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Local couple wins $100,000 wedding contest

Buoyed by support from family, friends and strangers

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Thanks to the votes of thousands of supporters, D.C.’s Carl Cox and Darin Henderson have won a prestigious national wedding contest. The couple will receive a wedding package from local vendors worth a jaw-dropping $100,000 that covers the rings, ceremony, reception and everything in between.

“They are an amazing couple,” said photographer Michael Kress, who launched Freedom2Wed to celebrate D.C.’s legalization of same-sex marriage. The online competition, which attracted more than 22,500 votes, turned out to be a close race among the six finalists.

Last week, event organizers ambushed Cox and Henderson at their home, Publishers Clearinghouse-style, to announce that they’d won. With Champagne and cupcakes in hand, Kress delivered the news to the somewhat shell-shocked pair—and captured it all on video.

“When they knocked on the door, I was expecting them to say, ‘congrats you came in second’ or something,” Cox said. “It still hasn’t sunk in yet.”

“It’s wonderful beyond words,” Henderson said. With the camera still rolling, they called their mothers — who had been working feverishly to gather votes on their behalf — to tell them the news.

“Awww, my boys won,” an emotional Cherrie Henderson said, while on speakerphone.

Cox and Henderson told the Blade that in addition to that of their mothers, the support they’ve received from friends, coworkers, and even complete strangers has been “completely heartwarming.”

“We were floored that so many people offered to help,” Cox said.

To pull in last-minute votes, a large group of friends rallied at the 11th hour by spreading the word at local festivals and around the community. They set up tents, handed out cards, and asked whoever would listen to vote for the couple. Cox and Henderson even gathered support from fellow passengers and crewmembers during a cruise they went on in late September.

What’s been most surprising about the entire journey, the couple acknowledged, is the number of allies they gained who hadn’t always been supportive of gay marriage. “A lot of that had to do with stepping up to the plate and being so public about [being gay],” Henderson said, which came with the territory of the contest.

Now that the competition is officially over, Cox and Henderson are looking forward to kicking back and starting the fun part — the planning. Having been to their share of straight weddings, they hinted that they’re aiming for something a little more “quirky.”

Cox envisions an “eclectic” event that matches the “ying and yang” of their sometimes serious, sometimes silly personalities. “We would like it to be both comical and heartfelt,” he said.

The pair plans to hold the ceremony at the Metropolitan Community Church of D.C. and the reception at the Long View Gallery, one of the contest’s participating vendors.

Although the date hasn’t been set yet, Henderson hopes it can be scheduled for March 4 — the day of the couple’s five-year anniversary.

“That way, I’ll have one day to remember in my life, not two,” he said.

(Photo by Michael Key)

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Hands Off the Arts to form ‘human chain’ around Kennedy Center

Drag performer Tara Hoot among event organizers

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The Kennedy Center (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

An organization called Hands Off the Arts has announced it is holding a pretest on Friday, Sept. 18, in which between 400 and 800 participants are expected to create a “human chain” around the Kennedy Center to voice their strong objection to President Donald Trump’s call for possibly demolishing the Kennedy Center.

“Hands Off the Arts is organizing a rally Sept. 18 against the president’s defacing of JFK’s memorial, his removal and censorship of art, and the threat to demolish the center if he can’t remake the site in his image,” a statement released by the group says.

The statement says the event will start with a rally at 6:30 p.m. on the Kennedy Center steps and culminate with a “human chain” around the building. “There will be musical performances, testimonials from current and former employees, along with other special guest speakers,” it says  

A separate announcement by the group says longtime D.C. drag performer Tara Hoot, who has performed at the Kennedy Center in past years, was among the organizers of the Sept. 18 protest.

The planned protest follows Trump’s decision last year to use his authority to replace the existing members of the Kennedy Center’s board of directors with new members loyal to him. Over the objection of longtime Kennedy Center supporters, the Trump-appointed board changed the name of the center, at Trump’s request, from the John F. Kennedy Memorial Center for the Performing Arts to the Donald J. Trump and the John F. Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts.

But follow the threat of legal action by opponents who pointed out that the name change could not be legally made unless approved by Congress, the name change was cancelled, with Trump saying he would take steps to restore it later.

The Washington Post, meanwhile, reports in a Sept. 13 news story that because of negative publicity related to Trump’s actions, the Kennedy Center was facing “fiscal collapse” and possible bankruptcy and could be forced to shut down as early as this week.

According to the Post report, a 57-page document presented to the Kennedy Center’s board of trustees says the center was facing a financial and structural building crisis, with the recent collapse of part of the building’s inside ceiling, indicating the building was unsafe for employees and the public. Among other things, the document says the Kennedy Center may not be able to make payroll or pay for routine maintenance “within a matter of weeks,” the Post reports.

Some LGBTQ advocates were among those who joined others in boycotting the Kennedy Center to express their objections to Trump’s actions, including a statement by Trump that he objected to the Kennedy Center’s practice of hosting drag performances.

The Gay Men’s Chorus of Washington has been among the LGBTQ performing arts groups and artists that have performed at the Kennedy Center.

“With the future still very much uncertain, now more than ever, the Center needs you to stand up for freedom of expression and against authoritarian overreach into arts and culture institutions,” the Hands Off the Arts group says in its announcement of the Hands Around the Kennedy Center protest.

“You have the opportunity to make a difference — show up with Hands Off the Arts and show your power as part of Hands Around the Kennedy Center,” it says.

A spokesperson for the Kennedy Center couldn’t immediately be reached for comment.      

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Transgender woman killed in Barclay community mourned by friends, advocates

Sophie Lee shot to death on Friday morning

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Sophie Lee, 27, was found shot to death in Baltimore early Friday. (Photo courtesy of Baltimore Safe Haven)

By DARREONNA DAVIS | Denise Johnson imagined spending Sunday with her daughter, Sophie Lee, eating crabs at the park. Instead, she stood on a Barclay street corner Sunday evening surrounded by nearly 100 people who came to remember her daughter, a transgender woman who was fatally shot there Friday.

The 27-year-old woman was found in the 2400 block of North Calvert Street around 1:15 a.m. Friday, Baltimore Police said in a news release.

Lindsey Eldridge, a police department spokesperson, said it’s unclear if her identity had anything to do with her death and the investigation is ongoing.

The rest of this article can be read on the Baltimore Banner’s website.

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Pierce named to Virginia Governor’s LGBTQ+ Advisory Board

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Jaime Christopher Pierce

The Comings & Goings column is about sharing the professional successes of our community. We want to recognize those landing new jobs, new clients for their business, joining boards of organizations and other achievements. Please share your successes with us at [email protected]

The Comings & Goings column also invites LGBTQ+ college students to share their successes with us. If you have been elected to a student government position, landed an exciting internship, or are graduating and beginning your career with a new job, let us know so we can share your success.

Congratulations to Jaime Christopher Pierce on their appointment to serve as a member of the Virginia Governor’s LGBTQ+ Advisory Board. Pierce was sworn in on Sept. 3 by Greg Parks, clerk of the Alexandria Circuit Court.  

Pierce currently serves as vice chair of the Alexandria City LGBTQIA+ Task Force and as a member of the Alexandria Pride planning committee. They previously served on the board of directors of Equality Virginia.

Upon being sworn in, Pierce said, “Public service has been a central part of my life for more than 30 years, and this appointment gives me an opportunity to serve the Commonwealth in a different and very personal way. My career has allowed me to work with people and communities throughout Virginia, and I hope to bring that experience, along with my own lived experience and my involvement in the LGBTQ+ community, to the work of the Board.” They added, “Having Greg administer the oath makes the occasion even more meaningful because of his own historic role as Virginia’s first openly gay elected circuit court clerk.”

Pierce also serves as Circuit Court Services Manager for the Department of Judicial Services, at the Office of the Executive Secretary of the Supreme Court of Virginia. They began their career in Virginia’s judiciary in 1994 as a deputy clerk with the Virginia Beach Circuit Court and have since held several professional and leadership positions within the court system. Pierce is a member of the National Association for Court Management (NACM) and the Mid-Atlantic Association for Court Management. At the national level, Pierce participated in the workgroup that developed the National Association for Court Management’s Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion Guide, a resource designed to help court professionals advance inclusive practices and strengthen access, fairness and belonging within the justice system.

Pierce earned a degree in Criminal Justice from Liberty University, and a certificate in Paralegal Studies from Norfolk State University. 

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