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Reagan adviser, Log Cabin supporter Bob Bonitati dies at 79

Accompanied president to Hilton Hotel on day of assassination attempt

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Bob Bonitati died at age 79. (Photo by Tony Burns)

Robert ā€œBobā€ Bonitati, a longtime government affairs specialist in Washington who worked as White House special assistant to President Ronald Reagan in the 1980s and served as a behind-the-scenes adviser to Log Cabin Republicans in the 1990s, died Oct. 31 in Tampa, Fla. He was 79.

His friend Phil Sparrow said during his retirement in recent years he spent summers in Rehoboth Beach, Del., and winters at his home in Ft. Lauderdale, Fla. Sparrow said Bonitati was participating in an experimental cancer treatment protocol in Tampa at the time of his passing.

A write-up about his career prepared by Sparrow and his longtime friend Robert Kabel says Bonitati, a native of Bridgeport, Conn., graduated from the University of Connecticut with a degree in political science. It says he did graduate work at Arizona State University and the University of Tennessee.

While at Tennessee he met then-U.S. Sen. Howard Baker (R-Tenn.) and worked on Bakerā€™s re-election committee before joining Baker in 1967 as his Senate chief of staff. Among the positions he held after leaving his Senate job for the private sector was heading the government affairs office for the Airline Pilots Association for six years.

According to Sparrow and Kabelā€™s write-up, Bonitati joined the Reagan White House as a Special Assistant to the President, where he served as White House liaison to organized labor.

The write-up says Bonitati was with Reagan on March 30, 1981 at the Washington Hilton Hotel where the president delivered a speech to the Building Trades Union.

ā€œAs they were walking out of the hotel together to return to the White House Bob was stopped momentarily by a friend just as the President exited and was shot,ā€ says the write-up. ā€œBob credited his friend with saving his life.ā€

Minutes later Reagan was rushed to George Washington University Hospital where doctors said a gunshot wound by would-be assassin John Hinckley came close to taking his life.

Bonitati lived at the time in D.C.ā€™s Dupont Circle area and had a wide range of Washington friends, both Republicans and Democrats, people who knew him said. Following his White House job he became part owner of a flower shop while working for the Kamber Group, a prominent public relations and government affairs firm. He later joined The Hawthorne Group, another public affairs firm.

Kabel and Rich Tafel, who served as president of the national gay group Log Cabin Republicans in the 1990s, said Bonitati played an important role as an informal, behind-the-scenes adviser to Log Cabin.

ā€œWe opened our D.C. office in 1993, and Bob was a key adviser for Log Cabin and me in the 1990s,ā€ Tafel said. ā€œHe gave great advice, great strategy. He was particularly helpful to me, especially in the early years when I was new to D.C.ā€

Kabel said that in marked contrast to the current toxic, highly partisan atmosphere in Washington, Bonitati was a product of the old school mold where Republicans and Democrats were able to engage in bipartisan efforts to get things done in Congress.

ā€œBob enjoyed his many years as a visitor and then in retirement as a homeowner in Rehoboth and Ft. Lauderdale,ā€ Sparrow and Kabel said in their write-up. ā€œHe was a longtime supporter of CAMP Rehoboth, the LGBT community center in Rehoboth,ā€ the two said.

ā€œBob Bonitati was an amazing man who did good in his life and who made friends wherever he went,ā€ said friend Peter Rosenstein. ā€œHe was a Republican who I could talk and communicate with. He was a member of a Republican Party that seems to no longer exist. He was a decent man who cared about people. Bob, may you rest in peace, knowing you brought joy and smiles to many during your life and that you will be remembered and missed each day by all of them.ā€

Bonitati is survived by his sister, Peggy Person of Tampa, Fla.; his niece, Sandra Butte; his nephew, Richard Person, and his great nephew, Ryan Butte. Sparrow and Kabel said he is also survived by ā€œmany wonderful friends in Rehoboth Beach, Ft. Lauderdale, and Washington, D.C.ā€

A Celebration of Life for Bonitati was scheduled to be hosted by family members, Sparrow and friends on Dec. 2 from 5-7 p.m. at the Vantage View Condominium where Bonitati lived at 2841 North Ocean Blvd. in Ft. Lauderdale. Plans for a Celebration of Life in Rehoboth and D.C. were expected to be announced in the near future.

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New D.C. LGBTQ+ bar Crush set to open April 19

An ā€˜all-inclusive entertainment haven,ā€™ with dance floor, roof deck

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Crush (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

D.C.ā€™s newest LGBTQ+ bar called Crush is scheduled to open for business at 4 p.m. on Friday, April 19, in a spacious, two-story building with a dance floor and roof deck at 2007 14th St., N.W. in one of the cityā€™s bustling nightlife areas.

A statement released by co-owners Stephen Rutgers and Mark Rutstein earlier this year says the new bar will provide an atmosphere that blends ā€œnostalgia with contemporary nightlifeā€ in a building that was home to a popular music store and radio supply shop.

Rutgers said the opening comes one day after Crush received final approval of its liquor license that was transferred from the Owl Room, a bar that operated in the same building before closing Dec. 31 of last year. The official opening also comes three days after Crush hosted a pre-opening reception for family, friends, and community members on Tuesday, April 16.

Among those attending, Rutgers said, were officials with several prominent local LGBTQ organizations, including officials with the DC Center for the LGBTQ Community, which is located across the street from Crush in the cityā€™s Reeves Center municipal building. Also attending were Japer Bowles, director of the Mayorā€™s Office of LGBTQ Affairs, and Salah Czapary, director of the Mayorā€™s Office of Nightlife and Culture.  

Rutgers said Crush plans to hold a grand opening event in a few weeks after he, Rutstein and the barā€™s employees become settled into their newly opened operations.

ā€œStep into a venue where inclusivity isnā€™t just a promise but a vibrant reality,ā€ a statement posted on the Crush website says. ā€œImagine an all-inclusive entertainment haven where diversity isnā€™t just celebrated, itā€™s embraced as the very heartbeat of our venue,ā€ the statement says. ā€œWelcome to a place where love knows no bounds, and the only color or preference that matters is the vibrant tapestry of humanity itself. Welcome to Crush.ā€

The website says Crush will be open Tuesdays and Wednesdays from 4 p.m. to 12 a.m., Thursdays from 4 p.m. to 2 a.m., Fridays from 4 p.m. to 3 a.m., Saturdays from 2 p.m. to 3 a.m., and Sundays from 2 p.m. to 12 a.m. It will be closed on Mondays.

Crush is located less than two blocks from the U Street Metro station.

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Reenactment of first gay rights picket at White House draws interest of tourists

LGBTQ activists carry signs from historic 1965 protest

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About 30 LGBTQ activists formed a picket line in front of the White House April 17. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

About 30 LGBTQ activists formed a circular picket line in front of the White House Wednesday afternoon, April 17, carrying signs calling for an end to discrimination against ā€œhomosexualsā€ in a reenactment of the first gay rights protest at the White House that took place 59 years earlier on April 17, 1965.

Crowds of tourists looked on with interest as the activists walked back and forth in silence in front of the White House fence on Pennsylvania Avenue. Like the 1965 event, several of the men were dressed in suits and ties and the women in dresses in keeping with a 1960s era dress code policy for protests of the Mattachine Society of Washington, D.C., the cityā€™s first gay rights group that organized the 1965 event.

Wednesdayā€™s reenactment was organized by D.C.ā€™s Rainbow History Project, which made it clear that the event was not intended as a protest against President Joe Biden and his administration, which the group praised as a strong supporter of LGBTQ rights.

ā€œI think this was an amazing event,ā€ said Vincent Slatt, the Rainbow History Project official who led efforts to put on the event. ā€œWe had twice as many that we had hoped for that came today,ā€ he said.

“It was so great to see a reenactment and so great to see how far we’ve come,” Slatt said. “And also, the acknowledgement of what else we still need to do.”

Slatt said participants in the event who were not carrying picket signs handed out literature explaining the purpose of the event.

A flier handed out by participants noted that among the demands of the protesters at the 1965 event were to end the ban on homosexuals from working in the federal government, an end to the ban on gays serving in the military, an end to the denial of security clearances for gays, and an end of the government’s refusal to meet with the LGBTQ community. 

ā€œThe other thing that I think is really, really moving is some of the gay staff inside the White House found out this was happening and came out to greet us,ā€ Slatt said. He noted that this highlighted how much has changed since 1965, when then President Lyndon Johnsonā€™s White House refused to respond to a letter sent to Johnson from the Mattachine Society explaining its grievances. 

ā€œSo now to have gay people in the White House coming out to give us their respects and to say hello was especially meaningful to us,ā€ Slatt said. ā€œThat was not expected today.ā€

Among those walking the picket line was longtime D.C. LGBTQ rights advocate Paul Kuntzler, who is the only known surviving person who was among the White House picketers at the April 1965 event. Kuntzler said he proudly carried a newly printed version of the sign at Wednesdayā€™s reenactment event that he carried during the 1965 protest. It stated, ā€œFifteen Million Homosexuals Protest Federal Treatment.ā€  

Also participating in the event was Japer Bowles, director of D.C. Mayor Muriel Bowserā€™s Office of LGBTQ Affairs. Bowles presented Slatt with a proclamation issued by Bowser declaring April 17, 2024, Mattachine Society Day in Washington, D.C.

ā€œWhereas, on April 17, 1965, the Mattachine Society of Washington courageously held the nationā€™s inaugural picket for gay rights, a seminal moment in the ongoing struggle for LGBTQIA+ equality in the United States, marking the genesis of public demonstrations advocating for those rights and paving the way for Pride Marches and Pride celebrations worldwide,ā€ the proclamation states.

About 30 minutes after the reenactment event began, uniformed Secret Service agents informed Slatt that due to a security issue the picketers would have to move off the sidewalk in front of the White House and resume the picketing across the street on the sidewalk in front of Lafayette Park. When asked by the Washington Blade what the security issue was about, one of the Secret Service officers said he did not have any further details other than that his superiors informed him that the White House sidewalk would have to be temporarily cleared of all people.

Participants in the event quickly resumed their picket line on the sidewalk in front of Lafayette Park for another 30 minutes or so in keeping with the 1965 picketing event, which lasted for one hour, from 4:20 p.m. to 5:20 p.m., according to Rainbow  History Projectā€™s research into the 1965 event.

Although the LGBTQ picketers continued their procession in silence, a separate protest in Lafayette Park a short distance from the LGBTQ picketers included speakers shouting through amplified speakers. The protest was against the government of Saudi Arabia and organized by a Muslim group called Al Baqee Organization.

A statement released by the Rainbow History Project says the reenactment event, among other things, was a tribute to D.C.-area lesbian rights advocate Lilli Vincenz, who participated in the 1965 White House picketing, and D.C. gay rights pioneer Frank Kameny, who founded the Mattachine Society of Washington in the early 1960s and was the lead organizer of the 1965 White House protest. Kameny died in 2011 and Vincenz died in 2023.

The picket signs carried by participants in the reenactment event, which were reproduced from the 1965 event, had these messages:

ā€¢ ā€œDISCRIMINATION Against Homosexuals is as immoral as Discrimination Against Negroes and Jews;ā€

ā€¢ ā€œGovernment Should Combat Prejudice NOT PROMOTE ITā€

ā€¢ ā€œWhite House Refuses Replies to Our Letters, AFRAID OF US?

ā€¢ ā€œHOMOSEXUALS Died for their Country, Tooā€

ā€¢ ā€œFirst Class Citizenship for HOMOSEXUALSā€

ā€¢Ā ā€œSexual Preference is Irrelevant to Employmentā€

ā€¢Ā ā€œFifteen Million U.S. Homosexuals Protest Federal Treatmentā€

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Organizers announce details for D.C. Black Pride 2024

Most events to take place Memorial Day weekend at Westin Downtown

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Black Pride 2024 details were announced this week. (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

The Center for Black Equity, the organizer of D.C. Black Pride, the nationā€™s first and one of the largest annual African-American LGBTQ Pride celebrations, announced this yearā€™s event will take place Memorial Day Weekend from May 24-27.

The announcement, released April 16, says that most 2024 D.C. Black Pride events will take place at the Westin Washington, D.C. Downtown Hotel at 999 9th St, N.W.

ā€œWith the theme Black Pride Forever, the event promises a weekend filled with vibrant celebrations, empowering workshops, and a deep exploration of Black LGBTQIA+ history and culture,ā€ the announcement says.

It says events will include as in past years a ā€œRainbow Rowā€ vendor expo at the hotel featuring ā€œorganizations and vendors created for and by the LGBTQIA+ communityā€ offering products and services ā€œthat celebrate Black excellence.ā€

According to the announcement, other events include a Health and Wellness Festival that will offer workshops, demonstrations, and activities focused on ā€œholistic well-being;ā€ a Mary Bowman Poetry Slam ā€œshowcasing the power and beauty of spoken word by Black LGBTQIA+ artists;ā€ the Black Pride Through the Decades Party, that will celebrate the ā€œrich history of the Black LGBTQIA+ movement;ā€ and an Empowerment Through Knowledge series of workshops that ā€œdelve into various topics relevant to the Black LGBTQIA+ community.ā€

Also, as in past years, this yearā€™s D.C. Black Pride will feature its ā€œOpening Night Extravaganzaā€ reception and party that will include entertainment and live performances.

The announcement notes that D.C.ā€™s annual Black Pride celebration, started in 1991 as a one-day outdoor event at Howard Universityā€™s Banneker Field, has inspired annual Black LGBTQ Pride events across the United States and in Canada, United Kingdom, Brazil, Africa, and the Caribbean. More than 300,000 people attend Black LGBTQ Pride events each year worldwide, the announcement says.

Full details, including the official schedule of events, can be accessed at dcblackpride.org.

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