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We asked LGBT locals about their adventures in home decor

A painting, a photograph and a wall hanging among most treasured items

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(Photo courtesy Palmer) (Photo courtesy Goldmann) (Photo courtesy McMahon)

Bruce Palmer


Interior designer
Rehoboth Beach, Del.

What’s one of your favorite home decor finds that you got many years ago that still brings you joy?

So my favorite piece for probably 12 years has been this painting by Kamalky Laureano. It hangs at our beach house at the top of the stairs. Iā€™m constantly walking by and still get pleasure every time I pass by. Itā€™s such a conversation piece!Ā People often think itā€™s a photograph until they get close and examine it.Ā Itā€™s comprised of acrylic, oil and pastel on canvas. Itā€™s so life like and real.Ā People often ask if itā€™s a portrait of me (blush ā€” I wish).

What’s one item you thought you’d love but after a few years you were indifferent about?

I guess the one thing I thought would be amazing that everyone said I needed would be ā€œAlexa.ā€ Maybe Iā€™m not using her correctly since she never understands me? Or Iā€™m not using her to the fullest. I guess this relationship just isnā€™t working out. However, she does do a nice job turning on the lamps.

Where do you like to shop for home decor items and what have you learned about your taste over the years in the process?

I still love shopping in New York City.Ā There is such an array of items, I can do one-stop shopping in a day. If Iā€™m looking for vintage or antiques there are plenty of spots Uptown, Midtown and SoHo.Ā If shopping for new items, I love the New York Design Center, Design and Decoration building, DDC collection and the Fine arts building.Ā It has such a blend of periods, styles and inspiration.Ā The city has such an amazing energy about it. If Iā€™m local, I can’t pass up a Home Goods ā€” youā€™re bound to find something!Ā I suppose my taste has developed over the years.Ā I started out much more traditional and classic, borderline Versailles almost.Ā While I still appreciate the details and craftsmanship, my design aesthetic is much more pared down and transitional these days. Iā€™ve realized that good design is almost everywhere if you can recognize it. The classics have created a background of inspiration while reinterpreting them for todayā€™s standard of living.

Holly Goldmann

D.C.-based trans activist

What’s one of your favorite home decor finds that you got many years ago that still brings you joy?

My Richard Avedon photo of Holly Woodlawn, Candy Darling and Jackie Curtis. It was a gift from a friend. It was the first piece of real art I acquired and the first thing I had framed. Iā€™ve got another original print of Candy Darling too. Iā€™m not 100 percent sure of the photographer. I thought it was Ron Galella, but just Googled it. So now Iā€™m not sure. I bought that from a shop in L.A. The picture of Holly Woodlawn is special, as weā€™d been friends when she was living.

What’s one item you thought you’d love but after a few years you were indifferent about?

A pink Missoni pouf. Oh did I want that. And it was Missoni for Target. I really needed it. And ended up paying double on eBay. Then it ended up 75 percent off. Well I think itā€™s in storage. I got a Barbie Pink Jonathan Adler tray to go on it too, the tray is around. Iā€™m just not sure what itā€™s under now. Iā€™ve got an awful lot of books.

Where do you like to shop for home decor items and what have you learned about your taste over the years in the process?

Now, I tend to make things or just repaint. My apartment is so tiny, itā€™s more about space and storage. I like to sew, I made my curtains, headboard, bedding in the past. I prefer unique things and mix prints like I do when I get dressed. I think now itā€™s more about space and storage, than actual furniture pieces. I got rid of my sofa, then chaise and started painting everything pink. You canā€™t go wrong with shocking pink.Ā 

J. Michael McMahon

D.C.-based clergy/musician

What’s one of your favorite home decor finds that you got many years ago that still brings you joy?

My husbandā€™s parents both immigrated to the United States from the Philippines before they met in Los Angeles and married there. When Ray Valido and I began to live together in 2010, I began to learn about many elements of Filipino culture that he had grown up with and continued to value. One of these customs is to display a large wooden fork and spoon on the wall of the dining room. For me itā€™s a great symbol of welcome and of the importance of shared meals as a way of celebrating and strengthening bonds among people. I love the way that the Filipino fork and spoon are displayed in our home right next to one of the two built-in china cabinets that we added to our dining room. Those units were designed and constructed by a French immigrant who specializes in building fine furniture. I find the juxtaposition of simplicity and fine design very appealing and inclusive.

What’s one item you thought you’d love but after a few years you were indifferent about?

If I had to single out one piece of home dĆ©cor that I have tired of, it would be the futon in our recreation room. I had initially liked the idea of a piece of furniture that could function for seating or sleeping, but now I donā€™t think that it really is very comfortable for either.

Where do you like to shop for home decor items and what have you learned about your taste over the years in the process?

I think of home decor as an organic process, adding a piece here and a piece there. Rather than relying on a particular vendor, I prefer to decorate with gifts that are particularly meaningful, engage a custom builder, shop around various furniture stores or seek out pieces of art that resonate with our taste and feel right in our home. I’ve learned that my taste leans toward pieces that are simple in design and create a feeling of warmth in our home.

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Real Estate

What property should I purchase if Iā€™m not sure how long Iā€™ll be in D.C.?

Row homes, English basements and more options abound

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D.C. offers an array of properties no matter how long you plan to live here.

Great question! If you are looking at real estate as an investment ā€“ two great property types to look at would be a smaller row home and also a row home that has an English basement. Some property types that you might want to stay away from would be a condo or a co-op unit. Letā€™s take a look at why these properties would be good and bad:

Smaller Row Home

Row homes are a great investment for many reasons. You can often find smaller two-bedroom row homes in the same price point as those of a two-bedroom condo, which might be seen as a ā€œcondo alternativeā€ and afford you much more freedom. There are no condo associations or home owner associations that you must belong to so this keeps your monthly carrying costs on the lower end and you are allowed to make more independent decisions. For example, if you wanted to paint the house purple – in most cases you would be allowed to. If you wanted to change the color of the front door or put shutters on the windows ā€“ you would be allowed to. This is usually not the case with condo or co-ops. 

When it comes to the rental market ā€“ similarly renters like the independence of privacy in a home and not being among many other people. The luxury of perhaps direct off-street parking, outdoor space or even just more space at the same rental amount that a two bedroom condo rent would be ā€“ this is more appealing for a renter and would likely rent faster than that of a condo or co-op. For this model – you would obviously need to move out before you could take advantage of the investment of this type of real estate.

A row home with an English basement 

With this type of real estate you can immediately begin receiving income after your purchase. You can occupy the upstairs of the row home, which is usually the larger portion of the home, or you could even occupy the basement, which is usually the 1-2 bedroom smaller portion of the home and receive rental income for the other half of the home. This can be in the way of a yearly traditional tenant or in the manner of short-term rentals (check with the most recent STR policies within the District). With this model, you stand to make even more of a return on your investment upon your move out of the home as you can rent the entire home or you can rent the top unit and basement unit independently to gross a larger amount of income. It is important to note that it is never advised to purchase a row home unless you can fully afford it WITHOUT the idea of accepting additional rental income to offset the mortgage cost.

These two options listed above are the most typical found within the District because they are fee simple, standalone pieces of real estate and are not within a condo association, HOA, or a co-op with governing documents that tell you what you can and cannot do which makes row homes an attractive type of real estate for a long-term hold.

When looking at types of properties that you might want to stay away from ā€“ condos and co-ops come to mind and I say this with a caveat. You can surely purchase these types of real estate but must first understand the inā€™s and outā€™s of their governing documents. Condos are bound by the governing condominium documents which will tell you for how long your lease must be, a minimum of lease days, you can only rent after you have lived in the residence for a number of years, likely will stipulate no transient housing ā€“ which means no short term rentals. It could also quite possibly say that you can only rent for a specific amount of time and lastly it will also stipulate that only a specific amount of people can rent at one time in order to stay below the regulated lending requirements set forth by Fannie and Freddie Mac. Similarly, Co-ops are even more strict ā€“ they can tell you that you are just not able to rent at all or if you can you can only do so for a specific number of years and then you are required to sell or return back to the unit as your primary residence. 

As you can see, when it comes to condos and co-ops there are more specific and stringent bylaws that owners must agree to and follow that limit or even outlaw your ability to rent your piece of real estate. When you purchase a row home ā€“ there are no regulations on what you can and cannot do regarding rentals (outside of the short-term regulations within the District).

When looking for a piece of real estate in the District it is important to think through how long you could possibly wish to hold onto this property and what the future holds. If you think this is a long-term hold then you might consider a row home option ā€“ again, you can find a smaller two-bedroom row home that amounts to that price similar to a two-bedroom condo and would afford you a more flexible lifestyle. Itā€™s important to work with a real estate agent to ensure that they guide you in this process and help answer any questions you might have. Itā€™s also always advised to speak directly to a short-term rental specialist should you wish to go down that route as they will truly understand the inā€™s and outā€™s of that marketplace.

All in all, there are specific property types that work for everyone and within the District we have a plethora of options for everyone.

Justin Noble is a Realtor with Sothebyā€™s International Realty licensed in D.C., Maryland, and Delaware for your DMV and Delaware beach needs. Specializing in first-time homebuyers, development and new construction as well as estate sales, Justin provides white glove service at every price point. Reach him at 202-503-4243,Ā  [email protected] or BurnsandNoble.com.

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Heather Lawverā€™s journey to growth, inclusion with Ceemo.ai at StartOut’s Growth Lab

ā€˜A program that embraces unique challenges LGBTQ+ founders haveā€™

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Jake Hannigan is Program Manager of StartOut.

In the bustling world of startups, where innovation and diversity intertwine to forge new pathways, Heather Lawver, founder and CEO of D.C.-based Ceemo.ai stands out not just as a visionary entrepreneur but as a beacon of inclusivity and determination. Her journey to build Ceemo.ai, an advertising and branding platform dedicated to revolutionizing how startups conceive and market their brands, has reached a pivotal milestone with its selection into StartOut’s esteemed Growth Lab Accelerator, sponsored by J.P. Morgan. 

With less than one percent of startup funding being allocated toward LGBTQ+ founders in 2023, according to a recent StartOut study, this five-month program is critical in providing resources and education to help LGBTQ+ entrepreneurs grow and compete. 

Ceemo.ai joins eight other companies nationwide for this exclusive five-month training program.

A commitment to inclusion

Lawver founded Ceemo.ai in 2021 as a way to help entrepreneurs build better brands and seamlessly apply them to the marketing and pitch materials they need to launch the company of their dreams. The companyā€™s simple five-step brand quiz helps founders think strategically about how they want to be perceived by their customers to then generate a full brand book with wordmark logo, color scheme, and font suite. Ceemo then applies that new brand book to a full suite of marketing and pitch materials, giving founders a roadmap to making sales and securing investment.

Her application to the Growth Lab Accelerator cohort was driven by more than the desire for business growth; it was fueled by her longstanding volunteer work with StartOut and a profound commitment to fostering an environment where LGBTQ+ founders are not only included but celebrated. 

The selection of Ceemo.ai for StartOut’s Growth Lab, an accelerator known for its top-quality mentoring, education, and networking opportunities tailored for LGBTQ+ founders, marks a pivotal chapter in Lawverā€™s mission to help cultivate a more inclusive entrepreneurial landscape.

“Being in an accelerator where I’m not the only queer person in the room is not just empowering; it’s transformative,” she shares. ā€œIt means so much to be selected for a program that embraces the unique challenges LGBTQ+ founders have, and these issues are not just acknowledged but are central to the narrative of success and innovation.ā€

ā€œThe founders in our 2024 Cohort are problem solvers, developing unique products and solutions across a range of industries, from technology and software to food and beverage,ā€ said David Barbee, Head of LGBTQ+ Initiatives, J.P. Morgan Commercial Banking. ā€œAs they continue to scale, these companies will need access to resources like capital and banking solutions, investors and business advisors. We are proud to provide mentorship and access to our firm-wide capabilities to help them reach the next level.ā€ 

ā€œThis platform is not just an accelerator; it’s a community where the unique challenges and triumphs of LGBTQ+ founders are acknowledged, celebrated, and used as a springboard for groundbreaking business success,ā€ said Lawver. 

Ambitious goals for bright future

Over the past decade, Lawverā€™s expertise in enhancing pitch decks and fundraising strategies has been instrumental in securing more than $170 million for minority entrepreneurs across various demographics, including women, BIPOC, LGBTQ+, disabled individuals, and seniors. 

Her vision for her time in the five-month cohort is characterized by ambition and a keen focus on leveraging the program’s resources to scale Ceemo.ai’s impact. Her top goals include refining the platform’s Crunchbase algorithms to offer unparalleled market insights for startups, enhancing their organic sales funnels, and forging strategic partnerships with tech giants like Canva, Adobe, Google, Shopify, and Squarespace. These objectives are not just growth metrics but stepping stones towards revolutionizing how startups approach branding and marketing in a highly competitive digital landscape.

(Founded in 2009, StartOut, a national 501(c)(3) non-profit organization, is the largest national organization to support LGBTQ+ entrepreneurs with more than 28,000 members nationwide. Its mission is to accelerate the growth of the LGBTQ+ community to drive its economic empowerment, building a world where every LGBTQ+ entrepreneur has equal access to lead, succeed, and shape the workforce of the future.)

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The rise of virtual home tours

Adapting to changing consumer preferences in spring real estate

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Looking for a home? Virtual tours hold special benefits for queer buyers.

In today’s dynamic real estate market, the spring season brings not only blooming flowers but also a surge of activity as buyers and sellers alike prepare to make their moves. However, in recent years, there’s been a notable shift in how consumers prefer to explore potential homes: the rise of virtual tours. 

For the LGBTQ community, these virtual experiences offer more than just convenience; they provide accessibility, safety, and inclusivity in the home buying process. 

Gone are the days of spending weekends driving from one open house to another – unless thatā€™s your thing of course, only to find that the property doesn’t quite match expectations. With virtual tours, you can explore every corner of a home from the comfort of your own space – find something interesting? Schedule a showing with any LGBTQ Realtor at GayRealEstate.com.

This is particularly significant for LGBTQ individuals, who may face unique challenges or concerns when attending in-person showings. Whether it’s the ability to discreetly view properties without fear of discrimination or the convenience of touring homes located in LGBTQ-friendly neighborhoods across the country, virtual tours offer a sense of empowerment and control in the home buying process.

Moreover, virtual tours cater to the diverse needs of the LGBTQ community. For couples or families with busy schedules or those living in different cities or states, these digital walkthroughs provide a convenient way to view properties together without the need for extensive travel. Additionally, for individuals who may be exploring their gender identity or transitioning, virtual tours offer a low-pressure environment to explore potential living spaces without the added stress of in-person interactions.

At GayRealEstate.com, we understand the importance of adapting to changing consumer preferences and leveraging technology to better serve our community. That’s why our agents offer an extensive selection of virtual tours for LGBTQ individuals and allies alike – visit our website, choose an agent and within minutes youā€™ll have access to the Multiple Listing Service (MLS) via their website.

From cozy condominiums in bustling urban centers to sprawling estates in picturesque suburbs, virtual tours showcase a wide range of properties tailored to diverse tastes and lifestyles.

In addition to virtual tours, GayRealEstate.com provides comprehensive resources and support to guide LGBTQ buyers and sellers through every step of the real estate journey. Our network of LGBTQ-friendly agents is committed to providing personalized service, advocacy, and representation to ensure that all individuals feel respected, valued, and empowered throughout the process. Plus, we are happy to provide a free relocation kit to any city in the USA or Canada if you are a home buyer.

As we embrace the spring season and all the opportunities it brings in the real estate market, let’s also celebrate the power of virtual tours to revolutionize the way we find and experience our future homes. Whether you’re searching for your first apartment, forever home, or investment property, GayRealEstate.com is here to help you navigate the exciting world of real estate with confidence, pride, and inclusivity.

Jeff Hammerberg is founding CEO of Hammerberg & Associates, Inc. Reach him at [email protected].

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