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QUEERY: Taylor Lianne Chandler
The D.C.-area trans/intersex activist answers 20 gay questions

Taylor Lianne Chandler arrived in the D.C. area in 2013 newly divorced, seeking a fresh start and ready to find work full time as a sign language interpreter.
Listing her job titles as author/actress/activist/model, Chandler soon got involved with the local trans/intersex community.
Chandler will appear as a celebrity judge at the annual “#AskRayceen Mini Ball,” this month’s installment of “The Ask Rayceen Show” slated for Wednesday, April 3 at HRC Equality Center (1640 Rhode Island Ave., N.W.) at 7 p.m. It’s free and open to the public. Now in its eighth season, “Ask Rayceen” runs the first Wednesday of each month March through November with hostess Rayceen Pendarvis.
“She always makes me smile,” Chandler says of Rayceen. “I’m happy to support anything she does. We always take a selfie together every time we see each other. It’s our thing.”
She calls “Ask Rayceen” and the ball competition “an amazing time to see our community come together in a safe space and shine.”
Chandler is also active with We the People, SaVanna Wanzer’s local trans group that’s gearing up for May’s launch of its second annual May Is? All About Trans series of events.
“Under this administration that wants to ban and erase us, we need a chance to celebrate and come together in safe spaces,” the 46-year-old Cape Coral, Fla., native says. “I was the first person she asked two years ago. I didn’t hesitate. When SaVanna asks, you step to the plate and do what is necessary. You just do it.”
Chandler credits Wanzer with helping her bounce back after an ugly breakup — more below — a few years ago. Full details of May Is? at mayistransdc.com.
Chandler is engaged to Matthew Meagher-Walker. They live in Burke, Va. Chandler enjoys reading, travel, coffee and being near the water in her free time.
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
I was outed on the cover of the National Enquirer, TMZ and Radar Online November 19, 2014. I didn’t choose on my own to be out. My relationship with Michael Phelps put my life in a public forum for all to see and scrutinize and pass judgment. I don’t have the luxury of telling someone. My whole life is public, the good, the bad and the ugly!
Who’s your LGBT hero?
Caroline Cossey, Tula. She was the first person I ever saw myself in. She has been a rock over the last five years as she was outed and went through it all publicly too. She tells me often, “chin up always.”
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?
I love me some Dirty Goose, but I pretty much like them all! I truly miss Town, but now we have Avalon Saturdays. If I’m feeling a little naughty, Secrets is a guilty pleasure!
Describe your dream wedding.
Something small and simple with close friends, but elegant and traditional. I want it to have an outdoor stage with jazz, classical and contemporary music. I want it formal but fun down to every detail. I want to marry my best friend who loves and adores me. A man who will be loyal and cherish me. I want a love that others wish they had. I’m so lucky to have found my fairytale with Matthew.
What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?
Being intersex, I’m passionate about laws stopping gender mutilation surgery in infants to fit conveniently into a binary world. Close second is economic justice, health equity and equal pay for women.
What historical outcome would you change?
Trump becoming president. He has taken the intersex and transgender communities back 100 years with no end in sight. Our country has never been so divided!
What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
For me, it was when I did “The Howard Stern Show” with Bradley Cooper in January 2015.
On what do you insist?
Not waiting in lines, one small perk of fame.
What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?
My last tweet was a video of me speaking at Trans Day of Remembrance about the state of the world under President Trump last year. My last Facebook post was promoting my friend Rhonda Sheer on HSN.
If your life were a book, what would the title be?
My first book is “The Making of Going For the Gold.” My next book is called “Beyond the Gold: The TaylorLianne Chandler Story.” I hope to finish it by the end of this year. I also wrote a fiction book called “Super Bowl Surprise.”
If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?
Not a damn thing, I like being straight and I love my gay friends just the way they are! The world would be boring if we were all the same! I’d rather science discover a way to stop hate.
What do you believe in beyond the physical world?
I believe in God and I’m anxious to meet my mom, who died when I was 3 months old. I think of her as my angel watching over me.
What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?
Come together, try to play nice. You get more bees with honey. The people who had to fight hard against the establishment deserve our respect, but we need to welcome a kinder, deliberate strategy to take over the reins for the better good going forward into the future. Coming together as a whole we can accomplish so much more. We need the Caitlyn Jenners as much as the Janet Mocks, Laverne Coxs, Jazz Jennings and Kim Petras of the world.
What would you walk across hot coals for?
To let go of the pain of the past. To be free of the trauma of my childhood that haunts me.
What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?
When people ask, “What is Intersex”? Does that mean you are trans?” No, not the way you think, but I did choose to become one gender different from what I was originally corrected to be so I identify as both.
What’s your favorite LGBT movie?
“Girl With the Dragon Tattoo” Swedish versions.
What’s the most overrated social custom?
Valentine’s Day
What trophy or prize do you most covet?
I want to live in a world where the greatest Olympian of all time can love somebody like me.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
When people show you who they are believe them right away. Also how precious time is and you don’t get it back.
Why Washington?
It’s a city rich in history and fueled by constant change. I love the political game here. I like feeling like I am at the front line of change for the better.
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Summer in D.C. brings sports, Restaurant Week, festivals, and more
Summer in D.C. just hits different. Congress is out, school is out, the sun is out, thighs are out. With the skies clearing from Canadian smoke, here are a few ways to stay entertained.
Dining
Summer restaurant week: The Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington (RAMW) is once again hosting Summer Restaurant Week, Aug. 18-24. This weeklong dining experience showcases the dynamic dining scene of the DMV, including 2026 RAMMY Award-winning favorites (the annual D.C. food awards show that took place June 29). Participating restaurants will offer three-course brunch and lunch selections for $25 or $35 per person, and three-course dinners for $40, $55 and $65 per person.
New Restaurants: A handful of new spots have opened, so the summer is a great time to check them out:
- Oribu: A new Mediterranean-Japanese restaurant in the Grand Hyatt hotel, which just underwent a remodeling effort. The sleek restaurant brings upscale charm, with dishes like Wagyu beef tartare with potato pavé and caviar.
- The Oak Room: A snazzy old-school American grill has just opened in Georgetown, alongside its sister upstairs supper club (Bernadette’s) restaurant, in the old El Centro space.
- Uchi: This showy Japanese sushi-forward chain has landed in Dupont with a chef’s tasting menu of favorites like fatty tuna.
- Kathmandu: Recalling the capital of Nepal, this warm, buzzy subterranean restaurant right in the heart of U Street brings spice, flair, and rare ingredients to its dishes (see: buffalo burgers) and drinks.
Sports
- Washington Spirit Pride Night OUT: On Sunday, Aug. 23, head to Audi Field for a massive, high-energy game following the exciting month of World Cup. The designated Pride Night OUT game promises boisterous crowds plus pre- and post-game community engagements.
- Washington Tennis Open – Now called the Mubadala DC Open, this annual tournament is only combined mens’ and womens’ 500-level tennis tournament in the world. The open is one of D.C.’s longest-standing sports traditions, and will take place at the Rock Creek Park Tennis Center July 25-Aug. 2. Naomi Osaka, Venus Williams, Ben Shelton, Frances Tiafoe, and others are expected to play.
Festivals
- Afro Plus Fest: This huge, three-day Afro-Caribbean Hip-Hop Festival brings together headliners Davido, Alkaline, and Wizkid, plus Tems and Ayra Starr. The event moves from RFK to the Northwest Stadium Complex for three days, Sept. 4-6.
- Capital Fringe Festival: Running from July 11-21, this massive celebration features dozens of live theater, comedy, dance, and boundary-pushing nighttime performances across multiple DC neighborhoods.
- The National Book Festival returns, with headliners like Cynthia Erivo, and Martin Scorsese. The one-day festival, Saturday, Aug. 22, brings together bookworms and word nerds under the theme “America 250: It’s Your Story.” There are talks, workshops, musical sessions and more.
- All Things Go: A three-day festival Sept. 25-27 at Merriweather Post Pavilion featuring Mitski, Hayley Williams, Brandi Carlile, MUNA, Zara Larsson, Ethel Cain, and many, many more artists. There are single-day and three-day tickets. Featuring and highlighting female artists, the festival has turned into a must-see for many LGBTQ audience members.
- Fuchsia Fest: The inaugural Fuchsia Fest is a new multi-day celebration created to celebrate LGBTQ community and expression, bringing together a mix of community gatherings, entertainment, and nightlife. The event takes place Sept. 18-20 and is hosted by Capital Pride.
Art and Music
- United We Dance: A high-energy rave with house, techno, bass, and festival music, on Aug. 1 at the 9:30 Club.
- The Fray. On Aug. 14, this American rock band famous for How To Save A Life is at Merriweather Post Pavilion.
- Kesha: Kesha’s high-energy The Freedom Tour comes to the D.C. area on Aug. 14 at Jiffy Lube Live.
- ALOK: On Sept. 3 at Lincoln Theater, ALOK (they/them) performs. The poet, comedian, and actor is putting on a new comedy show.
- 2charm, the emerging Australian electronic club-pop duo popular with the queer community, which blends hyperpop and dance music, comes to the Atlantis.
- Sapphic Dance Party: a vibrant, inclusive nightlife and social event designed specifically for queer women, lesbians, bisexuals, trans individuals, and nonbinary folks, at Atlantis on Aug. 21.
- Jazz in the Garden: The most quintessential of D.C. activities returns Friday evenings through Aug. 14. This season’s theme, “American Sounds,” is a nod to the nation’s 250th anniversary. Tunes themes range from Appalachian and Americana to Creole jazz, Hill Country blues, contemporary jazz, and more. Tickets are available through a lottery system a week before each event.
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Tickets on sale for chef Patrick O’Connell’s book launch event
Sept. 18 kickoff to feature José Andrés, Tom Sietsema
Acclaimed chef Patrick O’Connell is preparing to publish his new memoir, “Main, Middle & Gay” in September and he’s launching the book with an event on Sept. 18 at 6 p.m. at Lisner Auditorium featuring Chef José Andrés and former Washington Post food critic Tom Sietsema.
Tickets for the event go on sale Tuesday, July 21 at Ticketmaster; prices start at $55.
O’Connell, who’s gay, is the pioneering Michelin-starred chef and longtime proprietor of the Inn at Little Washington. He spoke with the Blade about the September event and the launch of his first memoir.
“I’ve known [Andrés and Sietsema] for more than 25 years and I have great respect for them,” O’Connell said. “I felt that it would allow us to add a different dimension rather than just have an interviewer. The chemistry will be fun and lively and unpredictable and exciting. I think we’re all different personalities and we’ll compliment each other.”
O’Connell has published cookbooks but this is his first memoir. The event will feature a short film that will highlight his work and the Inn.
“What I hope to do with the event is bring the book to life visually,” he said. “So we’re producing a short film that will be part of it. Most of the audience will not have read the book so it’ll give them a visual flavor of the book. It parallels the evolution of American cuisine over 50 years. It’s a rare perspective to be in the trenches for that long.”
The book’s title refers to the location of the garage on the corner of Main, Middle, and Gay streets in Washington, Va., where he launched his restaurant that became an international culinary destination.
The Blade will publish the rest of its wide-ranging interview with O’Connell in September in conjunction with the book’s release.
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The queer Asian comics building collective joy in D.C.
Spotlighting chaotic ways family, romance, identity take shape in their lives
Kevin Chen’s family tombstone has room for four: him, his parents and his boyfriend. The arrangement might prove to be a little awkward.
“My boyfriend is 100% white, and my parents are 100% disappointed,” Chen confessed.
Jokes about family traditions and the untraditional ways they’re practiced earned a burst of laughs at the bar where Chen was opening for the Pride Comedy Special. The D.C. stand-up event, produced by Comedy Bonfyre last month, spotlighted queer Asian comics who shared the chaotic ways family, romance and identity take shape in their lives.
From candid oral sex takes to top surgery hypotheticals like “Where do the boobs go?”, the night highlighted the loud camaraderie of the queer Asian experience — one that sounds like a cacophony of snorts, cackles and belly laughs. While the comics say they are not quite a community, there’s more than enough shared material to bring them together.
“It was such a magical experience. I loved performing in a queer API lineup. It feels so validating,” Chen said after the show. “I’m wondering, ‘Is this how white men feel all the time?’”
Each performance evoked queer Asian joy through a medium that could use more of its presence.
According to Chen, who is based in D.C., it’s hard to say whether there is a true queer Asian comedy presence in his city. There are only a scattered “handful” of Asian comics, and people of color are underrepresented in queer comic circles, he said.
When Tarunika Anand, a nonbinary lesbian comic, first entered the mainstream D.C. comedy scene, they mostly encountered straight white men, describing the experience as “a culture shock.”
“I feel like sometimes a lot of queer spaces are really white, and then a lot of Asian spaces are really straight,” Anand said. “I don’t feel like I fit into either.”
But feeling marginalized didn’t stop these comics from honing their craft and creating spaces for others like them. Alex Kim, who headlined the special and is based in Brooklyn, runs the queer Asian comedy group Boba Gays, which began on WhatsApp and has since made its way to Lincoln Center.
Every Wednesday, Anand co-produces a free comedy show called Funny Side Up. The queer-led group focuses on inclusivity and showcasing new talent.
“It’s really beautiful to speak about your experience and your existence in a way that’s uplifting,” Anand said.
Family is a major throughline of their comedic repertoires.
Chen, for instance, shared that he identifies with jokes about having Asian immigrant parents and the expectations they pass down.
“You see me, you know this part about me, you know this experience intimately, and I can see the truth that you’re trying to wrap a joke around,” he said. “That hits even harder because that’s my truth too. I think that’s what makes good comedy.”
Anand had the audience at the special howling when they explained that their parents’ be-more-like-them comparisons didn’t end when they came out. Instead, the expectations took on a new form.
“Now, my parents want me to be the best gay,” Anand said. “They’re like, ‘Do you know Ellen DeGeneres?’”
Kim said he’s been trying to unlearn things from his Christian Korean mom. Yet he described a moment when he was getting ready for the club and realized he looked just like his mother getting ready for church.
“I’ve been finding it hard to escape her,” Kim said.
Mutual recognition also radiates through the different ways queer love can take shape. From singlehood to death-do-us-part commitments, the comics cover just about every corner.
Anand is holding out hope for settling down with “a nice, pretty, Indian girl.” They recently went through a breakup and said they felt they dodged a bullet.
“As a person of color, I just don’t think I should be with a Swiftie,” they said.
Chen, touching on what it’s like to be in a queer interracial relationship, said that meeting his white boyfriend’s baby nephew for the first time felt like he was forced to participate in a diversity, equity and inclusion training.
“The dad was like, ‘Please welcome Kevin. Be curious about his culture, his history, his foods,’” Chen joked.
Laughter is not the only reward for the comics.
To Anand, comedy is a space where they can say whatever they want. “It gives me a voice,” they said.
Nik Narain, a North Carolina-based trans and nonbinary South Asian comic who performed at the special, said meeting older trans comedians and taking the stage helped him feel reassured in his identity during his transition.
“Stand-up was a really cool way to process that onstage,” he said. “[It] became a way for me to repackage my thoughts.”
Queer Asians are still figuring out their place in the greater D.C. comedy scene. The group is small in numbers and many are still working toward a full-time comedy career. But Narain feels he’s already made it.
Narain is reluctant to pin it all on one moment. He feels that success is already peeking through in milestones — opening for celebrities, traveling to performances and self-producing shows.
“As long as I can keep doing this, I’m super happy,” he said.
This story was produced as part of the AAJA VOICES fellowship program, a student journalism project of the Asian American Journalists Association (AAJA).
