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Free gardening, landscaping and cooking seminars this fall

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Merrifield Garden Center offers its fall seminars in three locations: Merrifield Community Hall (next to our Merrifield store), 8104 Lee Highway, Merrifield, Va., 703-560-6222; Fair Oaks Meeting Room (second floor of store), 12101 Lee Highway, Fairfax, Va.; and in our Garden Room in Gainesville, 6895 Wellington Rd., Gainesville Rd., Gainesville, Va., 703-368-1919. For more information visit merrifieldgardencenter.com.

If you’re planning to attend our “Introduction to Cooking with Fresh Herbs” or “Children’s Gardening” seminars, we’d appreciate it if you registered online so we can order the proper amount of supplies. In this schedule, there’s a link to register next to the descriptions of these seminars. Thank you. Seminar schedule follows.

September 17

Merrifield – Trees and Shrubs for Small Gardens, 10 am

Robert Woodman, Plant Specialist, Merrifield Garden Center

It doesn’t matter if you have a cozy, townhouse backyard or a high-rise apartment balcony. You can still have a beautiful garden. Robert will show you some gorgeous varieties of trees and shrubs that are perfect for small gardens.

Fair Oaks – Four Season Gardening, 10 am

Lynn Cohen, Plant Specialist, Merrifield Garden Center

Make the most of each season. Learn how to design your garden to look beautiful throughout the year.

Gainesville – Build the Lawn of Your Dreams, 10 am

David Yost, Plant Specialist, Merrifield Garden Center

Have you always wanted a thick, dark green, lush lawn? If so, there’s good news. Fall is the best time of year to get your lawn in shape. David will provide you with all the know-how you’ll need.

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September 24

Merrifield – Adding Spring Color with Fall Bulbs, 10 am

Larry Shapira, Plant Specialist, Merrifield Garden Center, and Professor Emeritus (Ret.), NVCC

Bulbs are easy, beautiful and fit into any landscape. Fall is the time to plant spring-flowering bulbs and Merrifield offers a wide selection of new varieties and time-honored favorites.

Fair Oaks – Creating Focal Points, 10 am

Joshua Dean, Landscape Designer, Merrifield Garden Center

Plants and hardscapes are essential to the structure of any garden. But focal points give your garden personal character and flair. Don’t miss this opportunity to hear Joshua’s ideas of how to focus interest in your garden.

Gainesville – Introduction to Cooking with Fresh Herbs, 10 am

Lilienne Conklin, Chef, Merrifield Garden Center

Chef Lilienne will show you how to use fresh herbs to bring out the best in your recipes. You’ll be amazed at the difference it can make. Registration is appreciated, but not required at www.merrifieldgardencenter.com/seminars.

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October 1

Merrifield – Introduction to Cooking with Fresh Herbs, 10 am

Lilienne Conklin, Chef, Merrifield Garden Center

Chef Lilienne will show you how to use fresh herbs to bring out the best in your recipes. You’ll be amazed at the difference it can make. Registration is appreciated, but not required at www.merrifieldgardencenter.com/seminars.

Fair Oaks

Fair Oaks – 73rd Annual Potomac Rose Society Rose Show

Saturday, October 1, 1 pm – 6 pm

Sunday, October 2, 12 noon 4 pm

Gainesville – Houseplants & Bringing Tropicals Back Indoors, 10 am

Regina Lanctot, Tropical Plant Specialist, Merrifield Garden Center

Don’t miss this opportunity to learn how to overwinter your favorite tropical plants indoors. Regina will also introduce you to some beautiful houseplants to brighten your home and keep your fingers in the dirt.

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October 8

Merrifield – Fall Magic with Trees and Shrubs, 10 am

Michael Fahey, ISA Certified Arborist, Merrifield Garden Center

Watching leaves change to shades of red, orange and yellow is always exciting! Now there’s no need to hop in your car to see fall foliage. Attend this seminar to learn how to create a gorgeous panorama in your own backyard.

Fair Oaks – Incredible Fall Container Gardens, 10 am

Paul Westervelt, Annual & Perennial Production Manager, Saunders Brothers Nurseries

Container gardens are not just for summer! Learn how to create a dazzling display with fall-peaking perennials and cold-tolerant annuals. Your family and friends will be impressed with the results.

Gainesville – Deer Prevention, 10 am

Renatta Holt, Landscape Designer, and James White, Plant Specialist, Merrifield Garden Center

Renatta and James will help you develop an effective strategy to protect your valuable landscape from deer. They’ll discuss various control strategies and deer resistant plants that you can use alone or in combination.

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October 15

Merrifield – Walks, Walls and Patios, 10 am

Renatta Holt, Landscape Designer, Merrifield Garden Center

A well-designed landscape integrates the hardscape elements of walkways, walls and patios with your home and garden for a beautiful and functional result. This class will inspire and educate you with wonderful ideas you can incorporate into your own landscape.

Fair Oaks – Find Your Garden Style, 10 am

Mary Kirk Menefee, Landscape Designer, Merrifield Garden Center

Attend this seminar for an overview of various garden styles – Formal, English Cottage, Modern, Japanese, Southern, Naturalistic, etc. – along with top plants and construction tips to achieve the look.

Gainesville – Spooky Gardens, 10 am

Karen Rexrode, Plant Specialist, and Regina Lanctot, Tropical Plant Specialist, Merrifield Garden Center

If you love Halloween, this seminar is for you. Have a great time learning how to decorate your garden with black foliage, unique plants and unusual containers and terrariums. Be ready for accolades from family and friends.

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October 22

Merrifield – Green Walls, 10 am

Wayne Boyland, Plant Specialist, Merrifield Garden Center

Evergreens play an important role in the landscape. While offering year-round beauty, they provide privacy, block views and define specific areas. Wayne will introduce you to some of our most beautiful needled and broadleafed evergreens, and discuss their attributes, so you can find the perfect evergreens for your needs.

Fair Oaks – Children’s Gardening (Ages 6-12), 10 am

Laura Hawthorne, Merrifield Garden Center

This session is ideal for parents, grandparents and favorite aunts who want to introduce children to gardening. Each student will bring home a pumpkin that they’ve planted with flowers. (An adult must be present). Registration is appreciated, but not required at www.merrifieldgardencenter.com/seminars.

Gainesville – Extend Your Outdoor Fun with Fire Pits and Fireplaces, 10 am

Mary Kirk Menefee, Landscape Designer, Merrifield Garden Center

Savor the crisp, autumn nights with family and friends over a cozy campfire. Learn how easy it is to stretch your outdoor living and entertaining into another season with fire pits, fire bowls and fireplaces.

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October 29

Merrifield – Creative Landscaping, 10 am

Joshua Dean, Landscape Designer, Merrifield Garden Center

Forget cookie cutter landscaping. Dream big! If you can imagine it, we can build it. Joshua will inspire you with some of his innovative projects that brought his clients’ ideas to life.

Fair Oaks – Pruning Made Easy, 10 am

Larry Shapira, Plant Specialist, Merrifield Garden Center, & Professor Emeritus (Ret.), NVCC

Professor Larry will discuss the basics of pruning, including proper timing and techniques. Bring your pruners and gloves. Seminar will include a hands-on segment outside, weather permitting.

Gainesville – Harvesting Black Gold in Your Garden, 10 am

David Yost, Plant Specialist, Merrifield Garden Center

Looking for ways to make your garden more eco-friendly? David will show you how to recycle yard and kitchen waste into a valuable soil conditioner.

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November 19

Fair Oaks – Christmas Floral Designs, 10 am

Merrifield Garden Center Floral Design Team

Decorate your home with the greens, flowers and berries of the holiday season. Learn how to make lasting floral designs with artificial greens and picks.

Gainesville – How To Create A Festive Container Garden, 10 am

Renatta Holt, Landscape Designer, Merrifield Garden Center

Got an empty pot on your front porch or patio? Renatta can help you turn that eyesore into a beautiful display for the holidays with evergreen branches, berries, pine cones and other adornments.

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November 25-26-27

All Three Stores – Holiday Open House

Kick off the holiday season with a visit to Merrifield Garden Center. The fabulous displays and festive atmosphere are sure to warm your heart and bring a smile to your face.

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December 3

Fair Oaks – Incorporating Fresh Flowers with Holiday Greens, 10 am

Peg Bier, Plant and Design Specialist, Merrifield Garden Center

Bring the beauty and fragrance of the holiday season into your home with fresh cut pine, holly, cedar, boxwood, magnolia and other plants. You’re sure to be inspired.

Gainesville – How to Create Your Own Holiday Theme Tree, 10 am

Merrifield Garden Center Design Team

Each year our designers set up a large number of Christmas trees, each with their own theme. These beautiful trees have been attracting large crowds and warming hearts for generations. Now you have a chance to learn how our designers create these displays of art.

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Signs you’ve outgrown self-management of your D.C. rental

Keeping up with local regulations is a struggle

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According to rental market statistics from RentCafe, Washington, D.C.,  remains at the top of the most popular cities for rental properties.  With a strong rental market and a growing population, success should be second nature to real estate investors and rental property owners in this area. 

As a self-manager of your own rental, if you’re not enjoying the profitability and the earnings that this market can provide, it might be time to look for professional management. 

There are certain signs that show property owners have outgrown self-management. We’re exploring those today, and inviting DIY landlords to consider the benefits that come with a partnership with a professional property management company in Washington, D.C.

Washington, D.C., is known for having a complex and ever-changing regulatory environment. There are strict tenant rights, rent control laws, and specific rules related to property maintenance such as mold, lead based paint hazards, among others. The Rental Housing Act of 1985 is strictly enforced, and under this program, there are specific rules regarding rent adjustments, dispute resolution, and eviction protections. 

Fair housing laws need complete compliance, security deposits have strict timelines, and habitability standards are in place to ensure tenants are living in a home that’s safe and well-maintained.

Staying on top of these rules can be time-consuming and difficult. Violating even a small regulation unintentionally can result in fines or legal action. It’s critical to stay compliant, and if you find yourself struggling to keep up with the evolving laws and regulations, it’s a clear sign that you may need professional help. Property managers can reduce the risk and liability of making a legal mistake.

Financial Returns are Underwhelming

A lot of self-managing landlords choose to lease, manage, and maintain their own properties because they don’t want to pay a management fee. We get it. Keeping more of your money seems like the best way to increase profitability. 

But, here’s the reality of it: property managers can help you earn more and spend less on your investment, increasing your earnings and your ROI. In fact, a good property manager can often earn enough additional net revenue for the owner to pay for that fee over a year. 

Property managers are experienced at maximizing the financial performance of rental properties. We can help: 

  • Optimize rental income
  • Reduce vacancy rates
  • Lower maintenance costs through established vendor relationships
  • Recommend improvements for higher values

Ultimately, a good property manager will ensure that your property is being run efficiently. We will use our expertise to ensure your property is earning what it should. 

Maintenance and Repairs Are Taking Up Too Much Time

Maintenance challenges are not unique to self-managing rental property owners. We deal with them, too, as professional property managers. We respond to plumbing issues and appliance malfunctions, we take calls in the middle of the night when a sewer is backing up, and we work hard to protect properties against deterioration and general wear and tear.

This can be overwhelming, especially when it comes to finding vendors and service professionals that are both affordable and provide quality service. Plumbers, electricians, HVAC technicians, and even landscapers and cleaners are in high demand in Washington, D.C. But maintenance at your rental property cannot wait.  It’s essential to the value and condition of your investment as well as to the product you are selling.

It’s time to work with a professional property manager if you’re having trouble finding vendors or if you’re struggling to keep up with maintenance requests. We have systems for emergency responses, routine repairs, and preventative services. 

Tenant Screening Is Becoming More Difficult and Time-Consuming

Finding good tenants is one of the most critical aspects of rental property management. But in our home of Washington, D.C. we have one of the most regulated rental markets in the country. The tenant screening process has become increasingly complex, highly restricted, and time-intensive.

Many property owners are surprised to learn that there are more limitations than ever on what can be screened, what information can be used in making a decision whom to rent to, and how screening decisions must be documented. Federal and local laws tightly regulate the use of credit histories, criminal background records, income verification, and even eviction records. Staying compliant is not optional. Failure to follow these rules can open the door to discrimination claims, administrative complaints, substantial fines, or even lawsuits.

That’s why rushing or relying on outdated methods can easily result in selecting the wrong resident or worse, unintentionally violating DC’s Human Rights Act or federal Fair Housing laws.

Problematic tenants often become evident only after move-in: lease breaks, chronic late payments, noise complaints, and property damage. When these patterns appear repeatedly, it is often a sign that the screening process is not sufficiently structured.

Why Professional Screening Matters

Professional property managers have systems in place to perform thorough, legally compliant screening while avoiding oversteps that could violate the regulations. Professional property managers use trusted screening platforms and follow written processes that keep owners protected and ensure fairness for applicants.

Columbia Property Management’s screening process includes:

  • Credit Report Review
     Evaluating credit patterns, payment reliability, and debt load while complying with restrictions on how data can be used.
  • Rental History Verification
    Contacting prior landlords and reviewing national eviction databases—keeping in mind that some jurisdictions like the District of Columbia limit how far back eviction data can be seen, must less considered.
  • Background ChecksReviewing public records in a manner consistent with DC’s Human Rights Act and federal guidance on criminal history usage. Not all criminal records can be considered in rental decisions, and timing rules often apply.
  • Income & Employment Verification
    Confirming applicants can afford the rent and other monthly expenses based on their income, without ruling out certain income in a discriminatory way (e.g., vouchers, subsidies, or lawful alternative forms of income). There are many intentional steps conducted by professional property managers under a framework that ensures decisions are based on objective criteria, applied consistently, and fully aligned with the latest federal and DC regulations.

Your Property Is Sitting Vacant for Longer Periods

While current rental market dynamics are starting to show the effects of federal workforce layoffs and the worsening local economy, the vacancy rate in Washington, D.C.,  is relatively low, compared to the national average. According to a news report from WTOP, the local vacancy rate is just 6%, and there are an average of seven applications for every available rental unit. 

A vacant rental property can quickly become a financial drain. Whether you own a condo near Dupont Circle or a single-family home in one of Capitol Hill’s neighborhoods, every day your property sits empty means lost income. While the D.C. market is generally competitive, the reality is that there are always fluctuations in demand based on seasons, neighborhood desirability, and even economic trends. 

If you’re struggling to fill your rental quickly, it might be a sign that you need to re-evaluate your approach. An experienced property management company has a marketing strategy in place to keep vacancy periods as short as possible. From professional photos and listings to leveraging established networks, they can help ensure that your property is rented quickly, reducing the amount of time it sits vacant.

While managing a rental property in Washington, D.C., can be rewarding, it’s also challenging. As your property portfolio grows or the demands of your life or the demands of being a landlord increase, it’s helpful to recognize when it’s time to step back and let a professional handle the day-to-day tasks.

From navigating complex local regulations to ensuring your property remains occupied and well-maintained, there are many reasons why rental property owners in Washington, D.C., outgrow self-management. If any of these signs resonate with you, consider partnering with a property management company like ours to ensure that your rental investment continues to thrive without the stress and burnout of self-management.

We’d love to be your Washington, D.C., property management partner and resource. Please contact us at 888-857-6594 or ColumbiaPM.com


Scott Bloom is owner and Senior Property Manager, Columbia Property Management.

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My federal worker husband is depressed and I don’t know how to help

I feel like he’s dragging me into his hopelessness

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Dear Michael,

My husband is a federal worker. Many of his colleagues took “the fork” or have been fired. So work has been overwhelming. He usually works late. The morale in his office is terrible. His paycheck disappeared with the shutdown although due to the specifics of his job, he still had to go in. He’s gotten increasingly depressed, irritable, and short-tempered.

I met Jason 20 years ago when we were young, and one of the things that made me fall in love with him was his idealism. He came to Washington because he wanted to contribute to the well-being of our country.

When I look at him now, it’s like he’s been through the wringer. He’s lost his idealism, feels unappreciated by our country, and is becoming bitter.

He never wants to go out with friends. Either he doesn’t want to hear them complain about the same sorts of things he’s experiencing, or he doesn’t want to have to interact with people who are doing just fine, job-wise. 

He also doesn’t feel like going out, just the two of us. So we’re home a lot. But we’re not spending time together when we’re at home. He’s surfing the internet, doom-scrolling, or playing video games.

I can’t get him to talk to me; he says, “I don’t want to talk about anything, it just makes me feel worse.” I can’t get him to do anything that might help him feel better. He doesn’t want to cook dinner with me, he doesn’t want to eat any of his favorite foods that I make for him, he won’t go for a walk with our dog (exercise is supposed to help mood, right?). 

I’m really worried about him. Clearly, he’s depressed, and nothing I am trying is helping him to feel better.

But in addition, I am starting to get annoyed. How much more can I try to do things for him that he doesn’t respond to and doesn’t appreciate?

I’ve been OK through this long slog, so far, but now I feel like I am being sucked into his depression and hopelessness. I’m starting to feel like giving up. I’m lonely and I miss my husband and I am despairing that he’s ever really going to come back.

In short, now I hate my life, too.

I’m not going anywhere but I am worried that my main feeling toward him is starting to be apathy. Is there something I can do to help him that I haven’t thought of? 

Michael replies:

I’m sorry, this is such a rough time. 

It’s understandable that when someone you love is suffering and feeling miserable, you might at times get fed up and feel like pulling away.

There’s a great saying by an ancient Jewish sage, Rabbi Tarfon: While you can’t fix the whole world, that doesn’t mean you should give up and do nothing to help.  

I thought of that saying as I read your letter, because while you can’t get Jason to change his mood or take action on his own behalf, you may have some ability to help him.

Similarly, while you can’t have a fantastic time in life when your husband is in a miserable place, you can take care of yourself and likely have a better life than you are having at present.

For starters, I encourage you to keep reminding yourself that this is without doubt one of the hardest periods of your husband’s life. So it’s a very good idea to have an open heart and a lot of compassion for Jason, as much of the time as you can. This won’t be easy. Strive to keep in mind that getting angry at Jason or frustrated with him won’t help. 

Don’t try to insist that Jason do anything. Often, when we push someone to do something that they don’t want to do, this just results in their digging in more. People generally don’t like to be nagged.

Of course you can ask Jason if he’d like to join you for a walk, or an outing, but tread carefully. You can advocate for what you’d like, but Jason gets to decide what he wants to do. 

You can certainly ask Jason what he would like from you, especially when he’s complaining. I love the “3 H’s” concept: Would he like you to hear (simply listen)? Would he like help (advice on what to do)? Or would he just like a hug

The best message you can send to Jason, by your presence and by an ongoing loving stance, is “I am here. You’re not alone.” Even when he wants to stay in the basement playing video games. You’re not criticizing him and you’re not judging him. Maybe you’re baking some cookies you both like and leaving him a plateful to eat if and when he wants to. (Be sure to treat yourself to some, as well.) 

In terms of bigger interventions, you can suggest that Jason meet with a therapist, or meet with his physician to discuss the possibility of an antidepressant to help him through this awful period. For example, you might have a sincere conversation where you say something like this:

“I’m worried about you. I really want to encourage you to get some help. My love for you can only go so far, and while I’m not going anywhere, I’d like you to take seriously how miserable you are. I’m here to encourage you that maybe you could feel better, even though your circumstances are terrible and you feel disillusioned.”

Again, trying to convince or force Jason to take action will likely go nowhere useful.

Now let’s focus on you. Living with a depressed spouse can be a miserable, soul-crushing experience. As you described, you’re watching the person you love suffer, and you’re pretty much losing your partner in so many of the things that make life enjoyable. 

Part of getting through this is to acknowledge that there is a limit to what you can do for Jason. And part of it is to strengthen your commitment to self-care. Taking care of yourself may keep you from going too far into misery or resentment. He doesn’t want to get together with a friend? Consider going anyway, and do your best to have at least a good time. Same thing with a dog walk, a good meal, or sitting down to watch a movie you’d like to see. You might also consider meeting with a therapist for ongoing support and strategizing. 

While this period of your life is gruelingly difficult, try to remember that it likely will come to an end, that there will likely be good times ahead for you and for Jason, and that in the meantime, doing your best to find ways to take care of yourself while also being a supportive and loving spouse will help you to survive. 

Michael Radkowsky, Psy.D. is a licensed psychologist who works with couples and individuals in D.C. He can be found online at michaelradkowsky.com. All identifying information has been changed for reasons of confidentiality. Have a question? Send it to [email protected].

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Tips for LGBTQ buyers, sellers during holidays

A powerful and overlooked window for real estate transactions

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The holidays can be a powerful — and often overlooked — window for both buying and selling real estate. (Photo by monkeybusinessimages/Bigstock)

The holiday season is a magical time, filled with celebration, travel, connection, and reflection. It also happens to be a powerful — and often overlooked — window for both buying and selling real estate. For members of the LGBTQ+ community, shopping for a new home or preparing to list a property during the holidays comes with opportunities, challenges, and important considerations that deserve thoughtful attention.

Whether you’re preparing to make a move as a same-sex couple, searching for safe and affirming neighborhoods, or hoping to secure the best possible price for your home sale before the new year, the holidays can offer unique advantages. With an inclusive approach, LGBTQ+ friendly resources, and the right professional guidance, this season can be a strategic and rewarding time to take your next real estate step.

Below are actionable tips, insights, and resources specifically tailored to LGBTQ+ home buyers and sellers navigating the holiday season.

Why the Holidays Can Be the Right Time

Lower Competition & Motivated Sellers

Because so many people put their real estate plans on pause during November and December, LGBTQ+ home buyers may see lower competition, fewer bidding wars, and sellers who are eager to close before January. This can bring real advantages for first-time gay home buyers or same-sex couples seeking more favorable negotiating terms.

Buyers Are More Serious

If you’re selling your home as an LGBTQ+ individual, remember: holiday buyers tend to be more intentional, financially prepared, and timeline-driven. This can make the sale process smoother.

Holiday Appeal Helps Homes Show Better

Warm lighting, seasonal décor, and neighborhood festivities can enhance curb appeal and emotional impact — which can be especially valuable when selling your home.

Tip #1: Choose LGBTQ-Friendly Representation

Above all else: work with a professional who understands the LGBTQ+ community and the unique concerns LGBTQ+ clients have.

This means choosing:

  • a gay realtor
  • a lesbian realtor
  • an LGBTQ+ friendly real estate agent

Agents who are part of, or deeply familiar with, the LGBTQ+ community can make a tremendous difference in safety, comfort, and confidence throughout the transaction.

For more than 30 years, GayRealEstate.com has been the trusted leader in LGBTQ+ real estate, providing LGBTQ+ home buyers and sellers access to:

  • verified LGBTQ+ real estate agents
  • same-sex couple home buying experts
  • LGBTQ+ friendly realtors near you
  • agents experienced in discrimination-related protections
  • LGBTQ+ relocation specialists

Whether you’re buying or selling, this starts you on the right path.

Tip #2: Focus on LGBTQ-Friendly Neighborhoods

If you’re buying a home during the holidays, make researching neighborhoods a top priority.

Look for areas known for:

  • Inclusion & diversity
  • Active local LGBTQ+ groups
  • Gay-friendly businesses
  • Visible LGBTQ+ community presence
  • Supportive schools & services
  • Pride events & alliances

Searching online helps — but talking with an LGBTQ+ friendly realtor who knows these neighborhoods firsthand is invaluable.

Also search:

  • LGBTQ+ crime statistics
  • local anti-discrimination policies
  • protections against housing discrimination
  • hate crime data
  • political climate
  • HOA regulations

Your home should feel safe year-round, not just festive in December.

Housing discrimination still exists — and LGBTQ+ home buyers and sellers must remain vigilant.

While federal protections exist through the Fair Housing Act (as interpreted to include sexual orientation and gender identity), not all states provide equal protection.

Know your rights around:

  • Mortgage discrimination
  • Rental screening discrimination
  • Sellers refusing offers from LGBTQ+ buyers
  • HOA discrimination
  • Harassment after move-in

Your agent should be able to assist — but GayRealEstate.com also offers educational guidance and resources for navigating LGBTQ+ legal protections in real estate

Tip #4: Navigate the Emotional Side

For LGBTQ+ buyers and sellers, the holidays can stir up complex feelings:

  • family dynamics
  • financial pressure
  • expectations around marriage or partnership
  • relocation stress
  • memories tied to a home

Be patient with yourself.

Buying or selling a home is life-changing — honor the emotional journey as much as the financial one.

Tip #5: Take Advantage of Holiday Cost Savings

Buying?

  • Lower interest rates may appear around December
  • Contractors often discount home inspections & repairs this time of year
  • Movers run holiday promotions

Selling?

  • Minor seasonal upgrades help tremendously:
    • warm lighting
    • new evergreen planters
    • festive front door accents
  • Be careful not to over-decorate — buyers need to see the space clearly

And yes — holiday cookies help.

Tip #6: If You’re Relocating — Plan Ahead

Many LGBTQ+ buyers relocate during the holidays to:

  • be closer to family
  • move in with a partner
  • begin a new job in the new year

If you’re relocating as an LGBTQ+ couple or family:

  • research local LGBTQ+ resources
  • connect with local LGBTQ+ organizations
  • ask your gay real estate agent about local LGBTQ+ clubs, groups, and services
  • evaluate long-term safety for LGBTQ+ families

Plan early — December moves get booked fast.

Tip #7: Use Trusted LGBTQ Real Estate Resources

The most important resource of all:

GayRealEstate.com — the #1 dedicated LGBTQ+ real estate resource for over 30 years.

On GayRealEstate.com, you can find:

  • LGBTQ+ friendly real estate agents nationwide
  • Verified gay and lesbian Realtors
  • LGBTQ+ real estate market information
  • Same-sex couple home buying guidance
  • LGBTQ+ real estate services
  • Gay and lesbian friendly neighborhoods
  • Relocation tools
  • LGBTQ+ home buyer & seller education

No other site offers this level of specialization, expertise, or community connection.

The holidays are more than just a season of celebration — they’re also a meaningful opportunity for LGBTQ+ home ownership, real estate transitions, and new beginnings. Whether you’re a first-time gay home buyer, a same-sex couple selling a home, or an LGBTQ+ family preparing to relocate, you deserve an experience grounded in respect, inclusion, and safety.

With the right preparation — and the right LGBTQ+ friendly real estate agent — your journey can be rewarding, affirming, and filled with new possibilities for the year ahead.

To find an LGBTQ+ real estate agent who understands your needs, visit GayRealEstate.com, the trusted leader in LGBTQ+ real estate services, resources, and representation for over three decades.


Scott Helms is president and owner of Gayrealestate.com.

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