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Gay couples: Delaware marriage law brings recognition, equality

Same-sex nuptials to begin on Monday

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Rehoboth Beach residents Chris Beagle and Eric Engelhart, owners of event planning company Flair!, on the beach last September following their civil union. (Photo courtesy of the couple)

REHOBOTH BEACH, Del.ā€”Rehoboth Beach realtor Chris Beagle, his partner of more than 23 years, Eric Engelhart, and a handful of friends spent a portion of their weekend placing white flowers, pictures and other personal mementos in the CAMP Rehoboth event space ahead of a ceremony on Monday during which they will convert their civil union into a marriage. They only left the LGBT community center on Sunday afternoon once the large blue cut outs of the first letters of Beagle and Engelhartā€™s first names used during the two men’s 2012 civil union ceremony were perfectly illuminated on the wall.

ā€œItā€™s the end of a journey; itā€™s the culmination,ā€ Beagle, who also co-owns a wedding planning company with Engelhart, told the Washington Blade. ā€œItā€™s the end of a journey. Itā€™s the culmination. Itā€™s what we need to do to complete this process of legal recognition.ā€

Beagle and Engelhart are among the first gay and lesbian couples who will take advantage of Delawareā€™s same-sex marriage law that takes effect on Monday.

State Sen. Karen Peterson (D-Stanton,) who came out in May during the debate over the same-sex marriage bill that Gov. Jack Markell signed into law, and her partner, Vikki Bandy, will become the first legally married gay couple in Delaware when they convert their civil union into a marriage at the New Castle County Clerk of the Peaceā€™s office in Wilmington.

ā€œWe have been together for almost 25 years, and I never thought we would live to see the day when we could be married in our home state,ā€ Peterson told the Blade last week.

The Sussex County Clerk of the Peace in Georgetown will begin to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples at 8 a.m. on Monday, with doors opening at 7 a.m. The Kent County Clerk of the Peace in Dover will open at 8 a.m.

Sussex County Clerk of the Peace John Brady, who is gay, will officiate Beagle and Engelhartā€™s ceremony at CAMP Rehoboth at 10 a.m. Joseph Daigle, II, and Daniel Cole will become the first same-sex couple who had not previously entered into a civil union to tie the knot in Delaware when they exchange vows in Wilmington later on Monday.

No other same-sex weddings will take place in Delaware on Monday because the state did not waive the 24-hour waiting period for any other gay or lesbian couples.

Marriage to bring lesbian couple ā€˜credibilityā€™

Sherry Berman and Deb Hamilton of Lewes, who have been together for 24 years, will exchange vows on the beach on Friday while their family is in the area for July 4.

ā€œWhat it means is that thereā€™s more credibility for us as a couple,ā€ Berman told the Blade on Sunday afternoon, noting many retirees who live in their neighborhood told her that they had never known a gay couple before they met her and her soon-to-be-spouse. ā€œWe put our pants on the same way you do.ā€

Delaware on Monday will join 10 other states and D.C. in which same-sex couples can legally marry.

Gays and lesbians in Rhode Island and Minnesota will be able to legally tie the knot as of August 1.

Same-sex couples in California on June 28 began to once again exchange vows after the U.S. Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals lifted its stay on gay nuptials in the state in response to the U.S. Supreme Court ruling two days earlier that struck down Proposition 8. The justices on June 26 also released their decision that found a portion of the Defense of Marriage Act unconstitutional.

ā€œIt really is magnifying the importance of tomorrow,ā€ Beagle said.

Berman told the Blade her partnerā€™s brother called them after the Supreme Court issued their DOMA and Prop 8 rulings and said he would attend their wedding. She also noted how she feels Delaware has changed since Hamilton grew-up in Sussex County in which Lewes and Rehoboth Beach are located.

ā€œShe knows how awful, how not accepting, non-diverse itā€™s been,ā€ Berman said. ā€œSo for a state like Delaware to recognize [same-sex marriage] is really important in the scheme of the entire country.ā€

Rehoboth Beach resident Bob Hoffer, whose 2012 marriage to Max Dick in New York City will become legally recognized in Delaware on Monday, described the stateā€™s gay nuptials law taking effect as ā€œwonderful.ā€

ā€œWeā€™re first-class citizens now as everyone,ā€ Hoffer told the Blade as he helped Beagle and Engelhart decorate for their wedding at CAMP Rehoboth. ā€œWeā€™re not hurting anyone and heterosexual marriage is still going to continue. Itā€™s just giving everyone the same rights.ā€

Gay couples remain undaunted by opponents, protests

Even though an Equality Delaware poll earlier this year showed 54 percent of the stateā€™s voters support marriage rights for same-sex couples, those opposed to the issue continue to speak out.

The Delaware Family Policy Council said in a statement after the Supreme Court issued its DOMA and Prop 8 rulings that it ā€œwill continue to advance the truth about marriage between a man and a woman and why it matters for children, civil society and limited government.ā€

Members of the Westboro Baptist Church are scheduled to protest outside various locations in Wilmington and Dover on Monday.

ā€œGive it time,ā€ Berman said, referring to same-sex marriage opponents. ā€œLearn to like us; learn to know who we are. Listen to us. Weā€™re not out to hurt you or to cause you any harm.ā€

Beagle said he respects both the Constitution and freedom of speech, but noted both the state of Delaware and he Supreme Court have spoken on the issue of marriage.

ā€œWhat I would say to those people (who oppose same-sex marriage) is itā€™s now your turn to respect those decisions that have been made,ā€ he said.

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Deb Hamilton and Sherry Berman of Lewes, Del. (Photo courtesy Sherry Berman)

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D.C. LGBTQ activists call for resilience, advocacy after election

100 turn out for event hosted by Blade and partner groups

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ā€˜Charting Our Future: LGBTQ+ Advocacy & Resilience in a Changing Landscapeā€™ was held Thursday night. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

About 100 people turned out on Dec. 12 at D.C.ā€™s Eaton Hotel to listen and ask questions to a panel of six LGBTQ rights advocates who discussed the impact on the LGBTQ community of the election last month of Donald Trump as U.S. president and a Republican majority in both houses of the U.S. Congress.

The event, which was hosted by the Washington Blade, was entitled, ā€œCharting Our Future: LGBTQ+ Advocacy & Resilience in a Changing Landscape.ā€

ā€œThere are a lot of complicated issues that are coming for our community in the next four years, ” Washington Blade editor Kevin Naff told the gathering in opening remarks. ā€œAnd weā€™re hoping this will be the first in a series of events. So please share your feedback with us,ā€ he said.

The Blade organized the event in partnership with the D.C. LGBTQ+ Budget Coalition, HME Consulting & Advocacy, the Eaton Hotel, the D.C. LGBTQ+ Community Center, Capital Pride Alliance, and the Mayorā€™s Office of LGBTQ Affairs. Heidi Ellis, CEO of the LGBTQ+ Budget Coalition, served as moderator.

The panelists, who presented a wide range of views, including optimism and concern over the incoming Trump administration, included: 

ā€¢ D.C. Council member Zachary Parker (D-Ward 5), the Councilā€™s only openly gay member

ā€¢ Jordyn White, Vice President of Leadership, Development, and Research for the Human Rights Campaign Foundation

ā€¢ Remmington Belford, Vice President of the Black Gifted & Whole Foundation, a member of the D.C. Mayorā€™s Office of LGBTQ Affairs Advisory Committee, who serves as press secretary for the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency.

ā€¢ Tyler Cargill, Outreach and Training Specialist for the D.C. Office of Human Rights

ā€¢ Preston Mitchum, CEO of PDM Consulting, a D.C.-based ā€œmultipurpose Black queer owned and operated consulting firm.ā€

ā€¢ Ava Benach, immigration attorney and founding partner of Banach Collopy law firm

ā€¢ Reginald ā€˜Reggieā€™ Greer, Senior Adviser to the U.S. Special Envoy to Advance the Human Rights of LGBTQI+ Persons at the U.S. State Department.

Parker, like most of the panelists, expressed both deep concern and optimism over what may happen in the next four years.

ā€œI will be honest with you,ā€ he said. ā€œWe have a Republican president and  Republicans control both chambers of the Congress. And they have said they want to install a level of oversight over the District that will not bode well for the folks in this room but also for the District,ā€ he said.

ā€œIā€™m concerned about our trans siblings, especially our Black and Brown trans siblings,ā€ Parker said. ā€œThe last thing I will say quickly, though, is that we are not hopeless. And in thinking about advocacy and resilience in our title today, thatā€™s what this community is all about. Thatā€™s what weā€™ve always known.ā€

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Los Angeles Blade publisher Troy Masters dies at 63

Longtime advocate for LGBTQ equality, queer journalism

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Los Angeles Blade Publisher Troy Masters (Los Angeles Blade file photo)

Troy Masters, publisher of the Los Angeles Blade, died unexpectedly on Wednesday Dec. 11, according to a family member. He was 63. The cause of death was not immediately released.

Masters is a well-respected and award-winning journalist and publisher with decades of experience, mostly in LGBTQ media. He founded Gay City News in New York City in 2002 and relocated to Los Angeles in 2015. In 2017, he became the founding publisher of the Los Angeles Blade, a sister publication of the Washington Blade, the nationā€™s oldest LGBTQ newspaper.

His family released a statement to the Blade on Thursday. 

ā€œWe are shocked and devastated by the loss of Troy,ā€ the statement says. ā€œHe was a tireless advocate for the LGBTQ community and leaves a tremendous legacy of fighting for social justice and equality. We ask for your prayers and for privacy as we mourn this unthinkable loss. We will announce details of a celebration of life in the near future.ā€

The Blade management team released the following statement on Thursday:

ā€œAll of us at the Los Angeles Blade and Washington Blade are heartbroken by the loss of our colleague. Troy Masters is a pioneer who championed LGBTQ rights as well as best-in-class journalism for our community. We will miss his passion and his tireless dedication to the Los Angeles queer community.

ā€œWe would like to thank the readers, advertisers, and supporters of the Los Angeles Blade, which will continue under the leadership of our local editor Gisselle Palomera, the entire Blade family in D.C. and L.A., and eventually under a new publisher.ā€

Troy Masters was born April 13, 1961 and is survived by his mother Josie Kirkland and his sister Tammy Masters, along with many friends and colleagues across the country. This is a developing story and will be updated as more details emerge.

From left, Washington Blade Editor Kevin Naff, Rep. David Cicilline (D-R.I.), Ariadne Getty and Los Angeles Blade Publisher Troy Masters attend the Washington Blade’s 50th anniversary gala in 2019. (Washington Blade file photo by Vanessa Pham)
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D.C. gay bar Uproar issues GoFundMe appeal

Message says business struggling to pay rent, utilities

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Uproar has launched a GoFundMe appeal to help pay rent and utilities.

The D.C. gay bar Uproar located in the cityā€™s Shaw neighborhood at 639 Florida Ave., N.W., has issued a GoFundMe appeal seeking financial support as it struggles to pay rent and utilities.

The GoFundMe appeal, which was posted by Uproarā€™s owner Tammy Truong, says its goal is to raise $100,000. As of Dec. 10, the posting says $4,995 had been raised.

ā€œFor over nine years Uproar has been an integral part of the D.C. LGBTQIA+ community,ā€ the GoFundMe message says. ā€œIt has been a place of refuge for many people and has been a space where people have been allowed to express themselves freely.ā€

The message adds, ā€œWe have recently faced unexpected challenges and are asking for help from the community that weā€™ve given so much to. We want to be able to continue to pay and support our staff and our community. All donations will be used to pay for these unexpected costs and will be used to improve the space for staff and patrons.ā€

On its website, Uproar provides further details of the unexpected costs it says it is now faced with.

ā€œDue to significant increases in insurance costs for 2025, weā€™ve had to deplete our reserves from our summer sales,ā€ the website message says. ā€œAs a result, we are now struggling to cover rent and utility costs through the winter.ā€

The message adds, ā€œOur top priority is to ensure that our amazing staff, who are the heart and soul of Uproar, are fully supported. We are committed to keeping them fully employed and scheduled during this difficult time so they can continue to provide for themselves and  their families.ā€

Uproar, which caters to a clientele of the cityā€™s leather and bear communities, has faced challenges in the past when the local D.C. Advisory Neighborhood Commission voted to oppose the routine renewal of its liquor license.

In November 2019, ANC 1B voted unanimously to oppose the license renewal of Uproar and 22 other liquor serving establishments in the U Street-Florida Avenue area on grounds that they have a negative impact on ā€œpeace, order, and quietā€ in the surrounding neighborhoods. The cityā€™s liquor board nevertheless approved the license renewals for Uproar and most of the other establishments.

Local nightlife advocates criticized the ANCā€™s action, saying it was based on an anti-business and anti-nightlife bias that requires bars such as Uproar to expend large sums of money on retaining lawyers to help them overcome the license opposition.

The Uproar GoFundMe page can be accessed here:

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