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Why I marched in Baltimore

I’m a journalist, not an activist, but it’s time to stand up

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A scene from Thursday’s march through Mount Vernon in Baltimore. (Blade photo by Kevin Naff)

As a journalist, I’m not supposed to protest or become involved in activism, but the events of this week in Baltimore are too personal and wrenching to watch from the sidelines.

I grew up in Columbia, Md., one of the early James Rouse “pioneers” who never saw race as an issue. In Columbia, we had black friends and neighbors and teachers; I took my black best friend to prom and no one thought twice about it.

Columbia occupies an enviable location between Washington and Baltimore, and, growing up, I cultivated a deep appreciation and love for both cities. My early memories of Baltimore involve Orioles games at Memorial Stadium and trips to downtown before Harborplace was built. Before they tore down Memorial Stadium, I was among the first in line to purchase and salvage two of the stadium seats — one for me and another that I restored for my brother. Our shared love of baseball was born in that stadium.

Years later, after college and a stint in New York City, I moved to Baltimore and fell in love all over again. The authenticity of Baltimore is hard to match and residents have a collective feeling of being in this together. Sure, I’ve been robbed and my car has been broken into. But such is life in urban America anywhere. My partner and I bought a house. I worked for the Baltimore Sun. And tutored inner city kids in reading. And served on the board of Live Baltimore, a non-profit that advocates for homeownership in the city. I’ve led seminars in D.C., urging Washingtonians to move north and buy in Baltimore — it’s cheaper! I was always a Baltimore booster — cheering the Ravens and Orioles and cringing when “The Wire” became a phenomenon. On a trip to Honduras a few years ago, a local we met recoiled in horror when I told her we were from Baltimore. “It’s SO dangerous there,” she exclaimed. That sentiment has been echoed countless times by gays in D.C., as I’ve worked at the Blade since 2002. I’ve always ignored all the judgments and snobbish remarks and the turned up noses because I know that Baltimore is something special and I don’t care about the stigma.

And then this week happened. It began with Facebook posts from friends working downtown. Law firms and accounting firms were closing at 3 p.m. Downtown traffic was snarled early, as the suburbanites were desperately fleeing the chaos that hadn’t even begun yet. What did they know that the rest of us didn’t?

Then the protests, or at least the TV images of what looked like protests, began. We’d later learn that innocent school kids were prevented from going home — their busses boarded and emptied by police, their Metro stops closed down. They were stranded, confused and afraid. And they finally snapped and lashed out. As the violence erupted, I watched Mondawmin Mall — where I do my Target shopping — looted and vandalized and wondered along with CNN’s Wolf Blitzer, “Where are the police?” Then it got worse — fires, police cars trashed, journalists assaulted. The mayor and police commissioner were MIA for hours. The newly elected governor made belated excuses about waiting to hear from Stephanie Rawlings-Blake. His phone doesn’t dial out? And Rawlings-Blake, who clearly underestimated the need for help on Monday, then overreacted and has kept in place an infantilizing curfew that only hurts local small businesses and their many employees. Her City Hall office has become a military encampment — barricades, machine-gun toting troops, military vehicles. If she feels she needs all of that to be mayor then perhaps she’s in the wrong job.

On Monday, we needed help and security. But after the energy of Monday subsided and the dust settled, it became immediately clear that the young people were trying to show us something. They are in pain and feel abandoned. They are attempting to learn in schools with inadequate heat and air conditioning and outdated textbooks. They have no after-school options — no jobs, no playgrounds, no community centers. It’s time the grownups woke up.

On Thursday, I sat in City Café, a restaurant in Mount Vernon that I’ve frequented for 20 years and listened as the couple next to me talked ignorantly about the events of the week. The staff fretted about lost wages thanks to the curfew. The TV above the bar was tuned to CNN and there were scenes of protesters making their way up Charles Street, directly toward us. The couple next to me panicked, paid up and fled; I paid up and headed out to join the marchers.

An older black man spotted me on the curb and motioned for me to join him, which I gladly did. The marches are entirely peaceful; the marchers mostly black, but multi-racial, young and old. We chanted, “All night all day, we will fight for Freddie Gray.” And my personal favorite, “We love Baltimore, we want peace!” A tear ran down my cheek as I wondered if all my years of pulling for Baltimore, of trying to contribute and do the right thing, had really mattered at all.

CNN’s cameras panned the crowd and three helicopters hovered overhead, no doubt anxiously waiting for us to start smashing windows so they’d have a better story and bigger ratings.

My feelings remain conflicted. I disagree with violence as a means to any end. My brother is a cop. My brother-in-law is in the National Guard and was deployed to downtown Baltimore. They’ve been put in an untenable position thanks to years of shitty government policies that have decimated America’s middle class and shipped our jobs overseas. Of course there are bad apples in the police force, but they are rare and the depictions of them as killers are just as wrong and dangerous as the depictions of black youth as “thugs,” an offensive, racially charged term used by even President Obama and the Baltimore mayor. Demonizing the police erodes public trust in the most fundamental pillars of our society. It must stop. We should prosecute the bad apples without indicting the legions of good cops who risk their lives to keep us safe.

I’m heartbroken by what’s happening to my city. People don’t break their own spines — no one is buying that. The police and state’s attorney need to expedite their investigations and make the results public.

It’s time for the National Guard to go home. It’s time for the Orioles to play ball — at home. I read the Tweet from John Angelos, son of O’s owner Peter Angelos. It was nice. What would be nicer is for the O’s to play the Tampa series in Baltimore and for the Angelos family to donate all the proceeds to the neediest schools in the city.

The kids had their say and now the adults must step up. Each of us who lives here must find a way to contribute to the solution. We can be mentors or tutors; we can donate money or time. Call the school nearest to you and find out what they need. If you own a business, reach out to underserved communities the next time you’re hiring. If you give money, look around your own city before cutting checks to out-of-town charities. On Election Day, SHOW UP! How many city officials are elected by a tiny minority of voters? You’d be surprised.

And if you’re white and watching the events of this week unfold from the comfort of home on CNN, get off your ass and join the marches. Meet your neighbors and show them solidarity. You never know when you might need someone to march for you.

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WorldPride begins — let’s hope it ends well

D.C. events kick off despite boycotts, Trump attacks

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(Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

As WorldPride begins with Trans Pride on May 17,, we can only hope when it is over on June 9t we will all be raving about its success. 

When D.C. first got designated as host city in November 2022, after Taiwan didn’t work out, there were initial estimates of 2.5 to 3 million people showing up in D.C. to party and celebrate. We talked about this 50th anniversary of Pride as celebrating five decades of advocacy, visibility, and unity, for the LGBTQ community in Washington, D.C., honoring the past, celebrating the present, and inspiring the future.

Anticipation was greatly tempered when Trump, the felon, racist, anti-trans homophobe, liar, and all-around SOB, won the election in November 2024. Then the planning became more difficult and stressful. But here we are and the excitement is palpable. The signs are up around D.C. and Mayor Muriel Bowser, who has been so great for the LGBTQ community, is walking a tightrope to keep D.C. afloat, never knowing what the felon in the White House will do next. To her credit, she is doing an amazing job keeping him at bay. But his vicious anti-trans positions, and his general homophobia, have put a cloud over WorldPride. His immigration policies have led countries around the world to tell their citizens to be very wary if they come to the United States. It is projected as foreign tourists stay away, the United States could lose $12.5 billion this year. 

Despite all that, the people at Capital Pride Alliance, who are running WorldPride, have done a commendable job of putting together a program for everyone. From the Human Rights Conference, to the parade, to the festival, where Cynthia Erivo will perform. Shakira will be doing the opening concert at Nat’s stadium, and there are more superstars at the dance party at the RFK site, that should be the site of the new Commanders domed stadium by 2030. 

But let us never forget all this is taking place at a time when the United States has a president who is creating havoc in the world and embarrassing us even among our allies. He is a liar and a grifter, a man who thinks nothing of putting people’s lives in danger whether it is sending people illegally to prisons in El Salvador, or creating a culture so nasty, a trans person takes their life in their hands just walking down the street. 

He surrounds himself with people like Stephen Miller who wants to suspend habeas corpus, and his Nazi sympathizing co-president, Elon Musk, who just got Trump to invite a bunch of racist South Africans to move here. It’s going on while we have a Secretary of HHS, RFK, Jr., who takes his grandchildren swimming in a polluted creek, and tells others to risk their children’s lives by avoiding vaccines. A president who has cut $800 million in grants from NIH meant to do research to save lives in the LGBTQ community, along with cutting grants and programs that have worked successfully to save people in Africa from dying of HIV/AIDS, malaria, and polio. This is what we are dealing with. Like it or not, this is the backdrop to WorldPride 2025.

Yet, if we give in to this horror, we make it even worse. WorldPride is a way we say to people here in the United States, and those around the world, we in the LGBTQ community are never going back into the closet. We are proud, we are smart, and we are valuable. We make the world a better place, and we will continue to do so despite the pig who occasionally sits in the Oval Office when he is not out golfing or grifting. We can never allow the gay Republicans who make excuses for him, the gay Secretary of the Treasury who has yet to speak out for his community, to go unchallenged. Their silence hurts us as much as the felon sitting in the Oval Office because as the Blade wrote, they are traitors.  It is unfortunate, but once again the slogan silence = death has never been more real.

So, speak up, speak out, never stay quiet. Let the world know you are here, and you care. Your life is important and fuck them if they don’t understand that or value it. 


Peter Rosenstein is a longtime LGBTQ rights and Democratic Party activist.

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Let love and compassion guide our response to Joe Biden’s cancer diagnosis

Former president is diminished, but he and family deserve love and prayers

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When I heard Joe Biden had serious prostate cancer, I felt immediate compassion for him and his family. I am a prostate cancer survivor myself. Then I heard how Trump, and some of his MAGA Republicans, responded and was amazed at how they are able to constantly sink to new lows. Trump’s son posted on X “What I want to know is how did Dr. Jill Biden miss stage five metastatic cancer or is this yet another cover-up???” Clearly, they will never give up on being vile human beings. 

The equally disgusting Joe Scarborough had on a doctor who declared he positively knows Biden must have known about his cancer years ago, although he knows nothing about the case. The reality, coming from many specialists, is at this time only Biden’s doctors know when he was diagnosed, and whether he even had regular PSA tests done, and when. Based on the latest research, the American Urological Association (AUA) age guidelines are that they do not recommend routine PSA screening for men 70 or older. This is because prostate cancer is normally very slow growing, and if you were to be diagnosed after 70, you will likely die of something else. Then you had the felon in the White House talking about “stage nine” cancer. Is he really so dumb? Guess he is as he tries to prove it nearly every time he opens his mouth. Talk about diminished. 

Now is Biden diminished from what he was years ago? It is clear he is. Should the people around him have tried to hide that in order to have him run again, no! But the-then president’s hiding health issues is nothing new. Wilson was severely impaired and it is said his wife Edith ran the country for his last year in office. The same was said about Nancy Reagan when they hid Reagan’s Alzheimer’s. Kennedy hid his Addison’s disease and other infirmities, and Trump hid how sick he was from COVID, when being helicoptered to the hospital. Is it wrong to hide these things from the American public, yes, but clearly not unusual. Actually, the media is often complicit in this, which many said they were in Biden’s case. Then you have a guy like Jake Tapper who is happy to be complicit, so he can now write a book about it and make loads of money. Very sad.

I think the time has come in the case of Joe Biden, for us to just offer him and his family some love and prayers, and the hope he will be able to manage his cancer and live a long life. Then turn the page and deal with the things that will matter more to the lives of the American people today. 

Those are the things the felon in the White House, and his Nazi sympathizing co-president, along with the MAGA Congress, are trying to do to them. Things like taking away their healthcare, and thereby also causing the closure of some rural hospitals. Things like the mass firings of federal workers, including thousands of veterans. Things like making it harder for our veterans to access their healthcare by cutting services at the Veterans hospitals. Things like increasing costs for groceries, and other items, due to the felon’s ineffective use of tariffs. Things like seeing college costs go up, as foreign students who pay the full fare at most schools, are sent home or denied visas. Things like making it harder to file for social security by closing so many offices, and pretending to lower drug prices, but not really doing it. Things like cutting research looking for cures for cancer, Alzheimer’s, MS, HIV/AIDS, and a host of other diseases, which will hurt people for decades to come. Things like creating havoc in the world, and bowing down to dictators. Things like walking away from our allies and making the world a less safe place for all of us, including abandoning Ukraine, and cozying up to his friend Putin. I always believed Putin has some dirt on him. Trump said Zelenskyy would be responsible for WW III. But it’s Trump who will be, if it happens. Then we must put a focus on the idiot who is secretary of HHS, RFK Jr., and whether he will allow the flu and covid vaccines, being readied for the fall, to be available in a timely manner. Will he continue to disparage all vaccines, and by doing so, cause deaths here, and around the world. Things like abandoning the fight against climate change and thereby screwing the planet and future generations. 

These are the things the American public really needs to know about, and care about. It may have been wrong to hide Biden’s being diminished, but he is no longer in office, and he no longer impacts people’s lives on a daily basis. The felon in the WH does, and that is where the focus must be. 

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Frank Kameny’s legacy lives on

May 21 marks pioneering activist’s 100th birthday

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May 21 would have been Frank Kameny's 100th birthday. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

A first generation American from Queens, N.Y., Kameny was a decorated WWII veteran. With a prodigious 148 I.Q., he earned a Ph.D. in astronomy from Harvard University. In 1957 he was recruited by the Army Map Service, a pioneering agency in space exploration. 

In 1953 in the wake of McCarthyism, President Eisenhower issued Executive Order 10450 that prohibited homosexuals from military or civilian employment. Having nothing to do with workplace conduct, the Army learned that Kameny might be a homosexual. When confronted, he equivocated and was terminated. Unlike then thousands of other homosexuals terminated from government employment, Kameny fought back.

He took on the military and Civil Service Commission including being the first openly gay man to file an appeal about gay rights to the U.S. Supreme Court. He helped co-found and chair the Mattachine Society of Washington, the first gay rights organization in the nation’s capital.

He wrote letters to, among others, FBI Director J. Edgar Hoover. He founded and chaired the Eastern Conference of Homophile Organization, the nation’s first regional gay organization.

In the 1960s homosexuality, even with a consenting adult in the privacy of one’s bedroom was criminal. The police entrapped and extorted gay men. The American Psychiatric Association classified homosexuality as a mental illness. A bar could lose its license if there was more than one homosexual in their establishment. Homosexuals were considered dangerous, deviant and demented.

Kameny coined the phrase “Gay Is Good.” He organized picketing called Annual Reminders each July 4 from 1965 to 1969 at Independence Hall. The picketers were the first to call for gay equality. The 1965 Annual Reminder had 39 activists making it then the largest demonstration for gay rights. In the mid-1960s the country had an estimated 300 gay and lesbian activists.

He published a newsletter that became the Washington Blade, now the nation’s oldest LGBTQ weekly newspaper. Kameny and Barbara Gittings, the mother of the movement that demonstrated for the right to be heard at the 1971 American Psychiatric Association meeting. Their panel at the 1972 meeting with a masked psychiatrist using a pseudonym and voice modulator was so impactful that the APA created a panel to determine if homosexuality as a mental illness was based on science or discrimination. In 1973, that classification was removed.

He advised gays and lesbians who were the subject of discharge from federal government service. He identified test cases and referred them to the ACLU, Lambda Legal and other counsel. Slowly, but surely those cases began a process for LGBTQ equality.

His efforts led D.C. to be the first city to overturn its sodomy criminal laws. He helped found the first national LGBTQ organization, the North American Conference of Homophile Organizations. His efforts laid the groundwork for HRC and National LGBTQ Task Force.

After Stonewall in June 1969, he chaired a meeting of NY, Philadelphia and D.C. activists that authorized and helped organize to help remember Stonewall the first New York Pride Parade. He believed that Stonewall could be the movement’s Boston Tea Party. He marched in that 1970 parade holding a picket emblazoned with “Gay Is Good.”

He was the first out person to run for Congress as the D.C. delegate. Money left over from his campaign was used to fund the first gay rights television commercial. In July 1975, he was the first to be advised by the Civil Service Commission that it would eliminate homosexuality as a basis for not hiring or for firing a federal civilian employee. In 1977, he attended the White House’s first meeting with gays and lesbians.

Kameny died on Oct. 11, 2011, National Coming Out Day. He lived to see marriage equality approved in several states. He attended the signing by President Obama of the repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” which enabled gays and lesbians to serve openly in the military. Kameny is buried in the Congressional Cemetery. On his tombstone is inscribed “Gay Is Good.” Over 70,000 of his documents are in the Library of Congress and picket signs from the pioneering demonstrations are housed in the Smithsonian Institution.

On May 21 LGBTQ national organizations gather in front of the Supreme Court. One hundred activists will each hold a candle for his 100th birthday. Fifteen national leaders will engage in picketing similar to the 1965 picketing at the White House and Independence Hall. They will honor Frank Kameny; celebrate the 10th anniversary of marriage equality (Obergefell v Hodges, 2015); and push back on those who would attempt to render us invisible, deny our history and undermine our equality. We will remember the nation’s loss when it fired a Harvard Ph.D. in astronomy because of his status as a homosexual. History repeats itself. This month the U.S. Supreme Court allowed the federal government to terminate transgender servicemembers solely because of their sexual orientation. How far we have come. How much farther we have to travel.

Malcolm Lazin is the national chair, Kameny 100. He is the executive director, LGBT History Month and executive producer of three LGBTQ documentaries including Gay Pioneers. He was an adjunct professor of LGBT History and Rights at New College of Florida. www.kameny100.org

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