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Barry Smythers-Wieczorek dies at 34

Memorial set for Wednesday for beloved hairstylist

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Barry Smythers-Wieczorek, left, with husband Tom Wieczorek. (Photo courtesy Facebook)

Barry Smythers-Wieczorek, 34, a D.C. hairstylist, sports enthusiast and advocate for AIDS-related causes, died May 21 in Washington. Friends said he took his own life.

ā€œIt is with a heavy heart that we announce that on Saturday afternoon our beloved friend and family member Barry Smythers sent himself home to heaven,ā€ a message posted by friends on a Facebook page says.

Father Rich Vitale, a priest at D.C.ā€™s Church Of The Holy City and longtime friend of Smythers-Wieczorek, called Smythers-Wieczorek a warm and caring person who ā€œtouched the lives of every single person he met.ā€

Vitale said in addition to his role as a popular hairstylist at the Logan 14 Aveda Salon and Spa on 14th Street, N.W., Smythers-Wieczorek was an avid participant in the cityā€™s gay sports scene, especially the Stonewall Kickball Club.

He said Smythers-Wieczorek also was active with the AIDS LifeCycle bicycle riding events, which raise money for AIDS-related causes.

According to Vitale, Smythers-Wieczorek was born and raised in La Plata, Md. Smythers-Wieczorekā€™s Facebook page says he graduated from Henry E. Lackey High School in Indian Head, Md.

On Facebook, Smythers-Wieczorek wrote that an important milestone in his life happened in 2007, when he met Thomas Wieczorek, to whom he became engaged in 2009 and married in 2011.

Molly Ryan, manager of the Logan 14 Aveda Salon and Spa, said Smythers-Wieczorek attended the Graham Webb International Academy of Hair in Arlington, Va., and became a licensed hair stylist in 2007 or 2008. She said he worked at other D.C. hair salons before joining the staff of Logan 14 in 2015.

ā€œHe just truly was someone to light up any room he walked into,ā€ Ryan said. ā€œHe was just so generous and thoughtful with everybody,ā€ she said. ā€œHis clients had such an amazing relationship with him. He was passionate about his craft. He was inspirational and a leader to others within our salon.ā€

Ryan said Smythers-Wieczorek was also highly committed to social justice and public health causes, including fundraising for AIDS prevention efforts, public education and research.

ā€œHe definitely brought that passion to his co-workers and he got everybody involved with fundraising,ā€ she said.

ā€œHe was just pure joy and love and just a wonderful, wonderful person,ā€ Vitale said. ā€œHe will be missed terribly because he was just so loved.ā€

A celebration of life/memorial service for Smythers-Wieczorek is scheduled to take place on Wednesday, May 25, at Church Of The Holy City at 1611 16th St., N.W., beginning at 4 p.m. A funeral Mass will be held at the church at 6 p.m. immediately following the memorial service.

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Whitman-Walker facing 40% federal research budget cut

Trump terminates range of health grants related to sexual minorities

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Officials at Whitman-Walker Health revealed that the organizationā€™s Institute for Health Research and Policy is facing a 40 percent cut to its federal funding due to President Trumpā€™s ongoing effort to reduce federal government spending. 

The news was announced at a weekend drag brunch fundraiser held at Her Diner. 

A spokesperson for Whitman-Walker told the Blade that final numbers of the cuts are not yet available and the full impact of the federal funding loss is not yet clear. The Institute for Health Research & Policy at Whitman-Walker works to advance good health outcomes via research, clinical trials, and evidence-based policy solutions. So itā€™s fair to assume the cuts will impact research into HIV and cancer treatments. 

In related news, last week the U.S. government terminated at least 68 grants to 46 institutions totaling nearly $40 million, according to a report from the AP. 

ā€œMost were in some way related to sexual minorities, including research focused on HIV prevention. Other canceled studies centered on cancer, youth suicide and bone health,ā€ AP reported.

Health and Human Services spokesman Andrew Nixon said the agency is ā€œdedicated to restoring our agencies to their tradition of upholding gold-standard, evidence-based science.ā€

One canceled project at Vanderbilt University was following the health of more than 1,200 LGBTQ people age 50 and older, the AP said.

This is a developing story; the Blade will update this with details on the Whitman-Walker cuts when they are available.

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D.C. queer bar owners sound alarm on WorldPride security concerns

ā€˜The city has a complete obligation to manage this, make it safeā€™

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Local bar owners are concerned about safety with large crowds expected for WorldPride. (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

Excitement for this yearā€™s WorldPride celebration in Washington grows more palpable by the day as more iconic performers are added to festival lineups and a steady stream of new events are announced. Itā€™s clear that Washington is preparing for something big.

But as with any major event, concerns are emerging about how to ensure the safety of the LGBTQ community as people from around the world gather to celebrate the diversity that makes it so special.

Washington is home to about 20 bars that cater to the LGBTQ community. Some bar owners worry that as the celebration approaches their venues will bear the brunt of the influx of visitors. Without federal support, they fear the challenges that come with accommodating such large crowds will only intensify.

The Washington Blade spoke with several gay bar owners following a community meeting that included bar owners, D.C. police, and staff from the mayorā€™s Office of LGBTQ Affairs. The discussion focused on safety concerns for WorldPride and potential solutions to ease the growing burden on these businesses.

ā€œI think a lot of the bar owners just felt like we needed to all coordinate what we’re doing together with the 2 to 3 million people they say are coming to town,ā€ said Stephen Rutgers, co-owner of Crush, an LGBTQ dance bar on 14th Street. (Rutgers also serves as the Blade’s sales and marketing director.) ā€œThere are 16-ish, maybe a little more, LGBTQ bars in the city, which maybe hold 3,500-plus people total. We’re sort of the backbone of the community, and so we’re going to be inundated no matter what. It is great for business, but it also brings a lot of concerns for a lot of the business owners.ā€

Originally not intended to focus on security, the mid-February meeting quickly shifted to safety concerns, according to Ed Bailey, co-owner of Trade and Number 9. Japer Bowles, director of the Mayorā€™s Office of LGBTQ Affairs, attended, taking notes as bar owners voiced their fears.

ā€œAs Japer started the conversation, there was a little bit of a general ā€˜WorldPride is coming. These are the dates. Here are a few marquee events that are scheduled.ā€™ We went through the basics ā€” when the parade is, when the main downtown festival is, the other music festival, and some other things. And then within 10 minutes of the meeting starting like that, the question of security and safety was brought up. I don’t even remember how, and I don’t think it was the topic at hand. It just became part of the topic, and then it became the only thing that was discussed for the rest of the meeting.ā€

The discussion centered on how to financially support bar owners in securing the additional staffing needed to handle the influx of millions of LGBTQ tourists. Many attendees emphasized the governmentā€™s responsibility to ensure safety for these visitors, especially considering that WorldPride 2019 drew 5 million people to Manhattan.

ā€œWorldPride is going to be the largest event that has ever happened in Washington, D.C., ever, of any kind,ā€ Bailey said. ā€œMore people will be here for WorldPride than have been here for any other thing in history. The city has a complete, 100% obligation to manage this, make it safe, be as welcoming as possible, and ensure everything is in its best form.ā€

This becomes more complicated given that the District’s resources are ultimately controlled by the Republican-led federal government.

ā€œIs Washington up to that task as a city government? I don’t think it’s ever been tested like this,ā€ Bailey added. ā€œIt is unprecedented for Washington ā€” a city essentially controlled by the federal government ā€” to try to maintain, manage, and operate an event of this magnitude without federal assistance. It just puts a stranglehold on the D.C. government.ā€

David Perruzza, owner of Pitchers, a queer sports bar, and A League of Her Own, a lesbian bar in Adams Morgan, said he sees potential security issues arising not at official WorldPride events but closer to home.

ā€œSo now itā€™s WorldPride, and there will be other events. And God forbid Trump does another counter-event. What are we going to do if we have an issue?ā€ Perruzza said. ā€œOur main concern is security for these establishments, not so much the events. The events have tons of cops for them and everything, but we just want to make sure that weā€™re going to be taken care of.ā€

Rutgers echoed Perruzzaā€™s concerns about the possibility of interference from the president and other Republicans in power.

ā€œI do think people have a lot of questions about whether the bigger stuff is going to be able to happen. It does raise those concerns for us. We’re on private property, so we’re safe, but if things start to get canceled, there will be fewer and fewer spaces for people to go, which then, I think, overwhelms us even more,ā€ Rutgers said. ā€œThere are only so many bars. There are only so many larger venues that can hold big private parties that the administration can’t touch. And if they somehow take over city permitting and cancel the street festival, where are those couple hundred thousand people going to go?ā€

The possibility of increased police presence in LGBTQ spaces was also discussed. Initially seen as a potential solution to growing concerns, it now appears less viable as the full scale and demands of WorldPride on city resources become clearer.

ā€œThey used to have a program where bars and restaurants could hire off-duty MPD officers,ā€ Rutgers explained. ā€œThe city would cover a portion of the cost of overtime, and the bar would cover the rest. One issue is that it wasnā€™t funded in the budget this year, so thereā€™s no money for it. And, two, when MPD is fully activated, there are no off-duty officers available. MPD is already short-staffed. I think there are just flaws in the program ā€” itā€™s great, we would want to hire people, but we canā€™t.ā€

ā€œAll of the bar owners were concerned. They feel like they are easier targets, and while there will likely be significant security and police presence at the festival and large events, there probably wonā€™t be much visible police coverage in the areas where the bars are,ā€ Bailey added. ā€œEvery single officer employed by the Metropolitan Police Department will be working that weekend. No one will have time off. There will be no extra officers in the nightclub and bar world.ā€

Beyond the lack of officers and funding, a police presence doesnā€™t always guarantee a safer space, especially considering that the first Pride was a rebellion against police.

ā€œI also am astutely aware that having police at your establishments is not something that is welcome or comfortable for a very large portion of our community, so that becomes tricky,ā€ Bailey said. ā€œBut I believe that given the scenario and the situation, if there were a way to create a system where neighborhoods could collectively pay a fee to have an officer in a patrol car on the block ā€” so businesses could access that officer when significant issues arise ā€” that might bring some comfort. Removing that officer from directly standing at the bar would lessen the impact on customers who may not feel comfortable with a police presence.ā€

Bowles from the mayorā€™s office issued a statement to the Blade responding to the bar ownersā€™ concerns.

ā€œWe are proud to welcome more than 3 million visitors to Washington, D.C. for WorldPride 2025,ā€ the statement reads. ā€œWashington, D.C. has extensive experience providing world-class security and hospitality for large-scale public events, and this will be no exception. The District continues to work diligently with community organizers and partners to ensure that WorldPride is a safe, accessible, and bold celebration of our community.ā€

Capital Pride issued a statement to the Blade in response to the concerns: ā€œThe Capital Pride Alliance (CPA) continues to navigate the evolving political circumstances impacting WorldPride and our local community, which is preparing to host visitors and events around the city. We understand the urgent need for confidence in this historic undertaking and we are working with the Mayor’s Office of LGBTQ Affairs, as it is the lead agency charged with supporting our local LGBTQ community. Programmatic support includes ongoing workshops and trainings, in partnership with the Equality Chamber of Commerce DC (ECCDC) and other DC government agencies. CPA is also working directly with the Mayor’s Special Event Group and an interagency Health and Safety Committee, to ensure the proper agencies responsible for public safety have a complete picture of all the events taking place.”

Regardless of how itā€™s achieved, safety remains the top priority for LGBTQ bar owners, even if it means sacrificing profits or taking on additional responsibilities, the owners said.

ā€œEverybody’s got to step up,ā€ Bailey concluded. ā€œItā€™s a long, difficult, hard weekend from a working standpoint, but hopefully, a joyous and remarkable experience.ā€

The Washington Blade reached out to the Metropolitan Police Department for comment, but officials did not respond.

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Former College Park Mayor Patrick Wojahn disbarred

One-time official serving 30-year prison sentence for child pornography possession, distribution

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Patrick Wojahn (Mugshot courtesy of the Prince George's County Police Department)

Patrick Wojahn, the former mayor of College Park who resigned after law enforcement executed a search and seizure warrant and discovered a ā€œvery large quantityā€ of child sexual abuse material on his cellphone, has agreed to be disbarred in Maryland.

Wojahn, 49, a Democrat who served as mayor from 2015 to 2023, later pleaded guilty in Prince Georgeā€™s County Circuit Court to 140 counts of possession and distribution of child pornography and was sentenced to 30 years in prison ā€” plus five years of probation.

In an order on Friday, Maryland Chief Justice Matthew J. Fader granted a joint petition for disbarment by consent and noted that Wojahn agreed that his actions constituted professional misconduct.

The rest of this article can be found on the Baltimore Banner’s website.

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