Real Estate
The best places for LGBTQ Americans to retire abroad
Lisbon, Barcelona, Puerto Vallarta, and others offer many benefits
For many in the LGBTQ community, retirement is about more than just slowing down—it’s an opportunity to enjoy life in places that are welcoming, inclusive, and supportive. While the United States has numerous LGBTQ-friendly cities, many retirees are looking beyond U.S. borders for new adventures, affordable living, and vibrant LGBTQ communities. Whether it’s a charming European village, a lively Latin American city, or a tropical paradise, there are excellent options that combine lifestyle, affordability, and acceptance.
At GayRealEstate.com, we’ve spent more than 30 years connecting LGBTQ buyers and sellers with trusted agents who understand their unique needs. Below are some of the top retirement destinations outside the U.S. where LGBTQ+ individuals can thrive.
1. Lisbon, Portugal
Portugal has become one of the most progressive and LGBTQ-inclusive countries in Europe. Lisbon, its capital, offers a warm climate, affordable living compared to other Western European capitals, and excellent healthcare.
- Why it’s great: Same-sex marriage has been legal since 2010, and LGBTQ rights are strongly protected. Lisbon also boasts a lively gay nightlife, charming neighborhoods like Bairro Alto, and easy access to coastal getaways.
- Real estate tip: Portugal’s “Golden Visa” and Non-Habitual Residency program offer tax advantages, making homeownership attractive for international retirees.
2. Barcelona, Spain
Spain is consistently ranked among the most LGBTQ-friendly countries in the world, and Barcelona is its shining star.
- Why it’s great: Barcelona combines Mediterranean living with a thriving LGBTQ+ culture. Sitges, a nearby seaside town, is one of Europe’s most famous gay-friendly resort destinations.
- Real estate tip: Property values in central Barcelona can be high, but surrounding neighborhoods and coastal towns offer more affordable options. An LGBTQ-friendly Realtor can help retirees navigate the Spanish property market confidently.
3. Puerto Vallarta, Mexico
Puerto Vallarta has long been a safe haven for LGBTQ travelers and is now a top retirement destination.
- Why it’s great: With year-round sunshine, affordable healthcare, and a strong LGBTQ community, Puerto Vallarta offers a welcoming environment. The Zona Romántica neighborhood is particularly popular with LGBTQ residents.
- Real estate tip: Mexico allows foreigners to own property through a bank trust (fideicomiso). Working with an LGBTQ knowledgeable agent ensures buyers understand the legal process and avoid pitfalls.
4. San Miguel de Allende, Mexico
Beyond the beaches, San Miguel de Allende offers colonial charm, cultural richness, and a large expat community.
- Why it’s great: Recognized as a UNESCO World Heritage site, this city has thriving art, food, and LGBTQ+ scenes. Many U.S. retirees have relocated here for its affordability and inclusivity.
- Real estate tip: Smaller cities in Mexico often provide more bang for your buck in real estate, making them appealing for LGBTQ retirees on a fixed income.
5. Amsterdam, The Netherlands
Amsterdam has been a pioneer in LGBTQ rights for decades and remains one of the most accepting cities in the world.
- Why it’s great: The Netherlands was the first country to legalize same-sex marriage in 2001. Amsterdam’s canals, museums, and vibrant neighborhoods create an ideal mix of culture and inclusivity.
- Real estate tip: The housing market in Amsterdam can be competitive. LGBTQ retirees should work with experienced agents who understand expat needs and local regulations.
6. Toronto, Canada
Though geographically close to the U.S., Canada offers a distinct cultural and legal environment.
- Why it’s great: Toronto has one of the largest LGBTQ communities in North America. It is home to “The Village,” a neighborhood centered around Church and Wellesley Streets. Canada’s healthcare system is another strong draw for retirees.
- Real estate tip: While Toronto’s real estate market is competitive, surrounding cities such as Hamilton or Guelph provide more affordable options with easy access to Toronto’s LGBTQ scene.
7. Costa Rica
Costa Rica is quickly becoming an LGBTQ retirement haven, especially in areas like Manuel Antonio and San José.
- Why it’s great: In 2020, Costa Rica became the first Central American country to legalize same-sex marriage. Known for its natural beauty, stability, and friendly locals, it’s a dream destination for many retirees.
- Real estate tip: Foreigners enjoy the same property rights as locals. However, retirees should consider working with an LGBTQ-friendly Realtor who understands the nuances of Costa Rican property laws.
Tips for LGBTQ+ Retirees Considering International Real Estate
- Research Local Laws and Protections
Even in LGBTQ-friendly countries, local laws vary. Understanding anti-discrimination protections and inheritance laws is critical. - Work with LGBTQ-friendly Realtors
An agent who understands your unique needs ensures you find both the right home and the right community. GayRealEstate.com has a trusted network worldwide to help LGBTQ buyers and sellers. - Understand Healthcare Options
Access to affordable, quality healthcare is a major consideration. Many LGBTQ retirees find that countries like Portugal, Spain, and Mexico offer excellent healthcare at a fraction of U.S. costs. - Community Matters
Retirement should feel like a new beginning, not isolation. Look for cities with established LGBTQ neighborhoods, resources, and events to ensure you feel connected.
Retiring abroad can be a fulfilling way to embrace new cultures, experiences, and lifestyles. For LGBTQ individuals, it’s essential to choose destinations that are not only beautiful but also affirming and inclusive. From Portugal’s sunny coastlines to Mexico’s vibrant cities and Costa Rica’s natural wonders, opportunities abound.
No matter where you decide to retire, GayRealEstate.com is here to guide you every step of the way, connecting you with trusted LGBTQ-friendly real estate agents worldwide. For more than 30 years, we’ve helped LGBTQ home buyers and sellers find safe, supportive, and affirming places to call home.
Scott Helms is president and owner of Gayrealestate.com.
Real Estate
Stress-free lease renewals during winter months
A season when very few tenants typically move
January has a way of waking everyone up. After weeks of holiday noise, travel, family visits, and a general blur of activity, the new year arrives with its usual mix of resolutions, optimism, and responsibility. People start looking at their calendars again. To-do lists reappear. And tucked away in there is something many tenants didn’t give much thought to in December, their lease renewal.
Renewals in winter matter more than most people realize. It is a season when very few tenants typically move. The weather is unpredictable, schedules are tight, and most people are trying to regain their footing after the holidays. Because of this, renewal conversations tend to be more productive and more grounded.
Many landlords think of spring and summer as the heart of leasing season, and while that’s certainly when moves are most common, winter renewals hold their own kind of importance. A well-timed renewal does more than keep a unit occupied. It provides predictability for the year ahead, strengthens relationships, and reduces the costly turnover that smaller landlords want to avoid.
In my experience, tenants who might hesitate during another time of year are often relieved to secure housing before the pressures of spring and summer begin. Uncertainty is one of the prime causes of unnecessary turnover. If tenants don’t hear from their landlord, they often start browsing listings “just in case,” or asking friends about other options. Once that door is opened, it can be hard to close. Initiating the renewal process early helps anchor tenants before doubts start creeping in.
Tenants often make clearer decisions in January than they would in November or December. During the holidays, people are distracted and stretched thin; emails are skimmed, not absorbed; and anything involving planning often gets deferred until “after the new year.” When tenants return home in January, they have a better sense of their plans, their budget, and their needs for the coming months. This makes it a much easier moment to start or restart a renewal conversation.
The practical reality is that most tenants don’t want to move in the winter. Who wants to haul furniture across icy sidewalks or deal with last-minute moving delays due to storms? Beyond the weather, January is a time when people are reorganizing finances, filing paperwork, and settling into routines. The thought of a major transition simply doesn’t fit. Landlords can use this natural reluctance to create a smoother, more collaborative renewal process.
One thing I’ve learned over the years is that clarity is a landlord’s best tool. Tenants don’t need lengthy explanations, legal jargon, or complicated attachments. They simply want to know:
- Are the terms changing?
- If so, how?
- What does their timeline look like?
- Would the landlord consider another set of terms?
A concise, well-laid-out renewal offer does two things. First, it demonstrates transparency, which builds trust. Second, it keeps the conversation focused and productive. When tenants understand exactly what’s being proposed, there is less back-and-forth, fewer misunderstandings, and a quicker path to a signed agreement.
Tenants are more receptive when they feel they’re being treated fairly and openly. If there’s a rent adjustment, a brief explanation helps tenants see the reasoning behind it, such as increased operating costs, significant maintenance completed during their stay or alignment with the market.
Lease renewals are moments of connection. The best landlord-tenant relationships are built over time through small exchanges, transparency, and mutual respect. Renewal season offers an opportunity to reinforce that.
A simple acknowledgement of the tenant’s care for the home or their timely payments can set a positive tone. Even a short note of appreciation signals that you see them not as a lease term, but as a partner in maintaining the property. These gestures cost very little but create a sense of goodwill that carries through maintenance requests, policy reminders, and everyday communication.
Many landlords underestimate how much tenants value being treated as individuals rather than account numbers. A thoughtful, personal touch during the renewal process can make a tenant feel recognizednand more inclined to stay.
Renewals aren’t only about securing another term lease.They’re also a natural moment to check in on the overall health of the property and the tenant’s experience. J anuary provides a quiet space to step back and ask:
• Are there maintenance concerns the tenant hasn’t mentioned yet or that have not been fully resolved?
• Is the property due for upgrades or any preventative work?
• Are there responsibilities or expectations worth revisiting?
These conversations don’t need to be long or formal, but they help prevent the small issues of one year from becoming the larger problems of the next. A tenant who feels heard is more likely to take good care of the home, communicate proactively, and renew again in future years.
While landlords must maintain structure and protect their assets, a bit of flexibility can go a long way during the renewal process. Tenants are often rebalancing budgets after holiday spending. Offering digital signatures, Having brief calls to clarify terms, being flexible, or a few extra days to make a decision can ease stress without compromising the landlord’s position.
Flexibility is about recognizing human realities. Most tenants appreciate being treated with patience and professionalism, and often reward that consideration with prompt decisions and smoother communication. There are many reasons why a full year renewal may not coincide with their plans. Being able to work out mutually agreeable renewal terms makes the solution a win for both parties.
For landlords, especially smaller ones, stability is the foundation of successful property investing. A vacant unit, even briefly, costs more than most people realize. There are marketing expenses, cleaning, repairs, lost rent, and the unpredictable timeline of finding the right new tenant. By contrast, securing a renewal with an existing reliable tenant protects cash flow, reduces risk, and creates predictability in planning.
January renewals, when handled well, deliver this stability right at the beginning of the year. They give landlords a clear roadmap for budgeting, maintenance scheduling, and forecasting. They also give tenants the security of knowing exactly where they stand, which reduces stress on both sides.
A lease renewal may seem like a small moment in the life of a property, but in practice, it shapes the experience of the year ahead. When the process is organized, honest, and respectful, it sets a tone that carries through every interaction until the next renewal date.
January is a time to consider leaning into this approach. The pace is slower, the mindset is clearer, and both landlord and tenant are ready to step into the year with more intention. A renewal handled thoughtfully now paves the way for a smoother, quieter, more predictable twelve months, something every landlord and every tenant can appreciate.
Scott Bloom is owner and senior property manager at Columbia Property Management.
Real Estate
Child- and pet-proofing your home for the holidays
It isn’t about being perfect but about being prepared
The holidays are meant to be joyful, cozy, and full of laughter — but if you have young children or pets, they can also feel a little chaotic. Twinkling lights, shiny decorations, guests coming and going, and tables full of tempting food can turn your home into a wonderland of curiosity and mischief. The good news? With a little thoughtful planning, you can keep the holiday magic alive while making your home safer for everyone who lives there.
There’s something oddly comforting about movies where animals go to war with holiday decorations, turning carefully strung lights and perfectly placed ornaments into chaos. Whether it’s a mischievous dog tangled in tinsel or a curious cat launching a full-scale assault on a Christmas tree, these scenes tap into a universal experience for pet owners.
The humor comes from the contrast: the human characters are trying to create warmth, tradition, and picture-perfect cheer, while the animals see the decorations as toys, obstacles, or personal enemies. The resulting destruction — trees tipping over, ornaments shattering, lights blinking out—feels exaggerated but relatable, especially during the already hectic holiday season.
Let’s start with decorations because they tend to be the biggest attraction. Ornaments sparkle, garlands dangle, and everything seems designed to be touched, pulled, or tasted. If you have little ones or pets, consider placing your most fragile ornaments higher on the tree and using shatterproof options on the lower branches. Tinsel and ribbon may look festive, but they can be dangerous if swallowed, so skipping them or keeping them well out of reach is a simple way to reduce risk without sacrificing style.
Holiday lights are another favorite fascination. Before hanging them, take a few minutes to inspect each strand for frayed wires or broken bulbs. Secure cords along walls or behind furniture so they’re harder to grab or chew and unplug them when you leave the house or head to bed. Not only does this help prevent accidents, but it also gives you one less thing to worry about during a busy season.
The Christmas tree itself can become a focal point for exploration. Make sure it’s sturdy and well-anchored so it doesn’t tip if a toddler tugs on a branch or a pet decides to investigate. If you use a real tree, cover the water base since tree water can contain additives that aren’t safe if consumed. For artificial trees, keep an eye out for loose pieces or needles that could become choking hazards.
Food is a big part of holiday celebrations, and it’s also one of the most common sources of trouble. Many traditional treats—like chocolate, grapes, raisins, alcohol, and foods containing xylitol—are dangerous for pets. Keep plates and serving dishes up high, secure the trash can, and gently remind guests not to slip pets or kids “just a little bite” without checking first. For children, be mindful of hard candies, nuts, and small treats that could pose choking risks.
Candles and fireplaces add warmth and charm, but they deserve extra caution. Flameless candles are a wonderful alternative if you want ambiance without worry. If you do use real candles, place them well out of reach and never leave them unattended. Fireplaces should always have a sturdy screen or gate, especially with crawling babies or curious pets nearby.
Holiday gatherings bring wonderful energy into your home, but they can also create new challenges. Doors opening frequently make it easier for pets to slip outside, so consider setting up a quiet, comfortable space where they can relax during busy get-togethers. This can help reduce stress for them and give you peace of mind. For children, stair gates, locked cabinets, and clear boundaries can help prevent accidents when there’s extra excitement in the air.
New toys and gifts are another thing to watch closely. Packaging, twist ties, plastic wrap, and especially button batteries should be cleaned up promptly. These items are easy to overlook in the excitement of gift-opening but can be dangerous if swallowed. Taking a few minutes to tidy up as you go can make a big difference.
Lastly, try to keep routines as steady as possible. The holidays naturally disrupt schedules, but familiar mealtimes, naps, walks, and bedtime rituals help children and pets feel secure. A calmer household often means fewer accidents and a happier experience for everyone.
At the end of the day, child- and pet-proofing your home for the holidays isn’t about being perfect but about being prepared. A few small adjustments can help you relax, enjoy your guests, and focus on what truly matters: creating warm, happy memories with the ones you love. When your home feels safe, the holidays feel even sweeter.
Valerie M. Blake is a licensed Associate Broker in D.C., Maryland, and Virginia with RLAH @properties. Call or text her at 202-246-8602, email her at [email protected] or follow her on Facebook at TheRealst8ofAffairs.
Real Estate
In real estate, trust the process
With rates coming down, we could see spring surge in buyers
The average 30-year mortgage rate is falling, little by slowly. With predictions that the rate will continue to adjust downward in the next year or two, there may be a busier spring market than we have seen in the last few year, especially for the DMV market, which has been reeling from thousands of layoffs this past year. The frenzied activity resulting from interest rates close to 3% for some borrowers will probably not occur; however, this spring could add up to be a few notches busier than the last.
What does this mean for buyers and sellers? Lender Tina Del Casale with Waterstone Mortgage says she has seen “low to mid 6’s as the average for conventional loans.” If rates continue downward into the 5% range, there may be more activity than we saw in the last year or two. This could release a little bit of pent up demand.
Many buyers will have found that for whatever reason, their current home is not meeting their needs. Sellers may want to finally take the plunge and put a for sale sign in the yard and online, now that they might find a more reasonable rate on their next home. This winter can be an opportunity to assess financial situations, home conditions, and optimize one’s chances to have a sale with more agreeable terms, or put one’s best foot forward in an offer. In addition to checking with a lender or favorite handy person, let’s review what sellers and buyers typically spend their energy negotiating while enjoying the lovely process called “going under contract”:
- Timelines – Sellers might want to have their house solidly under contract (papers signed, thumbs up from the lenders, all inspection items decided upon and settled) so that they can put an offer down on a new home, and then negotiate that timeline with the other sellers. Remember, making a move is not only about the buyer taking possession of a new home, but also about the sellers figuring out their situation as well.
- Sale Price – unfortunately for buyers, in the eyes of most sellers, “money talks.” So, in a non-competitive situation, a seller might be happy to just get one offer at a price that was within the desired range. As soon as another interested buyer enters the equation, it can become a little bit like RuPaul’s Drag Race, and one will have to lip sync for one’s life, honey! And only one buyer will get to hear the words, “condragulations!”
- Tone/Vibes/Energy in the Room – Remember: Human beings are emotional creatures. All of us have feelings. And all of us want to put energy into situations where we feel appreciated, where a level of self-awareness exists, and a sense that each side is trying one’s hardest to act in good faith. The best transactions I saw were where a little grace was the “grease on the wheels” of the transaction. Occasionally, a buyer had cold feet and wanted to see the unit a few more times before the settlement date, or a seller forgot to scrub the bathroom with a little extra elbow grease before the settlement date. Life happens; misunderstandings can occur. A wise therapist once said: “You don’t have to like it, but can you allow it?” The tone of one or both parties in the transaction can be what seals the deal, or results in one party exiting the contract. (In the case of the dirty bathroom, the seller left a check with the title company for the buyer to pay a housekeeper to come clean what they couldn’t.)
Joseph Hudson is a referral agent with Metro Referrals. He can be reached at 703-587-0597 or [email protected].
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