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Queery: Walker Chaffin

The tennis coach and Team D.C. honoree answers 20 gay questions

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Walker Chaffin (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Walker Chaffin isn’t quite sure how he got into tennis as a kid. Nobody in his family played but somewhere along the way, he picked it up and it’s become a big part of his life.

As a member of the Capital Tennis Association — a gay D.C.-area league of about 300 players — for about 22 years, he just finished organizing his fifth charity tournament, the “Capital Classic,” for the group last month. This year’s recipients are the Washington AIDS Partnership and the Team D.C. scholarships. In past years, proceeds have gone to Food & Friends, Whitman-Walker, the Mautner Project and others. Over the years, Chaffin says the tournaments have raised about $100,000 for these groups.

For his efforts, he’s being honored Saturday night at the Team D.C. Champion Awards at the HRC building (teamdc.org).

“Well, you know, it’s a surprise and quite an honor,” Chaffin says. “My first thought was, ‘Who nominated me?’ but they’re very secretive about that. I’m happy we’ve been able to raise so much money. That’s why I wanted to do it, so it’s just a very nice surprise.”

The 46-year-old Alexandria, Va., native works as a law librarian by day but is active in the Association and also teaches tennis on the side. He’s been in the area his entire life except for two years of college in Minneapolis.

He and partner Brian Peteritas met last year at the Capital Classic.

Chaffin lives in Columbia Heights and enjoys, besides tennis of course, movies, TV and hanging out with friends in his free time.

How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell? 

I have been out since 1989. I am extremely lucky because my mother made it clear early on that I was loved no matter what so coming out was not difficult for me as it was for others. Thanks Mom!

Who’s your LGBT hero? 

Martina Navratilova — she is a great role model and one of the greatest players of all time. She was brave enough to come out well before others were doing it.

What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present? 

Present  – Nellie’s. Past – Tracks. Where else could you dance and/or play volleyball at 2 in the morning?

Describe your dream wedding.  

Saying “I do” when it’s legal for all to marry.

What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about? 

The environment

What historical outcome would you change? 

Martin Luther King’s assassination and 9-11.

What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime? 

I would say seeing Madonna in concert for the first time. I waited in line overnight in 20 below temperatures in Minnesota to get those tickets and it was so worth it.

On what do you insist?  

Respect, a great sense of humor and two DVRs.

What was your last Facebook post or Tweet? 

I don’t post very often. My last post was “Paris was amazing, on my way to Barcelona” back in May.

If your life were a book, what would the title be?  

“Game Set Match”

If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do? 

Nothing for myself but it would be fun to give it to Rick Santorum and the owner of Chick-Fil-A.

What do you believe in beyond the physical world? 

Those we have loved and lost are still with us.

What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?  

I don’t think I’m qualified to give them advice. I would, however, like to thank them for all their hard work.

What would you walk across hot coals for?  

The people I love, a winning lottery ticket or a chance to hit with Roger Federer.

What LGBT stereotype annoys you most? 

That we’re not interested in or good at sports.

What’s your favorite LGBT movie? 

“Big Eden,” “A Single Man” and “Brokeback Mountain.”

What’s the most overrated social custom? 

Political correctness

What trophy or prize do you most covet? 

I can’t say I’d mind winning an Oscar or the U.S. Open.

What do you wish you’d known at 18? 

To buy up all of the Microsoft stock.

Why Washington? 

I was born here and have always loved it. I’ve almost relocated a few times but the life I have here and the friends I’ve made make it impossible to leave.

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New book reveals what we can learn from animal sex

‘Poking the Squid’ on homosexuality, gender swapping, and more

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(Book cover image courtesy W.W. Norton)

‘Poking the Squid: What We Can Learn from Animal Sex’
By Perrin Roosevelt Ireland
c.2026, W.W. Norton
$29.99 241 pages

Birds do it.

According to Cole Porter, bees do, too, but it’s not exactly what he imagined. Wild and tame, avians, insects, and mammals all have sex – although not always as you’ve been told or for reasons you might think. Even educated fleas do it and, as in the new book, “Poking the Squid” by Perrin Roosevelt Ireland, humans can learn from them all.

If you read through scientific papers on animal reproduction, you might notice something unusual: for scientists, the word “sex” means a lot of different things.

Says Ireland, “It’s used to describe behaviors, biology, life histories, and more.”

That might be because animals are not simply binary.

Take, for instance, hyenas. It’s easy for the casual observer to mistake a male hyena for a female and vice versa because of stereotypes of anatomy. Mating, for hyenas, requires subordination for the male and a nifty trick on the part of the female’s body to get things done.

Our feathered friends are no birdbrains, either: black-browed albatrosses were once thought to be monogamous but global warming seems to have changed their nesting habits sometimes. Male flamingos have sex with one another, as a territorial thing; other birds and animals form same-sex pairs for other reasons.

The Chinese mantis eats her mate after fertilization. Female snakes, alpacas, guinea pigs, and monkeys are anatomically able to enjoy sex. Genitalia between species varies quite a bit; in fact, the vaginas of ducks “are highly complex.” Lionesses will mate up to 100 times when in heat. Female damselflies will change into a “third sex” to avoid overly aggressive mating males. Bearded dragons can change their sex, if needed, as can yellow clown goby fish. And seahorse pregnancy and birth sparked a book banning in Tennessee.

So, asks Ireland, if animals, including us, vary so much in biology and life, “… why are we using the word sex like it means something, anything, consistent?!”

Pick up “Poking the Squid,” page through it a few seconds, and you’ll see that the information here is largely told through cartoon-like drawings mixed with captions. It seems to be something on the lighter side, but don’t let that artwork fool you.

Author Perrin Roosevelt Ireland offers readers solid information that cozies up to the scholarly, with hard science, philosophy, feminism, and quotations from researchers to support it, thus furthering the narrative and hitting the points squarely. If you see the art and expect something lighthearted, comic, and small-talk-worthy, you could be disappointed.

On the other hand, if you want solid, wryly serious facts, you’re in for a treat.

There’s lots of learning to be gleaned here, and some slight nudge-wink whimsy to emphasize the absurdity of wrong-headed thinking. This can make readers feel like they’re in-the-know on the jokes, and the playfulness balances the seriousness of the information well.

So, serious, scholarly, or slightly silly, none of these are negative but you’re going to know what you want from a book like this. For the right reader, someone in the mood, “Poking the Squid” is wild.

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PHOTOS: Westminster Pride

LGBTQ festival held in Maryland city

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Bambi Ne'cole Ferrah performs at the Westminster Pride Festival on Saturday. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

The eighth annual Westminster Pride Festival was held at Westminster City Park in Westminster, Md. on Saturday, July 11.

(Washington Blade photos by Michael Key)

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PHOTOS: Emerald City Pride

Colorful march followed by festival in Greenbelt, Md.

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Band members of Greenbelt Honk Situation lead the Emerald City Pride Parade in Greenbelt, Md. on Saturday. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

The fifth annual Emerald City Pride was held in Greenbelt, Md. on Saturday, July 11.

(Washignton Blade photos by Michael Key)

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