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Jay Schmidt, 67

Popular Tracks, Nation bartender remembered and friendly and sharp, love for organs and organ music

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Jay Schmidt

James Jay Schmidt, a popular bartender for more than 25 years at several D.C. nightclubs, including Tracks and Nation, died of natural causes in September in his Dupont Circle area apartment. He was 67.

Schmidt, who was gay, was among the most well-known and liked bartenders at Tracks from the time the club opened at 1111 First Street, S.E., in 1984 until it closed its doors in 1999, according to his longtime friend and fellow Tracks bartender Patrick Little.

ā€œAs a bartender Jay always greeted his customers with a smile and a handshake,ā€ Little wrote in a Facebook page associated with a planned Tracks reunion party in April. ā€œHe was a very old school bartender and always remembered your drink.ā€

Little said scores of customers got to know Schmidt each weekĀ as he worked at the bar closest to the entrance of the sprawling club that operated in a renovated warehouse. As it transitioned from a mostly gay club to a mixed clientele on different nights, with a Gothic and ā€œindustrialā€ music crowd, Schmidtā€™s relaxed and friendly demeanor made him popular with all of the clubā€™s varied customers, Little said.

ā€œIn a sea of 2,000 people ā€“ the bar is totally busy ā€“ and on a Saturday night you walk up to Jayā€™s bar and there is your tequila sunrise, the same thing you ordered six months ago the last time you came in,ā€ said Little.

ā€œAnd he remembered you, shook your hand, looked you in the face. He said, hey, how are you doing and really cared. Thatā€™s the kind of man he was.ā€

Marty Chernoff, the owner and founder of Tracks, called Schmidt “an absolutely wonderful person” and dedicated employee.

“It’s so sad,” he said of Schmidt’s passing. “He was loved by so many people.”

Little and Schmidtā€™s sister, Trudie Wetherall, said Schmidt had a number ofĀ interests outside his bartending work. Classical music, pipe organs and books about history and music were among his passions, the two said.

He was born in Abington, Pa., and raised in nearby Pottstown, Pa., according to Wetherall. She said he graduated from The Hill Prep School in Pottstown and graduated in 1967 from Duke University.

Wetherall said Schmidt took an interest in his familyā€™s Scottish ancestry, including the familyā€™s belief that he was a descendant of a signer of the Declaration of Independence from Pennsylvania whose parents came to colonial America from Scotland.

ā€œHe sometimes wore a Scottish kilt and did Scottish country dancing,ā€ said Wetherall. ā€œHe was very proud of his Scottish heritage.ā€

In keeping with his love for organs and organ music, shortly after graduating from college, Schmidt landed a job with the Moller Organ Company, which was nationally known for building and maintaining church pipe organs throughout the country. Wetherall said he moved to New York City to work at one of the companyā€™s facilities that built and tuned pipe organs for some of the cityā€™s most famous churches.

ā€œHe ascended in that business working in sales and ultimately as a hands-on tuner at a few pipe organs in large churches in Manhattan,ā€ Little said.

Little said he met Schmidt after Schmidt moved to D.C. and began working as a bartender at Tracks at the time Tracks first opened in 1984. When Tracks closed its doors in 1999 to make way for a new office building, Schmidt continued his bartending at the nearby nightclub Nation, which featured the popular gay dance party known as Velvet Nation.

When Nation closed in 2006, Schmidt tended bar at D.C.ā€™s Club Five until 2008 and ā€œwas last seen behind the bar at an alternative dance party called Revolution until 2011,ā€ according to Little.

Little said he and others organizing the Tracks reunion party plan to hold a memorial gathering in Schmidtā€™s honor during the weekend of April 26-28, when several events related to the reunion take place. He said details of the memorial would be released soon.

Wetherall said she is planning a family memorial for Schmidt sometime in the spring at a location near her home in Monkton, Md., and would announce details of that gathering in the near future.

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Longtime D.C. librarian, LGBTQ rights advocate Turner Freeman dies at 64

ā€˜Voracious readerā€™ pushed for inclusive programming at DCPL

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Sheldon ā€˜Turnerā€™ Freeman

Sheldon ā€˜Turnerā€™ Freeman, a gay librarian who worked for 39 years at the D.C. Public Library system and is credited with initiating a Black History Month film series and LGBTQ inclusive programming at the library system, died Dec. 23, at his home in Steelton, Pa. He was 64.

The D.C.-based LGBTQ advocacy and event planning group Team Rayceen Productions, which has held events at D.C.ā€™s main Martin Luther King Library branch with support from Freeman, said the cause of death was a heart attack.

A write-up prepared by Freemanā€™s family members and published by Major H. Windfield Funeral Home in Steelton, says Freemanā€™s passing came just over a year after he retired from his position as librarian in November 2023 and moved back to his hometown of Steelton.

ā€œTurner was known as a brilliant, proud Black man, who loved life and lived it to the fullest,ā€ the write-up says. ā€œHe was a voracious reader and a music aficionado,ā€ the write-up continues, adding that his other passions included dancing, Black history, collecting Black art, books, music and movies, ā€œand watching his Eagles, Lakers and the Ohio State Buckeyes.ā€

It says he was a 1978 graduate of Steelton-Highspire High School and earned his bachelorā€™s degree in communications from Shippensburg University in Pennsylvania. He earned his masterā€™s degree in Library Science from the University of the District of Columbia, according to the write-up.

A statement from the D.C. Public Library system to Team Rayceen Productions says Turnerā€™s title at the time of his retirement was Adult Services Librarian.

ā€œAs an avid film buff, Turner was one of the first staff members of DCPLā€™s audiovisual department in the 1980s, now a city-wide collection of  DVDs and other media as well as a plethora of online streaming resources,ā€ the statement says.

ā€œHis weekly movie screenings have been running for more than two decades and are a beloved staple of MLK Library programming that has carried on past his retirement,ā€ according to the statement. ā€œHis Black History Month film series is a particularly beloved annual event.ā€

 The statement adds that Freemanā€™s voice was frequently heard on the MLK Libraryā€™s public address system and he ā€œliterally became ā€˜the voiceā€™ of MLK Libraryā€™s 50th anniversary celebration, recording audio narration for library programming and citywide promotions.ā€ 

The Team Rayceen Productions statement says Freeman was a co-founder of a group called Book Reading Uplifts His Spirit, known as BRUHS, which focused on issues of interest to Black gay and bisexual men. Some of the groupā€™s events, which were held at the MLK Library, included talks by authors, film screenings, and reading of plays.

The statement notes that in 2021, Freeman moderated an online Facebook discussion with James Earl Hardy, the author of the B-Boy Blues book series, a collection of six novels that tell the stories of Black gay men. It also points out that Freeman was on the committee that organized D.C.ā€™s first Black Pride celebration.

A statement sent by D.C. Mayor Muriel Bowser to the Freeman family expresses her condolences over his passing and points to his numerous accomplishments as a librarian and community advocate.

ā€œHe was a caring friend and colleague whose impactful legacy, vibrancy, and kindness leaves behind an indelible mark on the hearts of many,ā€ the mayor says in her message. ā€œTurner was a role model, mentor, sports fan, and unwavering confidant, but above all there was no role more precious to him than that of a family man,ā€ Bowser wrote.

ā€œTurnerā€™s love for his family was unparalleled, and his presence brought immense joy to his loved ones and to all those who knew him.ā€

A celebration of life for Freeman was held Jan. 4, at the Chapel of the Major H. Winfield Funeral Home in Steelton, Pa.

The funeral home write-up says Freeman was predeceased by his parents, Bucky and Cookie Freeman, and is survived by his son, Freeman Dane Swan; his sisters Stephanie Freeman, Stacey Freeman-McKamey, and Sage Freeman; and many loving aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and friends.

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Honoring the life and legacy of Coya White Hat-Artichoker

Life-long advocate for Indigenous, two-spirit rights died on Dec. 4

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Coya White Hat-Artichoker (Screen capture via Solidaire Network)

The Solidaire Network published this obituary on its website. The Washington Blade is posting it with permission.

Born and raised on the Rosebud Reservation in South Dakota, Coya was a proud enrolled member of the Sicangu Lakota Oyate or Rosebud Sioux Tribe. From the age of 15, she dedicated her life to advocating for Indigenous and Two Spirit rights, becoming a fierce organizer and a visionary leader in movements for justice. As a founding member of the First Nations Two Spirit Collective, Coya worked tirelessly to uplift Two Spirit youth, support Indigenous reproductive justice, and connect these communities to philanthropic spaces to drive transformative change.Ā Ā 

Coyaā€™s advocacy for Indigenous reproductive justice was rooted in a deep understanding of its inseparability from the fight for Indigenous sovereignty. She saw this work as part of a 500-year history of resistance to colonization, weaving together the rights to access abortion, raise children in safe and sustainable environments, steward healthy lands and waters, practice Indigenous cultures, speak ancestral languages, and govern sovereign communities. Recently she served as a board member for SisterSong and the American LGBTQ+ Museum. Coya was a fierce leader who brought dedication and brilliance, impacting gender and reproductive justice efforts around the world.   

In 2020, Coyaā€™s visionary leadership brought the worldā€™s first fund dedicated to Indigenous reproductive justice, Building the Fire Fund, into existence. Guided by an Indigenous Advisory Council of women and Two Spirit leaders from across Turtle Island, the fund represents a powerful testament to Coyaā€™s dedication and collaborative spirit. Coya co-authored “Tired of Dancing to Their Song: An Assessment of the Indigenous Womenā€™s Reproductive Justice Funding Landscapeā€ with Zachary Packineau. This seminal report provides a critical roadmap for philanthropy to support and grow the emerging field of Indigenous reproductive justice.  

In 2023, Coya brought Building the Fire Fund to Solidaire Network, where we are honored to walk alongside the Advisory Council in advancing this vital work. Coyaā€™s passion, wisdom, and dedication will continue to guide and inspire all of us who were privileged to know her and work beside her.  

To honor Coyaā€™s legacy and her vision for the Indigenous reproductive justice movement, we invite you to contribute to the Building the Fire Fund. Your support ensures that her transformative work will continue, lighting the way for generations to come.  

Coya White Hat-Artichokerā€™s life was a powerful testament to resilience, love, and unwavering commitment to justice. While her presence will be deeply missed, her legacy will endure as a beacon of hope and strength for all who carry her vision forward. 

(venmo video courtesy of the solidaire network)
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Washington lawyer Carolee Byrley dies at age 60

An active member of the local Gay Recovery Community

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Carolee Byrley

Carolee Byrley passed away unexpectedly on Oct. 30, 2024, in her home in Washington, D.C.Ā She was 60.

She died from complications of Type One diabetes. 

She was born on Sept. 2, 1964, in Ft. Walton Beach, Fla., to Paul L. Byrley and Judith I. Byrley.Ā 

She graduated in 1982 from Winter Park High School in Winter Park, Fla., and from college at Florida State University in Tallahassee, Fla. She later earned a law degree from Georgetown University Law School in Washington, D.C.

Byrley practiced law in Washington specializing in contracts and mergers.Ā 

Byrley was predeceased by her father as well as by Eileen Garner, her loving life partner of 38 years. She is survived by her mother, Judith Ireland, stepfather, Jerrold Nussbaum, brother, John Byrley, sister-in-law, Lena Byrley, brother, Jason Byrley, brother-in-law, Ben Byrley, and nephews, Jack and Alex Byrley.

Byrley was an active member of the Gay Recovery Community in Washington where she sponsored many people over the years. She recently received recognition for 40 years of sobriety and was living proof of the slogan, ā€œKeep what you have by giving it away.ā€ Her generosity and authenticity shown through in all she did. There was not a bone in her body that was fake. And, as one of her friends described her, she was ā€œthe kindest person I have ever met.ā€Ā 

Byrley was deeply committed to her dogs through the years and to the care and protection of rescue dogs everywhere.Ā 

A celebration of Byrley’s life will be held on Dec. 7 at 3 p.m. at Friends of Washington, 2111 Decatur Place, Washington, D.C., where friends encourage those who knew her to share memories of her life. There will be a reception at Friends following the memorial.Ā 

In lieu of flowers, please give a donation to your local dog rescue organization, in her name.Ā 

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