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SPRING ARTS 2016: books
Toasting the women we love, fighting teen bullies and more in spring books

Toasting the women we love, fighting teen bullies and more in spring books.
Since you can’t know where you’re going unless you know where you’ve been, “Stand by Me: The Forgotten History of Gay Liberation by Jim Downs (Basic Books, March 1) is a great look back at the efforts, activism, and advocacy for gay rights. Davis dug deep to find stories that aren’t usually told — tales of religion within the gay community and its efforts, how African Americans have figured in LGBT history, where violence has occurred and the behind-the-scenes politics of equality.
Gender identity has also been in the news a lot lately, and in “A Murder Over a Girl” by Ken Corbett (Henry Holt, March 1), you’ll read about 15-year-old Larry King, who’d recently begun identifying as Leticia, and her murder at the hands of a 14-year-old classmate at a junior high school in California. Corbett was at the ensuing trial and had access to interviews and records, making this book a true crime fan’s must read. You may also want to share this book with parents you know.
Spring may have you thinking thoughts of love, and “The Golden Condom” by Jeanne Safer, PhD (Picador, April 5) can help your thoughts wander. This book is about love lost and found, saved and destroyed, but not just love of the romantic kind. Safer, who is a psychotherapist, also looks at friendships, sibling rivalry and amour from afar.
If you’re a man, why would you want to perform in women’s clothing? In “Why Drag?” by Magnus Hastings, introduction by Boy George (Chronicle Books, May 17), you’ll get an idea of the fun and the frustration, including pictures and thoughts from drag queens of TV and stage. Some are sassy, some are philosophical, all lead up to individually fascinating answers to “why?”
If sports are your thing, then “Fair Play” by Cyd Zeigler (Akashic Books, June 7) should be on your roster. Zeigler, an authority on sports and the LGBT community, looks at LGBT athletes, the issues they face, and the myths they have the power to dispel. You’ll read about three in-the-news gay athletes, and how gay and lesbian sports participants will one day change the current level of acceptance of LGBTQ players in the game.
Other releases of note include:
• Each of us was created for something great — we just need to figure out what it is and find the courage to do it. Gay-affirming pastor/author Rob Bells shows you how in “How to Be Here: a Guide to Creating a Life Worth Living.” It’s $14.99 and releases March 8.
• “The Spartacus International Gay Guide 2016” is an annual must-read if want to find gay hot spots abroad each year. This year’s edition ($24.99) is out March 15. Similarly, the “Damron’s Men’s Travel Guide’s” 51st edition is $22.95 and releases April 15.
• “Visions and Revisions” by novelist and critic Dale Peck is part memoir, part extended essay in what he calls the “second half” of the first wave of the AIDS epidemic. In focusing on the period between 1987-1996, Peck writes a “sweeping, collage-style portrait of a tumultuous era.” It’s $16 and will release on March 22.
• “Double Life: a Love Story from Broadway to Hollywood,” the name-dropping page turner from long-time partners Alan Shayne and Norman Sunshine is out in a new MP3 CD edition on April 5.
• “Manties in a Twist: the Subs Club Book III” by J.A. Rock is a tongue-in-cheek look at the gay kink scene finds the narrator lamenting the loss of his favorite dom of yore, Hal, while left to navigate life with the new “Subs Club,” a group that meets to rate “suck-ass” doms. If this is your scene, it’s a riot. It’s $17.99 and releases April 4.
• “True Homosexual Experiences: Boyd McDonald and Straight to Hell” is a memoir of the famed author (1925-1993) of the “Straight to Hell” series, a collection of readers’ “true homosexual experiences,” that in the pre-liberation era let gays know not only that they weren’t alone, but what their fellow gays were doing in the bedroom and beyond. It’s $25 and releases April 1.
• The title of “The Gender Creative Child: Pathways for Nurturing and Supporting Children Who Live Outside Gender Boxes” from Diane Ehrenhaft and Norman Spack speaks for itself. In this up-to-date comprehensive resource, Ehrenhaft explains the mix of biology, nurture and culture to explain why gender can be fluid rather than binary. It’s $15.95 and out April 5.
• LGBT lawyers share their experiences in “Out and About: the LGBT Experience in the Legal Profession,” a joint effort from the American Bar Association Commission on Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity and the National LGBT Bar Association. It’s $49.95 and out April 7.
• Gay men write lovingly of their female idols in “The Women We Love: Gay Writers on the Fierce and Tender Females who Inspire Them.” Read Rufus Wainwright’s tribute to his sister, Martha; Kevin Sessums on a childhood maid; and Wayne Koestenbaum on Jackie Kennedy. It’s $18.95 and out April 7.
• As editor-in-chief of thefabfemme.com, Aryka Randall has become the authority on lesbian love, especially for women of color. In “She’s Just Not That Into You: the Fab Femme’s Guide to Queer Love and Dating,” she gives advice on queer dating, relationships, open commitments, living arrangements, sex, money, lust and more. It’s $14.29 and releases April 5.
• In “Queer Philologies: Sex, Language and Affect in Shakespeare’s Time,” Jeffrey Maesten studies the terms used for sexuality in the Bard’s era and analyzes the methods used to study sex and gender in literary and cultural history. This scholarly work is $59.95 and releases April 19.
• Robin Stevenson explores what Pride means to members of the community and the history of its development in “Pride: Celebrating Diversity & Community.” It’s $24.95 and releases April 19.
• Not sure what kind of arrangement is best for you or what the true differences are? Explore your options in “Making it Legal: a Guide to Same-Sex Marriage, Domestic Partnerships and Civil Unions” by attorneys Frederick Hertz and Emily Doskow. It’s $29.95 and releases April 29.
• Want to veg out with some naughty comic book fun? “Big Loads Vol. 3: the Class Comics Stash” by Patrick Fillion and Robert Fraser features eye-popping art and situations you’ll recognize in comics like “The Bromance,” “Dead of Winter” and “Lost Love.” It’s $29.99 and releases May 1.
• Ma-Nee Chacaby shares her remarkable life story overcoming abuse, poverty and alcoholism in “A Two-Spirit Journey: the Autobiography of a Lesbian Ojibwa-Cree Elder.” It’s $27.95 and releases May 17.
• Frustrated by the notion that homosexuality and Christianity are incompatible, Rev. Elizabeth Edman shares in “Queer Virtue: What LGBTQ People Know About Life and Love and How it Can Revitalize Christianity” that the faith, at its scriptural core, is “inherently queer” and how she feels queer believers are “gifts to the church.” It’s $25.95 and is out May 17.
• David Piper has always been an outsider. His parents think he’s gay. The school bully thinks he’s a freak. Only his two best friends know the truth: David wants to be a girl. “The Art of Being Normal” by Lisa Williamson is $17.99 and releases May 31.
• When her best friend Hannah comes out the day before junior year, Daisy is all set to let her ally flag fly. But she soon finds out it’s not so easy to change their school’s ban on same-sex dates at school dances with homecoming looming. “The Inside of Out” is a young-adult novel from Jenn Marie Thorne. It’s $17.99 and releases May 31.
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Laverne Cox, Liza Minnelli among authors with new books
A tome for every taste this reading season
Spring is a great time to think about vacations, spring break, lunch on the patio, or an afternoon in the park. You’ll want to bring one (or all!) of these great new books.
So let’s start here: What are you up for? How about a great new novel?
If you’re a mystery fan, you’ll want to make reservations to visit “Disaster Gay Detective Agency” by Lev AC Rosen (Poisoned Pen Press, June 2). It’s a whodunit featuring a group of gay roommates, one of whom is a swoony romantic. Add a mysterious man who disappears and a murder, of course, and you’ve got the novel you need for the beach.
Don’t discount young adult books, if you want something light to read this spring. “What Happened to Those Girls” by Carlyn Greenwald (Sourcebooks Fire, June 30) is a thriller about mean girls and a camping trip that goes terribly, bloodily wrong. Meant for teens ages 14 and up, young adult books are breezier and lighter fare for the busy grown-up reader.
If you loved “Boyfriend Material” and “Husband Material,” you’ll be eager for the next installment from author Alexis Hall. “Father Material” (Sourcebooks Casablanca, June 2) takes Luc and Oliver to the next step. First was dating. Then was marriage. Is it time for the sound of pitter-patter on the kitchen floor?
Maybe something even lighter? Then how about a book of essays – like “The Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Gay” bycomedian and writer Eliot Glazer (Gallery Books, Aug. 11). It’s a book of essays on being gay today, the irritations, the joys, and fitting in. Be aware that these essays may contain a bit of spice – but isn’t that what you want for your reading pleasure anyhow, hmmm?
But okay, let’s say you want something with a little more heft to it. How about a biography?
Look for “Transcendant” by Laverne Cox (Gallery Books, June 9), or “Kids, Wait Till You Hear This” by Liza Minnelli (Grand Central Publishing, March 10), and “Every Inch a Lady” by Audrey Smaltz with Alina Mitchell (Amistad, July 14). Keep your eyes open for “Without Prejudice: My Life as a Gay Judge” by Harvey Brownstone (ECW Press, May 26) or “The Double Dutch Fuss” by Phill Branch (Amistad, June 2).
Then again, maybe you want some history, or something different.
So here: look for “Queer Saints: A Radical Guide to Magic, Miracles, and Modern Intercession” by Antonio Pagliarulo (Weiser, June 1) for a little bit of faith-based gay. Music lovers will want “Mighty Real: A History of LGBTQ Music, 1969-2000” by Barry Walters (Viking, May 12). Activists will want “In the Arms of Mountains: A Memoir of Land, Love, and Queer Resistance in Red America” byformer Idaho state Sen. Cole Nicole LeFavour (Beacon Press, May 26).
And if these books aren’t enough, then be sure to check with your favorite bookseller or librarian. They’ll have exactly what you’re in the mood to read. They’ll find what you need for that patio, beach towel, or easy chair.
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Love or fear flying you’ll devour ‘Why Fly’
New book chronicles a lifetime obsession with aircraft
‘Why Fly’
By Caroline Paul
c. 2026, Bloomsbury
$27.99/256 pages
Tray table folded up.
Check. Your seat is in the upright position, the airflow above your head is just the way you like it, and you’re ready to go. The flight crew is making final preparations. The lights are off and the plane is backing up. All you need now is “Why Fly” by Caroline Paul, and buckle up.

When she was very young, Paul was “obsessed” with tales of adventure, devouring accounts written by men of their derring-do. The only female adventure-seeker she knew about then was Amelia Earhart; later, she learned of other adventuresome women, including aviatrix Bessie Coleman, and Paul was transfixed.
Time passed; Paul grew up to create a life of adventure all her own.
Then, the year her marriage started to fracture, she switched her obsession from general exploits to flight.
Specifically, Paul loves experimental aircraft, some of which, like her “trike,” can be made from a kit at home. Others, like Woodstock, her beloved yellow gyrocopter, are major purchases that operate under different FAA rules. All flying has rules, she says, even if it seems like it should be as freewheeling as the birds it mimics.
She loves the pre-flight checklist, which is pure anticipation as well as a series of safety measures; if only a relationship had the same ritual. Paul loves her hangar, as a place of comfort and for flight in all senses of the word. She enjoys thinking about historic tales of flying, going back before the Wright Brothers, and including a man who went aloft on a lawn chair via helium-filled weather balloons.
The mere idea that she can fly any time is like a gift to Paul.
She knows a lot of people are terrified of flying, but it’s near totally safe: generally, there’s a one in almost 14 million chance of perishing in a commercial airline disaster – although, to Paul’s embarrassment and her dismay, it’s possible that both the smallest planes and the grandest loves might crash.
If you’re a fan of flying, you know what to do here. If you fear it, pry your fingernails off the armrests, take a deep breath, and head to the shelves. “Why Fly” might help you change your mind.
It’s not just that author Caroline Paul enjoys being airborne, and she tells you. It’s not that she’s honest in her explanations of being in love and being aloft. It’s the meditative aura you’ll get as you’re reading this book that makes it so appealing, despite the sometimes technical information that may flummox you between the Zen-ness. It’s not overwhelming; it mixes well with the history Paul includes, biographies, the science, heartbreak, and exciting tales of adventure and risk, but it’s there. Readers and romantics who love the outdoors, can’t resist a good mountain, and crave activity won’t mind it, though, not at all.
If you own a plane – or want to – you’ll want this book, too. It’s a great waiting-at-the-airport tale, or a tuck-in-your-suitcase-for-later read. Find “Why Fly” and you’ll see that it’s an upright kind of book.
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New book profiles LGBTQ Ukrainians, documents war experiences
Tuesday marks four years since Russia attacked Ukraine
Journalist J. Lester Feder’s new book profiles LGBTQ Ukrainians and their experiences during Russia’s war against their country.
Feder for “The Queer Face of War: Portraits and Stories from Ukraine” interviewed and photographed LGBTQ Ukrainians in Kyiv, the country’s capital, and in other cities. They include Olena Hloba, the co-founder of Tergo, a support group for parents and friends of LGBTQ Ukrainians, who fled her home in the Kyiv suburb of Bucha shortly after Russia launched its war on Feb. 24, 2022.
Russian soldiers killed civilians as they withdrew from Bucha. Videos and photographs that emerged from the Kyiv suburb showed dead bodies with their hands tied behind their back and other signs of torture.

Olena Shevchenko, chair of Insight, a Ukrainian LGBTQ rights group, wrote the book’s forward.

The book also profiles Viktor Pylypenko, a gay man who the Ukrainian military assigned to the 72nd Mechanized Black Cossack Brigade after the war began. Feder writes Pylypenko’s unit “was deployed to some of the fiercest and most important battles of the war.”
“The brigade was pivotal to beating Russian forces back from Kyiv in their initial attempt to take the capital, helping them liberate territory near Kharkiv and defending the front lines in Donbas,” wrote Feder.
Pylypenko spent two years fighting “on Ukraine’s most dangerous battlefields, serving primarily as a medic.”
“At times he felt he was living in a horror movie, watching tank shells tear his fellow soldiers apart before his eyes,” wrote Feder. “He held many men as they took their final breaths. Of the roughly one hundred who entered the unit with him, only six remained when he was discharged in 2024. He didn’t leave by choice: he went home to take care of his father, who had suffered a stroke.”
Feder notes one of Pylypenko’s former commanders attacked him online when he came out. Pylypenko said another commander defended him.
Feder also profiled Diana and Oleksii Polukhin, two residents of Kherson, a port city in southern Ukraine that is near the mouth of the Dnieper River.
Ukrainian forces regained control of Kherson in November 2022, nine months after Russia occupied it.
Diana, a cigarette vender, and Polukhin told Feder that Russian forces demanded they disclose the names of other LGBTQ Ukrainians in Kherson. Russian forces also tortured Diana and Polukhin while in their custody.
Polukhim is the first LGBTQ victim of Russian persecution to report their case to Ukrainian prosecutors.

Feder, who is of Ukrainian descent, first visited Ukraine in 2013 when he wrote for BuzzFeed.
He was Outright International’s Senior Fellow for Emergency Research from 2021-2023. Feder last traveled to Ukraine in December 2024.
Feder spoke about his book at Politics and Prose at the Wharf in Southwest D.C. on Feb. 6. The Washington Blade spoke with Feder on Feb. 20.
Feder told the Blade he began to work on the book when he was at Outright International and working with humanitarian groups on how to better serve LGBTQ Ukrainians. Feder said military service requirements, a lack of access to hormone therapy and documents that accurately reflect a person’s gender identity and LGBTQ-friendly shelters are among the myriad challenges that LGBTQ Ukrainians have faced since the war began.
“All of these were components of a queer experience of war that was not well documented, and we had never seen in one place, especially with photos,” he told the Blade. “I felt really called to do that, not only because of what was happening in Ukraine, but also as a way to bring to the surface issues that we’d had seen in Iraq and Syria and Afghanistan.”

Feder also spoke with the Blade about the war’s geopolitical implications.
Russian President Vladimir Putin in 2013 signed a law that bans the “promotion of homosexuality” to minors.
The 2014 Winter Olympics took place in Sochi, a Russian resort city on the Black Sea. Russia annexed Crimea from Ukraine a few weeks after the games ended.
Russia’s anti-LGBTQ crackdown has continued over the last decade.
The Russian Supreme Court in 2023 ruled the “international LGBT movement” is an extremist organization and banned it. The Russian Justice Ministry last month designated ILGA World, a global LGBTQ and intersex rights group, as an “undesirable” organization.
Ukraine, meanwhile, has sought to align itself with Europe.
Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelenskyy after a 2021 meeting with then-President Joe Biden at the White House said his country would continue to fight discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity. (Zelenskyy’s relationship with the U.S. has grown more tense since the Trump-Vance administration took office.) Zelenskyy in 2022 publicly backed civil partnerships for same-sex couples.
Then-Ukrainian Ambassador to the U.S. Oksana Markarova in 2023 applauded Kyiv Pride and other LGBTQ and intersex rights groups in her country when she spoke at a photo exhibit at Ukraine House in D.C. that highlighted LGBTQ and intersex soldiers. Then-Kyiv Pride Executive Director Lenny Emson, who Feder profiles in his book, was among those who attended the event.
“Thank you for everything you do in Kyiv, and thank you for everything that you do in order to fight the discrimination that still is somewhere in Ukraine,” said Markarova. “Not everything is perfect yet, but you know, I think we are moving in the right direction. And we together will not only fight the external enemy, but also will see equality.”
Feder in response to the Blade’s question about why he decided to write his book said he “didn’t feel” the “significance of Russia’s war against Ukraine” for LGBTQ people around the world “was fully understood.”
“This was an opportunity to tell that big story,” he said.
“The crackdown on LGBT rights inside Russia was essentially a laboratory for a strategy of attacking democratic values by attacking queer rights and it was one as Ukraine was getting closet to Europe back in 2013, 2014,” he added. “It was a strategy they were using as part of their foreign policy, and it was one they were using not only in Ukraine over the past decade, but around the world.”
Feder said Republicans are using “that same strategy to attack queer people, to attack democracy itself.”
“I felt like it was important that Americans understand that history,” he said.
