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20 Questions for Stephen Rutgers

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Stephen Rutgers (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Some 17th Street N.W. lovers yearn for a day when businesses and residents can co-exist more peacefully. That’s part of why the Urban Neighborhood Alliance organized. The 17th Street Festival — a hit in its first outing last year — is designed to advance that cause and also to provide locals with a fun afternoon.

“I’m kind of the young person in the neighborhood,” says 24-year-old Stephen Rutgers, co-chair of the event and vice president of the Alliance. “It’s about 17th Street coming together as a community … some people aren’t interested in that, but I think they’re being swayed a little bit. We’re making a consistent effort to get people involved.”

The Festival is next weekend — Saturday the 24th from 2 to 6 p.m. — and will stretch on 17th from P to Riggs streets. There will be food, attractions for kids, entertainment and more. Rutgers guesses between 4,000 and 5,000 were there last year. He’s hoping to double that amount this year.

Rutgers grew up in a large Mormon family in Murrieta, Calif. He says he’s an East Coaster at heart and was recruited to George Washington University to run cross country. He graduated in May with both a bachelor’s and master’s in tourism and sports and event management. The victim of a buyout and downsizing earlier this year, he’s job hunting now.

He and his boyfriend, Mark Rutstein, have been together two years and live together in the U Street corridor. Rutstein’s work at Cobalt (he’s general manager) keeps them active on 17th Street.

Rutgers still enjoys running and also likes reading and volunteering for the festival in his free time. Visit 17thstreetfestival.org for details on that event.

 

How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?

My mom found out the week before I left for college. The rest of the family found out the day I flew out. My dad was hardest because of his religious beliefs.

 

Who’s your LGBT hero?

There are so many, but Frank Kameny had a huge impact on the D.C. gay community and 17th Street. It was an honor to meet him last year when we recognized him at the 17th Street Festival. I was able to have dinner with him at the festival and he is one of the most fascinating individuals to talk to.

 

What is Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?

Cobalt

 

Describe your dream wedding.

Something very simple surrounded by my closest friends and family.

 

What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?

There are a lot of things, but changing the 17th Street neighborhood and the way it operates.

 

What historical outcome would you change?

The 2000 election of George W. Bush.

 

What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?

Michael Jackson’s death. His name is synonymous with success. He was an example of pure talent and he inspired the whole world.

 

On what do you insist?

“There are two kinds of people: those who do the work and those who take the credit. Try to be in the first group; there is less competition there.” Indira Gandhi

 

What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?

Something about the 17th Street Festival.

 

If your life were a book, what would the title be?

“Taming The Crazy”

 

If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?

Nothing because I was born this way.

 

What do you believe in beyond the physical world?

I don’t know if anyone truly knows, but at least the stars are nice to look at.

 

What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?

I think there needs to be better outreach of the younger generation and building the movement from that and not just off of rich donors.

 

What would you walk across hot coals for?

Mark Rutstein

 

What gay stereotype annoys you most?

That gays don’t like sports.

What’s your favorite gay movie?

“Latter Days”

 

What’s the most overrated social custom?

I don’t think there are any overrated social customs. I think people have forgotten to take the time and do things for others every once in a while.

 

What trophy or prize do you most covet?

I really don’t like receiving trophies or prizes, but knowing that I have made a positive impact on someone or the community is the best reward I could receive.

 

What do you wish you’d known at 18?

That I didn’t need to worry about friends/family accepting me because if they truly loved me they would accept and be proud of me no matter what I do or who I was.

 

Why Washington?

Why not Washington is the better question. No matter who you are or what you believe in there is a place for everyone here. If you ever feel like you don’t fit in you just walk a couple blocks over and you will probably fit in just fine.

 

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SMYAL receives $25,000 award for ‘courageous acts’

D.C. group provides support services for LGBTQ youth

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SMYAL CEO Erin Whelan (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

The D.C.-based organization SMYAL, which provides services for LGBTQ youth in the D.C. metro area, including housing for homeless LGBTQ youth, announced on June 30 that it received a $25,000 award for its “courageous acts” in support of the community it serves.

The award was a monetary grant from The Courage Project, which describes itself as a “national initiative investing in acts of courage and compassion that strengthens our communities and democracy.” 

A statement on its website says it was launched in May 2025 and is funded and backed by leading national foundations in the U.S.

“At SMYAL, we are deeply grateful to receive support from The Courage Project and are inspired by their bold investment in LGBTQ+ youth at such a critical moment,” SMYAL CEO Erin Whelan said in a statement. “For queer and trans young people, simply showing up as themselves each day requires immense courage, and that courage is strengthened when organizations like The Courage Project stand behind them loudly, proudly, and without hesitation,” Whelan said.

In its statement announcing the award SMYAL says The Courage Project will recognize SMYAL and other awardees and their work on July 3 at the Washington National Cathedral as part of a special interfaith service marking the U.S. 250th anniversary.

“The Courage Project is a bold initiative honoring everyday acts of bravery – the quiet, often unseen acts of heroism that reflect the best of the American spirit and strengthen democracy at the community level,” the project states on its website.

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LA-based TransLatin@ Coalition leads in time of attacks

Members of Congress ‘calling us a radical organization’

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TransLatin@ Coalition President Bamby Salcedo (Photo courtesy of Paolo Riveros)

As ICE raids intensify across Southern California and anti-immigrant sentiment resurfaces in Orange County, transgender and immigrant communities are once again being targeted. These crackdowns go beyond enforcement — they’re designed to instill fear. At the same time, a coordinated right-wing smear campaign is attempting to discredit the very organizations working to keep these communities safe.

Last month, the TransLatin@ Coalition, a cornerstone in the fight for trans, queer, and immigrant rights in Los Angeles, was publicly named by members of Congress. But this was no recognition. It was a calculated attack.

“They’re calling us a radical organization,” said Bamby Salcedo, president and CEO of the TransLatin@ Coalition. “They’re spreading lies, saying we’re using government funding to abolish ICE and the police and to provide abortion access. We do believe in those things, but the funding we receive is used to serve our people.”

Now, that funding is being stripped away.

In the face of state violence, political backlash, and economic sabotage, TLC is responding the way it always has: by organizing, celebrating, and building a better world. Because when our communities are under attack, we show up — stronger, louder, and more united than ever.

Salcedo, herself a proud trans Latina immigrant, has spent decades fighting for those living at the margins. “I always say I am an intersection walking,” she said with a smile. “Our organization is made up of the people most impacted — and we are the ones leading the work.”

In Los Angeles County, roughly one-third of residents are immigrants, the majority of whom are Latino. Unsurprisingly, trans Latinas represent the largest segment within the local trans community.

Yet even within immigrant justice spaces, trans people are often sidelined.

“It’s a very hetero-centric space,” Salcedo said. “Most of the time, they don’t even consider the lives and experiences of trans and queer immigrants.”

The TransLatin@ Coalition is actively changing that. As a key member of a broad alliance of more than 100 immigrant-serving organizations across Los Angeles, including CHIRLA and the Filipino Workers Center, the TransLatin@ Coalition helped secure over $160 million in American Rescue Plan funds for immigrant housing, internet access, and legal services.

They also co-created the groundbreaking TGIE (Transgender, Gender-Nonconforming, Intersex Empowerment) initiative, which allocates $7 million in Los Angeles County’s annual budget to support trans-led service providers.

“We don’t just want symbolic policies,” said Salcedo. “We fight for resources. We analyze the budget. We make it real.”

Despite these victories, the TransLatin@ Coalition is now confronting devastating federal cuts.

“Our work has been defunded,” Salcedo said bluntly. “Multiple programs are gone. And we’re not alone — trans-led organizations across the country, especially in the South, are facing the same.”

She pointed to a broader backlash against anything associated with diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI). “The private sector is pulling back. Philanthropy is scared. Even the same corporations that fund us during Pride are investing in our opposition the rest of the year. It’s hypocrisy.”

Rather than retreat, the TransLatin@ Coalition is calling for bold, collective action.

“Now’s the time for people to step up,” said Salcedo. “We have the strategy. We’re doing the work. But we need resources — and we need real solidarity, not just statements.”

To respond to the crisis and raise urgently needed funds, the TransLatin@ Coalition is organizing its Walk for Humanity on Saturday, Aug. 24. The event will begin at 9 a.m. in Silver Lake and march to Sunset and Western, featuring live performances, a resource fair, and a unified call for justice.

And yes — it will be joyful.

“This is a call for all people to stand in solidarity with one another,” said Salcedo. “We want to bring together 1,000 people, each raising $1,000. It’s going to be a beautiful day of community and resistance.”

In a surprise announcement, Salcedo also revealed she will debut her first single — a cumbia track inspired by the movement. “It’s about movement in both senses: our political movement, and moving our bodies,” she laughed. “We can’t let them take away our joy. Joy is how we survive.”

When asked what more local leaders can do, Salcedo didn’t hesitate. “Elected officials are public servants. That means serving all people,” she said. “We may be a small population, but we are deeply impacted — and we contribute so much to this city.”

She pointed to data from LA’s most recent homelessness count, which identified over 2,000 trans and gender-expansive people experiencing homelessness. That number exists thanks in large part to years of advocacy demanding the city count and name trans lives. “We have the data now. There’s no excuse not to invest in our people.”

She also uplifted allies like Los Angeles County Supervisor Lindsey Horvath and newly appointed City Council member Isabel Urado, the first openly LGBTQ person to hold her seat. “They’ve seen our work and are fighting to invest in it,” Salcedo said. “We’re hopeful we’ll see another $10 million in city funding. But we need the community behind us.”

At the end of our conversation, I asked Salcedo what she would say to undocumented, queer, and trans Angelenos who are feeling afraid right now.

Her answer was clear, powerful, and full of love:

“You are a divine creation. You deserve to exist in this world. Walk your path with dignity, love, and respect — for yourself and for others. You belong. You are part of me. You are part of us.”

If standing with trans immigrants, resisting federal rollbacks, and dancing in the streets sounds like your kind of solidarity, join the TransLatin@ Coalition on Aug. 24. Because when we show up together, we protect each other. And when we dance together — we win.

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LGBTQ cruise ship rescues 11 migrants between Cuba and Mexico

Rescue took place in Yucatán Channel on Wednesday

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A Royal Caribbean cruise ship that Vacaya, an LGBTQ travel company chartered, on Feb. 25, 2025, rescued 11 Cubans from a boat that was adrift in the Yucatán Channel between Mexico and Cuba. (Video screenshot courtesy of Vacaya)

A cruise ship chartered by an LGBTQ travel company on Wednesday rescued 11 Cubans from a boat that was adrift between their country and Mexico.

Vacaya in a press release said the Royal Caribbean’s Brilliance of the Seas, which had left from New Orleans, discovered the migrants’ boat in the Yucatán Channel, a strait between Mexico and Cuba that connects the Gulf of Mexico (the Trump-Vance administration now refers to the body of water as the Gulf of America) and the Caribbean Sea.

A video that Vacaya provided shows the migrants’ boat before the rescue. Other videos show the rescue taking place.

MTV’s Downtown Julie Brown, who was performing on the ship, described the rescue in a video she posted to social media.

“We are in the middle of a live rescue operation right now,” she said. “The captain of the ship, while we were hauling so fast the other way, thought he saw a boat in distress. So, we looped around … and it was indeed a boat in distress.”

“Nothing speaks more to VACAYA’s values than providing comfort in a moment of need,” said Vacaya CEO Randle Roper in the press release. “I’m so happy we were able to bring these 11 refugees onboard safely and provide medical care, dry clothes, food, and, most importantly, water.”

“It’s sad that some people have to put themselves through such trauma in hopes of finding a better life, but that’s where we are today,” added Roper. “I’m so proud of our LGBT+ guests rallying to collect clothes for these fellow humans in need.”

The ship is scheduled to return to New Orleans on Saturday.

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