Arts & Entertainment
Best of Gay D.C. 2013: Nightlife
Blade readers choose their favorite clubs, parties, monthly events and more
Best outside-D.C. bar:Ā Freddieās Beach Bar
555 23rdĀ Street
South Arlington, Va.
703-685-0555
Runner-up: Club Hippo (Baltimore)
Best Rehoboth bar:Ā Blue Moon
35 Baltimore Ave.
Rehoboth Beach, Del.
302-227-6515
Runner-up: Rehoboth Ale House
Best happy hour:
Best place to meet men:
Number 9
1435 P Street, N.W.
202-986-0999
Runner-up for both: Cobalt
Best drag show:Ā Big Bang Bingo at Mellow Mushroom
2436 18thĀ Street, N.W.
202-290-2778
mellowmushroom.com
Runner-up: Ziegfeldās
Best place to meet women:Ā glittHER by V Spot D.C.
1807 4th St., N.W.
Dancing wonāt feel right again without being covered in glitter.V Spot D.C.ās glittHER dance parties infuse great music, glitter, dancing and did we mention glitter? All while mingling with local ladies. (MC)
Runner-up: BARE by LURe at Cobalt
Best gay-friendly straight bar:Ā Stoneyās
1433 P Street, N.W.
202-234-1818
Runner-up: Brixton
Best live music:Ā 9:30 Club
815 V Street, N.W.
202-265-0930
Runner-up: Black Cat
Best neighborhood bar:Ā JR.ās Bar & Grill
1519 17thĀ Street, N.W.
202-328-0090
Runner-up: Nellieās Sports Bar
Hottest stripper or gogo dancer:
Christian Lezzil
By day heās a graduate student with one semester left to earn his masterās in literature. By night, Christian Lezzil strips at Secrets.
Having done some modeling during his time in Virginia Beach ā he came to D.C. about a year ago ā Lezzil says dancing nude, initially at the behest of a drag queen friend, was a lark. He says in addition to paying for grad school, itās had an unexpected benefit ā itās given him plenty of material for his writing. He has two books ā āCrimson & Caramelā and āThe Maniac in the Coffee Shopā ā out (written under his real name, Eddie Generazio).
āIt started with a student body competition in Virginia Beach,ā Lezzil says. āSomebody said I should enter and I just thought, āHell, why not? Iām not doing anything else.ā I was waiting to hear back from my graduate school application. ā¦ I was looking for some kind of alternative lifestyle-type of thing to do and I just thought, āWell, whatās more alternative than dancing in a male revue?ā Thereās a lot of poetry in there and it just kind of started taking off after I arrived in D.C. I got so much material, my second book kind of wrote itself.ā
The 23-year-old bi Virginia native, Lezzil (a stage name) says he enjoys the irony of stripping and writing. He says many of his colleagues at Secrets are also smart, though some try to hide it. He views his Best Of Gay D.C. award as a validation of sorts.
āMaybe Iām just a jerk and Iām inflating it, but I think of it as a kind of performance art,ā he says.
(JD)
Runner-up: Ben Reznik
Best menās party:Ā CTRL at Cobalt
Last Saturday of the month
1639 R Street, N.W.
202-232-4416
Runner-up: Bear Happy Hour at Town
Best womenās party:Ā BARE by LURe at Cobalt
Third Saturday of the month
1639 R Street, N.W.
202-232-4416
Runner-up: glittHER by V Spot D.C.
Best alt party:Ā Gay/Bash! at Black Cat
Next event: Oct. 26
1811 14thĀ Street, N.W.
202-667-4490
Runner-up: Mixtape
The LGBTQ family and ally organization PFLAG held its “Love Takes Justice” reception at the Washington Marriott Capitol Hill on Wednesday, Sept. 18. Honorees at the event included Rep. Barbara Lee (D-Calif.) and American Federation of Teachers President Randi Weingarten.
(Washington Blade photos by Michael Key)
Out & About
Brandon Wolf to speak at Equality Virginia dinner
Annual Richmond event to commemorate 10 years of marriage equality in Commonwealth
Equality Virginia will host its annual Commonwealth Dinner on Saturday, Oct. 5 at 6 p.m. at the historic Main Street Station in Richmond, Va. Brandon Wolf, a nationally recognized gun safety and LGBTQ civil rights advocate, will be the keynote speaker.
Wolf serves as National Press Secretary for the Human Rights Campaign, the nationās largest LGBTQ civil rights organization. The event will commemorate the 10-year anniversary of marriage equality in Virginia and support Equality Virginia’s ongoing fight for lived and legal equality for all.
This event will feature two receptions with open bar, live auction, silent auction, and raffle, bringing together more than 800 community members, business leaders, elected officials, and allies to celebrate the progress and resilience of LGBTQ Virginians.
Tickets start at $50 and can be purchased at Equality Virginiaās website.
Friday, September 20
āCenter Aging Friday Tea Timeā will be at 2 p.m. on Zoom. This is a social hour for older LGBTQ adults. Guests are encouraged to bring a beverage of choice. For more details, email [email protected].Ā
Go Gay DC will host āLGBTQ+ Speedfriendingā at 7 p.m. at Puro Gusto. This event is ideal for making new friends, professional networking, idea-sharing, and community building. This event is free and more details are available on Eventbrite.
Saturday, September 21
Go Gay DC will host āLGBTQ+ Community Brunchā at 11 a.m. at Freddieās Beach Bar & Restaurant. This fun weekly event brings the DMV area LGBTQ community, including allies, together for delicious food and conversation. Attendance is free and more details are available on Eventbrite.
LGBTQ+ People of Color Support Group will be at 1 p.m. on Zoom. This peer support group is an outlet for LGBTQ People of Color to come together and talk about anything affecting them in a space that strives to be safe and judgment free. For more details, visit thedccenter.org/poc or facebook.com/centerpoc. Ā
Sunday, September 22
Go Gay DC will host āLGBTQ+ Community Dinnerā at 6:30 p.m. at Federico Ristorante Italiano. Guests are encouraged to come enjoy an evening of Italian-style dining and conversation with other LGBTQ folk. Attendance is free and more details are available on Eventbrite.
AfroCode DC will be at 4 p.m. at Decades DC. This event will be an experience of non-stop music, dancing, and good vibes and a crossover of genres and a fusion of cultures. Tickets cost $40 and can be purchased on Eventbrite.Ā
Monday, September 23
Center Aging: Monday Coffee & Conversation will be at 10 a.m. on Zoom. This is a social hour for older LGBTQ adults. Guests are encouraged to bring a beverage of their choice. For more details, email [email protected].Ā
Queer Book Club will be at 6:30 p.m. on Zoom. This monthās reading is āThe Pairingā by Casey McQuiston. Copies are available at the DC Public Library, click here, and for more details, email [email protected].Ā
Tuesday, September 24
Pride on the Patio Events will host āLGBTQ Social Mixerā at 5:30 p.m. at Showroom. Dress is casual, fancy, or comfortable. Guests are encouraged to bring their most authentic self to chat, laugh, and get a little crazy. Admission is free and more details are on Eventbrite.
Coming Out Discussion Group will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This is a peer-facilitated discussion group. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. For more details, visit the groupās Facebook page.Ā
Genderqueer DC will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This is aĀ support group for people who identify outside of the gender binary whether youāre bigender, agender, genderfluid, or just know that youāre not 100% cis. For more details, visit genderqueerdc.org or Facebook.Ā
Wednesday, September 25
Job Club will be at 6 p.m. on Zoom. This is a weekly job support program to help job entrants and seekers, including the long-term unemployed, improve self-confidence, motivation, resilience and productivity for effective job searches and networking ā allowing participants to move away from being merely āapplicantsā toward being ācandidates.ā For more information, email [email protected] or visit thedccenter.org/careers.
Asexual and Aromantic Group will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This is a space where people who are questioning this aspect of their identity or those who identify as asexual and/or aromantic can come together, share stories and experiences, and discuss various topics. For more information, email [email protected].Ā
Thursday, September 26
Virtual Yoga with Charles M. will be at 7 p.m. on Zoom. This is a free weekly class focusing on yoga, breath work, and meditation. For more details, visit the DC Center for the LGBT Communityās website.
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