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Thomas R. Vincent, 62

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Thomas R. Vincent
Thomas R. Vincent

Thomas R. Vincent

Thomas R. Vincent, a longtime D.C. resident who worked as a procurement officer for the federal government and most recently for the United Nations, died March 21 in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. He was 62.

His sister, Caroline Fitzgerald, said he died suddenly after contracting a respiratory illness less than three months after he retired from his position as chief procurement officer for a United Nations program based in Cambodia.

The program provides assistance to a special Cambodian tribunal in charge of prosecuting individuals implicated in atrocities against the Cambodian people that were committed during the Khmer Rouge government from 1975 to 1979.

The tribunal is officially known as the Extraordinary Chambers in the Courts of Cambodia for the Prosecution of Crimes Committed during the Period of Democratic Kampuchea.

Lars Olsen, a spokesperson for the U.N., said Vincent was ā€œresponsible for overseeing the procurement of all goods and contractual services provided by the United Nations to assist the operationsā€ of the tribunal court.

ā€œTom loved the people and culture of Cambodia,ā€ Fitzgerald said. ā€œHe had recently expressed his wishes to make Cambodia his home and the place he could spend his retirement years.ā€

Vincent, who was gay and had many friends in D.C.ā€™s gay community, was born in Quincy, Mass., according to Fitzgerald. He received his bachelorā€™s degree at Boston University and a masterā€™s degree in public administration from Bostonā€™s Suffolk University.

His career in the field of public administration and procurement included a stint between 1998 and 2003 as deputy director and director of the Procurement Management Division at the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development in Washington, D.C.

He served from January 2005 to December 2006 as acting director of procurement and procurement manager for Radio Free Europe/Radio Liberty both in Washington and in Prague.

From 2006 to 2008 he served as a consultant for the suburban Maryland-based company Procurement Solutions. In that position he provided consulting services to companies doing business with international agencies, including the U.Nā€™s World Health Organization and UNICEF program, the World Bank, the Gates Foundation and the U.S. National Academies of Science.

ā€œThomas was a voracious reader and loved to learn all he could about countries, their people and their cultures,ā€ Fitzgerald said. ā€œHe spent many wonderful years traveling all over the world visiting places like the Egyptian pyramids, climbing Machu Picchu, exploring the countryside and castles in Scotland, shopping in London, and the list goes on,ā€ she said.

ā€œHe not only traveled the world, but always made sure he brought a little piece of where he had been back to his family,ā€œ said Fitzgerald. ā€œHe was always thoughtful and considerate of others.ā€

Fitzgerald said her brother was a ā€œstrong ally to those who struggled with alcohol addiction,ā€ adding, ā€œHe was diligent in his commitment to his own rehabilitation and to those friends he met along the way, always being there to lend a helping hand and show his support.ā€

Survivors include his sisters Caroline, Kathleen, and Beth; his brother David; his niece and many nephews, aunts, uncles and cousins. He was predeceased by his parents, Barbara and Thomas Vincent.

At his request, his ashes will remain in Cambodia, Fitzgerald said. She said a private memorial will be held by his family at a future date.

Condolences may be sent c/o Kathleen Rafanan, 1400 Celebration Ave., Apt. 301, Celebration, FL 34747.

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Washington lawyer Carolee Byrley dies at age 60

An active member of the local Gay Recovery Community

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Carolee Byrley passed away unexpectedly on Oct. 30, 2024, in her home in Washington, D.C.Ā She was 60.

She died from complications of Type One diabetes. 

She was born on Sept. 2, 1964, in Ft. Walton Beach, Fla., to Paul L. Byrley and Judith I. Byrley.Ā 

She graduated in 1982 from Winter Park High School in Winter Park, Fla., and from college at Florida State University in Tallahassee, Fla. She later earned a law degree from Georgetown University Law School in Washington, D.C.

Byrley practiced law in Washington specializing in contracts and mergers.Ā 

Byrley was predeceased by her father as well as by Eileen Garner, her loving life partner of 38 years. She is survived by her mother, Judith Ireland, stepfather, Jerrold Nussbaum, brother, John Byrley, sister-in-law, Lena Byrley, brother, Jason Byrley, brother-in-law, Ben Byrley, and nephews, Jack and Alex Byrley.

Byrley was an active member of the Gay Recovery Community in Washington where she sponsored many people over the years. She recently received recognition for 40 years of sobriety and was living proof of the slogan, ā€œKeep what you have by giving it away.ā€ Her generosity and authenticity shown through in all she did. There was not a bone in her body that was fake. And, as one of her friends described her, she was ā€œthe kindest person I have ever met.ā€Ā 

Byrley was deeply committed to her dogs through the years and to the care and protection of rescue dogs everywhere.Ā 

A celebration of Byrley’s life will be held on Dec. 7 at 3 p.m. at Friends of Washington, 2111 Decatur Place, Washington, D.C., where friends encourage those who knew her to share memories of her life. There will be a reception at Friends following the memorial.Ā 

In lieu of flowers, please give a donation to your local dog rescue organization, in her name.Ā 

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Longtime media professional Michael Flocker dies at 61

A “Celebration of Life” will be held in Washington, D.C. by his many friends on November 16th.

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Michael E. Flocker of Washington, D.C. passed away on Oct. 11, 2024, at the age of 61. He will be remembered with much love and missed by his mother, brother, niece and nephew and many of his U.K. relatives. He was predeceased by his father, Dale Price Flocker.

He was born in North Plainfield, N.J., and moved to Berlin, Germany, with his family for more than seven years, where his father was a pilot with Pan Am. On returning to the U.S. he lived in Wilton, Conn., for high school and New York City for college. He also lived in Los Angeles for many years where he pursued acting and singing. He later was hired by America Online and offered a higher position at AOL in New York City. From there he began writing books, with his first book, “The Metrosexual Guide to Style,” making the New York Times bestseller list. All of his books are available on Amazon.

Following his AOL career, Michael started working at NBCā€™s online division. This led to an on-camera role as an entertainment reporter in New York City on a local station. Eventually, Michael made his way to D.C. where he worked remotely for an online media company called Stacker.

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Ted Olson, unlikely marriage equality champion, dies at 84

Conservative attorney led charge to overturn Prop 8 in Calif.

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Ted Olson, a Republican lawyer who championed gay rights by leading multiple marriage equality lawsuits, died on Wednesday in Fairfax, Va., after suffering a stroke. He was 84.

As a lifelong conservative, Olson served as assistant attorney general in the Justice Department under President Ronald Reagan and represented President George W. Bush in the 2000 presidential election recount case that went before the U.S. Supreme Court. He later served as solicitor general in the Bush administration. 

Despite his conservative roots, Olson became a steadfast advocate of marriage equality, leading the legal fight to overturn Californiaā€™s ban on same-sex marriage, which voters had approved through Proposition 8 in 2008.

Together with Democratic lawyer David Boies, his former legal adversary in Bush v. Gore, Olson successfully argued before a California district court that Prop 8 was unconstitutional. After a series of legal challenges, the Supreme Court in 2013 upheld the district court ruling, allowing same-sex marriages to resume in California and invalidating part of a federal law that defined marriage as between a man and a woman.

Olson and Boies in 2013 also challenged the constitutionality of Virginia’s ban on same-sex marriage. That same year, Olson broke with his party by publicly supporting the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, which would prohibit employers from discriminating against LGBTQ workers.

ā€œI feel very, very strongly that this country ought to stop discriminating against our citizens on the basis of their sexual orientation,ā€ he told the Washington Blade in 2013. ā€œIt is unfair, itā€™s unreasonable, itā€™s unacceptable. It serves no purpose and it does a great deal of harm.ā€

In a career that spans almost sixty years, Olson argued 65 cases in front of the SupremeĀ Court, according to his law firm, Gibson Dunn. He was often seen as a potential candidate for Supreme Court justice.

He represented Citizens United in a landmark 2010 Supreme Court case that removed limits on political contributions by corporations and labor unions. In 2020 he successfully argued against then-President Donald Trumpā€™s attempt to deport ā€œDreamersā€ ā€” undocumented minors whose parents brought them into the U.S.

Olson is survived by his wife, Lady Booth Olson, and two children. 

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