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Two nonprofits partner to support local LGBTQ military youth

Blue Star Families, MMAA launch ‘Safe Spaces for Belonging’ meet up

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From left; Cathy Marcello is assistant director of programs for MMAA and the mother of a trans military youth; and Angie Cherikos is a fellow at Blue Star Families. (Photo of Marcello courtesy of MMAA; photo of Cherikos courtesy of Blue Star Families)

Two of the nation’s largest nonprofits supporting military families have joined forces to provide newly relocated LGBTQ military youth and their families safe meeting spaces, fun activities and vital resources about affirming services available across the district. 

Blue Star Families, a community-based nonprofit supporting military-connected families, has partnered with the Modern Military Association of America, the nation’s largest organization serving LGBTQ military and veteran communities, to form “Safe Spaces for Belonging,” a monthly meet up for queer military youth and their families to meet local LGBTQ youth and allies while adjusting to their new environment. 

“Military life is inherently transitory,” said Cathy Marcello, assistant director of programs for MMAA and the mother of a transgender military youth. “Every time LGBTQ military youth move, they have to come out again – and they move often before graduating from high school. We want them to know they’re not alone and give them literally a space where they belong.” 

Past events, programmed for youth aged 13-19 who identify as LGBTQ or ally, have included an inaugural resource fair at MLK library, pronoun button making, rock climbing and a virtual trivia night. Events are open to all area LGBTQ-affirming youth to foster connections and help integrate queer military youth into their new communities. 

Marcello noted military moves have been particularly stressful for queer military youth over the past few years. More than 500 anti-LGBTQ bills were introduced in 2023 alone, according to the Williams Institute.

LGBTQ youth with at least one parent in the military reported significantly higher rates of mental health challenges and suicide risks than their peers, according to the Trevor Project, due to deployment separations and fears of harm for the service member, in addition to stress related to potential moves. 

“We’ve got military families in these states right now with family members who do not have equal rights under the law,” Marcello said. “The family programming that we do is in response to the emergence of these anti-LGBTQ laws.”

Military parents attending Safe Spaces events with their queer youth receive information on LGBTQ-specific resources across the district and can ask questions, such as if continuing their child’s transition care would be considered “abuse” under local laws, without risking their positions or security clearances.

“Don’t Ask Don’t Tell [the repealed LGBTQ open service ban] happened during my lifetime, and this is an outgrowth of ending that time of serving in silence,” said Julie Riggs, executive director of the Sheila and George Casey National Capital Region Chapter of Blue Star Families. She’s also the wife of a retired Navy service member and the mother of two queer teens who are former military youth. “In contrast, we’re proud of all service and proud to have queer kids.” 

While the Safe Spaces program is currently only available in D.C., Riggs said she hopes to see it expand across the country. The program falls under the Blue Star Families’ larger Campaign for Inclusion initiative. 

Under the initiative, last year Blue Star Families partnered with Howard University and The Chamberlain Project to host a panel symposium at Howard recognizing the 75th anniversary of military desegregation. 

The initiative also covers the position of Angie Cherikos, the Lockheed Martin National Capital Region DEPLOY (Diversifying and Expanding the Pipeline of Leadership) Fellow at Blue Star Families. Cherikos is a recent college graduate who describes herself as a former “military brat” who grew up in the D.C. area. While she only came into her queer awareness within the past two years, she always felt different and closely aligned herself with the LGBTQ community. 

“It can be frustrating not knowing where to go and how to integrate into the communities I identify with,” Cherikos explained. “I wanted to ease that experience for others.”

As a queer person of color, Cherikos said she wanted to ensure the Safe Spaces program reached out and connected to diverse communities. 

She pointed out the generational trauma inflicted on her age group was not just from the rise in anti-LGBTQ legislation, but also from a variety of issues impacting different groups in different ways, including the protests and national reckoning in the wake of George Floyd’s murder, rising gun violence, and the visible impacts of climate change. 

Cherikos said one way for her generation to work through this trauma was to connect and support each other when they can. 

In February, Safe Spaces is meeting up for a Valentine’s Day cookie decorating event in Arlington, where Cherikos said a goal is to open up conversations about who they’re dating or to encourage self-love in an affirming environment. A yoga and mindfulness event is scheduled for March in Georgetown. Each event helps queer military youth learn and explore the area while sharing experiences with their new friends. 

“One participant said the hardest part of his transition was not the hormones or anything like that, it was moving from D.C. to Tennessee and not seeing anyone who looked like him,” she said. “So, if you see someone who looks like they just need one friend, use opportunities like this to be that friend for them. That’s how you make an impact. That’s how you make change happen.”

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Kennedy Center renaming triggers backlash

Artists who cancel shows threatened; calls for funding boycott grow

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Richard Grenell, president of the Kennedy Center, threatened to sue a performer who canceled a holiday show. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Efforts to rename the Kennedy Center to add President Trump’s name to the D.C. arts institution continue to spark backlash.

A new petition from Qommittee , a national network of drag artists and allies led by survivors of hate crimes, calls on Kennedy Center donors to suspend funding to the center until “artistic independence is restored, and to redirect support to banned or censored artists.”

“While Trump won’t back down, the donors who contribute nearly $100 million annually to the Kennedy Center can afford to take a stand,” the petition reads. “Money talks. When donors fund censorship, they don’t just harm one institution – they tell marginalized communities their stories don’t deserve to be told.”

The petition can be found here.

Meanwhile, a decision by several prominent musicians and jazz performers to cancel their shows at the recently renamed Trump-Kennedy Center in D.C. planned for Christmas Eve and New Year’s Eve has drawn the ire of the Center’s president, Richard Grenell.

Grenell, a gay supporter of President Donald Trump who served as U.S. ambassador to Germany during Trump’s first term as president, was named Kennedy Center president last year by its board of directors that had been appointed by Trump.    

Last month the board voted to change the official name of the center from the John F. Kennedy Memorial Center For The Performing Arts to the Donald J. Trump And The John F. Kennedy Memorial Center For The Performing Arts. The revised name has been installed on the outside wall of the center’s building but is not official because any name change would require congressional action. 

According to a report by the New York Times, Grenell informed jazz musician Chuck Redd, who cancelled a 2025 Christmas Eve concert that he has hosted at the Kennedy Center for nearly 20 years in response to the name change, that Grenell planned to arrange for the center to file a lawsuit against him for the cancellation.

“Your decision to withdraw at the last moment — explicitly in response to the Center’s recent renaming, which honors President Trump’s extraordinary efforts to save this national treasure — is classic intolerance and very costly to a non-profit arts institution,” the Times quoted Grenell as saying in a letter to Redd.

“This is your official notice that we will seek $1 million in damages from you for this political stunt,” the Times quoted Grenell’s letter as saying.

A spokesperson for the Trump-Kennedy Center did not immediately respond to an inquiry from the Washington Blade asking if the center still planned to file that lawsuit and whether it planned to file suits against some of the other musicians who recently cancelled their performances following the name change. 

In a follow-up story published on Dec. 29, the New York Times reported that a prominent jazz ensemble and a New York dance company had canceled performances scheduled to take place on New Year’s Eve at the Kennedy Center.

The Times reported the jazz ensemble called The Cookers did not give a reason for the cancellation in a statement it released, but its drummer, Billy Hart, told the Times the center’s name change “evidently” played a role in the decision to cancel the performance.

Grenell released a statement on Dec. 29 calling these and other performers who cancelled their shows “far left political activists” who he said had been booked by the Kennedy Center’s previous leadership.

“Boycotting the arts to show you support the arts is a form of derangement syndrome,” the Times quoted him as saying in his statement.

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New interim D.C. police chief played lead role in security for WorldPride

Capital Pride says Jeffery Carroll had ‘good working relationship’ with organizers

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New interim D.C. Police Chief Jeffery Carroll (Screen capture via FOX 5 Washington DC/YouTube)

Jeffery Carroll, who was named by D.C. Mayor Muriel Bowser on Dec. 17 as the city’s  Interim Chief of Police, played a lead role in working with local LGBTQ community leaders in addressing public safety issues related to WorldPride 2025, which took place in D.C. last May and June

“We had a good working relationship with him, and he did his job in relation to how best the events would go around safety and security,” said Ryan Bos, executive director of Capital Pride Alliance.  

Bos said Carroll has met with Capital Pride officials in past years to address security issues related to the city’s annual Capital Pride parade and festival and has been supportive of those events.  

At the time Bowser named him Interim Chief, Carroll had been serving since 2023 as Executive Assistant Chief of Specialized Operations, overseeing the day-to-day operation of four of the department’s bureaus. He first joined the D.C. Metropolitan Police Department in 2002 and advanced to multiple leadership positions across various divisions and bureaus, according to a statement released by the mayor’s office.

“I know Chief Carroll is the right person to build on the momentum of the past two years so that we can continue driving down crime across the city,” Bowser said in a statement released on the day she announced his appointment as Interim Chief.

“He has led through some of our city’s most significant public safety challenges of the past decade, he is familiar with D.C. residents and well respected and trusted by members of the Metropolitan Police Department as well as our federal and regional public safety partners,” Bowser said.

“We have the best police department in the  nation, and I am confident that Chief Carroll will meet this moment for the department and the city,” Bowser added.

But Bowser has so far declined to say if she plans to nominate Carroll to become the permanent police chief, which requires the approval of the D.C. City Council. Bowser, who announced she is not running for re-election, will remain in office as mayor until January 2027.

Carroll is replacing outgoing Chief Pamela Smith, who announced she was resigning after two years of service as chief to spend more time with her family. She has been credited with overseeing the department at a time when violent crime and homicides declined to an eight-year low.

She has also expressed support for the LGBTQ community and joined LGBTQ officers in marching in the WorldPride parade last year.  

But Smith has also come under criticism by members of Congress, who have accused the department of manipulating crime data allegedly showing lower reported crime numbers than actually occurred. The allegations came from the Republican-controlled U.S. House Oversight Committee and the U.S. Justice Department 

Bowser has questioned the accuracy of the allegations and said she has asked the city’s Inspector General to look into the allegations.   

Meanwhile, a spokesperson for the D.C. police Office of Public Affairs did not immediately respond to a question from the Washington Blade about the status of the department’s LGBT Liaison Unit. Sources familiar with the department have said a decline in the number of officers currently working at the department, said to be at a 50-year low, has resulted in a decline in the number of officers assigned to all of the liaison units, including the LGBT unit.  

Among other things, the LGBT Liaison Unit has played a role in helping to investigate hate crimes targeting the LGBTQ community. As of early Wednesday an MPD spokesperson did not respond to a question by the Blade asking how many officers are currently assigned to the LGBT Liaison Unit.  

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Imperial Court of Washington drag group has ‘dissolved’

Board president cites declining support since pandemic

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The Imperial Court of Washington announced that it has ended its operations by dissolving its corporate status. Pictured is the Imperial Court of Washington's 2022 Gala of the Americas. (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

The Imperial Court of Washington, a D.C.-based organization of drag performers that has raised at least $250,000 or more for local LGBTQ and non-LGBTQ charitable groups since its founding in 2010, announced on Jan. 5 that it has ended its operations by dissolving its corporate status.

In a Jan. 5 statement posted on Facebook, Robert Amos, president of the group’s board of directors, said the board voted that day to formally dissolve the organization in accordance with its bylaws.

“This decision was made after careful consideration and was based on several factors, including ongoing challenges in adhering to the bylaws, maintaining compliance with 501(c)(3) requirements, continued lack of member interest and attendance, and a lack of community involvement and support as well,” Amos said in his statement.

He told the Washington Blade in a Jan. 6 telephone interview that the group was no longer in compliance with its bylaws, which require at least six board members, when the number of board members declined to just four. He noted that the lack of compliance with its bylaws also violated the requirements of its IRS status as a nonprofit, tax-exempt 501(c) (3) organization.

According to Amos, the inability to recruit additional board members came at a time when the organization was continuing to encounter a sharp drop in support from the community since the start of the COVID pandemic around 2020 and 2021.

Amos and longtime Imperial Court of Washington member and organizer Richard Legg, who uses the drag name Destiny B. Childs, said in the years since its founding, the group’s drag show fundraising events have often been attended by 150 or more people. They said the events have been held in LGBTQ bars, including Freddie’s Beach Bar in Arlington, as well as in other venues such as theaters and ballrooms.

Among the organizations receiving financial support from Imperial Court of Washington have been SMYAL, PFLAG, Whitman-Walker Health’s Walk to End HIV, Capital Pride Alliance, the DC LGBT Community Center, and the LGBTQ Fallen Heroes Fund. Other groups receiving support included Pets with Disabilities, the Epilepsy Foundation of Washington, and Grandma’s House.

The Imperial Court of Washington’s website, which was still online as of Jan. 6, says the D.C. group has been a proud member of the International Court System, which was founded in San Francisco in 1965 as a drag performance organization that evolved into a charitable fundraising operation with dozens of affiliated “Imperial Court” groups like the one in D.C.  

Amos, who uses the drag name Veronica Blake, said he has heard that Imperial Court groups in other cities including Richmond and New York City, have experienced similar drops in support and attendance in the past year or two. He said the D.C. group’s events in the latter part of 2025 attracted 12 or fewer people, a development that has prevented it from sustaining its operations financially. 

He said the membership, which helped support it financially through membership dues, has declined in recent years from close to 100 to its current membership of 21.

“There’s a lot of good we have done for the groups we supported, for the charities, and the gay community here,” Amos said. “It is just sad that we’ve had to do this, mainly because of the lack of interest and everything going on in the world and the national scene.”   

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