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Mr. Bake on creating space for queer chefs of color

Local entrepreneur mentors young gay and Black bakers

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Kareem Queeman is known for custom cakes and Southern classic desserts that ā€˜give you that nostalgic feeling.ā€™ (Photo courtesy Queeman)

Ever since his daily subway ride in high school, textbook in one hand and cake box in the other, Kareem Queeman has been balancing baking, career, joy, and representation.

Queeman, a gay man, is best known as Mr. Bake. Emboldened by his grandmother, who embodied the dynamic spirit of his close-knit family, Queeman took to the Kitchenaid and never looked back.

Known for custom cakes and Southern classic desserts that ā€œgive you that nostalgic feeling,ā€ he says, heā€™s now a James Beard Semifinalist for the 2023 Award for Outstanding Pastry Chef or Baker, a reality TV baking competition star, and proud bakery owner at the La Fantome Food Hall in Riverdale Park, Md.

ā€œI want to make space for Black and queer food business. Thereā€™s not many queer people of color in this space, and I want to help open those doors,ā€ he says.

Before he went oven-to-oven against Bobby Flay and started sending his cupcakes across the country, Queeman grew up in Harlem, with a grandmother who gave him space to pursue his passion. Heā€™d watch Oprah ā€“ whom he counts as a role model ā€“ with an aunt who would bake sweet potato cakes for neighbors during the holidays.

ā€œLike many Black families, food always brings us together and food is what my family was known best for.ā€ He says.

He also credits his success to high school friends in Harlem, people who ā€œallowed me to shove my experimental baked goods in their faces.ā€

Yet pursuing his career was not without its challenges.

ā€œAt that time, men, especially Black men, showed hyper-masculinity to be respected and not walked over by our white counterparts,ā€ he says. ā€œMy queerness was concealed as much as possible because being ā€˜gayā€™ at that time in my community was frowned upon.ā€ He turned to spaces like watching cooking shows, following chefs like Kwame Onwuachi and Carla Hall, and taking part in the New York ballroom community.

Queeman left New York, armed with a culinary arts degree, for the D.C. area in 2010 to help open a bakery in McLean, Va., and then later worked the opening of Crumbs Bake Shop. Queeman settled in Prince Georgeā€™s County in Maryland, finding home in the African-American communities there.

Kareem Queeman (Photo courtesy of Queeman)

Queeman is the founder and owner ā€“ and brand ambassador ā€“ of Mr. Bake Sweets, which has both an online presence and a brick-and-mortar spot at the Le Fantome. He started Mr. Bake Sweets in 2008 as a catering company, workshop, and wholesale bakery, only recently moving into a physical space.

Mr. Bake Sweets was one of the first vendors at Le Fantome in 2021. Cupcakes in flavors like red velvet and ā€œcookies n cookie,ā€ doughnuts, brownies, and banana pudding topped with Nilla wafers (a recipe borrowed from one of his aunts) fly out the door.

Soon after Queeman kicked off his bakery, he also expanded his footprint into multimedia, starting a YouTube show, Baking With Mr. Bake.

To continue honing his craft, and challenging himself, Queeman decided to apply for a spot on a baking competition. He made it onto Discovery Familyā€™s ā€œBake it Like Buddyā€ in 2018, coming home with the win. Yet having just lost his mother, he almost didnā€™t move forward with filming.

ā€œFrom this experience, I noticed the lack of representation of queer chefs of color in the mainstream food industry. And I started on my path of creating space for my community. I knew that it wasnā€™t going to be easy to break into the food TV industry, so I did what I knew best: hustled.ā€

(Photo courtesy of Kareem Queeman)

From there, he stepped up to Food Network, where he appeared on a Girls Scout Cookie championship in 2020, followed by Beat Bobby Flay, (ā€œhe gave me the BIGGEST praise for being on the showā€)

ā€œWhen I applied for Netflix I made sure my team member was Black and queer. I wanted kids to see someone who looks like them baking and being authentic.ā€

Yet being a competitor didnā€™t take the cake. Queeman, wanting to truly showcase representation on TV, appeared as a judge on Food Networkā€™s ā€œBuddy vs. Duff.ā€

Today, heā€™s one of the subjects of Food Networkā€™s ā€œBake it Til You Make It.ā€ There, he doesnā€™t hold back: he uses gay and Black vernacular, purpose-driven in showcasing his identity.

Back at home, Queeman spends time mentoring young gay and Black bakers, teaching classes, and participating in the community. He also notes that half of Mr. Bake Sweetsā€™ employees are queer. He recently launched a dinner series to bring the queer community together through food and curated conversation.

Beyond the food hall, Mr. Bake Sweetsā€™ products can be found in several area restaurants and cafes like Georgia Brownā€™s, 600 T, and Hereā€™s the Scoop ice cream shop.

ā€œCreating visible space for queer chefs of color in mainstream media within the food industry is important. I want us to walk into rooms taking up space of being our full selves.ā€

Kareem Queeman (Photo courtesy of Queeman)
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Margaret Cho returns to music with ‘Lucky Gift’

Collection of pop tunes includes tribute to non-binary people

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Margaret Cho is back with a new album, ā€˜Lucky Gift.ā€™ (Photo by Sergio Garcia)

LOS ANGELES ā€” It has been eight years since Margaret Cho released her Grammy-nominated ā€œAmerican Mythā€ album. Sheā€™s back to the music scene with her new album, ā€œLucky Gift,ā€ an 11-track collection of anthems and pop tunes, a tribute to Robin Williams, and a shout-out to non-binary and gender non-conforming people.

The album captures the whirlwind that is Margaret and all of the different facets of her talents that have made her a powerhouse in entertainment and a leader in activism. In ā€œLucky Gift,ā€ sheā€™s getting her point across while having fun and getting glam. 

We caught up with the activist and artist to chat about her music, our political climate, and the power of pop divas.

Known for her comedy, acting, and activism, she felt it was long overdue to get her music back out there too.

“I make music often. It’s a part of my daily life, it’s a big part of my social life, and it’s just something that I just love to do for my own relaxation and fun. I had enough for an album and I wanted to finally put them out. I was just really proud of how it all sounded together,” shares Cho. 

“It’s a power pop record. For me, the songs are really meaningful. They’re all in their own way love songs. I’m a big fan of my own music (laughs), I really like the way that I sound and it’s really special to do. People know me as a comedian, and I have also made music for a long time, but it’s sort of a side project, and so it was time to put more out again.”

Her album also includes a touching tribute to Robin Williams. The entertainment community is finally more comfortable talking about mental health more openly. When relating mental health to her own life, Margaret, in true Margaret form, quickly turned the conversation to reflect todayā€™s political climate.

“I have to maintain a level of peace and quiet and sometimes maybe get away from the news, although that’s tough because I am obsessed. I want to know what is happening. I’m really worried for our community, especially the trans community.  I’m worried that this administration is trying to separate T and the Q from the LGBTQIA, and it’s really frightening.”

As an elder, Cho says she has to also remember that we’ve been through this before and it’s actually been much worse. As a community, we’ve been through a similar situation, and we were facing down a pandemic, which was killing us by the millions. So at least now we don’t have to fight AIDS as well as this onslaught of homophobia.

“We have fought for our rights, and we still have them, but we may not have them for long. So our mental health is very important to preserve now because we have to fight. The one thing to remember is they can’t do everything at once. They can’t take away trans rights, queer rights, gay rights, gay marriage, anti-depressants ā€”ha ā€” at the same time. So what we can do is just try to remain as calm as possible and fight as strongly as we can. But yeah, mental health is really vitally important right now.”

Margaretā€™s long history of queer activism stands for itself. She does not shy away from current issues, she uses her platforms to incite, educate, and question. For Margaret, there is no time off from being an activist. She was born into it, so to speak, being raised in San Francisco in the 1970s, her parents ā€” the owners of a gay bookstore ā€” and their employees followers of Harvey Milk.

“My activism is that I don’t have a choice. I’m going to be an activist no matter what. We’re doing this together, we’re going through this together. I will always be political. It’s just disheartening to see the ignorance of people and the lies that are being told that are believed.”

Margaretā€™s ā€œLucky Giftā€ comes at a perfect time when the queer community can come together over music. Cho looks at her album as a tool to empower an underdog community through the power of music.

It’s the triumph of pop above all. We need to look to our pop divas above all. So now I’m more than ever, leaning on Madonna. [Thank God for Lady Gagaā€™s] ā€œAbracadabraā€ because I think that things like that boost our community so much. When you can just get together and have a ā€œbrat summer,ā€ that boosts our community so much in this togetherness, this explosion of excitement. I think Chappell Roan really ignited the pop capacity for healing. I love ā€˜Lucky Giftā€™ because it is my stepping into a pop diva moment. Pop divas should not be discounted for how important they are to our society and how much they lift us up.”

In addition to releasing her new album, Cho will continue to hit the road this year with her ā€œLive and LIVID! Tour,ā€ celebrating more than four decades of live stand-up shows. On this tour, she promises to rage about homophobia, sexism, racism, and the fight to stay alive. The five-time Grammy and Emmy-nominated performer is not holding back. According to her, the nation is not divided, just a little lost.

ā€œWe’re not divided. Everybody hates this. We all hate this. The fact is, the majority of the country does not want this. Unfortunately, a lot of people just didn’t vote because they just didn’t want to participate. Thatā€™s why we’re in the situation that we’re in. So to be on the road is a pleasure. And I rarely come against opposition. Every once in a while there’s something, but it’s something that we all handle. I think we all need a voice, a strong voice of reason to combat all of the hysteria.ā€

And her message to her fans?

ā€œWe’ll get through this. We’ll get through this with pop divas. ā€˜Abracadabra,ā€™ learn the choreography, you do it sitting down. At least we have pop music, I have my hat in the ring here. But at least we have each other and we’re going to be OK. It’s going to be a ride, it’s going to be intense, but we can do this. We’ve been through this before and we are going to be fine.ā€

ā€œLucky Giftā€is now available on all major streaming platforms.

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Meet the people giving a voice to LGBTQ truck drivers

ā€˜Like therapy,ā€™ finding solace in each other and the road

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Rickey Coffey-Loy (left) drives with his partner of 17 years, Bobby Coffey-Loy, for a company called Luna Lines.

Before embarking on his weekly 2,000-mile trip as a truck driver, Derric Schmid sets up his smart TV and preps meals in bulk like ham and potatoes.

To some, long hours on the road away from family and friends sounds grueling. But for Schmid, itā€™s his way of life.

ā€œI love the freedom,ā€ Schmid said. ā€œI get paid to go see the country. I’ve spent New Year’s Eve in New Orleans, I’ve spent it in St. Louis and this year I spent Christmas out in California exploring.ā€

Schmid is the vice president and senior diversity officer of LGBTQ+ Truck Driver Network (TDN), a nonprofit he runs with founder Bobby Coffey-Loy. TDN aims to foster inclusivity and safety in the truck driving industry by building a supportive network of allies and queer truckers.

The organization vets companies (Schmid says he calls 50-100 per week) to understand which are committed to creating safe spaces for drivers of all backgrounds. Schmid and Coffey-Loy also host the Big Gay Trucker Podcast, where they interview people who need advice or want to discuss taboo topics.

Coffey-Loy said meeting people from different walks of life, including trans people recovering from surgeries while on the road, inspired him to create TDN.

ā€œIt just opened me up to a whole group of people that just needed representation,ā€ Coffey-Loy said. ā€œThere are groups out there on [social media] pages, but nobody actually took it as far as a nonprofit organization.ā€

Coffey-Loy drives with his partner of 17 years, Ricky, for a company called Luna Lines. Together they drive about 6,000 miles a week, taking turns sleeping or keeping one another company. On Monday, they typically start a load in Jacksonville and then drive to New Mexico, Chicago, Baltimore, Tennessee and end up back home in Palm Coast, Fla., by Friday. They even pay for all their gas and food while on the road.

Doing a weekly cross-country road trip in tight quarters with your partner can be trying, and Coffey-Loy will be the first to admit that: ā€œYour partner is someone that knows how to push your buttons faster than anybody else,ā€ he laughed.

But he also said starting truck driving together eight years ago is what made him and his husband closer. Before driving, he said it felt like life and jobs sometimes got in the way of their relationship. Going to trucking school together and being able to support each other on the road over the years has sparked a different kind of connection in their lives.

ā€œWe didn’t want to be apart from each other, so that’s what made trucking work for us,ā€ he said.

For both Schmid and Coffey-Loy, truck driving runs in the family. Schmid, whoā€™s been driving trucks for almost 24 years and with TDN for more than two, calls Jonestown, Pa., home ā€“ā€“ a borough with a 2023 population of 1,645. He had three uncles and a grandfather who were truck drivers.

Coffey-Loy, born and raised in West Virginia, said his father and grandfather were truck drivers. 

Continuing family tradition is respectable enough, but Coffey-Loyā€™s mission of creating a safe and supportive space for those in the industry was unique; it was difficult for his parents to accept his identity when he first came out.

Coffey-Loyā€™s parents passed away 11 months apart last year. He said they learned to grow to love him for who he was. When TDN started up, they became ā€œmom and dad to everyone,ā€ and even invited people with no familial structure to move in with them.

At get-togethers, his dad called everyone ā€œsweetieā€ or ā€œhoneyā€ to be respectful since he didnā€™t know how everyone identified. 

ā€œWhat they’ve taught me is, if they can change their mind and they can accept everybody, anybody can,ā€ Coffey-Loy said. ā€œI will cherish it forever. I miss them every day.ā€

And the impact of this lesson has been tried and true. TDN attended the Mid-America Trucking Show despite receiving death threats and facing extra security measures ā€“ā€“ yet they ran through dozens of handouts before their station even opened. Another year, they handed out condoms to promote safe sex on the road and were met with backlash ā€“ā€“ yet they went through a whole box on the first day.

The team behind TDN may be small ā€“ā€“ about eight people ā€“ā€“ but Schmid said their reach is wide. Thousands of people visit their social media pages from around the world and connect with each other, including a vocal German bus driver and a man from Africa trying to create more queer visibility in his area.

Coffey-Loy said many people contact him directly for support. There was a straight man who called who had trouble balancing his home life and truck driving hours and expressed suicidal thoughts. The man said he saw Coffey-Loyā€™s number and needed someone to talk to.

Moments like those are why Coffey-Loy emphasizes that the organization is there to support everyone, not solely the LGBTQ community. He recalled a bonfire gathering where people of different backgrounds and identities laughed and talked as friends. 

ā€œIt’s why you do what you do,ā€ Coffey-Loy said.

Although TDN has given many people a family away from home, it doesnā€™t make losing time with family and friends any easier. Coffey-Loy missed a family memberā€™s funeral in West Virginia because he was in New Mexico and couldnā€™t abandon his load.

ā€œHe had already been buried before I could get back,ā€ he said.

Itā€™s a different way of life, but itā€™s not an impossible one. Schmid calls his mom and stepfather every morning and his mom again in the evenings. He gets on group calls with friends and TDN members. On weekends, Schmid sees some friends in person for dinners, and is able to visit with his family. 

Truck driving may mean frequently saying goodbye to close people in his life, but it also opens the door to new connections around the country: ā€œI got friends in every state,ā€ Schmid said.

Although heā€™s constantly traveling, Coffey-Loy always feels at home. Itā€™s those nights driving, with nothing but the roaring hum of the road filling the silence while his husband sleeps behind him, that fulfill him.

ā€œEven though you miss so much of your everyday life, there’s something about trucking that is so freeing,ā€ Coffey-Loy said. ā€œThe road can be so loud in your life, and it has a way to really sort out things. It’s like therapy for me.ā€ 

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SaldaƱa triumphs amid ā€˜Emilia PĆ©rezā€™ collapse at Oscars

Karla SofĆ­a GascĆ³nĀ loses top award to Mikey Madison after scandal

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Zoe SaldaƱa, who won the Oscar for Best Supporting Actress,Ā andĀ Karla SofĆ­a GascĆ³nĀ in ā€˜Emilia PĆ©rez.ā€™ (Photo courtesy of Netflix)

Itā€™s no wonder the camera caught actress Michele Yeoh crying after watching queer singer Cynthia Erivo (nominated for best actress) and Ariana Grande (nominated for best supporting actress) perform one of the much-loved songs from ā€œWicked,ā€ as they were simply magnificent. 

Grande opened with Judy Garlandā€™s  ā€œSomewhere Over the Rainbow,ā€ and Erivo sang ā€œHomeā€ from ā€œThe Wiz.ā€ That was one of the many bright spots in the 97th annual Academy Awards, which took place Sunday night at the Dolby Theatre in Hollywood.

While the duo sadly didnā€™t take away any awards, the magical film did ā€” gay costume designer Paul Tazewell won the Oscar for Best Costume Design.

ā€œThis is absolutely astounding,ā€ Tazewell enthused onstage, in his acceptance speech. ā€œThank you Academy for this very significant honor. I’m the first Black man to receive a costume design award for my work on ā€˜Wicked.ā€™ I’m so proud of this.ā€ 

In the pressroom, Tazewell elaborated on his well deserved win.

ā€œThis is the pinnacle of my career. I’ve been designing costumes for over 35 years,ā€ he said. ā€œMuch has been on Broadway and now into film, and the whole way through there was never a Black male designer that I saw that I could follow, that I could see as inspiration. And to realize that that’s actually me, it becomes a ā€˜Wizard of Ozā€™ moment, you know, it’s like no place like home. So to come back to the inspiration being inside of me was ā€” is really remarkable.ā€

Tazewell said he achieved the award with the help of a lot of really amazing and talented costume artisans of all types and an amazing staff and assistants and crew.

ā€œBecause, you know, there’s no way for me to do it alone! And that also is my greatest joy ā€” to be collaborating with other very talented artists, so I respect what that artistry is, and I share this with them because I value what their input is.ā€

The veteran costume designer knew the movie was going to be pretty spectacular, but he was ā€œabsolutely blown away,ā€ because of their approach. 

ā€œWe were working on two films at the same time. It wasn’t until I actually saw a pretty complete cut that I actually experienced the journey that we have created for audiences. And so, to experience that ā€“I was beside myself. And it defined why I do costume design, why I am a costume designer.ā€

ā€œWickedā€ also won the Oscar for Best Production Design.

ā€œEmilia PĆ©rez,ā€ Netflixā€™s mesmerizing Spanish language, trans crime musical, had a whopping 13 nominations, with first-time nominee Karla Sofia GascĆ³n making history as the first trans woman to be nominated for best actress. This would have been the most nominated foreign film in the history of the Academy Awards.

Unfortunately, after the controversy surrounding her past tweets, the film only won two awards: for best supporting actress (Zoe Saldana) and best original song (ā€œEl Malā€).

While the U.S. is in an era of anti-trans political maneuvering, Sunday nightā€™s broadcast included no mention of trans people.

In the pressroom, during an interview with ā€œEmiliaā€ composers ClĆ©ment Ducol, Camille, and director Jacques Audiard, a journalist asked if anyone wanted to address what was happening. 

Speaking in French via a translator, Audiard said, ā€œSince I didn’t win Best Film or Best Director, I didn’t have the opportunity to speak, but had I had that opportunity, I would have spoken up.ā€

SaldaƱa, who starred as Rita, a lawyer who gets enmeshed with the trans cartel leader’s transition, was thrilled to win.

ā€œI am floored by this honor. Thank you to the Academy for recognizing the quiet heroism and the power in a woman like Rita. And talking about powerful women, my fellow nominees, the love and community that you have offered me is a true gift, and I will pay it forward. Thank you so much Jacques Audiard, you are forever a beloved character in my life. Thank you for taking the interest, thank you for being so curious about these women to tell this story to my cast and my crew of ā€˜Emilia PĆ©rez.ā€™ā€

SaldaƱaā€™s nephew is trans; a few weeks ago, while winning the best supporting actress at the BAFTAs, she told journalists that she was dedicating the award to him.

ā€œIā€™m dedicating all of these awards and the film ā€˜Emilia PĆ©rezā€™ to my nephew, Eli. He is the reason ā€” they are the reason ā€” I signed up to do this film in the first place,ā€ she said. ā€œSo as the proud aunt of a trans life, I will always stand with my community of trans people.ā€

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