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Many churches in the D.C. suburbs openly welcome the LGBT faithful

A Metropolitan Community Church service (Photo by Jonahthunder via Wikimedia Commons)
Many D.C. churches welcome LGBT worshippers to varying degrees. But aside from avoiding certain denominations, how does one know which churches are safe out in the suburbs?
Though not meant to be exhaustive, our list is a good place for starters. If we missed you this time, please e-mail the Blade’s Features Editor Joey DiGuglielmo so your church or synagogue can be included in a gay-friendly church resource guide we’ll unveil soon at washingtonblade.com.
Metropolitan Community Church, founded in 1968, is an international organization of Protestant congregations with a special ministry to LGBT believers. MCC describes itself as “the vanguard of civil and human rights movements.” The church fights for marriage equality in the U.S. and serves as a voice for the LGBT equality movement. Among their 222 congregations around the world are five in Maryland and northern Virginia.
Maryland:
MCC Baltimore holds a traditional service at 9 a.m. and a praise and worship service at 11 a.m. on Sundays.
401 W. Monument St., Baltimore, MD 21201
Open Door MCC holds services on Sundays at 10 a.m.
15817 Barnesville Rd, Boyds, MD 20841
Holy Redeemer MCC holds its worship Sundays at 11 a.m.
4907 Niagara Rd Suite 201, College Park, MD 20740
New Light MCC holds services on Sundays at 10:30 a.m.
40 West Church St., Hagerstown, MD 21740
Virginia:
MCC of Northern Virginia holds Sunday worships at 11 a.m.
10383 Democracy Lane, Fairfax, VA 22030
Bull Run Unitarian Universalist Church in Manassas, Va., is a welcoming congregation that values justice, equality and compassion. The church believes in social justice, particularly for the LGBTcommunity. The church donates to, among other groups, Equality Virginia. Sunday services are at 10:45 a.m. with an additional 9 a.m. service from September through June.
9350 Main St., Manassas, VA 20110
Commonwealth Baptist Church says of itself, “all are welcome — no exceptions.” Together with the Association of Welcoming and Affirming Baptists, the church walked in the 2012 Capital Pride Parade. Worship is on Sundays at 11 a.m.
700 Commonwealth Ave, Alexandria, VA 22301
Two other churches in Virginia are members of the Association of Welcoming and Affirming Baptists:
Virginia:
Ravensworth Baptist Church worships on Sundays at 11 a.m.
5100 Ravensworth Rd, Annandale, VA 22003
Washington Plaza Church holds services at 11 a.m. on Sundays.
1615 Washington Plaza, Reston, VA 20190
Several synagogues are openly LGBT welcoming.
Adat Shalom Reconstructionist is celebrating its 25th anniversary and has Shabbat services Saturday mornings at 9:30 a.m.
7727 Persimmon Tree Lane
Bethesda, MD 20819
Congregation Etz Hayim is an active synagogue with monthly themed Shabbats, special events going on constantly and several Passover services planned all next week.
2920 Arlington Blvd.
Arlington, VA 22204
Kehila Chadasha meets at various locations in North Bethesda and cherishes Jewish heritage, history and traditions through a “non-dogmatic approach.”
Kol Ami: The Northern Virginia Reconstructionist Community also has a bounty of weekly activities and meet at various locations in and around Arlington.
Machar is a diverse Jewish community serving secular Jews, Humanists and interfaith and mixed-heritage families.
Temple Rodef Shalom is the largest Jewish congregation in Virginia serving McLean, Arlington, Falls Church and more.
2100 Westmoreland Street
Falls Church, VA
Mount Vernon Unitarian Church strives to be “a voice for liberal religion.” Unitarian Universalists pride themselves on having affirmed the rights of the LGBT community since 1970, and they support marriage equality. The church holds services at 9:15 and 11:15 a.m. on Sundays.
1909 Windmill Lane, Alexandria, VA 22307
703-765-5950
DignityUSA is a Catholic organization that works to ensure the respect and justice for all people, regardless of gender, gender identity or sexual orientation. Their local chapters across the country include one in northern Virginia.
Dignity/Northern Virginia celebrates Mass each Saturday at 6:30 p.m. at Immanuel Church-on-the-Hill
3606 Seminary Rd., Alexandria, VA 22304
Holy Trinity Parish, an independent Catholic church, welcomes people of all sexual orientations to join in worship. Sunday Mass is held at 9 and 10:30 a.m.
13515-A Dulles Technology Dr., Herndon, VA 20171
800-603-0644 ext 1
Emmaus United Church of Christ affirms all relationships, including those in the LGBT community. The church fully welcomes all people, regardless of gender identity and expression and sexual orientation. Worship is held on Sundays at 10:30 a.m.
900 Maple Avenue East, Vienna, VA 22180
703-938-1555
The United Church of Christ is, across the board, welcoming of the LGBT community. Several local churches are particularly proud of their support for the community.
Bethesda UCC bills itself as “on the forefront of progressive change.”
10010 Fernwood Road
Bethesda, MD
301-365-3387
Six:Eight UCC meets Sundays at noon and welcomes members of the queer community to participate in all levels of leadership.
Mobtown Theater
3600 Clipper Mill Rd. Ste. 114, Baltimore, MD 21211
St. Mark’s UCC proudly counts among its church leadership openly gay and lesbian members of its congregation. Worship is held Sundays at 10 a.m.
1805 Wickes Ave., Baltimore, MD 21230
410-644-5466
Immanuel UCC welcomes into full membership all people, regardless of sexual orientation. This includes equal employment opportunities and the celebration of holy unions for same-sex couples. Service begins at 10:30 a.m. on Sundays.
1905 Edmondson Ave., Catonsville, MD 21228
410-744-5014
The Unity Fellowship Church Movement is a group of churches across the country working to empower those who have been oppressed, particularly gay and lesbian African Americans. It welcomes everyone, particularly those fighting for social justice. The church has two locations in Maryland.
Unity Fellowship Church of Columbia, Md., holds services Sundays at 10 a.m.
Locust Park Neighbor Center
8995 Lambskin Lane, Columbia, MD 21045
301-275-5310
Unity Fellowship Church of Baltimore holds services on Sundays at 10:45 a.m.
4007 Old York Rd., Baltimore, MD 21218
410-244-0884
The latest Honda Civic hatchback and Subaru Impreza are two of the segment’s stars. Both offer sensible pricing, excellent utility and enough personality to avoid feeling like appliances.
The Civic is more polished. The Impreza, more rugged. Luckily, neither is trying to be obnoxiously flashy.
HONDA CIVIC
$28,000
MPG: 30 city/38 highway
0 to 60 mph: 8.9 seconds
Cargo space: 24.5 cu. ft.
PROS: Fuel efficient. Spacious cargo area. Good resale value.
CONS: No all-wheel drive. Fussy infotainment. Low rear headroom.
WHAT’S NEW: Only minor updates for 2026. The biggest change carries over from last year’s refresh: the addition of the hybrid, which has become a star performer.
The Honda Civic hatchback won’t scream for attention. It won’t arrive wearing sequins and carrying a smoke machine. It’s more like Nomi Marks from “Sense8”: intelligent, sophisticated and impressively capable.
The styling remains handsome and clean. Long hood. Low roofline. Crisp lines everywhere.Honda resisted the urge to make this vehicle look like a spaceship or an angry robot. That’s refreshing.
Inside, the dashboard is simple and elegant. The honeycomb air-vent treatment remains one of the coolest interior details in the segment. Materials feel expensive. Controls are easy to understand. And visibility is excellent.
I love how the cargo space is generous, with rear seats that fold flat. A bicycle, several suitcases or enough supplies for an ambitious weekend road trip fit without much hassle.
Then there’s the hybrid. The system produces a healthy amount of power while delivering fuel economy that borders on the absurd. Around town, handling feels smooth, quiet and surprisingly quick. You almost glide through traffic. The standard gasoline engine isn’t bad, but the hybrid is stellar.
The Civic also shines on twisty roads. Steering is precise. Body motions stay controlled. The suspension strikes a sweet balance between comfort and sportiness.
Biggest weakness? No all-wheel drive. For drivers in snowy climates, that’s not so good.
Still, the Civic’s stellar combination of efficiency, quality, and driving enjoyment remains incredibly hard to beat.
SUBARU IMPREZA

$27,000
MPG: 27 city/33 highway
0 to 60 mph: 8.5 seconds
Cargo space: 20.4 cubic feet
PROS: All-wheel drive. User-friendly tech. Safety cred.
CONS: No hybrid version. Some road noise. Modest cargo room.
WHAT’S NEW: The Impreza receives relatively minor updates for 2026. Subaru continues refining this hatchback rather than reinventing it.
If the Honda Civic is urbane, the Subaru Impreza is unfussy. There’s a kind of Kristen Stewart energy here. Cool without trying too hard.
The styling isn’t dramatic, but it works. This hauler appears ready to tackle rain, snow, dirt roads or an impromptu weekend escape.
And all-wheel drive comes standard on every Impreza. (Most competitors only offer front-wheel drive or include all-wheel drive as a pricey option.)
The result: Slippery roads simply don’t create much anxiety. The suspension absorbs bumps nicely. Long trips are comfortable. Visibility is great, thanks to relatively thin roof pillars and large windows.
I like how the cabin is functional rather than fancy. Materials don’t quite match the Civic’s upscale vibe, but everything feels sturdy. A large infotainment screen dominates the dashboard and generally works well, though some drivers may prefer more physical buttons.
Cargo space is respectable, and the design makes loading bulky items easy.
Performance depends heavily on trim. The base engine gets the job done, but nobody will confuse it for a sports car. The RS trim’s larger engine provides more power and makes the ride livelier. But even then, acceleration remains merely adequate.
The Impreza’s real appeal lies elsewhere, with a mix that few rivals can match: hatchback practicality, standard all-wheel drive, strong safety scores and reasonable pricing.
Perhaps that’s the key difference between these two hatchbacks. The Honda Civic impresses immediately. The Subaru Impreza grows on you.
Fortunately, choosing between them is less stressful than deciding who gets the last mimosa at brunch.
Real Estate
When buying a home, it’s decisions, decisions, decisions
Keeping notes on the process makes for an informed purchase
When looking to buy a home, there are lots of details to consider. Many of my clients would come to me and say, “Joe I want to buy a place, but I haven’t decided which neighborhood to buy in.” And the struggle was real. A few clients had everything decided from the color of the hallway walls to the cabinet handles and sometimes which three square blocks they wanted to look at.
But other clients were occasionally looking at properties in areas as distinct as Union Market/NOMA, Brookland, Logan Circle, and then we would even go across the river to look at a property in Shirlington or the Van Dorn areas of Virginia, which all have their own unique flavor and characteristics.
Sometimes clients would tell me, “I only want to look in Mount Pleasant or Adams Morgan.” Or, “don’t even show me any properties west of this street or south of that street.” My job wasn’t to convince people where to live. It was to just take the parameters they set for me and find as good of a property in that zone as I could, coordinate the showings and, if necessary, offer the strategy.
One can see that buyers often had more decisions to make than a seller. From a seller’s perspective, the house was where it was, and we just had to make the best of it. But working with a buyer could mean looking at five different neighborhoods, and then being a “thought partner” to help them figure out which were the top two or three areas they had seen, and then further distilling those down into what was available and weighing those options against each other.
One house could have the dream bathroom but also be located six blocks further from a Metro stop, walkable shopping and dining, and “just too far away from my friends.” Another house could have all the neighborhood options a client was looking for, but was just not in turnkey condition, and would require an additional $30,000 of upgrades once purchased to make it into the dream home they envisioned.
One activity I often asked buyers to do was to keep an active list in their heads of the properties they liked, and to keep a running rank of the top three. I often encouraged them to bring a notebook along on the journey where they could take notes and write down questions they thought of as they looked. It was an important decision, and sometimes the largest purchase of their lives. Why not take it a little seriously, and take notes? This could often help the buyer later when they felt it was time to decide.
The point here is, keeping a notebook handy can sometimes help a person with what feels like an overwhelming process. It provides a space to explore how one feels, jot down important details to remember, and then use that to make an informed decision.
Joseph Hudson is a referral agent with RLAH. Reach him at 703-587-0597 or [email protected].
Real Estate
Under-the-radar Delaware beach towns smart buyers are targeting
There are other options if Rehoboth prices are scaring you off
Look, we love Rehoboth. We will always love Rehoboth. Queer folks have been flocking there since the 1940s, and with scores of LGBTQ-owned businesses and a Pride calendar packed tighter than the boardwalk in July, “Rehomo” earned its crown fair and square.
But let’s be honest with each other: trying to buy property there right now feels a lot like trying to get a reservation at the one good restaurant in town on a Saturday in August. Everyone wants in, inventory is tighter than your swim trunks after Labor Day brunch, and the prices have officially entered “are you kidding me” territory.
So here’s a thought: What if you didn’t fight the crowd? What if, instead, you let Rehoboth keep doing its glorious, chaotic, glitter-bomb thing and you quietly built your beach life 15 minutes away for considerably less drama and considerably more square footage? Here are four towns ready for their close-up.
Lewes: The Charming Overachiever
Lewes is what happens when a beach town actually has its life together. Historic charm, walkability, proximity to Cape Henlopen State Park, less crowding, and a strong year-round community. Unlike towns that turn into ghost towns after Labor Day, Lewes maintains a real community all year long, which is more than we can say for some situationships.
And right now, the market is practically begging you to make a move. It’s one of the most desirable and stable markets in the county — built for buyers thinking long-term, not flippers, and Sussex County overall has flipped into genuine buyer’s market territory for the first time in years. Translation: you finally get to be the one with leverage.
Bethany Beach: My Personal Pick
Full disclosure: I own in Bethany. So consider this section a little biased — and also the most honest thing I’ll tell you in this whole article.
When I drive down from D.C., I’m not looking for more of D.C. I love this city, but I also love leaving it — and yes, some of the people in it too (you know who you are, and so do I). Bethany gives me that full exhale. It’s quiet in the way that actually means something: fewer crowds, slower mornings, a soundtrack that’s mostly waves instead of nightlife. It leans hard into its “quiet resort” reputation, with low property taxes and a limited geographic footprint, and it is not the least bit sorry about it.
But quiet doesn’t mean isolated. I’ve got a genuinely excellent food scene nearby, real shopping, and a string of charming neighboring beach towns — and when I do want a taste of Rehoboth’s energy, it’s a short, easy drive away. I get to choose my dose of chaos instead of living inside it.
And here’s the part that matters most for this article: the price. If you’ve looked at Rehoboth listings and quietly closed the tab in despair, I need you to hear this — you can absolutely afford a beach house. It just doesn’t have to be in Rehoboth. Bethany’s average home value sits around $848,592, which is still real money, no question — but it buys you more house, more land, and more peace than the same budget gets you closer to the boardwalk. Bethany is welcoming too, just without Rehoboth’s decades of built-in queer institutional history — and for plenty of us, that trade-off is more than worth it.
Fenwick Island: Small Town, Big Flex
Fenwick rarely gets mentioned and, frankly, it should be insulted. It’s tiny, it’s quiet, and it has beach access without the carnival energy. The market data tends to lump it in with Bethany, where single-family oceanfront homes clear $1 million while entry-level condos start in the $600s — proof that “under-the-radar” doesn’t mean “bargain bin,” it means “fewer people fighting you for it.”
South Bethany: For the Boat Gays
Some of us want sand between our toes. Others want a private dock and a boat named something deeply unserious. South Bethany’s canal communities are built for the latter — water access on both sides, fewer crowds, and a lifestyle that says, “I have a captain’s hat and I am not afraid to wear it.”
The Math Works in Your Favor Now
Here’s the part that should really get your attention: Sussex County’s median sold price has dropped to $440,000, down 3.3% year-over-year, and buyers are routinely closing around 88 cents on the dollar compared to asking price. That’s a far cry from the unhinged bidding wars of 2021 and 2022, when overpaying was basically a competitive sport. Inventory across the county sits at nearly 2,500 active listings — the most of any county in Delaware, meaning you actually get to be picky for once. Revolutionary, we know.
And no, choosing one of these towns doesn’t mean leaving your people behind. Sussex Pride serves the entire county, not just Rehoboth proper, and CAMP Rehoboth’s resources extend well beyond town limits too. You’re not exiling yourself to the suburbs of queerness — you’re just getting a bigger kitchen, a quieter porch, and a much shorter line for the bathroom.
Add in the fact that Delaware has no estate tax and some of the lowest property taxes around, savings that genuinely add up over a retirement horizon, and the case writes itself. Rehoboth will always be the beating, sequined heart of queer beach culture in Delaware. But if you’ve been telling yourself a beach house isn’t in the cards — I’m here to tell you it absolutely is. It just might be 15 minutes south, with your own quiet porch, your own salt air, and considerably more room to breathe.
Have a real estate question or Rehoboth market tip? Reach out to [email protected] for LGBTQ-friendly real estate resources in the Rehoboth area.
Justin Noble is a Realtor licensed in D.C., Maryland, and Delaware with Monument Sotheby’s International Realty. Reach him at [email protected] or 302-897-7499.
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