Arts & Entertainment
Queery: Fred Sainz
The HRC marketing/communications director answers 20 gay questions
Itās not a particularly good time to ask Fred Sainz about the Human Rights Campaign National Dinner.
Itās a weekday morning just days before the annual event and he, like many at the LGBT rights organization, is bogged down in details and logistics.
āItās almost like giving birth,ā he says. āYou know, itās an incredibly exciting event but you kind of canāt wait for it to be over too.ā
The event is Saturday evening at the Convention Center (801 Mt. Vernon Place N.W.) and is sold out. Newark Mayor Cory A. Booker, NAACP President Ben Jealous and actress Sally Field are slated to appear. A troupe from Cirque du Soleil will perform. About 3,000 are expected. Details are at hrcnationaldinner.org.
Sainz came to HRC about two-and-a-half years ago and works as vice president of communications and marketing. The 44-year-old Miami-area native says itās been satisfying work.
āItās really been the privilege of a lifetime to be able to do this work and a special honor to be able to work here at this time in the movementās history,ā he says. āI arrived one week before the āDonāt Ask, Donāt Tellā repeal bill dropped in May 2010 so it has been a roller coaster and truly one of the greatest experiences of my life.ā
Sainz, a former Republican, went to school in Washington, served in the first Bush White House, then moved to San Diego to work on the ā96 Republican National Convention. He stayed there working at various jobs over the next 14 years before going to Denver where he spent two years working at the Gill Foundation, which he says was āamazingā and prepared him for his position at HRC.
Sainz is ādating someone specialā but doesnāt go into details. He lives in Washington and enjoys working out, movies and traveling in his free time.
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?Ā
Iāve been out since I was 28 years old and Iām now 44 so itās been 16 years. My father was the hardest to tell. He and I havenāt spoken since I came out.
Who’s your LGBT hero?
Harvey Milk
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?Ā
Iām boring so I donāt really know of many but I love Town for Bear Happy Hour on Friday nights.
Describe your dream wedding.
I think weddings (not marriage, but weddings) suck up a lot of money and create unnecessary anxiety. I think a city hall marriage with people that you are close to is preferable.
What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?
Virtually any social justice issue.
What historical outcome would you change?
Castroās takeover of Cuba in 1959. My parents immigrated to this country from Cuba. Imagine leaving the country of your birth and immigrating to another country, virtually penniless and without speaking the language at 28 years old; thatās what they did. In search of better lives and to be free from oppression, they came to the U.S.
What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
The release of Madonnaās first album.
On what do you insist?
Honesty and straightforwardness.
What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?
About HRCās National Dinner this Saturday.
If your life were a book, what would the title be?
āThe Indignity of Being a Dogā
If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?
Nothing. I love being gay. I believe that God created me this way.
What do you believe in beyond the physical world?Ā
I believe in Karma. Do right unto others because if not, a higher life force has a sense of humor.
What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?
Make every decision through the lens of young people and youāll be doing the right thing.
What would you walk across hot coals for?
A vodka/cran on a Friday night.
What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?
That all gay men are funny, like Jack from āWill & Grace.ā
What’s your favorite LGBT movie?
āThe Birdcageā
What’s the most overrated social custom?
Putting up the toilet seat. Why?
What trophy or prize do you most covet?
āJeopardy!ā champion.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
Me at 44.
Why Washington?
Itās the nationās capital and where laws that change our lives will be passed.
In need of a little cheer? Fortunately, thereās a fix. The DMV boasts a wealth of holiday-themed theater, music, and dance guaranteed to lift spirits and warm hearts. Hereās a sliver of whatās out there.
Arena Stage invites audiences āto step back into the holiday spirit with the joyful return of āStep Afrika!’s Magical Musical Holiday Step Showā (Dec. 13-22) where the rich tradition of African-American stepping blends with the magic of the season.ā DJ Nutcracker and his Arctic friends promise to amplify the festive atmosphere. Arenastage.orgĀ
Looking for a new way to experience a Christmas favorite? With the Kennedy Centerās āElf in Concert: Film with Live Orchestraā (through Dec. 1), you can relive the endearing comedy on a giant screen as every note of John Debneyās wonderful score is played live by the National Symphony Orchestra.
Another Kennedy Center holiday treat is āFinnā (through Dec. 22). From Chris Nee, the out creator of TVās āDoc McStuffinsā and āVampirina,ā āFinnā is filled with vibrant sea creatures and catchy tunes. Hilarious and heartening, this world premiere musical chronicles the coming-of-age journey of a young shark following his dreams. Kennedy-center.orgĀ
For those in search of yuletide camaraderie and keyboards, thereās the National Cathedral Christmas Day Organ Recital (Dec. 25), a tradition featuring festive music performed (at the Cathedral) by Cathedral organist Thomas Sheehan, and organ scholar Ariana Corbin. Tickets not required. Livestream available.Ā Nationalcathedral.org
At Baltimore Center Stage, ArtsCentricās production of āBlack Nativityā (Nov. 30-December 22) uses a fusion of blues, soul, jazz, spirituals, dance, and the powerful words of gay poet Langston Hughes, to tell the Christmas story through a wide-ranging African-American lens. Centerstage.org
For one night only, the Music Center at Strathmore in North Bethesda presents āA Swinginā Little Christmas!ā (Dec. 4), a nostalgic, Christmas kitsch cabaret featuring out TV star Jane Lynch (āGlee,ā āThe Marvelous Mrs. Maisel”), alongside Kate Flannery (āThe Officeā), Tim Davis (āGleeās” vocal arranger), and The Tony Guerrero Quintet.
The following night, Dave Koz and Friends celebrate the 27th anniversary edition of the longest running jazz-based Christmas tour at Strathmore on Dec. 5. Koz, a longtime out musician (primarily sax), has released eight holiday albums, including his most recent, āChristmas Ballads.ā Strathmore.org
Round House Theatre presents the world premiere of āA Hannukah Carolā (through Dec. 29). The family-friendly musical comedy tells the story of millennial influencer Chava Kanipshin who in pursuit of more followers, shuns family, friends, and holiday traditions. But on the first night of Hanukkah, Chava is visited by the ghost of deceased social media star Mimi Marley and other spirits who warn her to change her ways ā or live to regret it. Roundhousetheatre.org.Ā
Historic Fordās Theatre again presents āA Christmas Carolā (through Dec. 31), a popular Washington tradition for decades. Conceived by Michael Baron, this dynamically staged take on the Dickensā classic features Craig Wallace as the miserly Scrooge who after a night of ghostly visits, rediscovers Christmas joy. In case you havenāt seen it, do. Fords.orgĀ
At Olney Theatre, award-winning out actor Michael Russotto is stepping into the shoes of Paul Morella to star in this year’s edition of Morella’s celebrated solo adaptation of āA Christmas Carol: A Ghost Story of Christmasā (Dec. 29). Russotto portrays more than 50 characters, from the miserly Scrooge to the haunting spirits, to the entire Cratchit family, including, of course, Tiny Tim. Olneytheatre.org
The adage that music can transport you to another time with just a couple of notes proves true at the Folger Library where Folger Consort, the estimable early music ensemble-in-residence, marvelously upholds a glorious Washington holiday tradition with āA Mass for Christmas Eve: Baroque Music for the Seasonā (Dec. 6-15). Folger.eduĀ
In Falls Church, Creative Cauldron presents āMadelineās Christmasā (Dec. 6-22), a charming show based on the classic book by author and illustrator Ludwig Bemelmans. Itās Christmas Eve and taking care of 11 flu infected little girls and Miss Clavel isnāt easy, but when Madeline finds help from a magical rug merchant, all thatās miserable is brushed away, and the girls embark on an unforgettable Christmas journey. Matt Conner directs. Creativecauldron.org
The Washington Balletās āThe Nutcrackerā at the glittering, gilded Warner Theatre (through Dec. 30). Featuring Tchaikovskyās instantly familiar music and splendid choreography by Septime Weber, this Georgetown circa 1882-set production features historical figures ranging from George Washington to King George III, along with the usual suspects like children, rats, fairies, and a mysterious godfather. Washingtonballet.org
The Gay Menās Chorus of Washington is back with its annual holiday extravaganza āThe Holiday Showā (Dec. 4, 14, and 15) at Lincoln Theatre. This yearās uplifting lineup includes eclectic songs with exciting rhythms and beautiful harmonies, and features the high-kicking, bedazzled 17th Street Dance as well as small ensembles and the GenOUT Youth Chorus! Songs include āSee Amid the Winterās Snow,ā āFeliz Navidad,ā āLove is Christmas,ā and āSilent Night.ā Gmcw.org
Capital Pride/World Pride will host Rainbow Masquerade at Hook Hall, a New Yearās Eve party featuring drag shows, silk aerial acts, private lounges and the venueās Hot Tub Cabana. According to Brandon Bayton, Capital Pride executive producer, “Step into the Fabric of Freedom and toast World Pride 2025 in styleāwhere every moment sparkles, every performance dazzles and every toast makes a difference. It’s going to be an amazing night!”
The party is Tuesday, Dec. 31, 10 p.m.-2 a.m. at Hook Hall, 3400 Georgia Ave., N.W. Proceeds benefit Capital Pride D.C. and tickets are available on Eventbrite.
Charlemagne Chateau will host āChateau Drag Brunchā on Sunday, Dec. 1 at 12:00p.m. at Chicatana.Ā Enjoy fabulous Mexican food and cocktails while being entertained by a rotating cast of the DMVās best drag performers.
Tickets cost $10 and can be purchased on Eventbrite.
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