Books
FALL ARTS 2015: books
The DOMA case, an LGBT history book for kids and plenty of fiction among season’s highlights
For the historian, “The Gay Revolution” by Lillian Faderman (Simon & Schuster, out Sept. 8) is a big brick of a book that chronicles the struggle, starting in the 1950s and moving forward to practically yesterday. Faderman doesn’t skip a thing, pulling in history for every spectrum on the LGBT rainbow. This is one of those last-you-a-long-time books that may also teach you a thing or two.
For the reader who craves a little of this and a little of that, look for “QDA: A Queer Disability,” edited by Raymond Luczak. There’s poetry in this book, plus fiction and non-fiction, articles of different lengths and interests, all on being gay and disabled. Look for this book in November. Blade contributor Kathi Wolfe’s poetry is included.
Mystery lovers will drool over the latest installment of the Jane Lawless whodunit series. “The Grave Soul” by Ellen Hart (Minotaur, Oct. 6) begins with someone seeking out Private Eye Lawless because his girlfriend is having strange dreams of murder. That makes no sense to anyone involved, but is it really just a dream? Or is there something else, something more malevolent afoot? Jane will know. Leave it to Lawless to learn.
The LGBT teen will love reading “What We Left Behind” by Robin Talley (October, Harlequin Teen), a romance about two girls, high-school sweethearts, who decide to try a long-distance relationship when they head off to different colleges. Of course, things get complicated in this book about growing, learning who you really are, loving and trying to fit the three together.
For the romantic who wants more than fluff, look for “Then Comes Marriage: United States v. Windsor and the Defeat of DOMA” by Robbie Kaplan (W.W. Norton, Oct. 5). It’s the story of Edie Windsor and Thea Spyer, two women who’d been together for decades and were married in 2007 in Canada. Two years later, when one of them fell ill, the U.S. government refused to recognize that union. Kaplan is the lawyer who fought for their rights and she includes some of her own personal life inside this historic account.
What if the country was in danger from a machine that’s terrorizing every citizen here — including your crush? In “Willful Machines” by Tim Floreen (Oct. 20, Simon Pulse), that’s what happens to the teenage son of the president, who’s gay but closeted. He may be able to save himself and the boy he likes (a lot!) but it’s not going to be easy. This science-fiction-y book is meant for teens, but how can any adult resist?
For your niece, your nephew, the kid next door, or for your own children, “Gay and Lesbian History for Kids: The Century-Long Struggle for LGBT Rights” by Jerome Pohlen (October, Chicago Review Press) could be just the right book at the right time. Meant for young readers ages 7 or 8 and up, this book includes 21 hands-on activities to help children understand more about lesbian and gay history, activism and equality. It’s also a sensitive, kid-friendly way to teach and to spark conversations.
And finally, what’s fall without a Bruno Gmünder book, eh? You can’t go any further in life until you’ve paged through “Lap of Luxury,” a book of photos from Mark Henderson (October). Here you get 160 pages of photos and not a lot of words but then, you don’t want words in a book this gorgeous, do you? Really?
Other releases of note:
• “Becoming Nicole: the Transformation of an American Family” is the true story of a trans girl, her identical twin brother and a family’s journey to understand her plight. It’s by Amy Ellis Nutt, the Pulitzer-winning Washington Post science reporter. (Oct. 20)
• In “A Taste for Brown Bodies: Gay Modernity and Cosmopolitan Desire,” Hiram Perez explores the role of race in the modern gay subject through three archetypes: the sailor, the soldier and the cowboy. He explores how each has been desired for their “heroic masculinity” while also being used to expand U.S. borders and ideals. (Oct. 30)
• In “Out of the Firing Line Into the Foyer: My Remarkable Life Story,” war hero Bruce Copp remembers his life as a young gay soldier and how male relationships persisted despite the homophobic climate. (Nov. 1)
• A revised edition of “The Gay and Lesbian Literary Heritage” is slated for a fall release with 400 articles from 175 literary scholars. (Nov. 3)
• Gay rugby player Garreth Thomas shares his story in “Proud: My Autobiography.” (Dec. 1)
Books
Fall books offer something for every taste
Hollinghurst’s latest plus a look at Queer Harlem Renaissance
Welcome to the fall book season, where you’ll find gifts for your friends, family and (most importantly?) the best reads for yourself. This is when you’ll find the blockbuster novels you’ve been waiting for, the surprise memoirs and nonfiction that you’ve wanted, and gorgeous gift books your coffee table. This fall, keep your eyes open for all kinds of literary goodness.
NOVELS
Lovers of a good novel will want to curl up with a huge TBR pile.
Romance novels will fill the shelves this fall, and if love is what you want for the holidays, you’re in luck. Look for “The Rules of Royalty” by Cale Dietrich (Wednesday Books, December), a modern tale of a prince and a “commoner”; or “Feast While You Can” by Mikealla Clements and Onjuli Datta (Grand Central Publishing), a scary-romance-erotica novel of small-town life and monsters.
Reach for “Our Evenings: A Novel” by Alan Hollinghurst (Random House, October), a novel of a young man who happily accepts a scholarship to a boarding school filled with classmates who are much, much wealthier than he is. “The Wildes: A Novel in Five Acts” by Louis Bayard (Algonquin Books, September) is a historical novel about Oscar Wilde’s family.
For lovers of Gothic tales, look for “The Resurrectionist” by A. Rae Dunlap (Kensington, December), a tale of bodysnatching. Classics lovers will want to read “Private Rites: A Novel” by Julia Armfield (Flatiron Books, December), a queer reimagining of King Lear. Or find “Women’s Hotel” by Daniel M. Lavery (HarperVia, October), a book about a second-rate women-only hotel in New York City.
If your taste runs more to rom-coms, there are dozens of those available this fall, too, as well as Christmas novels with gay, lesbian, and trans characters inside.
NONFICTION
Even nonfiction readers will have reason to read this fall and winter.
Look for “Flamboyants: The Queer Harlem Renaissance I Wish I’d Known” by George M. Johnson and Charly Palmer (Farrar, Straus and Giroux, September), a book about 1920s Harlem and the influential queer folks who left their marks on entertainment.
“Something, Not Nothing” by Sarah Leavitt (Arsenal Pulp Press, September) chronicles, in comic form, the death of Leavitt’s partner and the paths grief takes to healing. Learn more about LGBTQ history with “The Book of Awesome Queer Heroes: How the LGBTQ+ Community Changed the World for the Better” by Eric Rosswood and Kathleen Archambeau (Mango, December); check out Mary L. Trump’s heartbreaking memoir, “Who Could Ever Love You?” (St. Martin’s Press, September); or check out a collection of essays in “Songs On Endless Repeat: Essays and Outtakes” by Anthony Veasna So (Ecco, December). Look for “Want: Sexual Fantasies by Anonymous,” an anthology of secret confessions from women around the country, by Gillian Anderson (Abrams Press, September), or find “Queer Disability through History: The Queer and Disabled Movements Through Their Personalities” by Daisy Holder (Pen and Sword History, November). Also: Cher has a new biography out this fall, “The Memoir, Part One” (Dey Street Books, November).
Not quite what you’re looking for? Check with your favorite bookseller or librarian for more ideas because, this fall, they’ll have lots of them. Or give a gift certificate and hold on for spring. Season’s readings!
Books
Two books to read when your child comes out as trans
Explaining what science knows about genetics and sexuality
‘Free to Be: Understanding Kids & Gender Identity’
By Jack Turban, MD
c.2024, Atria
$29.99/304 pages
‘My Child is Trans, Now What?’
By Ben V. Greene
c.2024, Rowman & Littlefield
$26.95/203 pages
Your child has recently told you a secret that they can’t hold tight anymore.
You’ve suspected what they’re about to say for a long time. When they were small, they weren’t like other children. They may have even told you what they were thinking, even before they knew it themselves. But now you know, for sure, and so, going forward, you’re the loving parent of a child who’s trans, and there’s a learning curve.
These two books might help.
Surely, you must think that there has to be some science behind gender and identity, right? In “Free to Be: Understanding Kids & Gender Identity” by Jack Turban, MD (Atria, $29.99), you’ll follow the lives and struggles of three trans and gender diverse kids, Kyle, Sam, and Meredith, as Turban explains what science knows about genetics and sexuality.
To gain a basic understanding of the subject, says Turban, we need to look back in history to see how gender identity was perceived in the past and the attitudes that our ancestors held. He then touches upon language and “misnaming,” how social constructs attempt to set a child’s gender identity before it’s fully known, and why mothers often catch “blame” for something that’s never anyone’s “fault.” Further information on biology, puberty blockers, gender reassignment surgery for young trans people, and the “politics” of gender diversity round out this book nicely.
For the parent who wants a deeper dive into what makes their child tick and what they can do to make that kid’s life easier, this compassionate book is the one to read.
If you’re just finding out that your child is trans, then “My Child is Trans, Now What?” by Ben V. Greene (Rowman & Littlefield, $26.95) is a book to reach for now.
Beginning with the things you’ll want to know and understand immediately, this book is assuring and soothing – look, and you’ll see the word “joy” in its subtitle. Greene calls trans kids “VIPs,” and he means it, which sets a relaxing tone for what’s to come here.
In sharing his own experiences, Greene stresses that every trans experience is different, and he touches often upon his coming out. This launches discussions on topics like bathrooms, therapy (if you or your VIP want it), finding support, the politics of being trans, the stressors of medical treatment, and what it might be like to have even brief regrets. Greene finishes his book with advice on getting an education and living as a trans person.
“My Child is Trans, Now What?” is truly more of a book for parents and loved ones of trans teens or young adults. What’s in here goes well beyond childhood, so be aware before you reach for it on the shelf. And if these books aren’t enough, or don’t quite fit what you need, be sure to ask your favorite bookseller or librarian for more. In recent years, more and more authors have been willing to share their own journeys, making the transition one that doesn’t have to be so secret anymore.
‘Blessings’
By Chukwuebuka Ibeh
c.2024, Doubleday
$28/288 pages
Sometimes you just need to step back a minute.
You need time to regroup, to think things through, and a scenery change is the place to do it. Get past your current position, and situations can become clearer somehow. Thoughts can be reorganized. Problems pivot. As in the new novel “Blessings” by Chukwuebuka Ibeh, you’ll have a different perspective.
Obiefuna didn’t say much on the road to the seminary.
What was there to say? His father had caught him in a too-cozy situation with a young man who’d been taken in as an apprentice and for that, Obiefuna was being sent away. Away from his mother, his younger brother, Ekene, and from the young man that 15-year-old Obiefuna was in love with.
Life in seminary was bad – Obiefuna was always on alert for Seniors, who were said to be abusive because abuse was allowed, even encouraged – but things weren’t as bad as he thought they might be. He made friends and good grades but he missed his mother. Did she suspect he was gay? Obiefuna wanted to tell her, but he hid who he was.
Mostly, he kept to himself until he caught the eye of Senior Papilo, who was said to be the cruelest of the cruel. Amazingly, though, Senior Papilo became Obiefuna’s protector, letting Obiefuna stay in his bed, paying for Obi’s first experience with a woman, making sure Obiefuna had better food. Maybe Obiefuna loved Senior Papilo but Senior had other boys, which made Obi work twice as hard to be his favorite. Still, he hid.
And then Senior Papilo passed his final exams and moved on.
So, eventually, did Obiefuna. Sure, there were other boys – one who almost got him expelled, a chaplain who begged forgiveness, and there was even a girl once – but Obi grew up and fully embraced his truth: All he wanted was to be accepted for himself, to be loved.
As Nigeria moved toward making same-sex marriage illegal, though, neither one looked likely.
So here’s the puzzle: the story inside “Blessings” is interesting. Obiefuna is a great character who takes what happens with quiet compliance, as if he long ago relinquished hope that he could ever control his own life. Instead, he passively lets those who surround him take the reins and though reasons for this are not clearly stated and it’s uncomfortable, it’s easy to grasp and accept why. This goes, too, for the Seniors whose actions readers will tacitly understand.
What’s not easy to accept is that author Chukwuebuka Ibeh’s story often slows to a glacial pace, with great chunks of the book’s multi-year timeline crunched into basically only highlights. You’ll be left loving this story but hating its stride.
The best advice is to embrace this moving novel’s message and accept the slowness, love the excellent characters, but don’t be surprised if you find yourself checking to see how many pages you have left to crawl through. Yes, you’ll enjoy the soul-touching cast in “Blessings” but if speed in a plot supersedes good characters, then step back.
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