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Sacrificing self
New documentary profiles gay Naval Academy alumniĀ
‘Out of Annapolis’
Oct. 22 at 9:30 p.m.
U.S. Naval Memorial Theatre
701 Pennsylvania Ave., N.W.
$15

Director Steve Clark Hall during his service days in 1982 off the coast of Connecticut. (Photo courtesy of the filmmaker)
Baltimore resident Frank McNeil remembers with a chuckle some of the tricks of the trade he and his Marine Corps buddies ā the few who were out to each other ā used to keep handy during their years at North Carolina’s Marine Corps Base Camp Lejeune where he was stationed in the ’80s.
There was a gay bar in nearby Jacksonville, N.C., ironically dubbed Secrets. But partying there was too dangerous because military police would routinely troll the Secrets parking lot for cars with military stickers, trace the owners and confront them.
McNeil wormed his way out of getting busted a few times ā enough to learn Secrets was too close to home to patronize.
“‘So, Corp. McNeil, why was your car parked at a gay bar?'” McNeil remembers the conversation unfolding. “‘Uhhh, I loaned it to a friend.’ You just learned not to go out in Jacksonville, most of us went out in Wilmington, which was like an hour away. So you could go out and have fun but your guard was up, or at least mine was.”
McNeil left the military in 1991, before “Don’t’ Ask, Don’t Tell” was enacted. His story and 10 others are told in the new film “Out of Annapolis,” a documentary that will be screened as half of a double bill at the U.S. Naval Memorial Theatre in Washington Oct. 22. It’s one of three films being screened this month as a mini Reel Affirmations festival as the LGBT film marathon has moved its usual lineup from October to April.
Director Steve Clark Hall, a San Francisco Navy vet whose own story is shared in the film, says he was inspired to make the documentary because he was tired of seeing gays misrepresented.
“I’m just trying to put a real face on who we are,” Hall says. “Everything we see so misrepresents us, so we started with a website three-and-a-half years ago. Who are these people? You know, gays are always assumed to be these other people. Not people we know. Not who we are, but then all of a sudden it’s like, ‘Oh, gays are my good friends or my neighbors.'”
Hall, who spent 20 years in the Navy, says he was “about as out as one could be without having gay tattooed on my forehead. I didn’t raise my hand and say, ‘I’m gay, kick me out.’ I think it wasn’t much of a problem for me because I was always a team player. Always an asset.”
McNeil had an especially rough time keeping his personal and professional life in balance. In those pre-“Don’t Ask” years, he only confided in a “very select” group of friends about his sexual orientation. His late partner, Chris Duncan, was battling AIDS, a factor in McNeil’s eventual resignation.
“It brought a lot of mixed feelings because I really loved what I was doing, but you just couldn’t share completely,” he says. “You couldn’t have your partner’s picture out. You had to change your pronouns. ⦠There was a sense of dismay that you couldn’t quite be honest with the people you were serving.”
“Out of Annapolis” started in the summer of 2008 as an undertaking of the United States Naval Academy OUT ā a group of LGBT U.S. Naval Academy alumni and their supporters. Hall, a novice filmmaker, says the project, which included a study of the experiences of gay alumni, aims to educate the public about the experiences of gay service members before and during “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” Participants were selected to give a good cross-representation of experiences. About 300 participated in the study, 75 were interviewed and 11 were chosen for the film.
“It was tough to pare it down,” Hall says. “We had some great stories we had to turn away because it would have over-represented a certain group.”
The movie debuted in New York in June and has been making the rounds of LGBT film festivals since. Hall and five others, including McNeil, will be at the D.C. screening, its local premiere.
“It’s very powerful,” says Larry Guillemette, Reel Affirmations festival chair. “I think it will resonate a great deal given the defeat our community just experienced on the ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ legislation. I think it will hopefully galvanize people to get more involved.”
Perhaps ironically, Hall didn’t conceive the project as an anti-“Don’t Ask” manifesto. The policy is hardly mentioned in the film.
“Some of it is just chronology,” he says. “Some of the people we profiled served before the policy began. But the film interestingly doesn’t sit there and try to make an argument, but in some ways just hearing the stories makes it the greatest argument against ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ because people can see what it was really like trying to live under the law. We were forced to be two different people and you just can’t be.”
PHOTO: Frank McNeil at his home in Baltimore (Blade photo by Michael Key)
Movies
Radical reframing highlights the āWutheringā highs and lows of a classic
Emerald Fennellās cinematic vision elicits strong reactions
If youāre a fan of āWuthering Heightsā ā Emily BrontĆ«ās oft-filmed 1847 novel about a doomed romance on the Yorkshire moors ā itās a given youāre going to have opinions about any new adaptation that comes along, but in the case of filmmaker Emerald Fennellās new cinematic vision of this venerable classic, theyāre probably going to be strong ones.
Itās nothing new, really. BrontĆ«ās book has elicited controversy since its first publication, when it sparked outrage among Victorian readers over its tragic tale of thwarted lovers locked into an obsessive quest for revenge against each other, and has continued to shock generations of readers with its depictions of emotional cruelty and violent abuse, its dysfunctional relationships, and its grim portrait of a deeply-embedded class structure which perpetuates misery at every level of the social hierarchy.
Itās no wonder, then, that Fennellās adaptation ā a true āfangirlā appreciation project distinguished by the radical sensibilities which the third-time director brings to the mix ā has become a flash point for social commentators whose main exposure to the tale has been flavored by decades of watered-down, romanticized āreinventions,ā almost all of which omit large portions of the novel to selectively shape whatās left into a period tearjerker about star-crossed love, often distancing themselves from the raw emotional core of the story by adhering to generic tropes of āgothic romanceā and rarely doing justice to the complexity of its characters ā or, for that matter, its authorās deeper intentions.
Fennellās version doesnāt exactly break that pattern; she, too, elides much of the novelās sprawling plot to focus on the twisted entanglement between Catherine Earnshaw (Margot Robbie), daughter of the now-impoverished master of the titular estate (Martin Clunes), and Heathcliff (Jacob Elordi), a lowborn child of unknown background origin that has been āadoptedā by her father as a servant in the household. Both subjected to the whims of the elder Earnshawās violent temper, they form a bond of mutual support in childhood which evolves, as they come of age, into something more; yet regardless of her feelings for him, Cathy ā whose future status and security are at risk ā chooses to marry Edgar Linton (Shazad Latif), the financially secure new owner of a neighboring estate. Heathcliff, devastated by her betrayal, leaves for parts unknown, only to return a few years later with a mysteriously-obtained fortune. Imposing himself into Cathyās comfortable-but-joyless matrimony, he rekindles their now-forbidden passion and they become entwined in a torrid affair ā even as he openly courts Lintonās naive ward Isabella (Alison Oliver) and plots to destroy the entire household from within. One might almost say that these two are the poster couple for the phrase āitās complicated.ā and itās probably needless to say things donāt go well for anybody involved.
While there is more than enough material in āWuthering Heightsā that might easily be labeled as āproblematicā in our contemporary judgments ā like the fact that itās a love story between two childhood friends, essentially raised as siblings, which becomes codependent and poisons every other relationship in their lives ā the controversy over Fennellās version has coalesced less around the content than her casting choices. When the project was announced, she drew criticism over the decision to cast Robbie (who also produced the film) opposite the younger Elordi. In the end, the casting works ā though the age gap might be mildly distracting for some, both actors deliver superb performances, and the chemistry they exude soon renders it irrelevant.
Another controversy, however, is less easily dispelled. Though we never learn his true ethnic background, BrontĆ«ās original text describes Heathcliff as having the appearance of āa dark-skinned gipsyā with āblack fireā in his eyes; the character has typically been played by distinctly āAngloā men, and consequently, many modern observers have expressed disappointment (and in some cases, full-blown outrage) over Fennelās choice to use Elordi instead of putting an actor of color for the part, especially given the contemporary filter which she clearly chose for her interpretation for the novel.
In fact, itās that modernized perspective ā a view of history informed by social criticism, economic politics, feminist insight, and a sexual candor that would have shocked the prim Victorian readers of BrontĆ«ās novel ā that turns Fennellās visually striking adaptation into more than just a comfortably romanticized period costume drama. From her very opening scene ā a public hanging in the village where the death throes of the dangling body elicit lurid glee from the eagerly-gathered crowd ā she makes it oppressively clear that the 18th-century was not a pleasant time to live; the brutality of the era is a primal force in her vision of the story, from the harrowing abuse that forges its loversā codependent bond, to the rigidly maintained class structure that compels even those in the higher echelons ā especially women ā into a kind of slavery to the system, to the inequities that fuel disloyalty among the vulnerable simply to preserve their own tenuous place in the hierarchy. Itās a battle for survival, if not of the fittest then of the most ruthless.
At the same time, she applies a distinctly 21st-century attitude of āsex-positivityā to evoke the appeal of carnality, not just for its own sake but as a taste of freedom; she even uses it to reframe Heathcliffās cruel torment of Isabella by implying a consensual dom/sub relationship between them, offering a fragment of agency to a character typically relegated to the role of victim. Most crucially, of course, it permits Fennell to openly depict the sexuality of Cathy and Heathcliff as an experience of transgressive joy ā albeit a tormented one ā made perhaps even more irresistible (for them and for us) by the sense of rebellion that comes along with it.
Finally, while this āWuthering Heightsā may not have been the one to finally allow Heathcliffās ambiguous racial identity to come to the forefront, Fennell does employ some ācolor-blindā casting ā Latif is mixed-race (white and Pakistani) and Hong Chau, understated but profound in the crucial role of Nelly, Cathyās longtime āpaid companion,ā is of Vietnamese descent ā to illuminate the added pressures of being an āotherā in a world weighted in favor of sameness.
Does all this contemporary hindsight into the fabric of BrontĆ«ās epic novel make for a quintessential āWuthering Heights?ā Even allowing that such a thing were possible, probably not. While it presents a stylishly crafted and thrillingly cinematic take on this complex classic, richly enhanced by a superb and adventurous cast, itās not likely to satisfy anyone looking for a faithful rendition, nor does it reveal a new angle from which the āromanceā at its center looks anything other than toxic ā indeed, it almost fetishizes the dysfunction. Even without the thorny debate around Heathcliffās racial identity, thereās plenty here to prompt purists and revisionists alike to find fault with Fennellās approach.
Yet for those looking for a new window into to this perennial classic, and who are comfortable with the radical flourish for which Fennell is already known, itās an engrossing and intellectually stimulating exploration of this iconic story in a way that exchanges comfortable familiarity for unpredictable chaos ā and for cinema fans, thatās more than enough reason to give āWuthering Heightsā a chance.
Movies
As Oscars approach, itās time to embrace āKPop Demon Huntersā
If youāve resisted it, nowās the time to give in
If youāre one of the 500 million people who made āKPop Demon Huntersā into the most-watched original Netflix title in the streaming platformās history, this article isnāt for you.
If, however, youāre one of the millions who skipped the party when the Maggie Kang-created animated musical fantasy debuted last summer, you might be wondering why this particular piece of pop youth culture is riding high in an awards season that seems all but certain to end with it winning an Oscar or two; and if thatās the case, by all means, keep reading.
We get it. If youāre not a young teen (or you donāt have one), it might have escaped your radar. If you donāt like KPop, or the fantasy genre just isnāt your thing, there would be no reason for that title to pique your interest ā on the contrary, you would assume itās just a movie that wasnāt made for you and leave it at that.
Itās now more than half a year later, though, and āKPop Demon Huntersā has yet to fade into pop culture memory, in spite of the ānew, now, nextā pace with which our social media world keeps scrolling by. It might feel like thereās been a resurgence of interest since the filmās ongoing sweep of major awards in the Best Animated Film and Best Song categories has led it close to Oscar gold, but in reality, the interest never really flagged. Millions of fans were still streaming the soundtrack album on a loop, all along.
It wasnāt just the music that they embraced, though that was definitely a big factor ā after all, the filmās signature song, āGolden,ā has now landed a Grammy to display alongside all of its film industry accolades. But Kangās anime-influenced urban fantasy taps into something more substantial than the catchiness of its songs; through the filter of her experience as a South Korean immigrant growing up in Canada, she draws on the traditions and mythology of her native culture while blending them seamlessly into an infectiously contemporary and decidedly Western-flavored āgirl powerā adventure about an internationally popular KPop girl band ā Huntrix, made up of lead singer Rumi (Arden Cho), lead dancer Mira (May Hong), and rapper/lyricist Zoey (Ji-young Yoo) ā who also happen to be warriors, charged with protecting humankind from the influence of Gwi-Ma (Lee Byung-hun), king of the demon world, which is kept from infiltrating our own by the power of their music and their voices. Oh, and also by their ability to kick demon ass.
In an effort to defeat the girls at their own game, Gwi-Ma sends a demonic boy band led by handsome human-turned-demon Jinu (Ahn Hyo-seop) to steal their fans, creating a rivalry that (naturally) becomes complicated by the spark that ignites between Rumi and Jinu, and that forces Rumi to confront the half-demon heritage she has managed to keep secret ā even from her bandmates ā but now threatens to destroy Huntrix from within, just when their powers are needed most.
Itās a bubble-gum flavored fever-dream of an experience, for the most part, which never takes itself too seriously. Loaded with outrageous kid-friendly humor and pop culture parody, it might almost feel as if it were making fun of itself if not for the obvious sincerity it brings to its celebration of all things K-Pop, and the tangible weight it brings along for the ride through its central conflict ā which is ultimately not between the human and demon worlds but between the long-held prejudices of the past and the promise of a future without them.
Thatās the hook that has given āKPop Demon Huntersā such a wide-ranging and diverse collection of fans, and that makes it feel like a well-timed message to the real world of the here and now. In her struggle to come to terms with her part-demon nature ā or rather, the shame and stigma she feels because of it ā Rumi becomes a point of connection for any viewer who has known what itās like to hide their full selves or risk judgment (or worse) from a world that has been taught to hate them for their differences, and maybe what itās like to be taught to hate themselves for their differences, too.
For obvious reasons, that focus adds a strong layer of personal relevance for queer audiences; indeed, Kane has said she wanted the film to mirror a ācoming outā story, drawing on parallels not just with the LGBTQ community, but with people marginalized through race, gender, trauma, neurodivergence ā anything that can lead people to feel like an āotherā through cultural prejudices and force them to deal with the pressure of hiding an essential part of their identity in order to blend in with the ānormalā community. It plays like a direct message to all who have felt ādemonizedā for something thatās part of their nature, something over which they have no choice and no control, and it positions that deeply personal struggle as the key to saving the world.
Of course, āKPop Demon Huntersā doesnāt lean so hard into its pro-diversity messaging that it skimps on the action, fun, and fantasy that is always going to be the real reason for experiencing a genre film where action, fun, and fantasy are the whole point in the first place. You donāt have to feel like an āotherā to enjoy the ride, or even to get the message ā indeed, while itās nice to feel āseen,ā itās arguably much more satisfying to know that the rest of the world might be learning how to āseeā you, too. By the time it reaches its fittingly epic finale, Kaneās movie (which she co-directed with Chris Appelhans, and co-wrote with Appelhans, Danya Jimenez, and Hannah McMechan) has firmly made its point that, in a community threatened by hatred over perceived differences, the real enemy is our hate ā NOT our differences.
Sure, there are plenty of other reasons to enjoy it. Visually, itās an imaginative treat, building an immersive world that overlays an ancient mythic cosmology onto a recognizably contemporary setting to create a kind of whimsical āmetaverseā that feels almost more real than reality (the hallmark of great mythmaking, really); yet it still allows for āLooney Toonsā style cartoon slapstick, intricately choreographed dance and battle sequences that defy the laws of physics, slick satirical commentary on the juggernaut of pop music and the publicity machine that drives it, not to mention plenty of glittery K-Pop earworms that will take you back to the thrill of being a hormonal 13-year-old on a sugar high; but what makes it stand out above so many similar generic offerings is its unapologetic celebration of the idea that our strength is in our differences, and its open invitation to shed the shame and bring your differences into the light.
So, yes, you might think āKPop Demon Huntersā would be a movie thatās exactly what it sounds like it will be ā and youād be right ā but itās also much, much more. If youāve resisted it, nowās the time to give in.
At the very least, it will give you something else to root for on Oscar night.
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50 years later, itās still worth a return trip to āGrey Gardensā
Documentary remains entertaining despite its darkness
If we were forced to declare why āGrey Gardensā became a cult classic among gay men, it would be all the juicy quotes that have become part of the queer lexicon.
Celebrating the 50th anniversary of its theatrical release this month, the landmark documentary profiles two eccentrics: Edith Ewing Bouvier Beale and her daughter, Edith Bouvier Beale (known as āBigā and āLittleā Edie, respectively), the aunt and cousin of former first lady Jaqueline Kennedy Onassis and socialite Lee Radziwell. Once moving within an elite circle of American aristocrats, they had fallen into poverty and were living in isolation at their run-down estate (the Grey Gardens of the title) in East Hampton, Long Island; they re-entered the public eye in 1972 after local authorities threatened eviction and demolition of their mansion over health code violations, prompting their famous relatives to swoop in and pay for the necessary repairs to avoid further family scandal.
At the time, Radziwell had enlisted filmmaking brothers David and Albert Maysles to take footage for a later-abandoned project of her own, bringing them along when she went to put in an appearance at the Grey Gardens clean-up efforts. It was their first encounter with the Beales; the second came two years later, when they returned with their cameras (but without Radziwell) and proceeded to make documentary history, turning the two Edies into unlikely cultural icons in the process.
On paper, it reads like something painful: two embittered former socialites, a mother and daughter living among a legion of cats and raccoons in the literal ruins of their former life, where they dwell on old memories, rehash old conflicts, and take out their resentments on each other, attempting to keep up appearances while surviving on a diet that may or may not include cat food. Truthfully, it is sometimes difficult to watch, which is why itās easier to approach from surface level, focusing on the āwackyā eccentricities and seeing the Beales as objects for ridicule.
Yet to do so is to miss the true brilliance of a movie that is irresistible, unforgettable, and fascinating to the point of being hypnotic, and thatās because of the Beales themselves, who are far too richly human to be dismissed on the basis of conventional judgments.
First is Little Edie, in her endless array of headscarves (to cover her hair loss from alopecia) and her ever-changing wardrobe of DIY ārevolutionary costumes,ā a one-time model and might-have-been showgirl who is obviously thrilled at having an audience and rises giddily to the occasion like a pro. Flamboyant, candid, and smarter than we think, sheās also fearlessly vulnerable; she gives us access to an emotional landscape shaped by the heartbreaks of a past thatās gradually revealed as the movie goes on, and itās her ability to pull herself together and come back fighting that wins us over. By the time she launches into her monologue about being a āS-T-A-U-N-C-Hā woman, we have no doubt that itās true.
Then thereās Big Edie, who comes across as an odd mix of imperious dowager and down-to-earth grandma. She gets her own chance to shine for the camera, especially in the scenes where she reminisces about her early days as a āsuccessfulā amateur vocalist, singing along to records of songs she used to perform as glimpses emerge of the beauty and talent she commanded in her prime. Sheās more than capable of taking on her daughter in their endless squabbles, and savvy enough to score serious points in the conflict, like stirring up jealousy with her attentions to beefy young handyman Jerry ā whom the younger Edie has dubbed āthe Marble Faunā ā when he comes around to share a feast of boiled corn-on-the-cob with them. āJerry likes the way I do my corn,ā she deadpans to the camera, even though we know itās meant for Little Edie.
Itās not just that their eccentricities verge on camp; thatās certainly an undeniable part of the appeal, but it falls away quickly as you begin to recognize that even if these women are putting on a show for the camera, theyāre still being completely themselves ā and they are spectacular.
Yes, their verbal sparring is often shrill and palpably toxic ā in particular, Big Edie has no qualms about belittling and shaming her daughter in an obviously calculated effort to undermine her self-esteem and discourage her from making good on her repeated threats to leave Grey Gardens. We know she is acting from fear of abandonment, but itās cruel, all the same.
These are the moments that disturb us more than any of the dereliction we see in their physical existence; fed by nostalgia and forged in a deep codependence that neither wants to acknowledge, their dynamic reflects years of social isolation that has made them into living ghosts, going through the habitual motions of a long-lost life, ruminating on ancient resentments, and mulling endlessly over memories of the things that led them to their outcast state. As Little Edie says early on, āItās very difficult to keep the line between the past and the present. Do you know what I mean?ā
That pithy observation, spoken conspiratorially to the Mayslesā camera, sets the tone for the entirety of āGrey Gardens,ā perhaps even suggesting an appropriate point of meditation through which to contemplate everything that follows. Itās a prime example of the quotability that has helped this odd little movie endure as a fixture in queer culture; for many LGBTQ people, both Edies ā born headstrong, ambitious, and independent into a social strata that only wanted its women to be well-behaved ā became touchstones of frustrated longing, of living out oneās own fabulousness in isolated secrecy. Add to that shared inner experience Little Edieās knack for turning scraps into kitschy fashion (and the goofy-but-joyous flag dance she performs as a sort of climactic topper near the end), and it should be obvious why the Maysles Brothersā little project still resonates with the community five decades later.
Indeed, watching it in todayās cultural climate, it strikes chords that resonate through an even wider spectrum, touching on feminist themes through these two āproblematicā women who have been effectively banished for refusing to fit into a mold, and on the larger issue of social and economic inequality that keeps them trapped, ultimately turning them against each other in their powerlessness.
With that in mind, itās clear these women were never filmed to be objects of ridicule. Theyāre survivors in a world in which even their unimaginably wealthy relatives would rather look away, offering a bare minimum of help only when their plight becomes a matter of public family embarrassment, and the resilience they show in the face of tremendous adversity makes them worthy of celebration, instead.
Thatās why āGrey Gardensā still hits close to home, why it entertains despite its darkness, and why we remember it as something bittersweet but beautiful. By the end of it, we recognize that the two Edies could be any of us, which means they are ALL of us ā and if they can face their challenges with that much ārevolutionaryā spirit, then maybe we can be āstaunchā against our adversities, too.
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