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Gay Marylanders celebrate state’s same-sex marriage law

Equality Maryland event drew nearly 100 people to Chase Court in Baltimore

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Baltimore Mayor Stephanie Rawlings-Blake hosted some of Maryland’s first same-sex weddings on Jan. 1.(Photo by Steve Charing)

BALTIMORE – Nearly 100 people gathered at Chase Court on Thursday to celebrate Maryland’s same-sex marriage law that took effect on Jan. 1.

“It’s great that we can be on the celebration side of things,” Tony Bowen, member of the Equality Maryland Foundation Board of Directors, said during the event. “It’s great that we can be saying that after Jan. 1, there are plenty of lovely couples that are now married.”

David Egan, owner of Chase Court, noted the former Christ Episcopal Church parish house has hosted commitment ceremonies for gay and lesbian couples since 2004. He became emotional as he referenced the state’s same-sex marriage law.

“We’re very proud at this point to be calling them same-sex marriages,” Egan said. “It’s a thrill for us. It’s important for me personally, to us as a business. And I want to say to so many people in our industry, the wedding industry, who are so thrilled for all kinds of reasons to see this happening.”

Maryland is one of nine states and D.C. that allow same-sex marriage, while neighboring Delaware is among the states expected to debate the issue this year.

Baltimore residents John Kyle and Peter Satten married on Jan. 1 in a small ceremony at the Blue Hill Tavern in the city’s Canton neighborhood — they chose to tie the knot on the first day same-sex couples could legally marry in Maryland, in part, because it was their 23rd anniversary.

“I feel great about it,” Kyle told the Washington Blade when asked about the law taking effect. “I worked hard for it: Fundraising, volunteering, working the polls, lobbying in the legislature. It’s great that we got this right now right here in Maryland.”

Equality Maryland Office Manager Vanessa Bowling and her partner of nearly five years plan to marry in 2014.

“Other than the fact that we love each other and want to spend our lives together, having that legal recognition and being able to take care of our property and our family and everything that the law will allow us to do is very important to us,” she told the Blade.

Bowling conceded she was “in shock” when voters in November approved the state’s same-sex marriage law by a 52-48 percent margin. She said the reality of nuptials for gays and lesbians in Maryland “didn’t really hit me until” the law took effect.

“I saw these pictures of couples and they were getting married — legally,” Bowling said. “That was the first time I cried, from excitement. I know that’s really strange, but I get calls every day, e-mails every day of people who want to know how the law will affect them, what they need to do to make sure their out-of-state license is honored. So it’s surreal to me and it is wonderful to see how many people are trying to get all the information, make sure everything is covered and they’re really excited about their marriages being legal.”

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Delaware

Milton Pride Fest to take place Saturday

This year’s theme is ‘Small Town, Big Heart’

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(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Milton, Del., will host its Pride Fest this Saturday with the theme “Small Town, Big Heart.” The town’s population of just over 3,000 is in its sixth year hosting Pride. 

The event is hosted by Sussex Pride and Milton Theatre and will take place from 4-8 p.m. in the area surrounding the theater. Admission is pay-what-you-can and proceeds will support the Milton Theatre’s education wing campaign, an initiative dedicated to expanding arts education and creating spaces for the next generation of performers and artists. 

The musical act schedule includes Goldstar at 4 p.m., Magnolia Applebottom and Friends at 5:30 p.m., and Mama’s Blacksheep at 6:45 p.m. There will be vendors, food trucks, and a Kids Fest with an inflatable obstacle course. 

“In our little corner of the world, LOVE leads the way! Milton Pride 2025 is a celebration for EVERYONE — neighbors, families, allies, and friends — because acceptance, kindness, and community belong to us all,” Milton Theatre’s website reads. “Whether you’re here to cheer, learn, or simply feel the joy … you’re welcome exactly as you are. Let’s come together and celebrate Milton, a SMALL TOWN … with a BIG HEART!”

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Drive with Pride in D.C.

A new Pride-themed license plate is now available in the District, with proceeds directly benefiting local LGBTQ organizations.

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A sample of the license plate with the "Progressive" Pride flag. (Screenshot from the DCDMV website)

Just in time for Pride month, the D.C. Department of Motor Vehicles has partnered with the Mayor’s Office of LGBTQ Affairs to create a special “Pride Lives Here” license plate.

The plate, which was initially unveiled in February, has a one-time $25 application fee and a $20 annual display fee. Both fees will go directly to the Office of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning Affairs Fund.

The MOLGBTQA Fund provides $1,000,000 annually to 25,000 residents through its grant program, funding a slew of LGBTQ organizations in the DMV area — including Capital Pride Alliance, Whitman-Walker, the D.C. Center for the LGBTQ Community, and the Washington Blade Foundation.

The license plate features an inclusive rainbow flag wrapping around the license numbers, with silver stars in the background — a tribute to both D.C.’s robust queer community and the resilience the LGBTQ community has shown.

The “Pride Lives Here” plate is one of only 13 specialty plates offered in the District, and the only one whose fees go directly to the LGBTQ community.

To apply for a Pride plate, visit the DC DMV’s website at https://dmv.dc.gov/

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Delaware

Delawareans march in D.C. WorldPride parade

CAMP Rehoboth contingent among marchers

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(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

The nation’s capital welcomed WorldPride this past weekend, a massive celebration that usually takes place in a different city every two years. 

The Saturday parade attracted hundreds of thousands of people from around the world and the country. The state of Delaware, a few hours drive from D.C., saw participants in the parade, with CAMP Rehoboth, an LGBTQ community center in Rehoboth Beach, hosting a bus day trip. 

Hope Vella sits on the board of directors and marched with CAMP Rehoboth. Vella said that although the parade took a long time to start and the temperature was hot, she was “on a cloud” from being there. 

“It didn’t matter to me how long it took to start. With the current changes that are in place regarding diversity and inclusion, I wanted my face there,” Vella said. “My life is an intersection. I am a Black woman. I am a lesbian, and I have a disability. All of these things are trying to be erased … I didn’t care how long it took. I didn’t care how far it was going to be. I was going to finish that parade. I didn’t care how hot it was.”

The nearly two mile parade route didn’t feel as long because everyone was so happy interacting with the crowd, Vella said. The group gave out beads, buttons, and pins to parade watchers. 

“The World Pride celebration gave me hope because so many people came out. And the joy and the love that was between us … That gave me hope,” Vella said. 

Vella said that people with disabilities are often overlooked. More than one in four Americans have disabilities, according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention

Vella said it was important for her “to be out there and to be seen in my wholeness as a Black woman, as a lesbian, as a woman with a disability and to not be hiding. I want our society to understand that we exist in LGBTQ+ spaces also.”

Retired Maj. Gen. Tammy Smith is involved with CAMP Rehoboth and marched with a coalition of LGBTQ military members. Smith said they were walking to give transgender military members visibility and to remind people why they are serving. 

“When we are not visible, what is allowed to take our place is stereotypes,” Smith said. “And so without visibility, people think all veterans are conservative and perhaps not open to full equality. Without visibility, they might think a small state with a farming background may be a place that’s unwelcoming, but when you actually meet the people who are from those places, it sets aside those stereotypes and the real authenticity is allowed to come forward.”

During the parade, Smith said she saw trans military members in the parade make eye contact or fist bump with transgender people in the crowd. 

“They were seen. Both sides were seen during that parade and I just felt privileged to be able to witness that,” Smith said. 

Smith said Delaware is a state that is about freedom and equality and is the first state for a reason. The LGBTQ community is engrained as part of life in the Rehoboth and Lewes areas. 

“What pride means to me is that we must always be doing what is necessary to maintain our dignity as a community,” Smith said. “We can’t let what people with negative messaging might be tossing our way impact us and the celebration of Pride. I don’t see it as being self-promoting. I see it as an act of dignity and strength.”

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