Local
Obituary: David Michael Womack, 45
Former HRC accountant died in West Virginia; cause of death unknown
David Michael Womack died March 18 at age 45 at his home in Shepherdstown, W.Va., surrounded by those he loved. The family is not sure about his cause of death. He had blood and liver complications and was HIV-positive.
Born in 1965 and raised in Huntsville, Ala., as an adult, Womack traveled widely, living in many places including Mobile Ala., Silver Spring Md., and most recently, D.C., Palm Springs, Calif., and Shepherdstown.
Womack, who was gay, was an LGBT activist and formerly worked as an accountant for the Human Rights Campaign. He retired in 2008 to focus on his health. His husband of six years, Ian Gibson-Smith, remembered Womack’s “brilliant mind and quirky sense of humor” and said Womack was, “always armed with a joke or well-placed zinger.”
“He referred to himself as a misanthropic curmudgeon and never met a stranger he did not want to get to know better,” Gibson-Smith said. “David was a passionate, life-long learner with varied talents and interests including pottery, fiber-arts, sculpting, writing and cooking. An eclectic reader, David could usually be found curled up with yet another obscure book on art, philosophy, history, or social theory. Even at the end of his life David was organizing the myriad of books he still hoped to read.”
Womack is survived by his husband; his mother, Martha Delaney of Huntsville, Ala.; sisters Lisa East and Holly Snow also of Huntsville; his niece Samantha East of Salt Lake City, Utah; his husband’s parents, Clifford and Valerie Smith; and his sister-in-law, Julia Lam, and two nephews, Collin and Duncan Lam of Shepherdstown. Womack was preceded in death by his stepfather, Frank Delaney.
A wake is set for Saturday in Martinsburg, W.Va. A memorial service is planned for next month in Alabama. In lieu of flowers, Womack requested friends give blood in his memory. Or memorial contributions can be made to Hospice of the Panhandle, 122 Waverly Court, Martinsburg, WV, 25403 or the IanThom Foundation, 39 Stagshead Court, Martinsburg, WV 25404.
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Congratulations to Yadiel Meléndez, on their new role as Community Associate, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Meléndez is piloting a new role as a Community Associate at the Wanda Alston Foundation, where they support queer and trans young people in finding their footing, building independence, and experiencing a housing community where they are seen, valued, and affirmed. They are coming into this role with more than a decade of experience as a community organizer and operations specialist, supporting diverse communities through service, advocacy, and program coordination.
Previously they worked for Right Proper Brewing Shaw as a server and bartender and at Sephora, Washington, DC, and at FreshFarm, DC, in bilingual food access. They also worked freelance to build foundational structures for local queer BIPOC performance art coalitions, producing variety shows to curate space for marginalized performance artists in the community. They were a production manager for Haus of Hart Productions, a BIPOC centric performance art production. They also worked as field staff with the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention in Stafford, Va.
Meléndez is bilingual, Spanish and English. Their work is guided by a commitment to dignity, safety, and trauma-informed engagement, particularly within LGBTQ and BIPOC communities.
Congratulations also to Ben Rosen LICSW, on his new role as program director, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Rosen previously worked with Fountain House’s OnRamps program, helping to build a new, innovative outreach program for individuals considered chronically homeless, and living with serious mental illness, in the Times Square area of New York. Rosen is a Psychotherapist, having worked with SG Psychotherapy, and as the psychotherapist with the Nest Community Health Center (URAM).
Rosen has a B.F.A. in Theatre Arts: Musical Theatre, Minor in Psychology (Cum Laude) from Malloy University Conservatory; and his M.S.W. in Clinical Practice with Individuals, Families, and Groups, from The Silberman School of Social Work, Hunter College, N.Y. He is independently licensed in New York and Washington, D.C.
Rehoboth Beach
BLUF leather social set for April 10 in Rehoboth
Attendees encouraged to wear appropriate gear
Diego’s in Rehoboth Beach hosts a monthly leather happy hour. April’s edition is scheduled for Friday, April 10, 5-7 p.m. Attendees are encouraged to wear appropriate gear. The event is billed as an official event of BLUF, the free community group for men interested in leather. After happy hour, the attendees are encouraged to reconvene at Local Bootlegging Company for dinner, which allows cigar smoking. There’s no cover charge for either event.
District of Columbia
Celebrations of life planned for Sean Bartel
Two memorial events scheduled in D.C.
Two celebrations of life are planned for Sean Christopher Bartel, 48, who was found deceased on a hiking trail in Argentina on or around March 15. Bartel began his career as a television news reporter and news anchor at stations in Louisville, Ky., and Evansville, Ind., before serving as Senior Video Producer for the D.C.-based International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers union from 2013 to 2024.
A memorial gathering is planned for Friday, April 10, 11:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. at the IBEW International Office (900 7th St., N.W.), according to a statement by the DC Gay Flag Football League, where Bartel was a longtime member. A celebration of life is planned that same evening, 6-8 p.m. at Trade (1410 14th St., N.W.).

