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QUEERY: Noelle Al-Jumaili

The wedding specialist for the Westin Georgetown answers 20 gay questions

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Noelle Al-Jumaili (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

When Noelle Al-Jumaili initially meets with same-sex couples planning a wedding at the Westin Georgetown (2350 M St., N.W.) who have little sense of what they want, she has simple advice.

ā€œI just say start simple and just imagine it as a party ā€” what would your perfect party look like?,ā€ the 25-year-old Falls Church, Va., native says. ā€œThere are no rules other than that so it just becomes, how can we make that happen? You donā€™t need a wedding. Think of it as a celebration of the two of you.ā€

The Westin staff is reaching out to same-sex couples. Of the roughly 20-30 weddings it hosts per year, Al-Jumaili says about 30 percent currently are same-sex. They hope to make it more like 50 percent soon. She says the companyā€™s ethos of sustainability, oneness and health appeal to her and says words like ā€œeco-friendlyā€ and ā€œuniqueā€ are big.

She says part of the fun of working with same-sex couples is helping them achieve visions that are sometimes outside traditional wedding vendor, heteronormative fare.

ā€œThe gay couples that come in, they usually end up leading me to my favorite new vendors,ā€ she says. ā€œThey do often ask for fun, unique things Iā€™ve never even heard of. Itā€™s never really difficult to find the right vendor, itā€™s just finding the right brand. Thereā€™s always somebody out there who can make a black cake, or dove-shaped invitations or whatever ā€” youā€™d be surprised what people ask for.ā€

Al-Jumailiā€™s own journey took unexpected turns. Though she identifies as both queer and bisexual, she married a man, Phil James, last June (he identifies similarly, she says). And yes, she says she had concerns about getting swallowed up ā€” even by perception ā€” in the hetero world.

ā€œI never thought I would get married at all,ā€ she says. ā€œBut we didnā€™t do things very traditional ā€¦ and I think everyone at our wedding understood where we were coming from. (Conforming) can easily happen, but I have very successfully maintained a nice, eclectic lifestyle. We just combined forces to keep the adventure going, really.ā€

They live in the Shaw/Bloomingdale area. She enjoys makeup tutorials, junk fiction, tattoo sketching and culinary studies in her free time. She can be reached atĀ [email protected].

 

Noelle Al-Jumaili, gay news, Washington Blade

Noelle Al-Jumaili (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?Ā 

Iā€™ve dated women since my senior year of high school. The real test came when I came out as bisexual to my first serious girlfriend. That can be a difficult pill to swallow, even in the queer world.

 

Who’s your LGBT hero?Ā 

I will always admire RuPaul for starting the mainstream dialogue in a fun, exciting, relatable way. And you gotta love those wisdoms: ā€œWhen the going gets tough, the tough reinvent!ā€

 

What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?Ā 

Well, Town Danceboutique has a vodka/Red Bull slushy machine soā€¦

 

Describe your dream wedding.Ā 

My dream wedding came to life on a perfectĀ SundayĀ in June last year, at the base of the Jefferson Memorial.

 

What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?Ā 

Coming from a place of cultural diversity, I would hope that as we move forward, opening our minds and hearts to appreciate how fluid sexuality and identity can be, we also trace where pre-conceived notions are born and embrace understanding for all different lifestyles.

 

What historical outcome would you change?Ā 

Maybe Iā€™d go back to the drafting of the Constitution and throw in a few key phrases like ā€œfreedom of orientation and lifestyleā€ or ā€œequal rights for women.ā€

 

What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?Ā 

I must confess, ā€œSex & the Cityā€ was it for me. A wide-eyed dreamer, I started to understand all the ways women could thrive (however unrealistic the details may have been). Nonetheless, I decided immediately that Iā€™d have my own flat in the city, a towering closet of Manolos, and a hundred loverā€™s tales to tell. Close enough!

 

On what do you insist?Ā 

Authenticity. Attitude. Glamour.

 

What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?Ā 

A photo of the most gorgeous wooden chuppah in our ballroom, dressed with hanging candle votives and white hydrangeas. Swoon!

 

If your life were a book, what would the title be?Ā 

ā€œRunning in Heelsā€

 

If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?

Lobby for Rihanna and Katy Perry to become the next power couple.

 

What do you believe in beyond the physical world?Ā 

Harmony always finds a way.

 

What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?

For just a moment, all eyes are on you ā€” be unforgettable.

 

What would you walk across hot coals for?Ā 

An ice cold, extra dirty martini.

 

What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?

We all eventually pick a label from some pre-approved drop down list.

 

What’s your favorite LGBT movie?Ā 

Iā€™m a big David Lynch fan so I loved ā€œMullholland Drive,ā€ however, ā€œBut Iā€™m A Cheerleaderā€ will always have a place in my bubblegum heart.

 

What’s the most overrated social custom?Ā 

Flatware

 

What trophy or prize do you most covet?Ā 

There arenā€™t a lot of awards in the Wedding Pro world but my passion really comes from creating the most heartfelt masterpiece out of a clientā€™s vision. Every day I strive to win their beaming smiles.

 

What do you wish you’d known at 18?Ā 

We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.

 

Why Washington?Ā 

I grew up around here and always dreamed of moving to a ā€œreal cityā€ but eventually started to see that D.C. has hope. Every day we become a more innovative, edgy town. Iā€™m so proud!

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ā€˜RuPaulā€™s Drag Race: All Starsā€™ cast visits D.C.

8 queens vie for $200,000 prize for charity in new season, premiering May 17

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The cast of the latest ā€˜RuPaulā€™s Drag Race All Starsā€™ season sashayed on the National Mall to promote the reality show's ninth season on Monday. (Photo by Tasos Katopodis/Getty Images for MTV; used with permission)

Donning sparkling and star-studded red, white, and blue attire on a gloomy, humid D.C. Monday, the cast of the latest ā€œRuPaulā€™s Drag Race All Starsā€ season sashayed on the National Mall to promote the reality show’s ninth season.  

This upcoming season is different than those in the past ā€” eight queens are competing for a donation of $200,000 for the charity of their choosing, rather than a personal cash prize. 

Several cast members noted how it felt important to visit the nationā€™s capital, being authentically themselves and wearing drag. Nina West, who competed in season 11, likened drag to armor. 

ā€œWeā€™re here during a really specific time in history, that’s, I would say, markedly dark,ā€ she told the Blade at the steps of the Lincoln Memorial. ā€œAnd there’s an opportunity, as drag has always done, which is for our community as specifically LGBTQI+ people, to stand in our truth and be wonderful ā€” like guardians and fighters for our community.ā€ 

Sheā€™s competing for the Trevor Project, which is focused on suicide prevention and crisis intervention for young LGBTQ people. This seasonā€™s pivot to compete for charity made Nina West want to come back on the show for the All Stars season. Sheā€™s been offered the spot two times before this, she said, and this twist aligned with what she wanted to do. 

Several of the other queens mentioned that itā€™s an honor to be featured in this season, including season 5ā€™s Roxxxy Andrews. She also competed in two subsequent All-Stars seasons. 

She chose the organization Miracle of Love, which provides HIV/AIDS prevention programming and assistance in central Florida. Itā€™s a smaller, more local organization, which is why Roxxxy Andrews chose it. She wants to make its work more nationally known. Also, vying to win during a charity season makes the competition feel more rewarding, she said. 

Plastique Tiara of season 11 also noted itā€™s different competing for charity. Sheā€™s competing for the Asian American Foundation, which launched in 2021 in response to the rise in anti-Asian hate and aims to curb discrimination and violence through education and investments in nonprofits. 

ā€œIt’s more competitive because then you’re fighting not just only for yourself, but your ideas and the things that you love,ā€ she said. 

Vanessa Vanjie of seasons 10 and 11 agreed that competing for charity adds a bit more pressure ā€” she chose the ASPCA. And as onlookers near the Lincoln Memorial took pictures of and with the queens, she said she was relieved.Ā 

ā€œI was a little bit worried somebody would yell some slurs at us,ā€ Vanessa Vanjie said. ā€œNothing happened. Everybody came to take pictures like Santa Claus in the middle of the mall.ā€

Thereā€™s a range of contestants from different seasons for this round of All Stars. Some queens hail from recent seasons, but Shannel competed on the showā€™s first season. To be a part of this new season is surreal, she said. 

Sheā€™s competing for the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, which she has a close tie to. Sheā€™s dealt with anxiety her entire life. The association is focused on increasing awareness and improving diagnosis and treatment. 

ā€œI always felt like I just wasn’t normal, sadly,ā€ she said. ā€œAnd so now being able to be able to do this season and to get back to that organization is like amazing to me.ā€

Gottmik, from season 13, is competing for Trans Lifeline ā€” a nonprofit providing advocacy, a hotline and grants created by trans people, for trans people. Being able to do drag and give back is the ā€œperfect scenario,ā€ Gottmik said. 

Gottmik was the first openly trans man on Drag Race, which was overwhelming when first on the show. Gottmik felt pressure to be the ā€œperfect example,ā€ but later realized that they didnā€™t have to worry so much. 

ā€œI just want to show people that trans people are real people. We can express ourselves however we want to express ourselves, through drag, through whatever it may be,ā€ Gottmik said. 

The new season will be available to stream on Paramount+ on May 17.Ā 

The cast of RuPaul’s Drag Race pose with White House Press Secretary Karine Jean-Pierre at The Little Gay Pub on Monday. (Photo by Tasos Katopodis/Getty Images for MTV; used with permission)
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Pride season has begun

LGBTQ parades, festivals to be held throughout region in coming months

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A scene from last Sundayā€™s Pride festival in Roanoke, Va. (Blade photo by Michael Key)

LGBTQ Pride festivals, parades and other events have been scheduled in large cities and small towns throughout the region. Pride events around the world culminate in June, but organizers in some municipalities have elected to hold celebrations in other months.

Pride in the region has already begun with last weekendā€™s Mr., Miss, and Mx. Capital Pride Pageant held at Penn Social as well as Roanoke Pride Festival held in Elmwood Park in Roanoke, Va.

Below is a list of Pride events coming to the region.

MAY

Capital Trans Pride is scheduled for 9:30 a.m.-5 p.m. on Saturday, May 18 at the Martin Luther King, Jr. Memorial Library (901 G St., N.W.). The website for the event advertises workshops, panel discussions, a keynote address, a resource fair and more.  transpridewashingtondc.org

Equality Prince William Pride is scheduled for 12-4 p.m. on May 18 at the Harris Pavilion (9201 Center St.) in historic downtown Manassas, Va. equalityprincewilliam.org

D.C. Black Pride holds events throughout the city May 24-27. Highlights include an opening reception, dance parties and a community festival at Fort Dupont Park. The Westin Washington, DC Downtown (999 9th St., N.W.) is the host hotel, with several events scheduled there. dcblackpride.org

NOVA Pride and Safe Space NOVA will hold NOVA Pride Prom from 7-11 p.m. on May 31 at Torpedo Factory Art Center in Alexandria, Va. The event is open to all high school students throughout the region, regardless of identity, from rising ninth grade students to graduating seniors. novapride.org

Capital Pride Honors will be held on May 31. The Capital Pride Alliance has announced on its website that nominations are open for awardees. The Honors celebrates excellence in the LGBTQ community and its allies. capitalpride.org

JUNE

Downtown Sykesville Connection is sponsoring Sykesville Pride Day in downtown Sykesville, Md. on June 1 from 12-4 p.m. downtownsykesville.com

Reston Pride will be held at Lake Anne Plaza in Reston, Va. on June 1 from 12-6 p.m. restonpride.org

Fairfax Pride, hosted by the City of Fairfax and George Mason University, will be held at Old Town Hall (3999 University Drive, Fairfax, Va.) on June 1 from 5-7 p.m. The event will include childrenā€™s activities and more. fairfaxva.gov

OEC Pride celebrates Pride with ā€œart, dance, education, and funā€ in Old Ellicott City.  The OEC Pride Festival is held along Main Street in Ellicott City, Md. on June 1 from 10 a.m.-10 p.m. visitoldellicottcity.com

Annapolis Pride has consistently drawn a giant crowd for a parade and festival in the quaint downtown of the Maryland capital. ā€œThe Voiceā€ star L. Rodgers has been announced to headline the 2024 festival. The parade and festival will be held on June 1. annapolispride.org

The Alexandria LGBTQ+ Task Force Alexandria Pride is scheduled to be held at Alexandria City Hall from 3 – 6 p.m. on June 1 in Alexandria, Va. alexandriava.gov

The Portsmouth Pride Fest will be held at Festival Park adjacent to the Atlantic-Union Bank Pavilion in Portsmouth, Va. on June 1 from 11 a.m.-5 p.m. portsmouthprideva.com

The Delaware Pride Festival is a free event scheduled for June 1 at Legislative Hall in Dover, Del. from 10 a.m.-5 p.m.The event is billed as family friendly and open to people of all ages and sexual orientations. delawarepride.org

The City of Rockville is hosting Rockville Pride at Rockville Town Square (131 Gibbs St., Rockville, Md.) from 2-5 p.m. on June 2. The free event features live performances, information booths, and childrenā€™s activities. rockvillemd.gov

Equality Loudoun is hosting the ticketed Loudoun Pride Festival from 1-7 p.m. on June 2 at Claude Moore Park in Sterling, Va. The event features three stages, a ā€œ#Dragstravaganza,ā€ a kidā€™s zone, an alcohol pavilion, a food hall and more. Tickets $5. eqloco.com

Culpepper Pride is slated to be held at Mountain Run Winery in Culpepper, Va. from 12-6 p.m. on June 2. The theme this year is ā€œTrue Colors.ā€ culpeperpride.org

The Southwest Virginia Pride Cookout Community Social is planned for 2 p.m. at the Charles R. Hill Senior Center in Vinton, Va. on June 2. For more information, visit the Facebook event page.

Capital Pride kicks off with the RIOT! Opening Party at Echostage starting at 9 p.m. on June 7. Tickets run from $27-$50 and can be purchased on the Capital Pride website. The event is set to feature Sapphire CristƔl. capitalpride.org

Pride events continue over the weekend of June 8-9 in the nationā€™s capital with the Capital Pride Block Party featuring performers and a beverage garden, the massive Capital Pride Parade, Flashback: A totally Radical Tea Dance to be held at the end of the parade route, and the Capital Pride Festival and Concert. Visit capitalpride.org for more information. Other Pride events planned for the weekend in D.C. include a number of parties and the unforgettable (and free) Pride on the Pier & Fireworks Show at the Wharf sponsored by the Washington Blade from 2-10 p.m. prideonthepierdc.com

Pride in the ā€˜Peake will be held at Summit Pointe (580 Belaire Ave.) in Chesapeake, Va. on June 9 from 12-5 p.m. The family-focused Pride event does not serve alcohol, but will feature community organizations, food trucks and more in a street festival. For more information, visit the Facebook event page.

Celebrate with a drag show, dancing and a lot of wine at Two Twisted Posts Winery in Purcellville, Va. for a Pride Party from 2-5 p.m. on June 15. twotwistedposts.com

Baltimore Pride holds one of the largest Pride parades in the region on June 15 in Baltimore. (2418 Saint Paul St.). The parade concludes with a block party and festival. Pride events are scheduled from June 14-16. baltimorepride.org

The fourth annual Catonsville Pride Fest will be held at the Catonsville Presbyterian Church (1400 Frederick Rd.) in Catonsville, Md. on June 15 from 3-6 p.m. The event features a High Heel Race, pony rides, face painting, local cuisine and more. For more information, visit the Facebook event page.

The Ghent Business District Palace Shops have announced a Ghent Pride event from 5:30-9:30 p.m. on June 17 at the Palace Shops and Station (301 W 21st Street) in Norfolk, Va. ghentnorfolk.org

An event dedicated to celebrating the elders in the LGBTQ community, Silver Pride is scheduled for June 20 at 5:30-8:30 p.m. Location and more information to be announced soon. capitalpride.org

Visit the Hampton Roads PrideFest and Boat Parade for a truly unique Pride experience along the Elizabeth River. The full day of entertainment, education and celebration will be held on June 22 from 12-7 p.m. at Town Point Park (113 Waterside Dr.) in Norfolk, Va. hamptonroadspride.org

Frederick, Md. will hold its annual Frederick Pride Festival at Carroll Creek Linear Park on June 22 from 11 a.m.-6 p.m. Entertainers include CoCo Montrese of ā€œRuPaulā€™s Drag Race.ā€ frederickpride.org

The fourth annual Pride at the Beach is scheduled for 2-10 p.m. on June 23 at Neptuneā€™s Park (3001 Atlantic Ave.) in Virginia Beach, Va. The event features entertainment, community vendors, beachside DJ sets, food trucks and offers a ā€œperfect conclusion to an unforgettable Pride weekend.ā€ hamptonroadspride.org

Winchester Pride will hold its Mx. Winchester Pride Pageant at 15 N. Loudoun St. in Winchester, Va. on June 23 at 6 p.m. Tickets are $20 in advance/$25 at the door. winchesterpride.com

The organizers of last year’s inaugural Ocean City Pride with a “parade” along the boardwalk in Ocean City, Md. have announced that they will be organizing a return this year with events from June 28-30. instagram.com

The third annual Arlington Pride Festival will be held at Long Bridge Park at National Landing (475 Long Bridge Dr.) in Arlington, Va. on June 29 from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. arlvapride.com

FXBG Pride is holding its annual community Fredericksburg Pride March on June 29 from 10-11 a.m. at Riverfront Park (705 Sophia St.) in Fredericksburg, Va. Speeches begin at 10 a.m. and the procession starts at 10:30 a.m. For more information, visit the Facebook event page.

Salisbury Pride ā€œ90ā€™s Editionā€ is scheduled for 3 – 7 p.m. on June 29 in Downtown Salisbury, Md. Magnolia Applebottom is listed as the headliner and grand marshal. salisburyprideparade.com

The 2024 Suffolk Pride Festival is scheduled for Bennettā€™s Creek Park in Suffolk, Va. on June 30 from 12-7 p.m. Visit the Facebook event page for more information.

Expect music, entertainment and drag performances in the picturesque mountain town of Cumberland, Md. at the Cumberland Pride Festival on June 30 from 12-4 p.m. at Canal Place. cumberlandpride.org

Montgomery County’s annual Pride in the Plaza will be held on June 30 from 12-8 p.m. at Veterans Plaza (1 Veterans Place, Silver Spring, Md. liveinyourtruth.org

JULY

The sixth annual Westminster Pride Festival is scheduled for downtown Westminster, Md. on July 13 from 12-6 p.m. westminsterpride.org

Hagerstown Hopes is holding its annual Hagerstown Pride Festival in Doubs Woods Park (1307 Maryland Ave.) in Hagerstown, Md. on July 13 at 11 a.m. Visit the Facebook event page for more information.

The Rehoboth Beach Pride Festival will be held on July 20 from 10 a.m.-2 p.m., with other Sussex Pride events scheduled throughout the weekend of July 18-21. sussexpride.org

Us Giving Us Richmond hosts Black Pride RVA in Richmond, Va. with events on July 19-21. ugrcrva.org

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Eastern Shore chef named James Beard Finalist

Harley Peet creates inventive food in an inclusive space

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Chef Harley Peet works to support the LGBTQ community inside and outside of the kitchen.

In a small Eastern Shore town filled with boutiques, galleries, and the occasional cry of waterfowl from the Chesapeake, Chef Harley Peet is most at home. In his Viennese-inflected, Maryland-sourced fine-dining destination Bas Rouge, Peet draws from his Northern Michigan upbringing, Culinary Institute of America education, and identity as a gay man, for inspiration.

And recently, Peet was named a James Beard Finalist for Best Chef: Mid-Atlantic – the first “Best Chef: Mid-Atlantic” finalist representing the Eastern Shore.

Peet, after graduation from the Culinary Institute of America, took a position as sous chef at Tilghman Island Inn, not far from Bas Rouge. Falling in love with the Eastern Shore, he continued his passion for racing sailboats, boating, gardening, and fishing, and living his somewhat pastoral life as he opened Bas Rouge in 2016 as head chef, a restaurant part of the Bluepoint Hospitality group, which runs more than a dozen concepts in and around Easton, Md.  

Coming from a rural area and being gay, Peet knew he had his work cut out for him. He was always aware that the service and hospitality industry ā€œcan be down and dirty and rough.ā€

 Now as a leader in the kitchen, he aims to ā€œset a good example, and treat people how I want to be treated. I also want to make sure if youā€™re at our establishment, Iā€™m the first to stand up and say something.ā€ 

The Bas Rouge cuisine, he says, is Contemporary European. ā€œIā€™m inspired by old-world techniques of countries like Austria, Germany, and France, but I love putting a new spin on classic dishes and finding innovative ways to incorporate the bounty of local Chesapeake ingredients.ā€

His proudest dish: the humble-yet-elevated Wiener Schnitzel. ā€œIt is authentic to what one would expect to find in Vienna, down to the Lingonberries.ā€ From his in-house bakery, Peet dries and grinds the housemade Kaiser-Semmel bread to use as the breadcrumbs.

Peet works to support the LGBTQ community inside and outside of the kitchen. ā€œI love that our Bluepoint Hospitality team has created welcoming spaces where our patrons feel comfortable dining at each of our establishments. Our staff have a genuine respect for one another and work together free of judgment.ā€ 

Representing Bluepoint, Peet has participated in events like Chefs for Equality with the Human Rights Campaign, advocating for LGBTQ rights.

At Bas Rouge, Peet brings together his passion for inclusion steeped in a sustainability ethic. He sees environmental stewardship as a way of life. Peet and his husband have lived and worked on their own organic farm for several years. Through research in Europe, he learned about international marine sourcing. Witnessing the impacts of overfishing, Peet considers his own role in promoting eco-friendly practices at Bas Rouge. To that end, he ensures responsible sourcing commitments through his purveyors, relationships that have helped create significant change in how people dine in Easton.

ā€œI have built great relationships in the community and thereā€™s nothing better than one of our long-standing purveyors stopping in with a cooler of fresh fish from the Chesapeake Bay. This goes especially for catching and plating the invasive blue catfish species, which helps control the speciesā€™ threat to the local ecosystem.

Through his kitchen exploits, Peet expressed a unique connection to another gay icon in a rural fine-dining restaurant: Patrick Oā€™Connell, of three Michelin starred Inn at Little Washington. In fact, Peetā€™s husband helped design some of Oā€™Connellā€™s kitchen spaces. Theyā€™ve both been able to navigate treacherous restaurant-industry waters, and have come out triumphant and celebrated. Of Oā€™Connell, Peet says that he ā€œsees [his restaurants] as canvas, all artistry, he sees this as every night is a show.ā€ But at the same time, his ā€œjudgment-free space makes him a role model.ā€

Being in Easton itself is not without challenges. Sourcing is a challenge, having to either fly or ship in ingredients, whereas urban restaurants have the benefit of trucking, he says. The small town ā€œis romantic and charming,ā€ but logistics are difficult ā€“ one of the reasons that Peet ensures his team is diverse, building in different viewpoints, and also ā€œmaking things a hell of a lot more fun.ā€

Reflecting on challenges and finding (and creating) space on the Eastern Shore, Peet confirmed how important it was to surround himself with people who set a good example, and ā€œif you donā€™t like the way something is going … move on.ā€

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