Arts & Entertainment
Calendar for May 14
Friday, May 14
Bearded Ladies-Motley Bear Crüe one-year anniversary. See the Motley staff and your friends in campy bearded drag. $100 cash prize to the campiest bearded lady. The party is from 5 p.m.-3 a.m. Motley Bar is located above EFN Lounge at 1318 9th St., N.W.
Baby Got Back Latino Dance Party at Apex Nightclub, 1415 22nd St., N.W. Doors open at 9 p.m. with music from DJ Michael Brandon. 18 to enter and 21 to drink.
Honeysuckle Hype with Natalie E. Illum: A one-woman queer burlesque performance at Phase 1, 525 8th St. S.E., the performance begins at 8 p.m.
Saturday, May 15
Every Saturday at Phase 1, Pop Rocks from 9 p.m.-3 a.m. Music from DJ LS. Phase 1 is located at 525 8th St., S.E.
Burgundy Crescent volunteers today for the Lost Dog & Cat Rescue Foundation. To participate, visit burgundycrescent.org.
Celebrate EFN Lounge’s one-year anniversary with resident DJs Shea Van Horn & Matt Bailer with MIXTAPE. MIXTAPE is an alterna-gay-disco-electro-pop-indie dance party for queers, gays, lesbians, trans, queens, kings, boys, girls, birls, goys, whatever. $5 cover, 21+ to enter. EFN Lounge is located at 1318 9th St., N.W.
Join the Latino History Project at the DC Center, 1810 14th St., N.W., from 3-6 p.m. to celebrate the opening of their new office and learn about their mission and goals and how you can get involved in preserving LGBT Latino history in the District. The event will showcase the new office space, feature some LHP exhibits, include a short presentation on how you can volunteer for the project and provide light refreshments. For details visit latinoglbthistory.com
The 135th running of the Preakness Stakes, the second leg of the Triple Crown, is held at Baltimore’s Pimlico racetrack. Beer returns to the infield this year; $20 buys you all you can drink. O.A.R. and Zack Brown Band perform in the infield. Gates open at 10 a.m.; main race at 6 p.m. Infield tickets $40 at ticketmaster.com.
BARE, dedicated to our men and women in blue at Cobalt, 1639 R St., N.W. In honor of National Police Week (May 8-15), The Ladies of LURe are showing their appreciation to the men and women in blue and raising money for two organizations. This month get ready for a jam packed evening to benefit Gays & Lesbians Opposing Violence and Concerns of Police Survivors. The event is for 21+, doors open at 10 p.m., $5 before midnight, $8 after (admission waived for police officers). GLOV and C.O.P.S. officials will be on-site.
DC Front Runners newcomers Fun Run/Walk. The DC Front Runners will be holding a Fun Run/Walk for newcomers on the National Mall starting at Union Station. Walkers meet at 9:30 a.m. and runners gather at 10 a.m. for a 3, 4 or 6-mile run. Meet up at the plaza directly in front of Union Station. Afterwards, grab a bite to eat and socialize.
Right Round, an ‘80s alt-pop dance party at the Black Cat, 1811 14th St., N.W., with DJ lil’e, $7.
Sunday, May 16
Ruby Slipper Drag Brunch from 11 a.m.-4 p.m. at Tabaq Bistro’s Red Room, 1336 U St., N.W. Music by DJs Jason Horswill and DJ C-Dubz. Each will have a rotating cast of performers. The May 16 lineup is Destiny B. Childs, Regina Jozet Adams, and Ashlee Jozet Adams. Reservations via opentable.com or call 202-265-0965.
“A Celebration of Life” tea dance event at Town Danceboutique, 2009 8th St., N.W., from 4-8 p.m. Part of the “POZ” event family, a weekly HIV+ Mixer for those living with HIV & those who are supportive. Music from a six-DJ lineup and sponsored in part by POZIAM.com, HOPE DC, DC Young Poz Socials and the DC Center.
The Ushers Theatre Going Group will attend the musical VIOLET, at Kensington Arts Theatre in Kensington, Md. Tickets are $18. There will be a post-performance discussion with the cast moderated by the Ushers’ Joel Markowitz. Dinner follows the discussion. For more information, and to reserve your tickets, call Joel at 703-447-8805 or visit http:/ushers.us
Monday, May 17
Burgundy Crescent kicks up its heels at Remingtons. To participate, visit burgundycrescent.org.
Tuesday, May 18
The DC Center and the Capital Area Vaccine Effort invite you to a presentation on the basics of HIV Vaccine Research. This free lunch presentation takes place on HIV Vaccine Awareness Day, May 18 at 12:30 p.m. at the DC Center, 1810 14th St., N.W. Learn about a new HIV vaccine study that is recruiting gay and bisexual men and transgender women.
She Scenes Ladies Night with music from DJ K-oz at EFN Lounge, 1318 9th St., N.W.
Bet Mishpachah: Shavuot Services from 7-10:30 p.m. at the Washington, D.C., Jewish Community Center, 1529 16th St., N.W. An observance of the Jewish holiday of Shavuot. The evening will start with a dairy/vegetarian potluck dinner. E-mail [email protected] for details. There will be an evening festival service followed by a study session on a topic to be announced.
Wednesday, May 19
The Tom Davaron Social Bridge Club will meet at 7:30 p.m., at the Dignity Center, 721 8th St., S.E. (across from Marine Barracks) for Social Bridge. No partner needed. Visit lambdabridge.com; click “Social Bridge in Washington, D.C.”
Thursday, May 20
Hunks in Trunks swimsuit fashion show to benefit Equality Maryland featuring gay model Ronnie Kroell, 7:30 p.m. at Red Maple, 930 N. Charles St., Baltimore. Tickets $22 at hunksintrunks.net.
Stonewall Democrats Capital Champions awards reception, Gompers Room, AFL-CIO, 815 16th St., N.W., 6-8 p.m. Frank Kameny and Rep. Tammy Baldwin are among the honorees. General admission tickets $125 at stonewalldemocrats.org.
The DC Center and the Capital Area Vaccine Effort host an HIV Vaccine Awareness Day outreach night. Meet at the DC Center, 1810 14th St., N.W., at 7 p.m. for pizza and a brief presentation on HIV vaccine research. We will then go out into the community to conduct HIV Vaccine Awareness Day outreach at LGBT bars and clubs, finishing up at Town Danceboutique. RSVP to [email protected].
Friday, May 21
The 4th annual Washington Blade summer kickoff party in Rehoboth! Join us to celebrate the arrival of beach season at Blue Moon, 35 Baltimore Ave., Rehoboth Beach, DE, 6-8 p.m.
Out & About
Gala Hispanic Theatre’s Flamenco Festival returns
Gala Hispanic Theater will host the 21st Annual “Fuego Flamenco Festival” from Thursday, Nov. 6 to Saturday, Nov. 22.
The festival will feature American and international artists who will gather in the nation’s capital to celebrate the art of Flamenco. Guests can save 20% on tickets with a festival pass.
The festival kicks off now through Nov. 10 with the D.C. premiere of Crónica de un suceso, created, choreographed and performed by Rafael Ramírez from Spain, accompanied by renowned flamenco singers and musicians. In this new show, Ramírez pays homage to the iconic Spanish Flamenco artist Antonio Gades who paved the way for what Flamenco is today. GALA’s engagement is part of an eight-city tour of the U.S. by Ramírez and company.
The magic continues Nov. 14-16 with the re-staging of the masterpiece Enredo by Flamenco Aparicio Dance Company, a reflection of the dual nature of the human experience, individual and social, which premiered at GALA in 2023.
For more information, visit the theatre’s website.
Friday, November 7
“Center Aging Friday Tea Time” will be at 12 p.m. in person at the DC Center for the LGBT Community’s new location at 1827 Wiltberger St., N.W. To RSVP, visit the DC Center’s website or email [email protected].
Go Gay DC will host “LGBTQ+ Community Social” at 7 p.m. at Silver Diner Ballston. This event is ideal for making new friends, professional networking, idea-sharing, and community building. This event is free and more details are available on Eventbrite.
Saturday, November 8
Go Gay DC will host “LGBTQ+ Community Brunch” at 12 p.m. at Freddie’s Beach Bar & Restaurant. This fun weekly event brings the DMV area LGBTQ+ community, including allies, together for delicious food and conversation. Attendance is free and more details are available on Eventbrite.
Sunday Supper on Saturday will be at 2 p.m. at the DC Center for the LGBT Community. This event will be full of food, laughter and community. For more information, email [email protected].
Monday, November 10
“Center Aging: Monday Coffee Klatch” will be at 10 a.m. on Zoom. This is a social hour for older LGBTQ adults. Guests are encouraged to bring a beverage of choice. For more information, contact Adam ([email protected]).
“Soulfully Queer: LGBTQ+ Emotional Health and Spirituality Drop-In” will be at 3 p.m. at the DC Center for the LGBT Community. This group will meet weekly for eight weeks, providing a series of drop-in sessions designed to offer a safe, welcoming space for open and respectful conversation. Each session invites participants to explore themes of spirituality, identity, and belonging at their own pace, whether they attend regularly or drop in occasionally. For more details visit the DC Center’s website.
Genderqueer DC will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This is a support group for people who identify outside of the gender binary, whether you’re bigender, agender, genderfluid, or just know that you’re not 100% cis. For more details, visit genderqueerdc.org or Facebook.
Wednesday, November 12
Job Club will be at 6 p.m. on Zoom. This is a weekly job support program to help job entrants and seekers, including the long-term unemployed, improve self-confidence, motivation, resilience and productivity for effective job searches and networking — allowing participants to move away from being merely “applicants” toward being “candidates.” For more information, email [email protected] or visit thedccenter.org/careers.
“Gay Men Speed Dating” will be at 7 p.m. at Public Bar Live. This is a fresh alternative to speed dating and matchmaking in a relaxed environment. Tickets start at $37 and are available on Eventbrite.
Thursday, November 13
The DC Center’s Fresh Produce Program will be held all day at the DC Center for the LGBT Community. People will be informed on Wednesday at 5 p.m. if they are picked to receive a produce box. No proof of residency or income is required. For more information, email [email protected] or call 202-682-2245.
Virtual Yoga Class will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This is a free weekly class focusing on yoga, breathwork, and meditation. For more details, visit the DC Center for the LGBT Community’s website.
Sports
Gay speedskater racing toward a more inclusive future in sports
Conor McDermott-Mostowy says anti-DEI push is driving away corporate sponsors
LOS ANGELES — As the countdown begins to the February Winter Olympic Games in Milan, Pride House LA is shining a spotlight on queer athletes who are breaking boundaries both on and off the field. Among them is Team USA speedskater Conor McDermott-Mostowy – a fierce competitor and proud member of the queer community. With blistering speed on the ice and a steadfast commitment to equity in sports, Conor is doing so much more than winning medals – he’s redefining what it means to represent one’s country while representing one’s community.
McDermott-Mostowy is one step closer to the 2026 Winter Olympics after winning the recent silver and bronze medals at the U.S. Championships in speedskating. He appeared at a Nov. 1 event presented by Out Athlete Fund/Pride House LA in the organization’s efforts to raise funds to support Conor and other out athletes as they pursue their Olympic dreams in Milan 2026 and beyond.The Blade spoke to the star athlete to talk about resilience, representation, and the legacy he hopes to leave one day.
Blade: Huge congrats, Conor! Winning a World Cup gold is no small feat. Do you feel like this win proved something to the world – or more importantly, to yourself?
McDermott-Mostowy: Winning gold with my team last year was definitely a major goal achieved. That said, the event we won isn’t yet an Olympic event. The races that have had the most profound impact on me actually happened two years ago.
The first was the team pursuit in Obihiro, Japan. I’d always been more of an alternate for that event, since it’s typically raced by skaters who compete in both the 1500m and 5000m. But I’d been itching for the opportunity to race it at the World Cup level. I finally got that chance when a teammate had to pull out at the last minute due to a back issue. We led the race through six of eight laps, ultimately finishing third. While it was a little disappointing to fall out of the lead, I was proud to prove that I could contribute meaningfully and help the team medal.
The second race was later that year in Salt Lake City, my home ice. After competing in Japan, I came down with a lung infection that affected my performance at the next few World Cups. Fortunately, I had time to recover before the North American World Cups and World Championships. At the Salt Lake City World Cup, I was balancing competition with completing my undergraduate degree. I didn’t know what to expect, but I ended up finishing fifth in the 1000m—my highest individual finish ever—and posted a time of 1:06.91. That’s a very significant time in speedskating; only three other Americans have gone under 1:07 in that event, all of whom became world champions. That result felt like a turning point, showing me that an Olympic or World Championship medal wasn’t just a dream—it was within reach.
Blade: This PrideHouse LA event is a huge moment. What does that support from the queer community mean to you?
McDermott-Mostowy: It’s incredibly meaningful. Being queer in Olympic sport can be very isolating, both inside and outside the sport. I barely have time to socialize outside of skating, and relocating to Salt Lake City doesn’t exactly help when it comes to queer community. So having that kind of solidarity and support from the wider LGBTQ+ community really means a lot.
Blade: Do you remember the moment you realized skating could take you all the way to the Olympics?
McDermott-Mostowy: There hasn’t been one single moment. It’s been a series of them. Over the years, I’ve had many races that shattered the limits I thought I had and inspired me to reach higher. That Salt Lake City race was one of them. It made me realize I shouldn’t just aim for the Olympics. I should aim for medals.
Another key moment came in 2018 at my last Junior World Cup, when my teammate and I finished 2nd and 3rd in the mass start. That event is similar to short track but held on a long track. It was my first full year focusing on long track after previously dabbling in it, and we had no expectation of medaling. But after we did, I realized I might actually have a future in this discipline—and that I could be competitive on the world stage. It was a pivotal realization, especially as I was trying to decide whether to continue skating or pursue a traditional college experience.
Blade: What initially drew you to speedskating? How did you get into the sport—and what’s kept you motivated?
McDermott-Mostowy: I grew up on skates. I started at age two and became a strong skater early on. But I never had any interest in hockey or figure skating. One winter, I was skating with my family on the C&O Canal in Washington, D.C., when a guy skated past us on these wild-looking speed skates. I was immediately intrigued. My parents found a local club, which happened to be run by three-time Olympian Nathaniel Mills, and I was hooked.
What’s kept me going is simple: I love it. This isn’t a sport you get rich in. I’ve only earned more than $20,000 a year twice in my career, and you can’t use it to pay for college either. The motivation has to come from within—the pursuit of excellence, the dream of going to the Olympics, and pure love for the sport.
Blade: What’s been your toughest race to date, and what did it teach you?
McDermott-Mostowy: That would be the team pursuit in Japan. I wasn’t expecting to race it and had already competed in a full weekend of events before getting the call. Team pursuit is arguably the toughest event in speedskating. Stepping up without being mentally or physically prepared was a challenge, but I did it. It showed me I could push through, even under extreme circumstances.
Blade: You’ve made headlines not just for your speed, but for your openness. What was it like coming out publicly in the world of elite sport?
McDermott-Mostowy: By the time I was publicly identified as gay, I had already been out to anyone who asked. So “coming out” doesn’t feel like the right term. It wasn’t a big declaration. I had the benefit of growing up seeing openly gay athletes and being part of a supportive community. I never felt the need to hide who I was.
Eventually, as I started achieving more on the ice, people began noticing me and the content I posted, and they put two and two together. When I was asked to speak publicly about being an openly gay athlete in speedskating, I didn’t hesitate.
Blade: What have been the biggest challenges in your career – physically, mentally, or otherwise?
McDermott-Mostowy: Honestly, my entire career has been about overcoming challenges. The two biggest obstacles have been illness and finances.
I’ve dealt with asthma, a norovirus that derailed my chances in 2022, and a fatigue condition last season that affected my performance. These setbacks take a toll. Not just physically, but mentally. When you invest everything into your sport, being forced to pause or scale back is a huge emotional hurdle.
Financially, speedskating is a tough path. Even as a consistent top-20 skater in the world, I’ve only broken $20k twice in a year, and we’re paid for just nine months, even though we train year-round. I’ve leaned on friends and family for support many times just to make ends meet.
Blade: Have you ever been told – explicitly or implicitly – that being openly gay could hurt your chances with sponsors or coaches?
McDermott-Mostowy: Never with coaches. In our sport, selections are based on the clock, not someone’s opinion. My coaches have always been great.
But when it comes to sponsorships, especially over the past year, I’ve noticed a shift. As anti-DEI sentiment grows, brands are backing away from anything that could be seen as “controversial.” Being openly gay seems to fall into that category now. Since most of our income comes from sponsorships, that retreat is deeply felt.
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