Arts & Entertainment
A melodic farewell
Locals lament closure of Dupont Circle record shop
With the rising popularity of downloading music from places like iTunes and online stores like Amazon, more and more record stores are closing, surrendering to the convenience of not having to leave the house to get both new and old albums.
Melody Records, an institution in Dupont Circle since the late ā70s, is just another casualty in that unfortunate trend. Local gays are lamenting its impending closure. It was always popular with Blade readers ā it won several āBest of Gay D.C.ā awards in the early ā00s, which still hang in the store above the new releases.
āMelody Records was one of my first discoveries when I moved to D.C. more than 11 years ago,ā Michael Collins, a gay D.C. resident, says. āI stopped there about once a week, sometimes more often than that, and I seldom left empty handed.ā
The owners, Suzy and Jack Menase, opened the store in 1977 before moving to Dupont two years later after having to vacate their previous location on E Street when developers wanted to redevelop the area.
āWe just found Dupont Circle to be a busy area and thought it would be a good location for us,ā Suzy Menase says.
Theyāve been in the business so long, theyāve always tried to stay on top of things, and seen all the trends come and go, then come again.
āItās been like a full circle. We started with vinyl and now weāre ending with vinyl,ā Suzy says. āItās neat to see young kids coming in ā¦ theyāre not excited about CDs but theyāre excited about vinyl.ā
āI think the sound quality that they heard made it very attractive,ā Jack Menase says.
The store has always held a wide selection of genres, including large sections of seemingly less popular genres such as opera, new age and more.
āThe opera queens would squeal while the uber cool disco boys looked for the German imports of what would later be called āindustrialā in the specialty bins,ā says Stephen Yasko, general manager of WTMD 89.7 in Baltimore.
The Menases have always worked to make sure they have a full selection with a little bit of something for everyone.
āIf we donāt have it in stock, we order it for them,ā Jack Menase says.
āWith CDs, if you canāt sell something, you can return it,ā Suzy says. āItās not one person deciding what we carry.ā
The Menases announced they were closing through a letter on their website, saying, ātechnology, the internet and the economy has taken its toll.ā
āIn the past two or three years, sales have been declining ā¦ we saw it coming, but we were just trying to hold on,ā Suzy says. āWe have such a strong, loyal customer base, we wanted to stay as long as possible.ā
They both remember a time when there was an abundance of record stores in the D.C. area that all survived until the early 90s.
āOne by one, everybody closed down,ā Jack says.
Being in Dupont, the store automatically became a favorite spot for gay customers.
āWhere else could you run across a copy of Ethel Mermanās disco album from the ’70s?ā Collins says.
Also, Lambda Rising ā a gay bookstore and staple of Dupont Circle ā used to be next door.
āWe were very sorry to see them go,ā Jack says.
āWhoever came to them, whoever came to us went to them,ā Suzy says. āThey were great neighbors to have.ā
Some music lovers continued to purchase CDs ā at least in some genres ā even into the digital music era.
āI loved Melody,ā says Kevin Lees, a gay Washington resident. āI still typically buy classical and sometimes jazz in physical CD format for the copious liner notes and anytime I was looking for something in particular, I would always look at Melody first as my contribution to local stores in the face of Amazon. Iām surprised it lasted so long and that it outlasted Lambda Rising but sadly, the record store is clearly destined to be a thing of the past.ā
There are a few members of the staff who have been working at the store for years, including a few who have been around for more than 10 years.
There are a lot of people who have been going to the store for years and some are even on a first-name basis with the Menases.
āThey know my whole family and I know theirs,ā Suzy says. āItās not customers, theyāre family.ā
āI was heartbroken when I saw the going-out-of-business sign on the window,ā Collins says. āWhat a regrettable loss for Dupont Circle and for all Washington music lovers.ā
The shop is at 1623 Connecticut Ave., N.W. No firm closing date has been set. For now, itās open seven days a week from 11 a.m. to 8 p.m.
Whitman-Walker Health held the 38th annual Walk and 5K to End HIV at Anacostia Park on Saturday,Ā Dec. 7. Hundreds participated in the charity fundraiser,Ā despite temperatures below freezing. According to organizers, nearly $450,000 was raised for HIV/AIDS treatment and research.
(Washington Blade photos by Michael Key)
The Gay Men’s Chorus of Washington performed “The Holiday Show” at Lincoln Theatre on Saturday. Future performances of the show are scheduled for Dec. 14-15. For tickets and showtimes, visit gmcw.org.
(Washington Blade photos by Michael Key)
Books
Mother wages fight for trans daughter in new book
āBeautiful Womanā seethes with resentment, rattles bars of injustice
āOne Day I’ll Grow Up and Be a Beautiful Womanā
By Abi Maxwell
c.2024, Knopf
$28/307 pages
“How many times have I told you that…?”
How many times have you heard that? Probably so often that, well, you stopped listening. From your mother, when you were very small. From your teachers in school. From your supervisor, significant other, or best friend. As in the new memoir “One Day I’ll Grow Up and Be a Beautiful Woman” by Abi Maxwell, it came from a daughter.
When she was pregnant, Abi Maxwell took long walks in the New Hampshire woods near her home, rubbing her belly and talking to her unborn baby. She was sure she was going to have a girl but when the sonogram technician said otherwise, that was OK. Maxwell and her husband would have a son.
But almost from birth, their child was angry, fierce, and unhappy. Just getting dressed each morning was a trial. Going outside was often impossible. Autism was a possible diagnosis but more importantly, Maxwell wasn’t listening, and she admits it with some shame.
Her child had been saying, in so many ways, that she was a girl.
Once Maxwell realized it and acted accordingly, her daughter changed almost overnight, from an angry child to a calm one ā though she still, understandably, had outbursts from the bullying behavior of her peers and some adults at school. Nearly every day, Greta (her new name) said she was teased, called by her former name, and told that she was a boy.
Maxwell had fought for special education for Greta, once autism was confirmed. Now she fought for Greta’s rights at school, and sometimes within her own family. The ACLU got involved. State laws were broken. Maxwell reminded anyone who’d listen that the suicide rate for trans kids was frighteningly high. Few in her town seemed to care.
Throughout her life, Maxwell had been in many other states and lived in other cities. New Hampshire used to feel as comforting as a warm blanket but suddenly, she knew they had to get away from it. Her “town that would not protect us.”
When you hold “One Day I’ll Grow Up and Be a Beautiful Woman,” you’ve got more than a memoir in your hands. You’ve also got a white-hot story that seethes with anger and rightful resentment, that wails for a hurt child, and rattles the bars of injustice. And yet, it coos over love of place, but in a confused manner, as if these things don’t belong together.
Author Abi Maxwell is honest with readers, taking full responsibility for not listening to what her preschooler was saying-not-saying, and she lets you see her emotions and her worst points. In the midst of her community-wide fight, she reveals how the discrimination Greta endured affected Maxwell’s marriage and her health ā all of which give a reader the sense that they’re not being sold a tall tale. Read this book, and outrage becomes familiar enough that it’s yours, too. Read “One Day I’ll Grow Up and Be a Beautiful Woman,” and share it. This is a book you’ll tell others about.
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