahamas, the Turks and Caicos, Puerto Rico and the U.S. Virgin Islands before returning to Florida on Dec. 9.

Passengers received an “urgent notice” signed by Vicky Rey, vice president of guest services for Carnival Cruise Lines, on Monday that reminded them of the policy.

“Carnival attracts a number of families with children and for this reason; we strive to present a family friendly atmosphere,” reads the letter. “It is important to us that all guests are comfortable with every aspect of the cruise. Although we realize this group consists solely of adults, we nonetheless expect all guests to recognize that minors are onboard and, refrain from engaging in inappropriate conduct in public areas.”

The letter further acknowledged “arrangements have been made for drag performances in the main theater” that will feature “stars from LOGO TV.”

“These functions will be private and only the performers are permitted to dress in drag while in the theater,” it reads. “Guests are not allowed to dress in drag for the performances or in public areas at any time during the cruise. We’re sorry to say that any guest who violates our policies and/or whose behavior affects the comfort and enjoyment of other guests, will be disembarked at their own expense and no refund will be given.”

Al Ferguson of Al and Chuck Travel, which organized the cruise, responded to the growing controversy on the gay-owned company’s Facebook page late on Monday.

“We are sympathetic to your sentiments that you have expressed via email and social media,” he wrote. “As a gay man who has been partnered for 25 years, I have suffered many forms of discrimination because I am part of the GLBT community. But please take note, Carnival’s regulation is not an example of discrimination. Carnival is an ally of the GLBT community. Please understand that this cruise could not even be happening on the Glory if Carnival was not an ally of our segment of society. When they say they are a ‘family friendly’ cruise line they mean it in both the traditional and metaphorical sense of the phrase.”

Ferguson further stressed in his post the “no costumes rule” is in response to post-Sept. 11 security procedures Carnival has adopted.

“As a gay business, we would not have organized this cruise if they were prejudiced against gay people,” he wrote. “This rule goes for both gay and straight passengers that travel on all Carnival cruises. It is in response to the post-911 world we live in. It is meant to protect passengers and guests – not to marginalize a few. Additionally, we know that transgendered members of our community will be aboard with us during this event. Please do not worry, Carnivals rule is not meant towards you. Your right to live your identity is always supported.”

Those who responded to Ferguson’s statement to his company’s Facebook page expressed their outrage over the policy and its decision to organize the cruise with Carnival.

“This is outrageous,” one person wrote.

“Carnival is saying that men dressing in women’s clothing is offensive,” another person added. “Their statement is what is offensive. So, they are saying that they are going to enforce oppressive sex stereotypes. This situation is not only homophobic but is sexist.”

Carnival President Gerry Cahill categorized the controversy as a miscommunication in a letter scheduled to go to passengers later today.

“The group, ‘Drag Stars at Sea,’ includes several performances by stars from Logo TV as part of a series of private events onboard,” he wrote. “When the group was presented to us we were advised that only the performers would be dressed in drag during the private events. However, we are now aware that this was not clearly communicated to members of the group and therefore anyone who wishes to dress in drag may do so. Please keep in mind that our safety and security procedures require guests to present government-issued ID, and to be recognizably that person.”

Cahill further stressed Carnival “welcomes them all aboard.” The company will also offer a full refund to anyone who wishes to cancel “for any reason” and will reimburse them for any non-refundable travel-related expenses.

“We constantly strive to provide our guests with a fun and memorable vacation,” Cahill wrote. “We look forward to welcoming everyone onboard Carnival Glory and again want to apologize for the misunderstanding and for any offense we have caused.”

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Comments
  • Phil Reese November 27, 2012 at 6:45 pm

    Is "travel equality" the next frontier for the LGBT movement?

  • Tony Wichowski November 27, 2012 at 6:56 pm

    Why is it okay for transgendered people, but not for gay-identified people to dress in costume. Forgive me for being one of those gays, but why dotrannies get special rights when THEY decide to dress up in a gender that is not their actual gender?

    • Kara Sprague November 27, 2012 at 8:19 pm

      Who trans people are is not a costume, Tony.
      It is not "dress-up" any more than your preference for men is an "act."
      You might know that it's not a choice, if you educated yourself rather than spew bigoted talking points favored by Faux News types.
      Oh, and the t-word is an offensive epithet for many of us trans folk and its definitely NOT a word that you, as a non-trans person should use.
      I believe Carnival's stance is ridiculous and an affront to its LGBT customers, not just the G.

    • Clarissa Alysha Hollar November 28, 2012 at 8:12 am

      Tony…You need to educate yourself in the trans community. Seriously. But you can stay on that ship all you want too..You will not find me on a boat filled with drag queens.

    • Daria Johnson November 28, 2012 at 2:30 pm

      Tony, you seem to lack critical thinking skills as well as anything like an objective point of view.

      What gives you the right to pontificate from on high? Do you think that because you choose to 'costume' and 'pretend' that the same motivation attaches to us? It doesn't. We are who we are, no better or worse than any other people, we want only the basic human dignity and rights that others (like YOU) claim for themselves.

      Your self righteous ignorance and arrogant claim to offense because we trans-folk get 'special rights' is nothing so much as a public declaration of your own ignorance, self absorption, and insufferable arrogance.

      You want to live your life as a 'gay man' or drag queen'? Fine! Go for it; but do NOT presume to judge me.

      I wear no 'costume', I do not 'pretend' and my lifelong struggle with transsexualism, quite frankly, make your experience of 'persecution' laughable.

      Do yourself and the world a huge favor and shine a light into the darkness of your own heart, look carefully at what you find there, and ask yourself..'why do I display my arrogant ignorance as a badge of pride?'

    • Tony Wichowski November 28, 2012 at 6:15 pm

      Alright, settle down. My point is, dressing in a gender other than one's own was what was being denied to gay men, but NOT to trannies. Why? What makes trannies so special that THEIR decision to dress in the opposite gender's clothing MUST be acknowledged and celebrated, while gay men choosing the same are denied? I wasn't attacking trannies (although so many of you seem to think EVERYTHING is an attack). My point is – some people dress in oopposite gender clothing and recognize it as a lark, while some adopt it as a lifestyle choice. Who is going to be that judge? Will they have people on the cruise to verify that YOU are are transgendered, while YOU are just gay and in a costume? And sorry, "tranny" is not a bad word, equivalent to the "N" word. Live your life, but don't expect that I should bow down to your gender dysmorphia as if it were something to be revered.

    • Cyrsti Hart November 28, 2012 at 10:12 pm

      Really Tony???? I can't add much more to what has already been said about you except I am glad I DON'T know any ignorant bigoted gay men like you

  • Robin Day November 27, 2012 at 7:37 pm

    The no-costume policy apparently does not apply during Halloween cruises. I don't buy it for a second. We booked a Drag Race Cruise through a gay travel agent; imagine our surprise at being told to be careful not to offend their guests or we would be put off the ship.

  • MK November 27, 2012 at 6:25 pm

    Spare me. A gay MP in the UK is going to vote against marriage equality. Being gay doesn’t make you a friend to the entire LGBT community.

  • Christian Aldridge November 28, 2012 at 11:50 am

    The cruise line seems to be over reacting to something that hasn't happened. Carnival has definitely been keen on taking money from the gay community and I think someone in their corporate office needs to wipe the sleep from their eyes and understand that if you invite a large group of gay folks on a drag cruise there is a pretty likely that someone might dress in drag. Dressing up in-and-of-itself isn't offensive so I'd say as long as offensive activity is kept in check – and I'm not talking about kissing or holding hands – then everyone will be just fine.

    • Angela Peters Callahan November 28, 2012 at 12:32 pm

      Guess they misunderstood the Drag Start part of the cruise title. Oh well, we can't all be smart.

  • Paul Wilson November 28, 2012 at 9:41 pm

    mmmm, next thing carnival will be offering is "conversion" vacations…

  • Paul Wilson November 28, 2012 at 9:43 pm

    Guess the LGBT community will need to start a boycott of Carnival Cruise Lines.

    • Joseph Cortes November 28, 2012 at 9:49 pm

      Guess you haven't heard todays news

    • Joseph Cortes November 28, 2012 at 9:49 pm

      Guess you haven't heard todays news

    • Paul Wilson November 28, 2012 at 9:58 pm

      I haven't read everything, what's the news?

    • Joseph Cortes November 28, 2012 at 10:36 pm

      they issued a Rupology & stated that it was a security detail taken out of context. So, everyone is allowed to drag on.(However, the timing seemed odd, they waited to a week before they embark, but seems to be resolved, we'll have to wait till they return)

  • Andre Hopfer November 29, 2012 at 4:19 pm

    all this is absolute nonsense. This cruise should have never been booked on Carnival to begin with. The Agency that booked that cruise needed to read the fine print before making any arrangements. Part of the fun on going on a gay cruise is that we should be able to express ourselves in a comfortable, safe and nondescriminating environment. Also may I point out that the cruise line knows very well who the passengers are when they are boarding since Passports are required on all Cruises docking in non US ports. So thre should be no need to carry ID on board.

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