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Silver Spring buildings hit with anti-gay graffiti
Police seek help in finding vandal who paints ‘no gay’

The words ‘no gay’ were painted on a building multiple times in Silver Spring. (Blade photo by Lou Chibbaro Jr.)
The words “no gay” appeared more than 50 times Sunday night along the top of a four-foot-high white cement wall that stands in front of a flower bed and shrubbery surrounding an office building in downtown Silver Spring, Md.
Tony Eastridge, the property manager for the 12-story upscale building at 1010 Wayne Ave., told the Washington Blade that his maintenance staff has painted over the anti-gay graffiti at least three times over the past year, only to see it reappear shortly after it’s removed.
“There’s not a whole lot of crime here,” Eastridge said. “It’s just this kind of stuff, which is unnecessary and uncalled for but unfortunately it happens.”
He said one of the building’s security officers called Montgomery County police on Monday to report the graffiti incident. Lt. Jennifer McNeal, deputy commander for the department’s Third District, which includes Silver Spring, said police would open an investigation into the graffiti incident.
Among other things, McNeal said police would seek assistance from the public. Unless someone comes forward to help police identify the person or persons responsible for the graffiti it will be difficult for police to close the case, she said.
According to McNeal, the scrawling of the graffiti along the top of the wall surrounding the office building has been classified as a form of vandalism.
Thomas Petry, a gay Silver Spring resident who has observed the “no gay” graffiti while waiting at a bus stop for his daily commute to work in D.C., said the same person also appears to be writing the words “FBI gay, FBI gay” dozens of times near where he or she writes “no gay, no gay.”
“I have no clue what that tie in is,” Petry said. “Maybe they blame the FBI for gays.”
Petry said that over the past year or two he has observed similar graffiti appearing on a similar white decorative wall in front of an adjacent office building at 1100 Wayne Ave., which is owned by the same company as the other building, Brandywine Realty Trust.
McNeal said anyone with information that could help police identify the person responsible for the graffiti should call the police non-emergency dispatcher’s office at 301-279-8000.
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Congratulations to Yadiel Meléndez, on their new role as Community Associate, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Meléndez is piloting a new role as a Community Associate at the Wanda Alston Foundation, where they support queer and trans young people in finding their footing, building independence, and experiencing a housing community where they are seen, valued, and affirmed. They are coming into this role with more than a decade of experience as a community organizer and operations specialist, supporting diverse communities through service, advocacy, and program coordination.
Previously they worked for Right Proper Brewing Shaw as a server and bartender and at Sephora, Washington, DC, and at FreshFarm, DC, in bilingual food access. They also worked freelance to build foundational structures for local queer BIPOC performance art coalitions, producing variety shows to curate space for marginalized performance artists in the community. They were a production manager for Haus of Hart Productions, a BIPOC centric performance art production. They also worked as field staff with the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention in Stafford, Va.
Meléndez is bilingual, Spanish and English. Their work is guided by a commitment to dignity, safety, and trauma-informed engagement, particularly within LGBTQ and BIPOC communities.
Congratulations also to Ben Rosen LICSW, on his new role as program director, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Rosen previously worked with Fountain House’s OnRamps program, helping to build a new, innovative outreach program for individuals considered chronically homeless, and living with serious mental illness, in the Times Square area of New York. Rosen is a Psychotherapist, having worked with SG Psychotherapy, and as the psychotherapist with the Nest Community Health Center (URAM).
Rosen has a B.F.A. in Theatre Arts: Musical Theatre, Minor in Psychology (Cum Laude) from Malloy University Conservatory; and his M.S.W. in Clinical Practice with Individuals, Families, and Groups, from The Silberman School of Social Work, Hunter College, N.Y. He is independently licensed in New York and Washington, D.C.
Rehoboth Beach
BLUF leather social set for April 10 in Rehoboth
Attendees encouraged to wear appropriate gear
Diego’s in Rehoboth Beach hosts a monthly leather happy hour. April’s edition is scheduled for Friday, April 10, 5-7 p.m. Attendees are encouraged to wear appropriate gear. The event is billed as an official event of BLUF, the free community group for men interested in leather. After happy hour, the attendees are encouraged to reconvene at Local Bootlegging Company for dinner, which allows cigar smoking. There’s no cover charge for either event.
District of Columbia
Celebrations of life planned for Sean Bartel
Two memorial events scheduled in D.C.
Two celebrations of life are planned for Sean Christopher Bartel, 48, who was found deceased on a hiking trail in Argentina on or around March 15. Bartel began his career as a television news reporter and news anchor at stations in Louisville, Ky., and Evansville, Ind., before serving as Senior Video Producer for the D.C.-based International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers union from 2013 to 2024.
A memorial gathering is planned for Friday, April 10, 11:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. at the IBEW International Office (900 7th St., N.W.), according to a statement by the DC Gay Flag Football League, where Bartel was a longtime member. A celebration of life is planned that same evening, 6-8 p.m. at Trade (1410 14th St., N.W.).
