Living
‘All About Trans’ month returns with bustling schedule of activities
Awards, talent night, socializing, name-change seminars and more slated for busy May

We the People, a local transgender activist group, is bringing back May Is? All About Trans, a series of transgender-centric events in May, for a second consecutive year.
SaVanna Wanzer, founder of D.C. Trans Pride and We the People, explains that the title May Is? All About Trans is meant to be a call-and-response cheer.
“I’m asking someone else a question ‘May is?’ and then the other person says ‘All about trans.’ It’s to motivate you like ‘Christmas is?’ Tomorrow,’” Wanzer says.
There will be plenty to cheer about with the events list this year which includes a community mixer at the Library of Congress hosted by KeeKee Ke’niya Funches and NBC4’s Leon Harris, a Trans Summit featuring trans-focused workshops, an open mic and an art show featuring transgender artists.
The transgender community is also celebrated during Trans Pride but Wanzer says Capital Pride only allots 45-60 minutes to discuss transgender issues. We the People has organized events that allow up to three hours of conversation focused on the transgender community’s “mind, body and spirit,” according to Wanzer.
See the complete list of events below. For more information on May Is? All About Trans, visit mayistransdc.com.
Wednesday, May 1
Trans Summit is at the Metropolitan Community Church of Washington (474 Ridge St., N.W.) from 9 a.m.-5 p.m. From 9-10 a.m. there will be registration and breakfast followed by a greeting at 10 a.m. The morning session will include discussions entitled Navigating Medical and Legal Spaces from 10:45 a.m.-noon and then lunch from 12:15-1:15 p.m. The afternoon session will include Connecting Voices from the Community (1:15-2:15 p.m.), Growing an Activist/Growing the Entrepreneur (2:15-3:15 p.m.), Showing Up Spiritual/Showing Up Professional (3:15-4:15 p.m.) and closing remarks from 4:15-4:45 p.m. There will be dinner after the summit at Busboys and Poets (625 Monroe St., N.E.) from 6-9 p.m. The first 40 people to register for the summit will be invited to the dinner.
Thursday, May 2
Name & Gender Change Clinic, a free legal clinic for D.C. and Virginia residents, is at 11:30 a.m. in Tysons Corner, Va. Meet with an attorney to complete name and gender change documents. Email [email protected] to register and to receive the exact address.
Saturday, May 4
A Conversation About Addictions is at the Reeves Center (2000 14th St., N.W.) from 1-3 p.m.
Monday, May 6
The Awards Dinner featuring keynote speaker Diana Feliz Oliva is at Studio Theatre (1501 14th St., N.W.) from 6-9 p.m. Two people from the transgender community, one youth activist and one organization that represents the transgender community will be honored. Admission is free.
Tuesday, May 7
Trans Conversations is at Us Helping Us (3636 Georgia Ave., N.W.) from 6-8 p.m. There will be a conversation on transmasculine health in room one and a conversation on transfemme health in room two. The conversations will followed by dinner and a cocktail reception at 9 p.m. Admission is free.
Friday, May 10
Silver Pride, a celebration of the older LGBTQ community, is at Human Rights Campaign (1640 Rhode Island Ave., N.W.) from 3-7 p.m. There will be tabling and a dance. Free.
Saturday, May 11
Trans Art Showing is at Westminster Presbyterian Church (400 I St., S.W.) from 3-5 p.m. Art from local artists in the transgender community will be on display. Free admission.
Open Mic is at Westminster Presbyterian Church from 5-7 p.m. All are welcome to showcase their talent. Free.
“Transmilitary,” a documentary about life as a transgender person in the military, will be screened at Westminster Presbyterian Church from 7-9 p.m. A Q&A will follow the screening. Admission is free.
Sunday, May 12
Happy hour is at Denizens Brewing Co. (1115 East West Highway, Silver Spring, Md.) from 2-4 p.m.
Tuesday, May 14
Do Tell, a conversation about the pros and cons of sex-reassignment surgeries, is at Us Helping Us (3636 Georgia Ave., N.W.) from 6-8 p.m.
Wednesday, May 15
A conversation on HIV vs. PrEP is at Whitman-Walker Health (1525 14th St., N.W.) from 6-8 p.m.
Friday, May 17
Community Mixer is at Library of Congress (10 First St., S.E.) from 6-9 p.m. Keynote speaker will be Queen Victoria Ortega and NBC4’s Leon Harris hosts the event. This event is invite-only.
Saturday, May 18
Whitman Walker’s Trans Mixer is at Studio Theatre (1501 14th St., N.W.) from 6-8 p.m.
Sunday, May 19
TWEET Church Service, a church service for the transgender community, is at Westminster Presbyterian Church (400 I St., S.W.) from 11 a.m.-noon.
Wednesday, May 22
Bridging the Gap: Conversation Between Gay Men and the Transgender Community is at Whitman-Walker Health (1525 14th St., N.W.) from 6-8 p.m. Light dinner will be served.
Saturday, May 25
Black Pride Our Truths in Harmony, a transgender town hall, will be a part of Black Pride at the Renaissance Downtown Hotel (999 9th St., N.W.) from 1-2:30 p.m.
Youth: Building New Activist, a conversation with LGBTQ youth on how they can become activists, is at the Renaissance Downtown Hotel (999 9th St., N.W.) from 3-4:30 p.m. This event is closed to anyone over the age of 25.
Monday, May 27
Beauty Make Over is at 1 p.m. at a to-be-announced location. Celebrity hair stylist Kiyah Wright will teach a workshop on hair, makeup and style.
Thursday, May 30
The Finale: Giving Back is at a to-be-announced location from 5-8 p.m. The We the People board will prepare a dinner for LGBTQ youth at Wanda Alston House.
The latest Honda Civic hatchback and Subaru Impreza are two of the segment’s stars. Both offer sensible pricing, excellent utility and enough personality to avoid feeling like appliances.
The Civic is more polished. The Impreza, more rugged. Luckily, neither is trying to be obnoxiously flashy.
HONDA CIVIC
$28,000
MPG: 30 city/38 highway
0 to 60 mph: 8.9 seconds
Cargo space: 24.5 cu. ft.
PROS: Fuel efficient. Spacious cargo area. Good resale value.
CONS: No all-wheel drive. Fussy infotainment. Low rear headroom.
WHAT’S NEW: Only minor updates for 2026. The biggest change carries over from last year’s refresh: the addition of the hybrid, which has become a star performer.
The Honda Civic hatchback won’t scream for attention. It won’t arrive wearing sequins and carrying a smoke machine. It’s more like Nomi Marks from “Sense8”: intelligent, sophisticated and impressively capable.
The styling remains handsome and clean. Long hood. Low roofline. Crisp lines everywhere.Honda resisted the urge to make this vehicle look like a spaceship or an angry robot. That’s refreshing.
Inside, the dashboard is simple and elegant. The honeycomb air-vent treatment remains one of the coolest interior details in the segment. Materials feel expensive. Controls are easy to understand. And visibility is excellent.
I love how the cargo space is generous, with rear seats that fold flat. A bicycle, several suitcases or enough supplies for an ambitious weekend road trip fit without much hassle.
Then there’s the hybrid. The system produces a healthy amount of power while delivering fuel economy that borders on the absurd. Around town, handling feels smooth, quiet and surprisingly quick. You almost glide through traffic. The standard gasoline engine isn’t bad, but the hybrid is stellar.
The Civic also shines on twisty roads. Steering is precise. Body motions stay controlled. The suspension strikes a sweet balance between comfort and sportiness.
Biggest weakness? No all-wheel drive. For drivers in snowy climates, that’s not so good.
Still, the Civic’s stellar combination of efficiency, quality, and driving enjoyment remains incredibly hard to beat.
SUBARU IMPREZA

$27,000
MPG: 27 city/33 highway
0 to 60 mph: 8.5 seconds
Cargo space: 20.4 cubic feet
PROS: All-wheel drive. User-friendly tech. Safety cred.
CONS: No hybrid version. Some road noise. Modest cargo room.
WHAT’S NEW: The Impreza receives relatively minor updates for 2026. Subaru continues refining this hatchback rather than reinventing it.
If the Honda Civic is urbane, the Subaru Impreza is unfussy. There’s a kind of Kristen Stewart energy here. Cool without trying too hard.
The styling isn’t dramatic, but it works. This hauler appears ready to tackle rain, snow, dirt roads or an impromptu weekend escape.
And all-wheel drive comes standard on every Impreza. (Most competitors only offer front-wheel drive or include all-wheel drive as a pricey option.)
The result: Slippery roads simply don’t create much anxiety. The suspension absorbs bumps nicely. Long trips are comfortable. Visibility is great, thanks to relatively thin roof pillars and large windows.
I like how the cabin is functional rather than fancy. Materials don’t quite match the Civic’s upscale vibe, but everything feels sturdy. A large infotainment screen dominates the dashboard and generally works well, though some drivers may prefer more physical buttons.
Cargo space is respectable, and the design makes loading bulky items easy.
Performance depends heavily on trim. The base engine gets the job done, but nobody will confuse it for a sports car. The RS trim’s larger engine provides more power and makes the ride livelier. But even then, acceleration remains merely adequate.
The Impreza’s real appeal lies elsewhere, with a mix that few rivals can match: hatchback practicality, standard all-wheel drive, strong safety scores and reasonable pricing.
Perhaps that’s the key difference between these two hatchbacks. The Honda Civic impresses immediately. The Subaru Impreza grows on you.
Fortunately, choosing between them is less stressful than deciding who gets the last mimosa at brunch.
Real Estate
When buying a home, it’s decisions, decisions, decisions
Keeping notes on the process makes for an informed purchase
When looking to buy a home, there are lots of details to consider. Many of my clients would come to me and say, “Joe I want to buy a place, but I haven’t decided which neighborhood to buy in.” And the struggle was real. A few clients had everything decided from the color of the hallway walls to the cabinet handles and sometimes which three square blocks they wanted to look at.
But other clients were occasionally looking at properties in areas as distinct as Union Market/NOMA, Brookland, Logan Circle, and then we would even go across the river to look at a property in Shirlington or the Van Dorn areas of Virginia, which all have their own unique flavor and characteristics.
Sometimes clients would tell me, “I only want to look in Mount Pleasant or Adams Morgan.” Or, “don’t even show me any properties west of this street or south of that street.” My job wasn’t to convince people where to live. It was to just take the parameters they set for me and find as good of a property in that zone as I could, coordinate the showings and, if necessary, offer the strategy.
One can see that buyers often had more decisions to make than a seller. From a seller’s perspective, the house was where it was, and we just had to make the best of it. But working with a buyer could mean looking at five different neighborhoods, and then being a “thought partner” to help them figure out which were the top two or three areas they had seen, and then further distilling those down into what was available and weighing those options against each other.
One house could have the dream bathroom but also be located six blocks further from a Metro stop, walkable shopping and dining, and “just too far away from my friends.” Another house could have all the neighborhood options a client was looking for, but was just not in turnkey condition, and would require an additional $30,000 of upgrades once purchased to make it into the dream home they envisioned.
One activity I often asked buyers to do was to keep an active list in their heads of the properties they liked, and to keep a running rank of the top three. I often encouraged them to bring a notebook along on the journey where they could take notes and write down questions they thought of as they looked. It was an important decision, and sometimes the largest purchase of their lives. Why not take it a little seriously, and take notes? This could often help the buyer later when they felt it was time to decide.
The point here is, keeping a notebook handy can sometimes help a person with what feels like an overwhelming process. It provides a space to explore how one feels, jot down important details to remember, and then use that to make an informed decision.
Joseph Hudson is a referral agent with RLAH. Reach him at 703-587-0597 or [email protected].
Real Estate
Under-the-radar Delaware beach towns smart buyers are targeting
There are other options if Rehoboth prices are scaring you off
Look, we love Rehoboth. We will always love Rehoboth. Queer folks have been flocking there since the 1940s, and with scores of LGBTQ-owned businesses and a Pride calendar packed tighter than the boardwalk in July, “Rehomo” earned its crown fair and square.
But let’s be honest with each other: trying to buy property there right now feels a lot like trying to get a reservation at the one good restaurant in town on a Saturday in August. Everyone wants in, inventory is tighter than your swim trunks after Labor Day brunch, and the prices have officially entered “are you kidding me” territory.
So here’s a thought: What if you didn’t fight the crowd? What if, instead, you let Rehoboth keep doing its glorious, chaotic, glitter-bomb thing and you quietly built your beach life 15 minutes away for considerably less drama and considerably more square footage? Here are four towns ready for their close-up.
Lewes: The Charming Overachiever
Lewes is what happens when a beach town actually has its life together. Historic charm, walkability, proximity to Cape Henlopen State Park, less crowding, and a strong year-round community. Unlike towns that turn into ghost towns after Labor Day, Lewes maintains a real community all year long, which is more than we can say for some situationships.
And right now, the market is practically begging you to make a move. It’s one of the most desirable and stable markets in the county — built for buyers thinking long-term, not flippers, and Sussex County overall has flipped into genuine buyer’s market territory for the first time in years. Translation: you finally get to be the one with leverage.
Bethany Beach: My Personal Pick
Full disclosure: I own in Bethany. So consider this section a little biased — and also the most honest thing I’ll tell you in this whole article.
When I drive down from D.C., I’m not looking for more of D.C. I love this city, but I also love leaving it — and yes, some of the people in it too (you know who you are, and so do I). Bethany gives me that full exhale. It’s quiet in the way that actually means something: fewer crowds, slower mornings, a soundtrack that’s mostly waves instead of nightlife. It leans hard into its “quiet resort” reputation, with low property taxes and a limited geographic footprint, and it is not the least bit sorry about it.
But quiet doesn’t mean isolated. I’ve got a genuinely excellent food scene nearby, real shopping, and a string of charming neighboring beach towns — and when I do want a taste of Rehoboth’s energy, it’s a short, easy drive away. I get to choose my dose of chaos instead of living inside it.
And here’s the part that matters most for this article: the price. If you’ve looked at Rehoboth listings and quietly closed the tab in despair, I need you to hear this — you can absolutely afford a beach house. It just doesn’t have to be in Rehoboth. Bethany’s average home value sits around $848,592, which is still real money, no question — but it buys you more house, more land, and more peace than the same budget gets you closer to the boardwalk. Bethany is welcoming too, just without Rehoboth’s decades of built-in queer institutional history — and for plenty of us, that trade-off is more than worth it.
Fenwick Island: Small Town, Big Flex
Fenwick rarely gets mentioned and, frankly, it should be insulted. It’s tiny, it’s quiet, and it has beach access without the carnival energy. The market data tends to lump it in with Bethany, where single-family oceanfront homes clear $1 million while entry-level condos start in the $600s — proof that “under-the-radar” doesn’t mean “bargain bin,” it means “fewer people fighting you for it.”
South Bethany: For the Boat Gays
Some of us want sand between our toes. Others want a private dock and a boat named something deeply unserious. South Bethany’s canal communities are built for the latter — water access on both sides, fewer crowds, and a lifestyle that says, “I have a captain’s hat and I am not afraid to wear it.”
The Math Works in Your Favor Now
Here’s the part that should really get your attention: Sussex County’s median sold price has dropped to $440,000, down 3.3% year-over-year, and buyers are routinely closing around 88 cents on the dollar compared to asking price. That’s a far cry from the unhinged bidding wars of 2021 and 2022, when overpaying was basically a competitive sport. Inventory across the county sits at nearly 2,500 active listings — the most of any county in Delaware, meaning you actually get to be picky for once. Revolutionary, we know.
And no, choosing one of these towns doesn’t mean leaving your people behind. Sussex Pride serves the entire county, not just Rehoboth proper, and CAMP Rehoboth’s resources extend well beyond town limits too. You’re not exiling yourself to the suburbs of queerness — you’re just getting a bigger kitchen, a quieter porch, and a much shorter line for the bathroom.
Add in the fact that Delaware has no estate tax and some of the lowest property taxes around, savings that genuinely add up over a retirement horizon, and the case writes itself. Rehoboth will always be the beating, sequined heart of queer beach culture in Delaware. But if you’ve been telling yourself a beach house isn’t in the cards — I’m here to tell you it absolutely is. It just might be 15 minutes south, with your own quiet porch, your own salt air, and considerably more room to breathe.
Have a real estate question or Rehoboth market tip? Reach out to [email protected] for LGBTQ-friendly real estate resources in the Rehoboth area.
Justin Noble is a Realtor licensed in D.C., Maryland, and Delaware with Monument Sotheby’s International Realty. Reach him at [email protected] or 302-897-7499.
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