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Sleigh the season with our local holiday gift guide
D.C. artists and vendors have something for everyone on your list
If the Jennifer Coolidge tree covered in lights in front of The Little Gay Pub and familiar sounds of Mariah Carey’s classic “All I Want For Christmas Is You” blasting from every speaker in the city haven’t given it away, the holiday season is in full swing in Washington. Still searching for gifts that spread holiday cheer and support the local LGBTQ community? Look no further. With this gift guide you can sleigh the season with style.

For the friend who always needs to be doing something: The First Pride Was A Riot Embroidery Kit from Capital Stitch Co. This kit comes with everything you need to create a beautiful embroidery hoop worthy of display including a needle, thread, fabric, and detailed instructions. Not only will you be creating beautiful art, but you will also be supporting a local queer business. The kit is available at the Capital Stitch Co booth at the DowntownDC Holiday Market in Penn Quarter-Chinatown or on their Etsy shop. ($32)

For the luxury obsessed friend: Mini Bound Together Necklace from Automic Gold. This solid 14-karat gold necklace has two beautiful and simple circles linking together that will shine on anyone’s neck. Automic Gold is a trans-owned jewelry company whose goal is to make timeless and gender-less jewelry that everyone can enjoy. The necklace is handmade in New York City using recycled, reclaimed, and ethically sourced materials. This piece, as well as many other beautiful items that bring a queer sparkle to jewelry can be found at Automic Gold’s website. ($419)
For the friend who always has fresh flowers in their house: The DIY Pressed Flower Frame Kit from Wildry. This kit includes all you need to make a one-of-a-kind pressed flower display to hang in your home while also supporting a queer business duo. The kit includes flowers if you want them, but can be substituted for your own favorites instead. The kit is available at the Wildry booth at the DowntownDC Holiday Market, Relume in Capitol Hill, Shop Made in DC in Georgetown, or at their website. ($32)


For the friend with kids: Santa’s Sequoias 500-piece puzzle from New York Puzzle Company. This puzzle includes 500 beautiful and bright pieces that will keep you (or your kid) entertained for hours. The New York Puzzle Company has varying sizes of puzzles so if 500 isn’t quite enough (or too many), they’ve got one that will work for you. The New York Puzzle Company was highlighted as one of the LGBTQ vendors at the DowntownDC Holiday Market, where you can pick up a box today before Christmas or from their website. ($23)

For the friend building their bar: Republic Restoratives Distillery’s Stocking Stuffer Pack. Imagine looking into your stocking on Christmas morning to see a cute bottle of vodka and bourbon, locally made. Republic Restoratives Distillery is selling a stocking stuffer pack with two 100ml bottles of Washington made spirits (each bottle makes two drinks). With a choice of two Civic Vodkas, two Borough Bourbons, or one of each, this stocking stuffer gift is a great way to test out locally created spirits. RRD’s spirits are available at Batch13 liquor store or online or at Republic Restoratives Distillery’s website. ($26)

For the friend always in the kitchen: Washington, D.C. Season’s Greetings Tea Towel by Naked Decor. This incredibly detailed tea towel shows Washington’s famous monuments decorated to the nines for the season. This towel, along with all the rest of Naked Decor’s products, are designed by award-winning queer art director Supon Phornirunlit, who includes many Washington landmarks in their art, from King Kong clinging to the Washington Monument to giant octopuses taking over tour boats in the Tidal Basin. These charming tea towels add personality to any kitchen and, along with similar style artworks, can be purchased at the DowntownDC Holiday Market or at Naked Decor’s website. ($14)

For the friend always out and about: The “Colors of Washington” Travel Umbrella by Icons of D.C. In most cases, getting an umbrella can be an underwhelming gift but Icon’s of D.C. changes that perception with their “Colors of Washington” travel umbrella. The umbrella has 16 panels, each decorated with a different pantone color matching something uniquely Washington. From National Mall grass green to Chinatown Gate orange, this creative umbrella will brighten any rainy day. You can snag a colorful umbrella at the DowntownDC Holiday Market or on Icon’s of DCs website. ($26.95)

For hat lovers: Blame Daddy’s “Transform Human Rights” Hat. Washington is getting colder day by day and one way to stay warm is with a hat. Local queer-owned brand Blame Daddy has created 2024 BE LOUD collection of merchandise that spotlight important social issues within the queer community. These hats showcase the brand’s creative edge but also serve as a powerful statement advocating for the protection and recognition of transgender rights. These hats are available at Blame Daddy’s pop-up shops in various spots across the city, including Trade bar, as well as online. ($28)
For the chocolate lover: Peppermint Chocolate Truffle Tin by Tuck’s Truffles. These truffles, made with rich chocolate and crushed peppermint candy can be found at Tuck’s Truffles X The Fat Cactus pop up shop at the DowntownDC Holiday Market. The company was started by queer business owner Tucker Gaccione. Gaccione, who began selling the truffles at Christmas markets in Boston, uses a 130-year-old Dutch truffle recipe as the base of his creations. This has since grown to more than 20 different flavors, all of which make fantastic gifts that can be purchased at their DowntownDC Holiday Market booth or online at Tuck’s Truffles website. ($27)


For the book lover: HP Hardcover Book Purse by Rebound Designs. Queer artist Caitlin Phillips based out of Brookland in Northeast uses old and unwanted books to create beautiful custom handbags. While Phillips offers many purses designed with various books from The Great Gatsby to Nancy Drew, a set of Harry Potter cover clad purses seemed to grab the most attention from passersby at the DowntownDC Holiday Market. The Harry Potter purses, which Phillips has admitted feeling weary of selling due to the author’s problematic stance on transgender people, comes with a promise. For every Harry Potter product they sell, Phillips donates money to trans advocacy organizations across the country. Phillips told the Blade that they donated more than $1,000 last year to organizations that work to uplift trans children from selling Harry Potter products alone. The Book Purses are available at the DowntownDC Holiday Market or online as a custom order. ($130-$300)

For the friend who is super into Halloween: Pearl Skull Soap Dispenser by Wrong World Ceramics. While it is difficult to find Halloween decor that looks good enough to stay up year round, Chase Brown, the creator of Wrong World Ceramics in Philadelphia, has found a perfect balance between edgy and pretty. The handmade soap dispenser, which is one of many handmade ceramic pieces Brown sells with the queer run Crafts Dept Philly art collective, is covered in a pearlescent glaze that will add a pop of whimsy- or spooky, to any bathroom. The soap dispenser is available online at Wrong World’s website or the DowntownDC Holiday Market. ($88)
If you are shopping for your best friend, partner, or even yourself there is no need to travel far. Many fantastic shops owned and operated by LGBTQ people exist all over Washington so skip the corporate stores and shop local.
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Summer in D.C. brings sports, Restaurant Week, festivals, and more
Summer in D.C. just hits different. Congress is out, school is out, the sun is out, thighs are out. With the skies clearing from Canadian smoke, here are a few ways to stay entertained.
Dining
Summer restaurant week: The Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington (RAMW) is once again hosting Summer Restaurant Week, Aug. 18-24. This weeklong dining experience showcases the dynamic dining scene of the DMV, including 2026 RAMMY Award-winning favorites (the annual D.C. food awards show that took place June 29). Participating restaurants will offer three-course brunch and lunch selections for $25 or $35 per person, and three-course dinners for $40, $55 and $65 per person.
New Restaurants: A handful of new spots have opened, so the summer is a great time to check them out:
- Oribu: A new Mediterranean-Japanese restaurant in the Grand Hyatt hotel, which just underwent a remodeling effort. The sleek restaurant brings upscale charm, with dishes like Wagyu beef tartare with potato pavé and caviar.
- The Oak Room: A snazzy old-school American grill has just opened in Georgetown, alongside its sister upstairs supper club (Bernadette’s) restaurant, in the old El Centro space.
- Uchi: This showy Japanese sushi-forward chain has landed in Dupont with a chef’s tasting menu of favorites like fatty tuna.
- Kathmandu: Recalling the capital of Nepal, this warm, buzzy subterranean restaurant right in the heart of U Street brings spice, flair, and rare ingredients to its dishes (see: buffalo burgers) and drinks.
Sports
- Washington Spirit Pride Night OUT: On Sunday, Aug. 23, head to Audi Field for a massive, high-energy game following the exciting month of World Cup. The designated Pride Night OUT game promises boisterous crowds plus pre- and post-game community engagements.
- Washington Tennis Open – Now called the Mubadala DC Open, this annual tournament is only combined mens’ and womens’ 500-level tennis tournament in the world. The open is one of D.C.’s longest-standing sports traditions, and will take place at the Rock Creek Park Tennis Center July 25-Aug. 2. Naomi Osaka, Venus Williams, Ben Shelton, Frances Tiafoe, and others are expected to play.
Festivals
- Afro Plus Fest: This huge, three-day Afro-Caribbean Hip-Hop Festival brings together headliners Davido, Alkaline, and Wizkid, plus Tems and Ayra Starr. The event moves from RFK to the Northwest Stadium Complex for three days, Sept. 4-6.
- Capital Fringe Festival: Running from July 11-21, this massive celebration features dozens of live theater, comedy, dance, and boundary-pushing nighttime performances across multiple DC neighborhoods.
- The National Book Festival returns, with headliners like Cynthia Erivo, and Martin Scorsese. The one-day festival, Saturday, Aug. 22, brings together bookworms and word nerds under the theme “America 250: It’s Your Story.” There are talks, workshops, musical sessions and more.
- All Things Go: A three-day festival Sept. 25-27 at Merriweather Post Pavilion featuring Mitski, Hayley Williams, Brandi Carlile, MUNA, Zara Larsson, Ethel Cain, and many, many more artists. There are single-day and three-day tickets. Featuring and highlighting female artists, the festival has turned into a must-see for many LGBTQ audience members.
- Fuchsia Fest: The inaugural Fuchsia Fest is a new multi-day celebration created to celebrate LGBTQ community and expression, bringing together a mix of community gatherings, entertainment, and nightlife. The event takes place Sept. 18-20 and is hosted by Capital Pride.
Art and Music
- United We Dance: A high-energy rave with house, techno, bass, and festival music, on Aug. 1 at the 9:30 Club.
- The Fray. On Aug. 14, this American rock band famous for How To Save A Life is at Merriweather Post Pavilion.
- Kesha: Kesha’s high-energy The Freedom Tour comes to the D.C. area on Aug. 14 at Jiffy Lube Live.
- ALOK: On Sept. 3 at Lincoln Theater, ALOK (they/them) performs. The poet, comedian, and actor is putting on a new comedy show.
- 2charm, the emerging Australian electronic club-pop duo popular with the queer community, which blends hyperpop and dance music, comes to the Atlantis.
- Sapphic Dance Party: a vibrant, inclusive nightlife and social event designed specifically for queer women, lesbians, bisexuals, trans individuals, and nonbinary folks, at Atlantis on Aug. 21.
- Jazz in the Garden: The most quintessential of D.C. activities returns Friday evenings through Aug. 14. This season’s theme, “American Sounds,” is a nod to the nation’s 250th anniversary. Tunes themes range from Appalachian and Americana to Creole jazz, Hill Country blues, contemporary jazz, and more. Tickets are available through a lottery system a week before each event.
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Tickets on sale for chef Patrick O’Connell’s book launch event
Sept. 18 kickoff to feature José Andrés, Tom Sietsema
Acclaimed chef Patrick O’Connell is preparing to publish his new memoir, “Main, Middle & Gay” in September and he’s launching the book with an event on Sept. 18 at 6 p.m. at Lisner Auditorium featuring Chef José Andrés and former Washington Post food critic Tom Sietsema.
Tickets for the event go on sale Tuesday, July 21 at Ticketmaster; prices start at $55.
O’Connell, who’s gay, is the pioneering Michelin-starred chef and longtime proprietor of the Inn at Little Washington. He spoke with the Blade about the September event and the launch of his first memoir.
“I’ve known [Andrés and Sietsema] for more than 25 years and I have great respect for them,” O’Connell said. “I felt that it would allow us to add a different dimension rather than just have an interviewer. The chemistry will be fun and lively and unpredictable and exciting. I think we’re all different personalities and we’ll compliment each other.”
O’Connell has published cookbooks but this is his first memoir. The event will feature a short film that will highlight his work and the Inn.
“What I hope to do with the event is bring the book to life visually,” he said. “So we’re producing a short film that will be part of it. Most of the audience will not have read the book so it’ll give them a visual flavor of the book. It parallels the evolution of American cuisine over 50 years. It’s a rare perspective to be in the trenches for that long.”
The book’s title refers to the location of the garage on the corner of Main, Middle, and Gay streets in Washington, Va., where he launched his restaurant that became an international culinary destination.
The Blade will publish the rest of its wide-ranging interview with O’Connell in September in conjunction with the book’s release.
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The queer Asian comics building collective joy in D.C.
Spotlighting chaotic ways family, romance, identity take shape in their lives
Kevin Chen’s family tombstone has room for four: him, his parents and his boyfriend. The arrangement might prove to be a little awkward.
“My boyfriend is 100% white, and my parents are 100% disappointed,” Chen confessed.
Jokes about family traditions and the untraditional ways they’re practiced earned a burst of laughs at the bar where Chen was opening for the Pride Comedy Special. The D.C. stand-up event, produced by Comedy Bonfyre last month, spotlighted queer Asian comics who shared the chaotic ways family, romance and identity take shape in their lives.
From candid oral sex takes to top surgery hypotheticals like “Where do the boobs go?”, the night highlighted the loud camaraderie of the queer Asian experience — one that sounds like a cacophony of snorts, cackles and belly laughs. While the comics say they are not quite a community, there’s more than enough shared material to bring them together.
“It was such a magical experience. I loved performing in a queer API lineup. It feels so validating,” Chen said after the show. “I’m wondering, ‘Is this how white men feel all the time?’”
Each performance evoked queer Asian joy through a medium that could use more of its presence.
According to Chen, who is based in D.C., it’s hard to say whether there is a true queer Asian comedy presence in his city. There are only a scattered “handful” of Asian comics, and people of color are underrepresented in queer comic circles, he said.
When Tarunika Anand, a nonbinary lesbian comic, first entered the mainstream D.C. comedy scene, they mostly encountered straight white men, describing the experience as “a culture shock.”
“I feel like sometimes a lot of queer spaces are really white, and then a lot of Asian spaces are really straight,” Anand said. “I don’t feel like I fit into either.”
But feeling marginalized didn’t stop these comics from honing their craft and creating spaces for others like them. Alex Kim, who headlined the special and is based in Brooklyn, runs the queer Asian comedy group Boba Gays, which began on WhatsApp and has since made its way to Lincoln Center.
Every Wednesday, Anand co-produces a free comedy show called Funny Side Up. The queer-led group focuses on inclusivity and showcasing new talent.
“It’s really beautiful to speak about your experience and your existence in a way that’s uplifting,” Anand said.
Family is a major throughline of their comedic repertoires.
Chen, for instance, shared that he identifies with jokes about having Asian immigrant parents and the expectations they pass down.
“You see me, you know this part about me, you know this experience intimately, and I can see the truth that you’re trying to wrap a joke around,” he said. “That hits even harder because that’s my truth too. I think that’s what makes good comedy.”
Anand had the audience at the special howling when they explained that their parents’ be-more-like-them comparisons didn’t end when they came out. Instead, the expectations took on a new form.
“Now, my parents want me to be the best gay,” Anand said. “They’re like, ‘Do you know Ellen DeGeneres?’”
Kim said he’s been trying to unlearn things from his Christian Korean mom. Yet he described a moment when he was getting ready for the club and realized he looked just like his mother getting ready for church.
“I’ve been finding it hard to escape her,” Kim said.
Mutual recognition also radiates through the different ways queer love can take shape. From singlehood to death-do-us-part commitments, the comics cover just about every corner.
Anand is holding out hope for settling down with “a nice, pretty, Indian girl.” They recently went through a breakup and said they felt they dodged a bullet.
“As a person of color, I just don’t think I should be with a Swiftie,” they said.
Chen, touching on what it’s like to be in a queer interracial relationship, said that meeting his white boyfriend’s baby nephew for the first time felt like he was forced to participate in a diversity, equity and inclusion training.
“The dad was like, ‘Please welcome Kevin. Be curious about his culture, his history, his foods,’” Chen joked.
Laughter is not the only reward for the comics.
To Anand, comedy is a space where they can say whatever they want. “It gives me a voice,” they said.
Nik Narain, a North Carolina-based trans and nonbinary South Asian comic who performed at the special, said meeting older trans comedians and taking the stage helped him feel reassured in his identity during his transition.
“Stand-up was a really cool way to process that onstage,” he said. “[It] became a way for me to repackage my thoughts.”
Queer Asians are still figuring out their place in the greater D.C. comedy scene. The group is small in numbers and many are still working toward a full-time comedy career. But Narain feels he’s already made it.
Narain is reluctant to pin it all on one moment. He feels that success is already peeking through in milestones — opening for celebrities, traveling to performances and self-producing shows.
“As long as I can keep doing this, I’m super happy,” he said.
This story was produced as part of the AAJA VOICES fellowship program, a student journalism project of the Asian American Journalists Association (AAJA).
