Obama is an ally but he has one outstanding promise to keep
In ruling, judge writes 'legal uncertainties and lost rights' require state to recognize unions
Att'y gen'l apologizes for putting them 'through this pain'
Two of three judges seem inclined to strike down gay ban
Lower suicide rates for children supported by parents
Kaplan wants to represent three same-sex couples in pending litigation
D.C. attorney general reviewing issue
Attorney General Doug Gansler issued opinion in response to HRC letter
Holder says unions 'will be recognized as lawful and considered eligible for all relevant federal benefits'