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San Antonio makes great gay winter escape spot

Tex Mex food, biodiversity and thriving nightlife among features

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The Alamo is a must-see attraction in San Antonio. (Photo by Bill Malcolm)

San Antonio makes for a perfect winter get away. Temperatures stay mild, the historic city offers plenty to do complete with a great LGBTQ nightlife scene with all the bars except one located close together on Main Street. The historic city is a mix of Mexican, German, Spanish and native cultures and of course features the River Walk.

Getting there: I paid just $200 on Southwest Airlines round trip to SAT (the airport code for the city airport). Once there, catch the VIA no. 5 bus Yto downtown for just $1.30. You can take VIA all around the city and they have two cultural buses to all the attractions. An all-day pass is just $2.75. Plan your trip at viainfo.net

Where to stay: I stayed at the Grand Hyatt one night and the Marriott River Center the other four. Both were great. Bargain hunters will want to stay at the LaQuinta or TRU by Hilton. All are near the famous RiverWalk area downtown.

What to do: Make your first stop to the Alamo, site of the famous battle against Mexico which resulted in the creation of the Republic of Texas. The building was constructed in 1724.

Walk north on the RiverWalk to the Art Museum which is located in an old Brewery. The Museum is open until 8 p.m. on Fridays. 

Take the 11B VIA bus to the Botanical Gardens which features three different areas of Texas botany. The region is unusual as plants from the east meet plants from the Southwest. They also have endemic species unique to the limestone-covered Hill Country. Palms, oaks, cacti, pines and Mexican species make for an interesting biogeography.

Take the VIA 11A bus to The Witte Museum to learn about Texas culture, history and biogeography. The museum is free and open until 8 p.m. on Tuesday. Learn about the regions of the state and its colorful history. Donā€™t mess with Texas. It still has an independent streak.

Donā€™t miss the Pearl District just north of downtown. The former brewery has interesting shops and restaurants.

The food everywhere is excellent and features great Tex Mex and Mexican as well as German. 

The San Antonio Gayborhood may be found on Main Street just north of downtown. Make your fist stop Pegasus Bar (1402 Main St.) which features great drink specials and a friendly crowd. Fierce Fridays features $2 wells and $2 beers. Try the Shiner Bock or Lone Star beer.

Nearby is Heat, a dance bar at 1500 N. Main. 

You can pick up new clothes or leather gear at Ouch Apparel and Hard Core Leather. Knockout Pizza is good for a bite. 

Across the street on Main is Lutherā€™s CafĆ© and Bar which features Wigstock Karaoke on Fridays. 

Dance the night away at the Bonham Exchange. The two-story building is located in an old German meeting hall. The mixed crowd allows minors and can be found at 411 Bonham downtown. On Saturdays, they have strippers plus a great dance area on two floors. They were having a Studio 54 birthday party the night I was there.

Travel tips: Out in San Antonio is its LGBTQ publication (outinsa.com) and has bar ads to help you plan your visit. The Current is the cityā€™s weekly paper, which also has great ideas. 

Visitsanantonio.com is your one stop shop for information on all the attractions and upcoming events. Thanks to Eva Alvallotis for the help.

San Antonio makes for a great winter get away and is a big city with a small town feel without the attitude of Austin or the big city hassles of Dallas and Houston. Plus a great gay scene

Bill Malcolm is an Indianapolis-based traveler whose syndicated LGBTQ value travel column appears in publications around the country. He does this as a hobby.

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Film festival to highlight Polish trans womanā€™s story

‘Kobieta Z’ screening at Landmark E Street Cinema

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A scene from "Kobieta Z." (Screen capture via YouTube)

The Washington Polish Film Festival will screen ā€œKobieta Zā€ (English translation: ā€œWoman Ofā€) on Saturday, May 11 at 8:45 p.m. at Landmark E Street Cinema, Theatre 6.

Having premiered at the Venice Film Festival, this Polish film breaks new ground. Starring Malgorzata Krzysztofik-Hajewska and Joanna Kulig, the movie is a sensitive and intelligent story of gender identity in a cruel world that cannot accept it and the personal love that ultimately does. 

Tickets to the festival start at $20 and can be purchased on Eventbrite.Ā 

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Calendar: May 10-16

LGBTQ events in the days to come

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Friday, May 10

Center Aging Friday Tea Time will be at 2 p.m. on Zoom. This is a social hour for older LGBTQ+ adults! Guests are encouraged to bring a beverage of choice. For more information, email [email protected].Ā 

Go Gay DC will host ā€œLGBTQ+ Social in the Cityā€ at 7 p.m. at Hotel Zena. Attendance is free and more details are available on Eventbrite.

Women in their Twenties and Thirties will be at 8 p.m. on Zoom. This is a social discussion group for queer women in the Washington, D.C. area. For more details, join WiTTā€™s closed Facebook group.

Saturday, May 11

Go Gay DC will host ā€œLGBTQ+ Brunchā€ at 11 a.m. at Freddieā€™s Beach Bar & Restaurant. Attendance is free and more details are available on Eventbrite.

SMYAL will host ā€œPride Prom DMVā€ at 6 p.m. at a location thatā€™s shared after attendees purchase a ticket. With a vibrant atmosphere, diverse music, and a supportive communityā€” Pride Prom DMV is not just a celebration; it’s a declaration of identity and resilience. Through laughter, dance, and shared experiences, attendees create lasting memories and forge bonds that extend beyond the dance floor. Tickets are free and can be accessed on Eventbrite.Ā 

Sunday, May 12

Go Gay DC will host ā€œLGBTQ+ Happy Hourā€ at 6 p.m. at Clare and Donā€™s Beach Shack. Attendance is free and more details are available on Eventbrite.

AfroCode DC will be at 4 p.m. at Decades DC. This event will be an experience of non-stop music, dancing, and good vibes and a crossover of genres and a fusion of cultures. Tickets cost $40 and can be purchased on Eventbrite.Ā 

Monday, May 13

Center Aging: Monday Coffee & Conversation will be at 10 a.m. on Zoom. This is a social hour for older LGBTQ+ adults. Guests are encouraged to bring a beverage of their choice. For more details, email [email protected].Ā 

ā€œTRANSEND: Transgender & Nonbinary Support Groupā€ will be at 4 p.m. at the Pride Center of Maryland. This event will be a safe space to discuss hot topics, education and incentives while enjoying food. This event is free and more details are available on Eventbrite.Ā 

Tuesday, May 14

Pride on the Patio Events will host ā€œLGBTQ Social Mixerā€ at 5:30 p.m. at Showroom. Dress is casual, fancy, or comfortable. Guests are encouraged to bring their most authentic self to chat, laugh, and get a little crazy. Admission is free and more details are on Eventbrite.

Trans Support Group will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This group is intended to provide emotionally and physically safe space for trans people and those who may be questioning their gender identity/expression to join together in community and learn from one another. For more details, email [email protected].Ā 

Coming Out Discussion Group will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This is a peer-facilitated discussion group and a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. For more details, visit the groupā€™s Facebook page.Ā 

Wednesday, May 15

Job Club will be at 6 p.m. on Zoom. This is a weekly job support program to help job entrants and seekers, including the long-term unemployed, improve self-confidence, motivation, resilience and productivity for effective job searches and networking ā€” allowing participants to move away from being merely ā€œapplicantsā€ toward being ā€œcandidates.ā€ For more information, email [email protected] or visit thedccenter.org/careers.

Thursday, May 16

Virtual Yoga with Charles M. will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This is a free weekly class focusing on yoga, breath work, and meditation. For more details, visit the DC Center for the LGBT Communityā€™s website.

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Deliciously queer ā€˜Dead Boy Detectivesā€™ a case worth taking on

A light-hearted, smart, and complex sensibility behind the fantasy

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The cast of ā€˜Dead Boy Detectives.ā€™ (Photo courtesy of Netflix)

Believe it or not, there was once a time when the Hollywood entertainment industry didnā€™t take comic books very seriously ā€” but then, neither did anyone else.

In the early days, comics were dismissed by most adults as childish fantasy; indeed, those with a penchant for clutching pearls saw them as a threat to their childrenā€™s intellectual development and therefore to the future of America itself. Their popularity could not be denied, however, and Hollywood, ever eager to capitalize on a trend, was certainly hungry to get a piece of the action.

The problem was that the studio lackeys assigned to adapt the comics for the screen during those ā€œgolden yearsā€ were never actually fans of the comics themselves. The result was a parade of kitschy ā€“ if occasionally stylish ā€“ low-budget serials, kiddie matinees, and ā€œB moviesā€ which operated, for the most part, at the level of cartoons, and mindless ones at that. Even in the 1960s, when comics like ā€œX-Menā€ had begun exploring mature themes and turning the comic book into a counterculture phenomenon, the best that Hollywood ā€“ now deploying the then-relatively new medium of television ā€“ was a ā€œBatmanā€ series that felt even campier than the corny serials of three decades before.

Yet despite being treated as a throwaway genre with no cultural significance or intellectual value, the popularity never went away ā€“ and with the generation that grew up with comics now old enough to be working in Hollywood themselves, a new burst of creativity began to infuse the screenā€™s version of the genre with the kind of nuance and sophistication that fans had always known was there. Fast forward to 2024, when comics-based content dominates not just our movie screens ā€“ nobody needs to be told about the way it has shaped (some would say crippled) the mainstream film industry for the last decade or so ā€“ but all our other screens, as well. And while much of the material that has resulted from this obsessive fascination with comics (and comics-adjacent material like ā€œStar Warsā€ and other similar fantasy franchises) often suffers from the same safe ā€œappeal to the LCDā€ mentality that robbed the vintage stuff of its potential, the artistry of creators who are fans themselves has also resulted in a lot of genuinely good storytelling.

In the latter category, we offer up ā€œDead Boy Detectivesā€ ā€“ a new series derived from a supplemental thread in renowned comics creator-turned-bestselling author Neil Gaimanā€™s groundbreaking ā€œSandmanā€, which debuted last week on Netflix  ā€“ as a counter to the increasingly popular notion that comic books have hamstrung the industryā€™s creativity.

Based on characters and storylines that emerged during the original run of Gaimanā€™s iconic book (published by DC Comics via its Vertigo imprint), itā€™s a fresh, funny-yet-emotionally engaging supernatural saga in which two ghosts who died in their youth ā€“ the titular ā€œDead Boysā€ ā€“ operate a detective agency in London, solving mysteries for other spirits who need closure before moving on to the afterlife.

The boys ā€“ Edwin (George Rexstrew) and Charles (Jayden Revri) ā€“ are not themselves quite ready to depart the earthly plane, however; on the contrary, they operate on the lam, making sure to keep one step ahead of Death (Kirby Howell-Baptiste, reprising her role from Netflixā€™s acclaimed ā€œSandmanā€ adaptation) so that she canā€™t drag them out of it before theyā€™re ready. Something of a mismatched pair (both died at the same English boarding school, but 60 years apart), they nevertheless have established a fondness for each other and a dynamic together that makes them an excellent team in solving the supernatural crimes they encounter in their work. Their biggest handicap is the difficulty of dealing with the living ā€“ who, for the most part, cannot see or hear them – when it becomes necessary in an investigation. Fortunately for them (and for the story, of course), they find a solution to that issue during episode one.

Enlisted by the ghost of a Victorian child to rescue the human medium – Crystal Palace (Kassius Nelson), possessed by a former boyfriend who was actually a demon (David Iacono) ā€“ that has been trying to help her ā€œcross overā€, the detectives find themselves with a living ally who can not only interact with them, but also with the ā€œrealā€ world in which they do their work. With CrystalĀ  on the team, they are soon called to an American seaport town to investigate the disappearance of a child – who, it turns out, has been abducted by a witch (Jenn Lyon) intent on draining her youthful essence in pursuit of her own immortal beauty. We donā€™t want to give anything away, but during the course of the case they not only incur her wrath, they set off alarm bells on the ā€œother sideā€, calling attention to the fact that two AWOL souls are still lingering in the human world.

Things get worse for them in the second episode, when Edwin attracts the interest of the local ā€œCat Kingā€ (Lukas Gage, ā€œWhite Lotus,ā€ ā€œDown Lowā€) and subsequently finds himself cursed to remain until he has ā€œcounted all the catsā€ in town ā€“ a daunting and maybe impossible task. 

Though jumping into the second installment might feel like getting ahead of ourselves, itā€™s important to look ahead for the sake of exploring the showā€™s deliciously pervasive queerness, so forgive the spoiler-ish leap; because it is Edwin, who died in an era long before being openly attracted to other boys could even be discussed, let alone accepted, that serves to root the storyā€™s tension into a real-life context that helps all the supernatural nonsense connect with relatable real-world experience and emotion. Uncomfortable more than a century after his death with the secrets of his own sexuality, he finds himself hampered by his jealousy of the obvious growing attraction between his literal BFF and the new girl psychic who has joined their team – as well as vulnerable to manipulation from both the witch who has it in for him and the Cat King whoā€¦ well, letā€™s just say that Edwin’s cat-counting curse could be easily lifted if he would only accept another way to appease the libidinous (and far from unappealing) feline monarch.

Itā€™s best we stop there, before we reveal too much; the series ā€“ developed by Steve Yockey and produced by (among others) original author Gaiman and out queer TV impresario Greg Berlanti ā€“ sets up its story arc very plainly from the beginning, so savvy viewers will read the subtext long before any definitive events take place, but much of what makes it fun is watching how it all unfolds.

Suffice to say that, with engaging performances from all its players, a light-hearted, smart, and complex sensibility behind all of its fantasy elements, and a palpably queer vibe that leaves plenty of room for allies to jump on board, too, itā€™s one of the more worthwhile (and meaningful) ā€œcomic bookā€ stories to hit our screens in a long while.

Maybe more importantly, itā€™s also entertaining, which makes it easy for us to recommend ā€œDead Boy Detectivesā€ as a case youā€™ll definitely want to accept.

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