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Exploring queer romance in ‘Lie with Me’

French film reminds us not to waste our lives out of fear

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Why do so many gay love stories have sad endings? The new French film “Lie with Me,” based on Philippe Besson’s novel, follows this familiar theme. Although recent films have ventured away from tragedy, like “Love, Simon,” the portrayal of queer love between men often denies us a happy ending. “Brokeback Mountain” tugged at our heartstrings, and the closing shot of a tearful Elio in “Call Me By Your Name” is iconic.

It’s not surprising that many gay love stories are tinged with melancholy. In fact, there’s even a book on the subject, “The Queer Art of Failure.” In a society that, until recently, rejected the legitimacy and rights of queer love, many gay writers and filmmakers felt there was no salvation at the end of the rainbow. The AIDS crisis further clouded the outlook for gay love. However, it’s a reflection of the more optimistic times we live in that contemporary gay films and TV shows, such as “Heartstopper,” can envision storybook romances.

ā€œLie with Me,ā€ a love story between French 17-year-olds set in the mid-1980s, all but rules out a happy ending. Add to the mix the rural conservative values and the inevitably divergent paths awaiting the bookish Stephane and the farm boy Thomas, and you’ve set the stage for great passion and a heartbreaking finale.

Watching this movie, it’s hard not to reminisce about your first crush and the idealized dreams you once had. For those of us of a certain age, those dreams often remained in the realm of imagination. Thomas and Stephane are fortunate to experience moments like skinny dipping in an old flooded quarry, dancing in their underwear, and making love in hidden spots. They start as a mismatched pair, with Thomas initially showing interest only in sex. However, slowly they form a bondā€”a love that’s innocent and uncomplicated, a kind that young hearts are perfectly suited for. Stephane envisions a world beyond the small town, but Thomas is skeptical about the continuation of their journey.

The film shifts between the young Stephane and his older self, now a renowned French novelist. Upon returning to his small town, the elder Stephane spots a young man who bears a striking resemblance to Thomas. This encounter, as the film later reveals, is far from coincidentalā€” it’s Thomas’s son, Lucas, trying to unravel his father’s early life. It’s evident that Stephane has immortalized his teenage love in a novel, setting the stage for the gradual revelation of a tragic love affair as Stephane and Lucas share fragments of the past that form a complete picture.

One of the most significant tragedies in queer lives is the un-lived life ā€” the men and women who, out of fear and shame, choose to remain hidden, denying themselves true love, an authentic life, and happiness. Many succumb to suicide, addiction, or other forms of abuse, while others live silently and joylessly. You might wish you could shake them and say, “You have one life to live, and you cannot let other people’s ignorance and prejudice rob you of it!” But for some, the obstacles to coming out seem insurmountable, including the fear of losing family and employment opportunities. This tragedy, while less common in today’s Western societies, persists in countries where being gay can lead to arrest or even execution.

What sets “Lie with Me” apart from other gay love stories that leave us feeling despondent is that its tragedy extends beyond the personal ā€” it serves as an indictment of a society that forces people to suppress their most innate feelings and endure immense suffering. It offers a cautionary lesson to any gay person struggling with the fear of coming out: Do not waste your life because you are afraid of what others may think. The number of queer individuals who have lived unfulfilled lives is immeasurable. “Lie with Me” pays a posthumous tribute to them, reminding us that who they truly were should not completely vanish. And in this film, it doesn’t.

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Timely doc celebrates Americaā€™s most beloved president as ā€˜Lover of Menā€™

Was Lincoln the most prominent LGBTQ hero in U.S. history?

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ā€˜Lover of Menā€™ explores Americaā€™s greatest president. (Image courtesy of Special Occason Studios)

Itā€™s reasonable to assume, if youā€™re someone with an interest in ā€œhiddenā€ queer history, that you are already aware of the speculation that Abraham Lincoln might have been gay, or at least bisexual.

Those labels didnā€™t exist in his time, but the 16th POTUS left a trail of eyebrow-raising same-sex relationships, nonetheless, which many scholars consider as evidence that he was likely a member of what we now call the LGBTQ community.

The discussion around Lincolnā€™s sexuality has always been broadly drawn and ambiguously cloaked by 19th-century social norms (which [spoiler alert] were not quite as Puritanical as we might believe). Conclusions must be drawn by inference, so itā€™s no surprise that many historians tend to be wary of projecting modern-day interpretations on a past era. Such experts warn against relying on a between-the-lines reading of ā€œofficialā€ history to provide factual certainty; by that standard, whatever the implications might suggest, thereā€™s simply no way to prove anything, one way or another, and thatā€™s the end of the story.

Others, however, are not so eager to close the discussion; thatā€™s why the creators of ā€œLover of Men: The Untold History of Abraham Lincolnā€ ā€“ a new documentary conveniently timed for release mere months ahead of what might, when it comes to the subject of LGBTQ acceptance and equality, be our most crucial election so far ā€“ decided to step in and set the record (if youā€™ll pardon the expression)Ā straight.

Directed by Shaun Peterson ā€“ who co-wrote alongside Joshua Koffman, Grace Leeson, and Robert Rosenheck ā€“ and unapologetically committed to piercing the opacity of a biography that contains too many ā€œred flagsā€ to ignore, itā€™s a documentary that eschews neutrality to make a case for claiming ā€œHonest Abeā€ as the most prominent LGBTQ hero in the Great American Story. Unfolded by expert historians ā€“ both queer and otherwise ā€“ as an intimate portrait of a profoundly public figure, it charts Lincolnā€™s life through a lens trained on private experience, and goes beyond that to frame the much-beloved presidentā€™s growth and transformation into one of the worldā€™s most significant leaders as a probable consequence of the ā€œfriendshipsā€ he experienced with the men who were his closest companions during different periods of his life.

Most of the attention is directed, unsurprisingly, at Joshua Speed, the handsome shopkeeper with whom, for four years of his young manhood, Lincoln shared a bed as a matter of ā€œconvenienceā€ ā€“ despite offers of free and private lodgings elsewhere and a successful law practice that would have allowed him to buy a bed of his own and a house in which to put it. Casting Speed as ā€œthe love of Lincolnā€™s life,ā€ it positions him (through plentiful historical documentation) as the man who helped the future president find his mojo; even so, it goes on to present evidence supporting less well-known male companions as catalysts to Lincolnā€™s maturation both as a commander-in-chief and a human being.

We wonā€™t go into much detail here; the movie does a better job of illuminating the record than we ever could ā€“ and it does so not by relying solely on the speculation of possibly biased commentators, but by presenting ā€œthe receiptsā€ as they appear in the indisputable (yet under-discussed) historical record. Gleaned from private correspondences and interviews with Lincolnā€™s primary contemporary biographer, these details reveal (among other things) the future presidentā€™s ambivalence toward women, the questionable context in which Lincoln bedded down with his various male companions, and the emotional bond he had with each of them that seemed to overshadow the one he shared with his eventual first lady, Mary Todd Lincoln ā€“ who, at least through the lens cast upon her here, was probably more in love with the idea of being married to a president than she was to the president she married.

No, thereā€™s no ā€œsmoking gunā€ (again, pardon the expression) to be found by the erudite scholars who expound upon the persuasively numerous clues contained in Lincolnā€™s biography during the course of the film. There are, however, plenty of tell-tale powder burns. By exploring the nuance behind the many documented-but-veiled suggestions about the martyred presidentā€™s relationships, both male and female, this varied assortment of historians highlights the points that strike a familiar chord for queer people even if theyā€™re likely to go unconsidered by anyone else. By the end, ā€œLover of Menā€ has expertly pleaded its case and rested it, relying on the weight and volume of its circumstantial evidence to satisfy any reasonable doubt.

The final verdict, of course, remains up to the individual viewer, and it unfortunately goes without saying that a good many will be watching with intent to discredit any hint of queerness within Lincolnā€™s biography, if they even watch it at all. Yet while itā€™s easy to reject an idea when youā€™ve already made up your mind that itā€™s false, itā€™s just as easy to accept one that you want to be true; and though the historians of Petersonā€™s smart and sassy movie carry an undeniable weight of credibility in their arguments, what remains indisputably accurate is that there is no way to know with certainty if our most-revered president was shaded with the ā€œlavenderā€ referenced by his poetic biographer Carl Sandburg to describe his nature in a later-prudently deleted passage of prose.

Thatā€™s perfectly all right, though. ā€œLover of Menā€ never tries to claim, unequivocally, that Lincoln belonged in the LGBTQ rainbow, only that the likely probability that he did is worthy of consideration. Further, it goes on to highlight the open-minded empathy that allowed him to pivot his viewpoint in ways that are typically unthinkable in politics; the evolution it charts for Lincoln from gifted country bumpkin to fully aware (dare we say ā€œwokeā€?) humanitarian leader makes him an ideological model that feels crucial today. That having to suppress his true nature may have shaped the values and ideals that would ultimately help him to change the world makes the filmā€™s arguments even more persuasive; and if its re-enactments of encounters between Lincoln and his alleged male lovers read as a little too modern to be true, they certainly convey a more plausible interpretation than can be found in any surface reading of the scrupulously polite language describing such events in the historic record.

Reinforced by filmed footage of the now-historically preserved sites (the smallness of an old shared cot speaks volumes) where Lincolnā€™s intimate life took place, these fancifully anachronistic translations of 19th-century queer courtship into something instantly recognizable to modern queer viewers succeed in making it difficult to cling to a denial that this particular American icon might have been queer ā€“ unless you are very deeply invested, for whatever reason, in doing so.

Sadly, that last point means a great many people will probably reject this passionately earnest piece of info-tainment sight unseen; but for those who donā€™t, it offers an intelligent and reasonable perspective on one of our most important national icons that can only increase his relevance in an age almost as divisive as the one over which he was destined to preside.

In other words, donā€™t miss it.

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True-life prison drama ā€˜Sing Singā€™ celebrates power of art

Domingo delivers Oscar-worthy performance

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Colman Domingo in 'Sing Sing.' (Photo courtesy of A24)

When Colman Domingo became a frontrunner for last yearā€™s Best Actor Oscar ā€“ nominated for his star turn as the titular civil rights hero in ā€œRustinā€ ā€“ it was big news for the LGBTQ community. He was the first openly gay Afro-Latino to be nominated for the award. Had he won, he would have been the first openly gay actor to take the category, and only the second out queer performer to win in any of the acting categories. It would have been a milestone.

Yet his loss, somehow, didnā€™t seem much of a disappointment: Colmanā€™s prodigious talent (also on display in last yearā€™s ā€œThe Color Purpleā€) seemed to assure fans that it would get another chance ā€“ and ā€œSing Sing,ā€ now in theaters nationwide after an auspicious debut at the 2023 Toronto International Film Festival, might very well be the movie that gets it for him.

In it, Domingo portrays John “Divine G” Whitfield, an inmate at New Yorkā€™s Sing Sing Correctional Facility who has become a pillar of the prisonā€™s ā€œRehabilitation Through the Artsā€ (RTA) program, through which he and fellow participants collaborate on the creation and performance of theater presentations for the larger prison population. As the group plans its next play ā€“ a fantastical time-travel comedy combining an eclectic mix of classic storylines and characters ā€“ he is equally focused on a clemency hearing that might overturn his sentence for a murder he didnā€™t commit. That doesnā€™t stop him from reaching out to help a hard-case new recruit (Clarence Macklin) into the fold, despite the newcomerā€™s chip-on-the-shoulder attitude and a rivalry that threatens his own status as a ā€œtop dogā€ in the company. As both the performance and his hearing draw nearer, the inevitable hardships and humiliations of prison existence take their toll, culminating in a crisis of faith that threatens to undermine not only the upcoming play, but the unwavering resilience that has allowed him to resist the dehumanizing effects of his incarceration.

As co-written by Clint Bentley and director Greg Kwedar, the screenplay gives us little in the way of expository information, even skipping the formality of opening credits in favor of dropping us directly into the action, and instead allows us to glean the necessary background details as we go. Itā€™s never an obstacle; Kwedarā€™s simple-yet-eloquent approach to presenting the narrative allows the actors to reveal information through nuance as much as through words; cinematographer Pat Scola helps by framing the visuals in a radiant natural light that lends warmth to the institutional bleakness of the setting, making it easy to be patient as we pick up what we need to know. These qualities subliminally allow us to keep a comfortable state of mind in a setting intended by definition to be deliberately UNcomfortable, which also facilitates our engagement with the creative energy of the troupeā€™s rehearsals ā€“ guided by a weathered director (Paul Raci) with a gift for teaching his charges to ā€œtrust the processā€ ā€“ and connects us with the theme of personal transformation through art, a thread that runs throughout the film and feels at least equally as significant as the details of any individual characterā€™s personal story.

Itā€™s this, of course, that gives ā€œSing Singā€ its most profound and universal impact. Though any viewer might reasonably expect a movie about prisoners ā€“ most of them people of color from marginalized and disadvantaged backgrounds ā€“ to be geared toward a focus on issues of equity and social justice, Kwedarā€™s film allows those ideas to remain self-evident while placing its dominant weight behind the premise that artistic expression can function as both an escape from the suffering of a bleak everyday existence and a means of transcending it. Reinforced repeatedly in the narrative, most obviously in the inclusion of Shakespeareā€™s ā€œTo be or not to beā€ soliloquy from ā€œHamletā€ but underscored through most of the material we see the inmates perform, this driving sense of hopeful purpose makes the story of Whitfield and his fellow prisoners into an unmistakable metaphor for anyone who has ever struggled to find meaning and peace in a cold and unpredictable world ā€“ and letā€™s face it, that means almost everybody.

Perhaps inevitably for such a film, ā€œSing Singā€ occasionally seems to come off as one of those idealized Hollywood ā€œfeel-goodā€ social dramas in which the heartaches and tragedies are overcome by hope and an undeterred spirit; the more cynical among its audience might well see it as ā€œtoo good to be true.ā€ Such judgments, however, become harder to render with the knowledge that ā€“ and it almost feels like a spoiler to reveal it, since the movie chooses to do so only when the credits finally roll at the end ā€“ not only is it a true story, but most of its cast (including Maclin, who plays himself) are actual alumni of the real RTA program, which operates in six New York State prisons. Not only that, the real-life Whitfield (who himself appears in a small role) and Maclin collaborated with Kwedar and Bentley on the story ā€“ so that, regardless of any dramatic license that may have been taken, there is an undeniable authenticity that is borne out by the inclusion of so many genuine ā€œsuccess storiesā€ from the program in the filmā€™s ensemble cast.

As for that cast, each of them gives an equally compelling performance, even when they only have a few minutes of screen time; Kwedar gives everyone moments to shine, and while some actors have more of those than others, all contribute equally to the filmā€™s overall power to move us.

Still, itā€™s the major figures that have the biggest standout moments; Raci brings intelligence, compassion, and an air of nurturing authority to his role as the groupā€™s seasoned director, and Maclin burns with the charismatic intensity of an experienced movie star ā€“ which he should, on the strength of this remarkable debut alone. Also worth mentioning is Sean San JosĆ©, a close longtime off-screen friend to Colman, who mirrors their real-life relationship in his performance as a fellow inmate and confidante to add an extra touch of palpable camaraderie to their scenes.

ā€œSing Singā€ ultimately belongs, however, to its lead player. Domingo is a fearless and powerful actor, something he has proven throughout his career and that has aided his rise to acclaim and stardom, and he brings those qualities to this role for an unforgettable star turn. Intelligent, erudite, passionate, vulnerable, and capable of delivering Shakespearean verse or prison slang with equal conviction and command, he elevates the movie while simultaneously blending seamlessly into its larger purpose. Perhaps best of all, thereā€™s nothing about his performance that screams ā€œawards baitā€ ā€” and that, somehow, makes him even more deserving of receiving honors for it.

Whether he gets them or not, ā€œSing Singā€ is a movie to be remembered ā€” a testament to the power of art and the ā€œinvincible summerā€ that keeps us going when all of life seems intent on extinguishing our hope. It leaves us feeling inspired, renewed, and ready to face the world with a refreshed perspective.

Itā€™s the rare movie that can manage that, so donā€™t miss this one.

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Restored ā€˜Caligulaā€™ is still no classic

Sumptuous trash thatā€™s worth seeing on the big screen

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Malcolm McDowell and Helen Mirren in ā€˜Caligula.ā€™ (Photo courtesy of Drafthouse Films / Penthouse Films International)

Anybody who loves movies knows the thrill of returning to an old favorite for a repeat viewing; it allows us to appreciate things we missed before. Alternatively, re-watching a bad movie (or at least, one you disliked) can help you find a new perspective on it  ā€“ but that comes with the risk of discovering that itā€™s still bad, and then youā€™ve wasted a couple of hours that youā€™ll never get back.

But what if itā€™s a ā€œbadā€ movie that is technically not the same movie anymore? Does it deserve another chance?

No, thatā€™s not a riddle. Itā€™s something to ponder before deciding to experience the newly re-edited and re-constructed 4K re-release of 1979ā€™s ā€œCaligula,ā€ the notorious historical epic about the famously unhinged titular Roman emperor, which featured a boldly stylized reconstruction of its ancient Roman setting, a youthful Malcolm McDowell in the title role, and a roster of distinguished British actors adding their prestige in support. Controversial even before the cameras started rolling, it was an ambitious multi-national production that spared no expense in bringing the despotā€™s personal rise and fall to the screen in all its lavish and debauched glory ā€“ conceived by none other than porn magnate Bob Guccione, the founder and editor of Penthouse magazine.

As in its original form, helmed by Italian filmmaker Tinto Brass, the movie opens as Caligula ā€“ heir to the throne of his increasingly deranged great uncle, the Roman Emperor Tiberius, who rules from a private island sanctuary and spends most of his time satisfying his perverse sexual appetites ā€“ fears that the old man views him as a threat to his power and decides to get ahead of the problem by disposing of him first. This, of course, makes Caligula the new emperor, and from there the tale depicts a chronology of his reign, in which his own lust for power ā€“ and other things ā€“ transforms him into a depraved tyrant. Thatā€™s not great for Rome, of course, but it ends up even worse for Caligula. We wonā€™t spoil what happens, but you can look it up in any history book about the Roman Empire if you want to know.

The production was, to put it mildly, a mess. Guccione hired Brass to direct, and contracted renowned author Gore Vidal to write the screenplay, only to wrangle with both over creative differences. Vidal was eventually fired, and Brass assigned to adapt his script ā€“ but in the end, conflicts over the approach to sexual content led Guccione to remove Brass from the process and hire a team of editors to assemble a final cut according to his own specifications. He also snuck into the studio after-hours to film additional scenes of un-simulated sex featuring several hand-picked ā€œPenthouse Pets,ā€ which were then inserted into the movie to provide the flavor of softcore eroticism he assumed audiences would expect from his ā€œbrand.ā€

He may have been right about the audiences ā€“ ā€œCaligulaā€ was a box-office hit, a status no doubt fueled by international outrage from conservatives who decried it as ā€œpornographic.ā€ The most expensive independent film in history, it made back its cost and then some ā€“ but critics largely tore Guccioneā€™s long-in-the-works pet project apart (legendary film reviewer Roger Ebert famously walked out on it), and though it had its defenders, it quickly achieved status as a notably embarrassing ā€œflop.ā€

Cinema lovers, however, have a habit of favorably reassessing the film failures of previous generations, and inevitably, ā€œCaligulaā€ gained a reputation over the years as just such a movie. Enter Thomas Negovan, a film historian who discovered nearly 100 hours of unused footage – rejected takes, deleted scenes, and other material abandoned in Guccioneā€™s final vision for the film ā€“ and undertook a full re-creation of the originally conceived ā€œCaligulaā€ as far as was possible, replacing every frame of footage from the 1979 release with alternate takes and reincorporating abandoned elements to create a stunningly restored new version in an effort to realize screenwriter Vidalā€™s original conception as closely as possible.

The resulting film, dubbed the ā€œUltimate Cut,ā€ premiered at 2023ā€™s Cannes Film Festival, where it earned praise from critics who cited its success in restoring both the movieā€™s artistic integrity and thematic cohesion, as well as its expanded showcase of the strong performances from McDowell (fresh from his breakthrough ā€œClockwork Orangeā€ role when cast here) and future Oscar-winner Helen Mirren, as Caligulaā€™s wife Caesonia. It restores at least some of Vidalā€™s intended theme highlighting the corruption that comes with absolute power ā€“ though not the openly gay authorā€™s stronger emphasis on queer sexuality, a major point of contention with Guccione despite his willing inclusion of explicit same-sex and bisexual intimacy. Those moments largely take place as part of the background, a scenic element establishing the moral decadence of its title characterā€™s reign and presenting a fetishized representation of queer coupling that ā€“ like all of the movieā€™s sex ā€“ seems more performative than passionate.

Even so, itā€™s a better film than it was, particularly in a restored print that emphasizes the rich color of Silvano Ippolitiā€™s cinematography and the ā€œseventies chicā€ re-imagination of Ancient Rome by production designer Danilo Donati. McDowellā€™s performance, seen in its fleshed-out entirety for the first time, reclaims a coherent arc that was lost in the original cut, while Mirrenā€™s work is similarly expanded to reveal a layered nuance that somehow anchors the movieā€™s extremities to a recognizable humanity. Additionally, Negovianā€™s work in de- and re-constructing the original film is praiseworthy for its meticulous devotion to delivering a unified whole.

At the same time, there are missteps that alternative footage canā€™t correct. ā€œCaligulaā€ still plays like a confused art house costume drama duped into becoming an exploitation film. Gratuitous sex and over-the-top violence are still the predominant tactics for eliciting audience response, and while the ā€œstarā€ performances ā€“ even legendary ham Peter Oā€™Tooleā€™s Tiberius, a case study in untethered-yet-irresistible overacting ā€“ and an elegantly trashy visual aesthetic lend it a semblance of artistic dignity, it canā€™t quite overcome the disingenuousness inherent in its blend of ā€œseriousā€ themes with blatantly exploitative underpinnings.

All of which begs the same question presented by the classic thought experiment called ā€œThe Ship of Theseus,ā€ which asks us to contemplate whether a vessel that has had all of its parts replaced over time can still be considered the same vessel. Itā€™s a moot point, however, because ā€œCaligulaā€ ā€“ disavowed even in its new incarnation by director Brass ā€“ is still plagued by the creative conflicts that marred its production. Its various elements seem to work at confused cross purposes, undermining any effort to impose a genuine sense of depth or artistic unity and leaving us with something that, despite the earnest contributions of many of its participants, still feels like a cynical effort to pass off porn by dressing it up as art.

Not that weā€™re judging that; in fact, weā€™re encouraging you to catch ā€œCaligula: the Ultimate Cutā€ during its road show rollout in theaters, which commenced earlier this month, before it releases on VOD and streaming platforms later on. It might still be trash, but itā€™s sumptuous trash, and thatā€™s always worth seeing on the big screen.

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