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Point Foundation scholarship program finds recipients stay involved, give back

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Former Point scholar Harjant Gill with Nicole Sterling, a current scholar he mentors. Sheā€™s a student at Marylandā€™s Towson University, where Gill teaches anthropology. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

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Nicole Sterlingā€™s education at Towson University got off to a rough start.

Last fall as she began her freshman year, the 19-year-old Laurel, Md., resident found herself paired with what she calls a ā€œpassive-aggressiveā€ roommate who locked her out of their shared room and cyber-bullied her.

The next roommate also proved troublesome.

ā€œMy first year was a lot harder than I thought it would be,ā€ she said. ā€œIt took a big toll.ā€

Despite a campus environment that discourages roommate changes, Sterling had some supporters in her camp. As a Point Scholar, one of 78 undergraduate and graduate students receiving aid from the Point Foundation, an organization that helps LGBT students ā€œachieve their full academic and leadership potential,ā€ she had a mentor, Harjant Gill, an anthropology professor and former Point Scholar himself, to help.

They text regularly and meet two or three times a month to discuss issues Sterling may be having. Itā€™s not always big existential questions about education and life goals ā€” sometimes they talk about practical, everyday things.

Sterling, whoā€™s bi, says itā€™s been a huge help.

ā€œHeā€™s really gone out of his way to be a support for me,ā€ says the communications major, who eventually hopes to start a non-profit organization to help countries such as Uganda and Rwanda that are recovering from genocide. ā€œHe was just there right from the beginning helping me with anything I needed. We were just talking today, working on finding an apartment for me next year. He helped me with the roommate situations and also looking for a summer internship.ā€

Gill, who finished his Ph.D. in anthropology and started at Towson in 2011, knows first-hand what itā€™s like to have a mentor. During his Point years, he says his mentor, Jeff Pluth (who, like Gill, is gay), was a great help.

One sometimes thinks of high academic achievers as being almost supernaturally adept at handling everyday tedium, but Gill, also a documentary filmmaker, says that wasnā€™t the case for him.

ā€œThere were many challenges and moments of uncertainty when I just wanted to give up everything and I thought to myself, ā€˜Why am I even doing this,ā€™ā€ says the 32-year-old Chandigarh, India native who moved to the U.S. with his family when he was 14. ā€œHe was always there to sort of talk me down off the ledge, so to speak. He always supported me and listened and tried to get me to see the bigger picture. That emotional support was really helpful. There were many times when he was my anchor in a time of chaos.ā€

Pluth, who lived in Washington at the time he started mentoring Gill but has since moved to Palm Springs, Calif., says heā€™s delighted to see Gill now mentoring another Point Scholar. Pluth had met Jorge Valencia, Pointā€™s executive director, in Chicago at a time when Pluth was interested in supporting a non-profit outside of his professional work managing, at that time, a touring Cirque de Soleil production.

Pluth, who has a bachelorā€™s degree, says he initially felt unqualified to tutor a Point Scholar pursuing a Ph.D. but soon found tutoring Gill a gratifying experience.

ā€œI always told him I expected him later to give something back,ā€ says Pluth, 49. ā€œHe would always say, ā€˜Yes, I plan to,ā€™ but until you actually see it in action, you never fully know. ā€¦. When I saw that he had become a mentor himself, it was just one of those moments when you just quietly kind of smile to yourself and say, ā€˜Right on. Somebody got it.ā€™ The timing of this for me is actually quite poignant because we donā€™t always know or get to see how our actions or words have had an influence on someone.ā€

Valencia, in San Francisco last weekend to help select this yearā€™s batch of 21-23 young people who will be named Point Scholars out of a group of 36 finalists (nearly 5,000 at least started the lengthy application process), says this kind of ā€œpaying it forwardā€ mentality is ā€œexactly one of the tenets the organization was founded on.ā€

He says of the 167 Point alumni whoā€™ve completed their educations since Point started in 2001, close to 70 percent have stayed involved in some capacity, be it mentoring another scholar, giving money, serving on national or regional Point boards and more.

The organization has many giving opportunities for those who wish to support it. On Thursday, the group will host its annual Washington Cornerstone event at Room & Board. In June, this yearā€™s scholars will be announced. The organization, which has a $3.7 million annual operating budget and works with a $5.1 million endowment, has 16 full-time staff members, most of whom are based in Los Angeles. The endowment is mostly untapped to ensure current scholars will have their education covered in a cataclysmic event. Point uses its fundraising efforts to support the bulk of its yearly expenses. The average scholar receives about $9,700 per year in monetary support, but more than double that when programmatic and mentoring support is factored in, Valencia says.

But with academia not typically thought of as a hotbed of homophobia and perhaps especially not for academically successful students who have proven they have ambition and tenacity by merely getting into the program, how essential is Pointā€™s work?

Sterling, who came out as a high school freshman and helped secure a GSA (gay/straight alliance) of the year award from the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network (GLSEN) for the one she was president of in her high school, says the support has been invaluable.

ā€œFreshman year is always hard as you adjust to new surroundings,ā€ she says. ā€œWith everything thatā€™s been going on, itā€™s been so nice not to have to worry about money on the side or have to get a job my first year. ā€¦ Without Point, it wouldnā€™t have been an option for me to go to college or if I had, it would have been with a huge amount of debt.ā€

Gill agrees.

ā€œI certainly wouldnā€™t have been able to continue with my graduate studies without Point Foundation,ā€ he says. ā€œThe whole Point family, this whole network of scholars and staff are all rooting for you. Theyā€™re basically saying, ā€˜We believe in you and we trust you. Weā€™re counting on you and weā€™re investing in you and we want you to succeed. We believe in what youā€™re trying to do.ā€™ That was so important for me, especially when I had rough moments. ā€¦ Thereā€™s no way I would have been able to navigate this path on my own.ā€

Valencia says the process of vetting these overachievers each year in San Francisco is amazing.

ā€œI really wish I could sneak you in so you could see this,ā€ he says. ā€œIā€™ve seen all of this yearā€™s finalists and theyā€™re just amazing. ā€¦ It really gives you a sense of the quality of our young people and where they want to take this country and society.ā€

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ā€˜RuPaulā€™s Drag Race: All Starsā€™ cast visits D.C.

8 queens vie for $200,000 prize for charity in new season, premiering May 17

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The cast of the latest ā€˜RuPaulā€™s Drag Race All Starsā€™ season sashayed on the National Mall to promote the reality show's ninth season on Monday. (Photo by Tasos Katopodis/Getty Images for MTV; used with permission)

Donning sparkling and star-studded red, white, and blue attire on a gloomy, humid D.C. Monday, the cast of the latest ā€œRuPaulā€™s Drag Race All Starsā€ season sashayed on the National Mall to promote the reality show’s ninth season.  

This upcoming season is different than those in the past ā€” eight queens are competing for a donation of $200,000 for the charity of their choosing, rather than a personal cash prize. 

Several cast members noted how it felt important to visit the nationā€™s capital, being authentically themselves and wearing drag. Nina West, who competed in season 11, likened drag to armor. 

ā€œWeā€™re here during a really specific time in history, that’s, I would say, markedly dark,ā€ she told the Blade at the steps of the Lincoln Memorial. ā€œAnd there’s an opportunity, as drag has always done, which is for our community as specifically LGBTQI+ people, to stand in our truth and be wonderful ā€” like guardians and fighters for our community.ā€ 

Sheā€™s competing for the Trevor Project, which is focused on suicide prevention and crisis intervention for young LGBTQ people. This seasonā€™s pivot to compete for charity made Nina West want to come back on the show for the All Stars season. Sheā€™s been offered the spot two times before this, she said, and this twist aligned with what she wanted to do. 

Several of the other queens mentioned that itā€™s an honor to be featured in this season, including season 5ā€™s Roxxxy Andrews. She also competed in two subsequent All-Stars seasons. 

She chose the organization Miracle of Love, which provides HIV/AIDS prevention programming and assistance in central Florida. Itā€™s a smaller, more local organization, which is why Roxxxy Andrews chose it. She wants to make its work more nationally known. Also, vying to win during a charity season makes the competition feel more rewarding, she said. 

Plastique Tiara of season 11 also noted itā€™s different competing for charity. Sheā€™s competing for the Asian American Foundation, which launched in 2021 in response to the rise in anti-Asian hate and aims to curb discrimination and violence through education and investments in nonprofits. 

ā€œIt’s more competitive because then you’re fighting not just only for yourself, but your ideas and the things that you love,ā€ she said. 

Vanessa Vanjie of seasons 10 and 11 agreed that competing for charity adds a bit more pressure ā€” she chose the ASPCA. And as onlookers near the Lincoln Memorial took pictures of and with the queens, she said she was relieved.Ā 

ā€œI was a little bit worried somebody would yell some slurs at us,ā€ Vanessa Vanjie said. ā€œNothing happened. Everybody came to take pictures like Santa Claus in the middle of the mall.ā€

Thereā€™s a range of contestants from different seasons for this round of All Stars. Some queens hail from recent seasons, but Shannel competed on the showā€™s first season. To be a part of this new season is surreal, she said. 

Sheā€™s competing for the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, which she has a close tie to. Sheā€™s dealt with anxiety her entire life. The association is focused on increasing awareness and improving diagnosis and treatment. 

ā€œI always felt like I just wasn’t normal, sadly,ā€ she said. ā€œAnd so now being able to be able to do this season and to get back to that organization is like amazing to me.ā€

Gottmik, from season 13, is competing for Trans Lifeline ā€” a nonprofit providing advocacy, a hotline and grants created by trans people, for trans people. Being able to do drag and give back is the ā€œperfect scenario,ā€ Gottmik said. 

Gottmik was the first openly trans man on Drag Race, which was overwhelming when first on the show. Gottmik felt pressure to be the ā€œperfect example,ā€ but later realized that they didnā€™t have to worry so much. 

ā€œI just want to show people that trans people are real people. We can express ourselves however we want to express ourselves, through drag, through whatever it may be,ā€ Gottmik said. 

The new season will be available to stream on Paramount+ on May 17.Ā 

The cast of RuPaul’s Drag Race pose with White House Press Secretary Karine Jean-Pierre at The Little Gay Pub on Monday. (Photo by Tasos Katopodis/Getty Images for MTV; used with permission)
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Pride season has begun

LGBTQ parades, festivals to be held throughout region in coming months

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A scene from last Sundayā€™s Pride festival in Roanoke, Va. (Blade photo by Michael Key)

LGBTQ Pride festivals, parades and other events have been scheduled in large cities and small towns throughout the region. Pride events around the world culminate in June, but organizers in some municipalities have elected to hold celebrations in other months.

Pride in the region has already begun with last weekendā€™s Mr., Miss, and Mx. Capital Pride Pageant held at Penn Social as well as Roanoke Pride Festival held in Elmwood Park in Roanoke, Va.

Below is a list of Pride events coming to the region.

MAY

Capital Trans Pride is scheduled for 9:30 a.m.-5 p.m. on Saturday, May 18 at the Martin Luther King, Jr. Memorial Library (901 G St., N.W.). The website for the event advertises workshops, panel discussions, a keynote address, a resource fair and more.  transpridewashingtondc.org

Equality Prince William Pride is scheduled for 12-4 p.m. on May 18 at the Harris Pavilion (9201 Center St.) in historic downtown Manassas, Va. equalityprincewilliam.org

D.C. Black Pride holds events throughout the city May 24-27. Highlights include an opening reception, dance parties and a community festival at Fort Dupont Park. The Westin Washington, DC Downtown (999 9th St., N.W.) is the host hotel, with several events scheduled there. dcblackpride.org

NOVA Pride and Safe Space NOVA will hold NOVA Pride Prom from 7-11 p.m. on May 31 at Torpedo Factory Art Center in Alexandria, Va. The event is open to all high school students throughout the region, regardless of identity, from rising ninth grade students to graduating seniors. novapride.org

Capital Pride Honors will be held on May 31. The Capital Pride Alliance has announced on its website that nominations are open for awardees. The Honors celebrates excellence in the LGBTQ community and its allies. capitalpride.org

JUNE

Downtown Sykesville Connection is sponsoring Sykesville Pride Day in downtown Sykesville, Md. on June 1 from 12-4 p.m. downtownsykesville.com

Reston Pride will be held at Lake Anne Plaza in Reston, Va. on June 1 from 12-6 p.m. restonpride.org

Fairfax Pride, hosted by the City of Fairfax and George Mason University, will be held at Old Town Hall (3999 University Drive, Fairfax, Va.) on June 1 from 5-7 p.m. The event will include childrenā€™s activities and more. fairfaxva.gov

OEC Pride celebrates Pride with ā€œart, dance, education, and funā€ in Old Ellicott City.  The OEC Pride Festival is held along Main Street in Ellicott City, Md. on June 1 from 10 a.m.-10 p.m. visitoldellicottcity.com

Annapolis Pride has consistently drawn a giant crowd for a parade and festival in the quaint downtown of the Maryland capital. ā€œThe Voiceā€ star L. Rodgers has been announced to headline the 2024 festival. The parade and festival will be held on June 1. annapolispride.org

The Alexandria LGBTQ+ Task Force Alexandria Pride is scheduled to be held at Alexandria City Hall from 3 – 6 p.m. on June 1 in Alexandria, Va. alexandriava.gov

The Portsmouth Pride Fest will be held at Festival Park adjacent to the Atlantic-Union Bank Pavilion in Portsmouth, Va. on June 1 from 11 a.m.-5 p.m. portsmouthprideva.com

The Delaware Pride Festival is a free event scheduled for June 1 at Legislative Hall in Dover, Del. from 10 a.m.-5 p.m.The event is billed as family friendly and open to people of all ages and sexual orientations. delawarepride.org

The City of Rockville is hosting Rockville Pride at Rockville Town Square (131 Gibbs St., Rockville, Md.) from 2-5 p.m. on June 2. The free event features live performances, information booths, and childrenā€™s activities. rockvillemd.gov

Equality Loudoun is hosting the ticketed Loudoun Pride Festival from 1-7 p.m. on June 2 at Claude Moore Park in Sterling, Va. The event features three stages, a ā€œ#Dragstravaganza,ā€ a kidā€™s zone, an alcohol pavilion, a food hall and more. Tickets $5. eqloco.com

Culpepper Pride is slated to be held at Mountain Run Winery in Culpepper, Va. from 12-6 p.m. on June 2. The theme this year is ā€œTrue Colors.ā€ culpeperpride.org

The Southwest Virginia Pride Cookout Community Social is planned for 2 p.m. at the Charles R. Hill Senior Center in Vinton, Va. on June 2. For more information, visit the Facebook event page.

Capital Pride kicks off with the RIOT! Opening Party at Echostage starting at 9 p.m. on June 7. Tickets run from $27-$50 and can be purchased on the Capital Pride website. The event is set to feature Sapphire CristƔl. capitalpride.org

Pride events continue over the weekend of June 8-9 in the nationā€™s capital with the Capital Pride Block Party featuring performers and a beverage garden, the massive Capital Pride Parade, Flashback: A totally Radical Tea Dance to be held at the end of the parade route, and the Capital Pride Festival and Concert. Visit capitalpride.org for more information. Other Pride events planned for the weekend in D.C. include a number of parties and the unforgettable (and free) Pride on the Pier & Fireworks Show at the Wharf sponsored by the Washington Blade from 2-10 p.m. prideonthepierdc.com

Pride in the ā€˜Peake will be held at Summit Pointe (580 Belaire Ave.) in Chesapeake, Va. on June 9 from 12-5 p.m. The family-focused Pride event does not serve alcohol, but will feature community organizations, food trucks and more in a street festival. For more information, visit the Facebook event page.

Celebrate with a drag show, dancing and a lot of wine at Two Twisted Posts Winery in Purcellville, Va. for a Pride Party from 2-5 p.m. on June 15. twotwistedposts.com

Baltimore Pride holds one of the largest Pride parades in the region on June 15 in Baltimore. (2418 Saint Paul St.). The parade concludes with a block party and festival. Pride events are scheduled from June 14-16. baltimorepride.org

The fourth annual Catonsville Pride Fest will be held at the Catonsville Presbyterian Church (1400 Frederick Rd.) in Catonsville, Md. on June 15 from 3-6 p.m. The event features a High Heel Race, pony rides, face painting, local cuisine and more. For more information, visit the Facebook event page.

The Ghent Business District Palace Shops have announced a Ghent Pride event from 5:30-9:30 p.m. on June 17 at the Palace Shops and Station (301 W 21st Street) in Norfolk, Va. ghentnorfolk.org

An event dedicated to celebrating the elders in the LGBTQ community, Silver Pride is scheduled for June 20 at 5:30-8:30 p.m. Location and more information to be announced soon. capitalpride.org

Visit the Hampton Roads PrideFest and Boat Parade for a truly unique Pride experience along the Elizabeth River. The full day of entertainment, education and celebration will be held on June 22 from 12-7 p.m. at Town Point Park (113 Waterside Dr.) in Norfolk, Va. hamptonroadspride.org

Frederick, Md. will hold its annual Frederick Pride Festival at Carroll Creek Linear Park on June 22 from 11 a.m.-6 p.m. Entertainers include CoCo Montrese of ā€œRuPaulā€™s Drag Race.ā€ frederickpride.org

The fourth annual Pride at the Beach is scheduled for 2-10 p.m. on June 23 at Neptuneā€™s Park (3001 Atlantic Ave.) in Virginia Beach, Va. The event features entertainment, community vendors, beachside DJ sets, food trucks and offers a ā€œperfect conclusion to an unforgettable Pride weekend.ā€ hamptonroadspride.org

Winchester Pride will hold its Mx. Winchester Pride Pageant at 15 N. Loudoun St. in Winchester, Va. on June 23 at 6 p.m. Tickets are $20 in advance/$25 at the door. winchesterpride.com

The organizers of last year’s inaugural Ocean City Pride with a “parade” along the boardwalk in Ocean City, Md. have announced that they will be organizing a return this year with events from June 28-30. instagram.com

The third annual Arlington Pride Festival will be held at Long Bridge Park at National Landing (475 Long Bridge Dr.) in Arlington, Va. on June 29 from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. arlvapride.com

FXBG Pride is holding its annual community Fredericksburg Pride March on June 29 from 10-11 a.m. at Riverfront Park (705 Sophia St.) in Fredericksburg, Va. Speeches begin at 10 a.m. and the procession starts at 10:30 a.m. For more information, visit the Facebook event page.

Salisbury Pride ā€œ90ā€™s Editionā€ is scheduled for 3 – 7 p.m. on June 29 in Downtown Salisbury, Md. Magnolia Applebottom is listed as the headliner and grand marshal. salisburyprideparade.com

The 2024 Suffolk Pride Festival is scheduled for Bennettā€™s Creek Park in Suffolk, Va. on June 30 from 12-7 p.m. Visit the Facebook event page for more information.

Expect music, entertainment and drag performances in the picturesque mountain town of Cumberland, Md. at the Cumberland Pride Festival on June 30 from 12-4 p.m. at Canal Place. cumberlandpride.org

Montgomery County’s annual Pride in the Plaza will be held on June 30 from 12-8 p.m. at Veterans Plaza (1 Veterans Place, Silver Spring, Md. liveinyourtruth.org

JULY

The sixth annual Westminster Pride Festival is scheduled for downtown Westminster, Md. on July 13 from 12-6 p.m. westminsterpride.org

Hagerstown Hopes is holding its annual Hagerstown Pride Festival in Doubs Woods Park (1307 Maryland Ave.) in Hagerstown, Md. on July 13 at 11 a.m. Visit the Facebook event page for more information.

The Rehoboth Beach Pride Festival will be held on July 20 from 10 a.m.-2 p.m., with other Sussex Pride events scheduled throughout the weekend of July 18-21. sussexpride.org

Us Giving Us Richmond hosts Black Pride RVA in Richmond, Va. with events on July 19-21. ugrcrva.org

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Eastern Shore chef named James Beard Finalist

Harley Peet creates inventive food in an inclusive space

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Chef Harley Peet works to support the LGBTQ community inside and outside of the kitchen.

In a small Eastern Shore town filled with boutiques, galleries, and the occasional cry of waterfowl from the Chesapeake, Chef Harley Peet is most at home. In his Viennese-inflected, Maryland-sourced fine-dining destination Bas Rouge, Peet draws from his Northern Michigan upbringing, Culinary Institute of America education, and identity as a gay man, for inspiration.

And recently, Peet was named a James Beard Finalist for Best Chef: Mid-Atlantic – the first “Best Chef: Mid-Atlantic” finalist representing the Eastern Shore.

Peet, after graduation from the Culinary Institute of America, took a position as sous chef at Tilghman Island Inn, not far from Bas Rouge. Falling in love with the Eastern Shore, he continued his passion for racing sailboats, boating, gardening, and fishing, and living his somewhat pastoral life as he opened Bas Rouge in 2016 as head chef, a restaurant part of the Bluepoint Hospitality group, which runs more than a dozen concepts in and around Easton, Md.  

Coming from a rural area and being gay, Peet knew he had his work cut out for him. He was always aware that the service and hospitality industry ā€œcan be down and dirty and rough.ā€

 Now as a leader in the kitchen, he aims to ā€œset a good example, and treat people how I want to be treated. I also want to make sure if youā€™re at our establishment, Iā€™m the first to stand up and say something.ā€ 

The Bas Rouge cuisine, he says, is Contemporary European. ā€œIā€™m inspired by old-world techniques of countries like Austria, Germany, and France, but I love putting a new spin on classic dishes and finding innovative ways to incorporate the bounty of local Chesapeake ingredients.ā€

His proudest dish: the humble-yet-elevated Wiener Schnitzel. ā€œIt is authentic to what one would expect to find in Vienna, down to the Lingonberries.ā€ From his in-house bakery, Peet dries and grinds the housemade Kaiser-Semmel bread to use as the breadcrumbs.

Peet works to support the LGBTQ community inside and outside of the kitchen. ā€œI love that our Bluepoint Hospitality team has created welcoming spaces where our patrons feel comfortable dining at each of our establishments. Our staff have a genuine respect for one another and work together free of judgment.ā€ 

Representing Bluepoint, Peet has participated in events like Chefs for Equality with the Human Rights Campaign, advocating for LGBTQ rights.

At Bas Rouge, Peet brings together his passion for inclusion steeped in a sustainability ethic. He sees environmental stewardship as a way of life. Peet and his husband have lived and worked on their own organic farm for several years. Through research in Europe, he learned about international marine sourcing. Witnessing the impacts of overfishing, Peet considers his own role in promoting eco-friendly practices at Bas Rouge. To that end, he ensures responsible sourcing commitments through his purveyors, relationships that have helped create significant change in how people dine in Easton.

ā€œI have built great relationships in the community and thereā€™s nothing better than one of our long-standing purveyors stopping in with a cooler of fresh fish from the Chesapeake Bay. This goes especially for catching and plating the invasive blue catfish species, which helps control the speciesā€™ threat to the local ecosystem.

Through his kitchen exploits, Peet expressed a unique connection to another gay icon in a rural fine-dining restaurant: Patrick Oā€™Connell, of three Michelin starred Inn at Little Washington. In fact, Peetā€™s husband helped design some of Oā€™Connellā€™s kitchen spaces. Theyā€™ve both been able to navigate treacherous restaurant-industry waters, and have come out triumphant and celebrated. Of Oā€™Connell, Peet says that he ā€œsees [his restaurants] as canvas, all artistry, he sees this as every night is a show.ā€ But at the same time, his ā€œjudgment-free space makes him a role model.ā€

Being in Easton itself is not without challenges. Sourcing is a challenge, having to either fly or ship in ingredients, whereas urban restaurants have the benefit of trucking, he says. The small town ā€œis romantic and charming,ā€ but logistics are difficult ā€“ one of the reasons that Peet ensures his team is diverse, building in different viewpoints, and also ā€œmaking things a hell of a lot more fun.ā€

Reflecting on challenges and finding (and creating) space on the Eastern Shore, Peet confirmed how important it was to surround himself with people who set a good example, and ā€œif you donā€™t like the way something is going … move on.ā€

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